Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
It has been quiet for the last few days.
Nothing to report.
We needed a break.
This weekend...........kids except Saturday night.
My wife wants to go to a strip club about an hour from home.
She wants to go with D as his girlfriend.
She wants me to tag alone....so I can watch first hand her and D sharing lap dances.....and everything else.
Her plan is to totally cuckold me............where everyone will know that I am her hubby....but D is her lover.
I am hard thinking about all of this................denial at its best.
I am glad that I will be a part of this.
More fun...............and watching everything up close.
More to come soon.
Nothing to report.
We needed a break.
This weekend...........kids except Saturday night.
My wife wants to go to a strip club about an hour from home.
She wants to go with D as his girlfriend.
She wants me to tag alone....so I can watch first hand her and D sharing lap dances.....and everything else.
Her plan is to totally cuckold me............where everyone will know that I am her hubby....but D is her lover.
I am hard thinking about all of this................denial at its best.
I am glad that I will be a part of this.
More fun...............and watching everything up close.
More to come soon.
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
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OneDayAtATime
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I hope its not been quiet. If you haven't been fucking your wife several times a day lately and making her scream,you need to wake up
I didn't realize that turned you on,humiliation and no lap dances. You call that fun.
I imagine you'll be hearing them in your bed all night saturday. I like strip clubs cause the girls are loose.
The ones i knew locally appreciated getting a ride home.
Her plan is to totally cuckold me............where everyone will know that I am her hubby....but D is her lover.
I am hard thinking about all of this................denial at its best.
I didn't realize that turned you on,humiliation and no lap dances. You call that fun.
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Quote: Her plan is to totally cuckold me............where everyone will know that I am her hubby....but D is her lover.
...Sounds like fun! keep us posted! I think others following this thread should come up with suggestions for other sexy scenario's you can play out. How about the three of you role play for a few days with 'D' being your wife's husband, or if you can handle something a little more severe, how about Mrs. Reece shows love and devotion to 'D' for a few days, while completely ignoring you?
Just ideas, you understand, but there must be many ways of cranking up the excitement, tension, jealousy, denial and your total lust for your wife!
I've had to catch up on this thread because I have been working away from home this week, glad you two are having such a great time, sorry to hear you cannot handle your wife going away with 'D', Reece... that would be so good for both of them. It might draw Mrs Reece closer to him, and he would have so much fun!
Looking forward to hearing how things go.
Hwc
...Sounds like fun! keep us posted! I think others following this thread should come up with suggestions for other sexy scenario's you can play out. How about the three of you role play for a few days with 'D' being your wife's husband, or if you can handle something a little more severe, how about Mrs. Reece shows love and devotion to 'D' for a few days, while completely ignoring you?
Just ideas, you understand, but there must be many ways of cranking up the excitement, tension, jealousy, denial and your total lust for your wife!
I've had to catch up on this thread because I have been working away from home this week, glad you two are having such a great time, sorry to hear you cannot handle your wife going away with 'D', Reece... that would be so good for both of them. It might draw Mrs Reece closer to him, and he would have so much fun!
Looking forward to hearing how things go.
Hwc
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Quote: The passion, jealousy, confusion, sloppy seconds, cheating(legally) cuckolding, L, D fucking my wife, encouraging my wife to give herself to D completely
Why not instruct Mrs. Reece (and 'D') to turn up the heat by coming up with scenarios they can play out which you cannot veto, or even have a say on the decision? Or, if you are feeling very brave and daring, ask 'D' alone to come up with something he would like to do or try out, which Mrs. Reece will comply with completely, and which you cannot even express your opinion on, having surrendered control entirely to 'D'?.
Mrs. Reece. I know you love your husband completely and that nothing will (or should) change that, but are you sure you couldn't fall head over heels in love with 'D' also? Why not discuss this with 'D', and tell him you would like to try and fall for him completely, and ask him to put in as much effort as possible to try and make this happen? Perhaps at the same time, you could ask Mr. Reece to be less attentive and a liitle more distant while you attempt to make your love for 'D' grow? It might never reach the heights, or compare to the love you feel for Reece, but falling in love with him to even a lesser degree would still be a great achievement, wouldn't it?
Hwc
Why not instruct Mrs. Reece (and 'D') to turn up the heat by coming up with scenarios they can play out which you cannot veto, or even have a say on the decision? Or, if you are feeling very brave and daring, ask 'D' alone to come up with something he would like to do or try out, which Mrs. Reece will comply with completely, and which you cannot even express your opinion on, having surrendered control entirely to 'D'?.
Mrs. Reece. I know you love your husband completely and that nothing will (or should) change that, but are you sure you couldn't fall head over heels in love with 'D' also? Why not discuss this with 'D', and tell him you would like to try and fall for him completely, and ask him to put in as much effort as possible to try and make this happen? Perhaps at the same time, you could ask Mr. Reece to be less attentive and a liitle more distant while you attempt to make your love for 'D' grow? It might never reach the heights, or compare to the love you feel for Reece, but falling in love with him to even a lesser degree would still be a great achievement, wouldn't it?
Hwc
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
hwc,
Your ideas are very interesting.
Thanks for taking the time to express your thoughts..
My wife and I read the 2 posts you sent.
She had attempted to maintain her loyalty to our marriage.
She has emphasized to everyone that she has no intentions of falling in love with D if it would cause problems with our marriage. She knows that falling in love with D is possibe; especially since D told both of us this possibility.
The weekend trip for both of them was difficult only b/c they realized that this is going against the grain of normal hotwife encounters.
But...............I will state that WE all are trying to settle into this role.
I am not an idiot....I dont want to lose my wife to D.....WE all take this chance. My wife has told me numerous times that if I keep pushing those buttons.....We are taking chances............right now............she can handle this committment with D.
But to continue to push......................no one knows where it could lead!
My wife and I had a good week. We spent a lot of personal time together.
TONIGHT.........................our plan is to go to a very classy adult entertainment establishment.
We will play hard today. My wife is in a very horny mood. She is very excited to PLAY.......she wants to take D into our suv and give him oral sex while I wait at our table....then come back and kiss me as she allows me to taste his sex in her mouth.
I am rambling right now.................my point is...............HWC.................my wife liked reading about some of your ideas......the idea of D coming up with his own ideas and having us honor his games without hesitation sounds like fun for all of us.
The idea of having my wife grow deeper in love with D is extremely challenging......................and very interesting to her and I.
WE will keep you informed of any possible reactions to your ideas.
My wife wants to talk to D tonight about some of your ideas....and if we could possibly make them happen.
Personally.................role reversal with D acting as her husband and I act as her lover sound very hot.
Giving the green light to my wife to fall deeply in love with D is very scary.............as much as it would be the ultimate denial.............it is risky.
More later.....I cant wait for tonight!
Your ideas are very interesting.
Thanks for taking the time to express your thoughts..
My wife and I read the 2 posts you sent.
She had attempted to maintain her loyalty to our marriage.
She has emphasized to everyone that she has no intentions of falling in love with D if it would cause problems with our marriage. She knows that falling in love with D is possibe; especially since D told both of us this possibility.
The weekend trip for both of them was difficult only b/c they realized that this is going against the grain of normal hotwife encounters.
But...............I will state that WE all are trying to settle into this role.
I am not an idiot....I dont want to lose my wife to D.....WE all take this chance. My wife has told me numerous times that if I keep pushing those buttons.....We are taking chances............right now............she can handle this committment with D.
But to continue to push......................no one knows where it could lead!
My wife and I had a good week. We spent a lot of personal time together.
TONIGHT.........................our plan is to go to a very classy adult entertainment establishment.
We will play hard today. My wife is in a very horny mood. She is very excited to PLAY.......she wants to take D into our suv and give him oral sex while I wait at our table....then come back and kiss me as she allows me to taste his sex in her mouth.
I am rambling right now.................my point is...............HWC.................my wife liked reading about some of your ideas......the idea of D coming up with his own ideas and having us honor his games without hesitation sounds like fun for all of us.
The idea of having my wife grow deeper in love with D is extremely challenging......................and very interesting to her and I.
WE will keep you informed of any possible reactions to your ideas.
My wife wants to talk to D tonight about some of your ideas....and if we could possibly make them happen.
Personally.................role reversal with D acting as her husband and I act as her lover sound very hot.
Giving the green light to my wife to fall deeply in love with D is very scary.............as much as it would be the ultimate denial.............it is risky.
More later.....I cant wait for tonight!
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Quote: "the idea of D coming up with his own ideas and having us honor his games without hesitation sounds like fun for all of us."
...And of course it is safe! 'D' has already shown that he is respectful of your marriage (and feelings) and he knows he is on a good thing, and so will not wish to do anything to blow it. The relinquishing of control is more of a mind game, and I might add, a very hot one, at that!
Thanks for your kind comments, BTW, Reece.
Hwc
...And of course it is safe! 'D' has already shown that he is respectful of your marriage (and feelings) and he knows he is on a good thing, and so will not wish to do anything to blow it. The relinquishing of control is more of a mind game, and I might add, a very hot one, at that!
Thanks for your kind comments, BTW, Reece.
Hwc
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OneDayAtATime
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I see conflicting realisms,if thats the correct term or maybe i'm reading things wrong again.
I respectfully disagree with HWC about trying to fall in love with D. How would Mrs. Reese feel about Reese trying to fall in love with L and being less atttentive to his wife and give more attention to another woman. She wouldn't like it very much.
Of course,it all depends on how well you deal with rejection and being denied attention.
Ignoring your husband for a few days and only focusing on D would serve what purpose? It would only drive Reese away,imo. What would it drive Reese to or whom? Furthermore,to expect Reese to sit there like a good little boy and be that subserviant just isn't something that he can delve toward from what i've read. Being challenged is one thing,however there are emotional boundaries.
Torture,turmoil is not what this is about but excitement! Whats so fun about this if it turns to bitterness,jealousy or envy
You said you aren't an idiot.You don't want to lose your wife to D. Well then there's no need to push YOUR WIFE to that point and why would you. You also said, especially since D told both of you this possibility. He even realizes it.
You said your wife,like yourself,can differentiate between being in love and lust. I sincerely doubt she can do it as easily as you or most men,due to how most women and men are geared. Keep it that way,role playing,role reversal,all in fun is very satisfying.
This is about you two getting more intimate and closer,not further away.Marriage isn't about taking vacations from one another.
I respectfully disagree with HWC about trying to fall in love with D. How would Mrs. Reese feel about Reese trying to fall in love with L and being less atttentive to his wife and give more attention to another woman. She wouldn't like it very much.
Of course,it all depends on how well you deal with rejection and being denied attention.
Ignoring your husband for a few days and only focusing on D would serve what purpose? It would only drive Reese away,imo. What would it drive Reese to or whom? Furthermore,to expect Reese to sit there like a good little boy and be that subserviant just isn't something that he can delve toward from what i've read. Being challenged is one thing,however there are emotional boundaries.
Torture,turmoil is not what this is about but excitement! Whats so fun about this if it turns to bitterness,jealousy or envy
Giving the green light to my wife to fall deeply in love with D is very scary.............as much as it would be the ultimate denial.............it is risky.
You said you aren't an idiot.You don't want to lose your wife to D. Well then there's no need to push YOUR WIFE to that point and why would you. You also said, especially since D told both of you this possibility. He even realizes it.
You said your wife,like yourself,can differentiate between being in love and lust. I sincerely doubt she can do it as easily as you or most men,due to how most women and men are geared. Keep it that way,role playing,role reversal,all in fun is very satisfying.
This is about you two getting more intimate and closer,not further away.Marriage isn't about taking vacations from one another.
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Quote: "I respectfully disagree with HWC about trying to fall in love with D. How would Mrs. Reese feel about Reese trying to fall in love with L and being less atttentive to his wife and give more attention to another woman. She wouldn't like it very much."
I think Mrs. R likes to please her husband, and likes it even more when he is panting in total LUST over her.
What makes Reece tick (if I read you correctly, Reece!) -what makes him pant in total lust for his wife, is her denying him, making him jealous, giving herself to another (at the present, 'D').
Upping the stakes, increasing the denial and feelings of jealousy and losing his wife more completely, increases -intensifies the desire, lust (and love) Reece feels.
Also, if it starts to get too hot, if that unspoken boundry is ever crossed for either Reece or Mrs. Reece, they have an agreement to pull back.
Have I got this right, Reece, or am I a bit left of field?
Hwc
I think Mrs. R likes to please her husband, and likes it even more when he is panting in total LUST over her.
What makes Reece tick (if I read you correctly, Reece!) -what makes him pant in total lust for his wife, is her denying him, making him jealous, giving herself to another (at the present, 'D').
Upping the stakes, increasing the denial and feelings of jealousy and losing his wife more completely, increases -intensifies the desire, lust (and love) Reece feels.
Also, if it starts to get too hot, if that unspoken boundry is ever crossed for either Reece or Mrs. Reece, they have an agreement to pull back.
Have I got this right, Reece, or am I a bit left of field?
Hwc
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Reece, you said: "I am not an idiot....I dont want to lose my wife to D.....WE all take this chance. My wife has told me numerous times that if I keep pushing those buttons.....We are taking chances............right now............she can handle this committment with D.
But to continue to push......................no one knows where it could lead!"
My question is, does part of you want to take this chance? Do you want to 'keep pushing those buttons'? Do you enjoy the risk, however slight it is, of risking pushing your beautiful, sexy wife into 'D's' arms?
I really have to admit at this point, that the thought of you actually encouraging your wife to try and fall in love with 'D', and to spend a lot more intimate time together to attempt to achieve this, despite the feelings of utter turmoil, lonliness, jealousy and denial this obviously causes, is a complete rush for me.
It is something I would love to do with my wife (if she was half as adventorous as Mrs. Reece!) I do know what it is like for another man to fall in love with my wife, and I loved the feeling of encouraging her to spend more time with him....but thats another story.
Mrs Reece, what is your take on this? How would you feel about Reece wanting and encouraging you to try and deepen your feelings towards 'D', to spend more and more time with him, to this end?
Would you be willing to do that for him, if that was what he really wanted, despite the conflicting emotions incurred, and Reece's obvious anguish?
All I can think about, are the benefits, not the risks.
It's like that first parachute jump, the fear, the adrenalin, the free-fall. A complete and utter rush! (but in this situation you can include the feelings of sex, love, jealousy and lust, which must make the rush about a hundred times better!)
Hwc
But to continue to push......................no one knows where it could lead!"
My question is, does part of you want to take this chance? Do you want to 'keep pushing those buttons'? Do you enjoy the risk, however slight it is, of risking pushing your beautiful, sexy wife into 'D's' arms?
I really have to admit at this point, that the thought of you actually encouraging your wife to try and fall in love with 'D', and to spend a lot more intimate time together to attempt to achieve this, despite the feelings of utter turmoil, lonliness, jealousy and denial this obviously causes, is a complete rush for me.
It is something I would love to do with my wife (if she was half as adventorous as Mrs. Reece!) I do know what it is like for another man to fall in love with my wife, and I loved the feeling of encouraging her to spend more time with him....but thats another story.
Mrs Reece, what is your take on this? How would you feel about Reece wanting and encouraging you to try and deepen your feelings towards 'D', to spend more and more time with him, to this end?
Would you be willing to do that for him, if that was what he really wanted, despite the conflicting emotions incurred, and Reece's obvious anguish?
All I can think about, are the benefits, not the risks.
It's like that first parachute jump, the fear, the adrenalin, the free-fall. A complete and utter rush! (but in this situation you can include the feelings of sex, love, jealousy and lust, which must make the rush about a hundred times better!)
Hwc
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Qoute: "My wife wanted everyone in my office to know that she is as sexual as they think.
She plans on playing with all of them at the office one day soon.
Knowing that L as a hit at the office.....my wife told me to expect some surprises of her own one day in the future!"
...Could this perhaps include Mrs. Reece and 'D' turning up at your office to inform you that they have had a nice day shopping, and now are going'home' to relax, share a meal and fuck, so could you possibly go out for a meal, drink...or whatever you want to do, just so long as you keep away until late so as not to spoil their evening?
Hwc
She plans on playing with all of them at the office one day soon.
Knowing that L as a hit at the office.....my wife told me to expect some surprises of her own one day in the future!"
...Could this perhaps include Mrs. Reece and 'D' turning up at your office to inform you that they have had a nice day shopping, and now are going'home' to relax, share a meal and fuck, so could you possibly go out for a meal, drink...or whatever you want to do, just so long as you keep away until late so as not to spoil their evening?
Hwc
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Quote: "My wife wants to talk to D tonight about some of your ideas....and if we could possibly make them happen."
Please let us all know how this discussion goes!
Hwc
Please let us all know how this discussion goes!
Hwc
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hwc, i have read your latest comments and thought that i would share some of my feelings with you.
First, Oneday, your opinions are very true, and again, thank-you for alarming us about some obvious facts.
I do not like to be pushed to the point of no return. I am a woman. As much as a lot of you/especially my husband loves to push my buttons(i love it!) i have to be careful. I love my husband with all my heart. But it gets confusing when i have another man sweep me off my feet as d does. It becomes very difficult when my husband tells me that i have complete freedom to give d everypart of me. It appears to me that a man can handle this duel love circle easier than a woman.
The only way that I can be with d for an extended time is to completely try to forget that i am married to a wonderful man. I have to take on another personality. I have a hard time doing that. Once I feel some intense feelings for d or if he starts to act in a way that makes me feel love for him, i go back to my husband. I feel threatened. I dont like feeling love for d and then having my husband fill my heart.
I am trying though. My husband is a major risk taker. He is such a jock. He is such a high energy man who thrives on challenges. I know that he trusts me. I know that he loves me with his whole heart too. But he continues to challenge me to give more of myself to d. I question him a lot, ask him all the time if he is sure that he wants to continue to push me to d.
I love d in a way that is reserved in a way that only a woman in love with her husband will love her lover. D will never fill the shoes of my hubby. My love for d is very shallow. I cant allow him to fill those emotional spots of my soul. Why? My husband fills those roles. I am trying to give more to d. As a lover. I want to allow myself to love him more but I am having a difficult time finding a way. When my husband and I argue, i shut d out completely. Why? It scares me. When our relationship is solid with no arguing, i can let go of my husband and feel love for d, again, as his girlfriend and lover.
But rocky times shuts d out.
Again, I am trying to balance all of this. I do like this situation. I am a lucky girl. With my husbands blessing, I can be with a man who has become my fulltime lover, my boyfriend. He is good for me. Our intimacy is different that with my husband. D allows me to have orgasms in a manner that only a girlfriend feels with her lover/even if this girlfriend is married with kids to another man.
About last night.
We went to a very classy strip club. My husband got his wish. Everyone there knew that d was my lover and my husband was being cuckolded. WE told a few girls who would come to our table. My husband was not allowed to play with any other girls. d and I shared lap dances, kissed and acted like lovers in front of everyone. I recognized a few casual friends of my husbands at the club over the few hours that we were there. My husband told me that he loved it! He loved being denied his wife again. And my man got his wish. D and I went to the suv while my husband waited at the table. He told a stripper who was at our table that his wife wanted to perform oral sex with her boyfriend. I told my husband to talk to her and buy her a few drinks until we came back. Our whole game was to put on a show for everyone there. All the girls thought I looked so hot/ they also knew that we were a very kinky cpl. Many girls wanted to sit at our table. I loved the attention.
I did suck d in our suv, D like usual filled me with his sweet cum. we came back to the table, it felt like all eyes were on me.
I deeply kissed my husband and filled his mouth with d's cum. It was so sexy acting this way.
My husband got his wish. D did not come home with us. d orgasmed and he was content going back to his apt while my husband and I have a wild night alone. I wanted to spend some alone time with my husband.
Today, it is silly football, all day.
I will be at d's place until my child comes home from being with dad.
D and i will have a whole afternoon of being together.
i will make love with my boyfriend. My husband wants it this way. I intend to let go today, allow d to enter into me emotionally. I feel that i am ready for this. I satisfied my hubby last night. Today, it is my turn to see for myself if I can let go of my husband and make love to d like i am d's/ not my husbands.
I at least want to try it.
xoxoxo.
First, Oneday, your opinions are very true, and again, thank-you for alarming us about some obvious facts.
I do not like to be pushed to the point of no return. I am a woman. As much as a lot of you/especially my husband loves to push my buttons(i love it!) i have to be careful. I love my husband with all my heart. But it gets confusing when i have another man sweep me off my feet as d does. It becomes very difficult when my husband tells me that i have complete freedom to give d everypart of me. It appears to me that a man can handle this duel love circle easier than a woman.
The only way that I can be with d for an extended time is to completely try to forget that i am married to a wonderful man. I have to take on another personality. I have a hard time doing that. Once I feel some intense feelings for d or if he starts to act in a way that makes me feel love for him, i go back to my husband. I feel threatened. I dont like feeling love for d and then having my husband fill my heart.
I am trying though. My husband is a major risk taker. He is such a jock. He is such a high energy man who thrives on challenges. I know that he trusts me. I know that he loves me with his whole heart too. But he continues to challenge me to give more of myself to d. I question him a lot, ask him all the time if he is sure that he wants to continue to push me to d.
I love d in a way that is reserved in a way that only a woman in love with her husband will love her lover. D will never fill the shoes of my hubby. My love for d is very shallow. I cant allow him to fill those emotional spots of my soul. Why? My husband fills those roles. I am trying to give more to d. As a lover. I want to allow myself to love him more but I am having a difficult time finding a way. When my husband and I argue, i shut d out completely. Why? It scares me. When our relationship is solid with no arguing, i can let go of my husband and feel love for d, again, as his girlfriend and lover.
But rocky times shuts d out.
Again, I am trying to balance all of this. I do like this situation. I am a lucky girl. With my husbands blessing, I can be with a man who has become my fulltime lover, my boyfriend. He is good for me. Our intimacy is different that with my husband. D allows me to have orgasms in a manner that only a girlfriend feels with her lover/even if this girlfriend is married with kids to another man.
About last night.
We went to a very classy strip club. My husband got his wish. Everyone there knew that d was my lover and my husband was being cuckolded. WE told a few girls who would come to our table. My husband was not allowed to play with any other girls. d and I shared lap dances, kissed and acted like lovers in front of everyone. I recognized a few casual friends of my husbands at the club over the few hours that we were there. My husband told me that he loved it! He loved being denied his wife again. And my man got his wish. D and I went to the suv while my husband waited at the table. He told a stripper who was at our table that his wife wanted to perform oral sex with her boyfriend. I told my husband to talk to her and buy her a few drinks until we came back. Our whole game was to put on a show for everyone there. All the girls thought I looked so hot/ they also knew that we were a very kinky cpl. Many girls wanted to sit at our table. I loved the attention.
I did suck d in our suv, D like usual filled me with his sweet cum. we came back to the table, it felt like all eyes were on me.
I deeply kissed my husband and filled his mouth with d's cum. It was so sexy acting this way.
My husband got his wish. D did not come home with us. d orgasmed and he was content going back to his apt while my husband and I have a wild night alone. I wanted to spend some alone time with my husband.
Today, it is silly football, all day.
I will be at d's place until my child comes home from being with dad.
D and i will have a whole afternoon of being together.
i will make love with my boyfriend. My husband wants it this way. I intend to let go today, allow d to enter into me emotionally. I feel that i am ready for this. I satisfied my hubby last night. Today, it is my turn to see for myself if I can let go of my husband and make love to d like i am d's/ not my husbands.
I at least want to try it.
xoxoxo.
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
yes..........my hotwife is with D at his apt right now.
I decided to write for a few minutes b/c of the text I received.
She finally had him fill a condom with his cum.
Usually, he will openly cum in her.....as we all encourage him to do.
She is keeping it and will bring it home, her goal is to let the cum leak out all over her pussy...allowing me to lick it up.
Never would I think that I would be doing this.
I dont consider it gay at all.
I just think it is fucking kinky.
Right now...she is laying in his arms in bed...as she explained in her text message.
She told me that for the 1st time....she is really trying to let go..........give her self to D completely.
She told me that they decided to be very intimate making love while deeply kissing...looking into each other eyes.
I want it that way..........i am so fucking hard...knowing that my wife is being taken by another man.....she is lost in his arms...and I want it that way.
Losing her...is such a tremendous turn on.
I decided to write for a few minutes b/c of the text I received.
She finally had him fill a condom with his cum.
Usually, he will openly cum in her.....as we all encourage him to do.
She is keeping it and will bring it home, her goal is to let the cum leak out all over her pussy...allowing me to lick it up.
Never would I think that I would be doing this.
I dont consider it gay at all.
I just think it is fucking kinky.
Right now...she is laying in his arms in bed...as she explained in her text message.
She told me that for the 1st time....she is really trying to let go..........give her self to D completely.
She told me that they decided to be very intimate making love while deeply kissing...looking into each other eyes.
I want it that way..........i am so fucking hard...knowing that my wife is being taken by another man.....she is lost in his arms...and I want it that way.
Losing her...is such a tremendous turn on.
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
this is so fucking hot. eating d's cum 2 days in a row
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
i am getting used to it.......he totally controls me in this situation....I like it b/c once our hotwife encounter is over...WE both go back to our normal roles.....he is kind of quiet....and more timid at times.....the funny thing is that we both talked about how cool it is that we role reversal. HE gets to play DOM BULL........and believe me, he needed to work on that...very nervous and unsure on how to role play that way.
BUT today..........he controls me...telling me to take all of his cum.....licking it from HIS lovers pussy...stuff like that...and listening to my wife encouraging me to do that.....listening to her tell D how much she is his lover...how she only wants his cock....believe me....SHE will really get into it...telling me that she never wants to fuck me again....telling me that I will only be allowed to jack off and lick her lovers cum from her......it is so fucking hot.
BUT today..........he controls me...telling me to take all of his cum.....licking it from HIS lovers pussy...stuff like that...and listening to my wife encouraging me to do that.....listening to her tell D how much she is his lover...how she only wants his cock....believe me....SHE will really get into it...telling me that she never wants to fuck me again....telling me that I will only be allowed to jack off and lick her lovers cum from her......it is so fucking hot.
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
It seems like things are progressing nicely.
I'm glad all of ya'll can seperate fantasy from reality. In the heat of the moment,between consenting adults,many things you can be turned on to do that you wouldn't normally.
Eating cum out of a condom i've only seen women do and even then it doesn't do anything for me.If thats a turn on for you or your wife,enjoy it. To each his own.
Going out being controlled and only to be able to think of your wife and D with all that other pussy around is an accomplishment.
You have a wife that obeys your fantasies. You're doing the same. I expect she will become more dominant at times. How will you handle that? You'll love it. I think she'll suprise herself.
You're fortunate your wife doesn't push back taking this much further. She can lose herself to D and start to rely on him more emotionally.They'll start hanging out more leaving you alone. No,i don't think he'll take your role as husband but he will fill other roles and thats what you asked for him as her lover. I can't understand why that's a turn on,yet you have to be true to your feelings.
Sex isn't only about getting a rush.It seems now you have to have conflicting emotions to have the most enjoyable sex.IOW,your best sex comes after she's been with D.Your enjoyment depends on the sex intensity that your wife and D have.Thats how you get the most enjoyment.There is no turning back.Right now your wife can say no but you can't.
The most important thing right now is still your communication. There's a time when enough is enough. Respect that. Always make time for her.
Don't mean to be pushy or sound like a know-it-all.
I have some other thoughts but you haven't reached that point yet.
I'm glad all of ya'll can seperate fantasy from reality. In the heat of the moment,between consenting adults,many things you can be turned on to do that you wouldn't normally.
Eating cum out of a condom i've only seen women do and even then it doesn't do anything for me.If thats a turn on for you or your wife,enjoy it. To each his own.
Going out being controlled and only to be able to think of your wife and D with all that other pussy around is an accomplishment.
You have a wife that obeys your fantasies. You're doing the same. I expect she will become more dominant at times. How will you handle that? You'll love it. I think she'll suprise herself.
You're fortunate your wife doesn't push back taking this much further. She can lose herself to D and start to rely on him more emotionally.They'll start hanging out more leaving you alone. No,i don't think he'll take your role as husband but he will fill other roles and thats what you asked for him as her lover. I can't understand why that's a turn on,yet you have to be true to your feelings.
Sex isn't only about getting a rush.It seems now you have to have conflicting emotions to have the most enjoyable sex.IOW,your best sex comes after she's been with D.Your enjoyment depends on the sex intensity that your wife and D have.Thats how you get the most enjoyment.There is no turning back.Right now your wife can say no but you can't.
The most important thing right now is still your communication. There's a time when enough is enough. Respect that. Always make time for her.
Don't mean to be pushy or sound like a know-it-all.
I have some other thoughts but you haven't reached that point yet.
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Reece's. Thhankyou very much for your last few posts, you both really do express yourselves very well -about what you do and how you feel about it.This is what makes your thread the best, along with your desire to make each other happy by taking your sex life to new and dizzying heights!
And while we are on that subject...."Right now...she is laying in his arms in bed...as she explained in her text message.
She told me that for the 1st time....she is really trying to let go..........give her self to D completely.She told me that they decided to be very intimate making love while deeply kissing...looking into each other eyes."
...How did this new experience go for you, Mrs. Reece?
Hwc
And while we are on that subject...."Right now...she is laying in his arms in bed...as she explained in her text message.
She told me that for the 1st time....she is really trying to let go..........give her self to D completely.She told me that they decided to be very intimate making love while deeply kissing...looking into each other eyes."
...How did this new experience go for you, Mrs. Reece?
Hwc
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I would love to hear from Ms Reese right about now... 
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My turn boys.
Softail, thanks again.
Some of you have been very encouraging, you know who you are, Thanks to all of you!
I want everyone to know, my husband and I are rock solid. I have never felt this close to a person in my life before. MY husband is my world. NO matter how much time I spend with D or anyone else, my husband rules!! He is my man, no one else ever will be! You all just have to trust me, I will never ever leave my husband for d. Never! Why would I? My husband is all I need. D is playtime! Nothing more. But when I play with d, it will be much more intense now that I have my husbands permission to go deeper into my relationship with my boyfriend and lover. I like the way that sounds, a married women very much in love with her husband/ having a lover in her life.
Now about the weekend:
I loved being with D.
I allowed myself to totally forget about being a mom and being married.
We made love twice. Very romantic. I went back to my home to meet my child. I was mom for a while. Until I tucked my child in bed and read her a bedtime story. After that, I was a wife to my husband. But I turned on the hotwife girl in me and decided to totally fuck with his mind. LOL! I told him to go the bedroom. Knowing that this time wasnt going to be about making love to him, I pulled out the condom of d's creamy cum and layed in bed and told my husband to hurry up and get off b/c I was going back to d's apt to spend the night with him. I can not lie, I wanted to sleep with d again. I could smell his sex all over me. He made love to me earlier and looked into my eyes and told me that he is going to really fall in love with me. I want that! YES, I know all of you will be shocked by this statement, but I am a woman. I like knowing that there are 2 men in my life that have different purposes, and they both love me. d will never come close to my husband. But why not let him fall in love with me. He and my husband have talked about this and both agree that if D really falls in love with me,. it will make all this more REAL and stimulating. THE mind games will be ever more intense for my husband. D wants to continue to cuckold him and be nasty with me at times, but he wants to let go with me.
Anyway, I spilled d's cum all over my pussy. I was very wet the moment i saw my husband walk into the room.
He was hard as usual. Great cock! One thing about my hubby, his cock is beautiful.
He licked me and I orgasmed very quickly, I wanted my husbands cum. He stroked while licking me clean. As he was about to orgasm, I grabbed his cock and swallowed his cum. I felt very naughty. My husband licking up my lovers cum, how crazy is that? It made me very horny.
I dressed and left for d's apt. MY husband looked confused. I knew that he wanted to be with me. I felt that I was really denying him.
I left, went to the store to pick up milk.
AND of course, I came back home to my man. I wanted to mess with him. He does love when I do that! I always try to find new ways to make it very real for him b/c I love him so much.
I never had any intentions of going back to D'S.
d and I have a continuing saga developing. he wants to fall in love with me. I am going to let it happen.
Just remember everyone. I can do this! NO man will ever take the place of my husband.
Softail, thanks again.
Some of you have been very encouraging, you know who you are, Thanks to all of you!
I want everyone to know, my husband and I are rock solid. I have never felt this close to a person in my life before. MY husband is my world. NO matter how much time I spend with D or anyone else, my husband rules!! He is my man, no one else ever will be! You all just have to trust me, I will never ever leave my husband for d. Never! Why would I? My husband is all I need. D is playtime! Nothing more. But when I play with d, it will be much more intense now that I have my husbands permission to go deeper into my relationship with my boyfriend and lover. I like the way that sounds, a married women very much in love with her husband/ having a lover in her life.
Now about the weekend:
I loved being with D.
I allowed myself to totally forget about being a mom and being married.
We made love twice. Very romantic. I went back to my home to meet my child. I was mom for a while. Until I tucked my child in bed and read her a bedtime story. After that, I was a wife to my husband. But I turned on the hotwife girl in me and decided to totally fuck with his mind. LOL! I told him to go the bedroom. Knowing that this time wasnt going to be about making love to him, I pulled out the condom of d's creamy cum and layed in bed and told my husband to hurry up and get off b/c I was going back to d's apt to spend the night with him. I can not lie, I wanted to sleep with d again. I could smell his sex all over me. He made love to me earlier and looked into my eyes and told me that he is going to really fall in love with me. I want that! YES, I know all of you will be shocked by this statement, but I am a woman. I like knowing that there are 2 men in my life that have different purposes, and they both love me. d will never come close to my husband. But why not let him fall in love with me. He and my husband have talked about this and both agree that if D really falls in love with me,. it will make all this more REAL and stimulating. THE mind games will be ever more intense for my husband. D wants to continue to cuckold him and be nasty with me at times, but he wants to let go with me.
Anyway, I spilled d's cum all over my pussy. I was very wet the moment i saw my husband walk into the room.
He was hard as usual. Great cock! One thing about my hubby, his cock is beautiful.
He licked me and I orgasmed very quickly, I wanted my husbands cum. He stroked while licking me clean. As he was about to orgasm, I grabbed his cock and swallowed his cum. I felt very naughty. My husband licking up my lovers cum, how crazy is that? It made me very horny.
I dressed and left for d's apt. MY husband looked confused. I knew that he wanted to be with me. I felt that I was really denying him.
I left, went to the store to pick up milk.
AND of course, I came back home to my man. I wanted to mess with him. He does love when I do that! I always try to find new ways to make it very real for him b/c I love him so much.
I never had any intentions of going back to D'S.
d and I have a continuing saga developing. he wants to fall in love with me. I am going to let it happen.
Just remember everyone. I can do this! NO man will ever take the place of my husband.
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opps, i forgot to mention to all of you that d bought me ring to wear on my right ring finger. Dont worry, i wont every wear it on my left ring finger unless I am with d all by myself. i will rotate my wedding ring on the other finger when i am with d all by myself. I told my husband about this and he encouraged me to do that making this all that much more real!
The ring is beautiful. We both picked it out when we went away for the weekend recently. I will be d's make believe wife when we are together. That is one agreement we all decided upon. I was waiting for the ring to come in before I wrote about all of this happening. when I am with my husband, i will wear it on my right finger, and rotate it when I am with d. When all 3 of us are together, I will wear d's ring on my left ring finger and wear my wedding ring on my right. MORE role playing. Dont worry everyone, it is just fun and games! But d committing to this ring makes me realize how important I am in his life. My husband is always informed of our decisions. The ring is not a diamond solitare.
The ring is beautiful. We both picked it out when we went away for the weekend recently. I will be d's make believe wife when we are together. That is one agreement we all decided upon. I was waiting for the ring to come in before I wrote about all of this happening. when I am with my husband, i will wear it on my right finger, and rotate it when I am with d. When all 3 of us are together, I will wear d's ring on my left ring finger and wear my wedding ring on my right. MORE role playing. Dont worry everyone, it is just fun and games! But d committing to this ring makes me realize how important I am in his life. My husband is always informed of our decisions. The ring is not a diamond solitare.
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My compliments to both of you...and your current lover. You are clearly exploring the theater of relationship and are using some of our 'cultural' icons (props) - rings, marriage, cuckolding, and deep multiple relationships to further define what it can mean to be in a 'real' - or trustful, relationship. It's hot stuff, and also is informing us of how much fun, excitement and personal growth are blended here.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
A caveat, if I may...
I am not implying by this that what you are doing is wrong, that depends on your makeup and constitution..., but, unless you are willing to enter into a polyamorous relationship, wherein two men fully share a woman, her love, and her loyalties..., allowing yourself or D to "fall in love" leads to complications certain.
Absent a complete adherence from all parts to share EVERYTHING and in everything, freely, most of us mere mortals are just selfish enough to want to keep something just for ourselves, "something mine, reserved for me".
Tensions from unmet expectations are pernicious to a relationship. My hunch would be that the love D has for Ms Reese will grow, and he will (inevitably) develop a want for more. At this point either Ms Resee and Mr Reese acceed to this demand, or they don't, with predictable and complicated developments that usually follow from there.
Quicksand.
I am not implying by this that what you are doing is wrong, that depends on your makeup and constitution..., but, unless you are willing to enter into a polyamorous relationship, wherein two men fully share a woman, her love, and her loyalties..., allowing yourself or D to "fall in love" leads to complications certain.
Absent a complete adherence from all parts to share EVERYTHING and in everything, freely, most of us mere mortals are just selfish enough to want to keep something just for ourselves, "something mine, reserved for me".
Tensions from unmet expectations are pernicious to a relationship. My hunch would be that the love D has for Ms Reese will grow, and he will (inevitably) develop a want for more. At this point either Ms Resee and Mr Reese acceed to this demand, or they don't, with predictable and complicated developments that usually follow from there.
Quicksand.
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BALLSPANKING...hey my friend.
Thanks for the heads up!
We do have some marital bonds that will never be shared.
They are too personal to write about.
Funny, we write about a lot of stuff....but i promise you, D understands the NO FLY ZONE.....my wife will never allow that zone to be given up to D.
As silly as this sounds...this is really strengthening our marriage....OUR TRUST IS AT AN ALL TIME HIGH.....our love making is so intense....why spoil a good thing.
WE are grounded.....when we argue.................D is off limits...per my wife. I never thought of that agreement...but I agree with my wife.....NO D when WE are having troubles.
One NO fly zone I will share...b/c I want you to understand how we work..........since the committment to D, there is NO anal sex or touching/licking.............my wife is very very crazy sexually when her hot bottom is played with .......that is ONE of her sexual spots...............D accepted our rule....THIS IS MY TERRITORY!
MY WIFE ALLOWS ONLY HER HUSBAND TO HAVE HER BOTTOM. IT IS A VERY PERSONAL THING FOR HER...AND SHARING IT WITH ME IS A WAY TO KEEP OUR RELATIONSHIP EXCLUSIVE....AGAIN, I KNOW THAT THIS IS SOUNDS SILLY..BUT THAT IS OUR THING!
We have other No fly zones....but they are too personal to share.
We also exercise our SAFE word...over the last week, I used it once and my wife used it 2 times I believe.
WE are happy and very cautious with this.
If I stop wanting this I will stop this.....same for my wife.
IF I lose her b/c of this....that is the chance I am going to take.
As humans WE can not let go of our integrity and trust in our fellow human being...especially our spouse!
IF she tells me that SHE can be trusted....if she tells me how much she loves me and proves it with her emotional love and physical attachment....then I have to trust her!
Once we lose that trust and bond in our marriage....WE might as well divorce anyway!
I could not live with her if I didnt trust her....nor could I be married if I was afraid to trust her!
WE are pushing the boundaries....but whose boundaries are they anyway????
WE SET OUR BOUNDARIES.....................MY WIFE AND I!
WE WILL KNOW IF WE SHOULD BACK OFF...........WE WILL KNOW IF WE SHOULD NOT PUSH ANYMORE.
BUT UNTIL THEN. WE WILL TRUST EACH OTHER THE WAY HUSBAND AND WIFE SHOULD!!
again, thank-you ballspanking, i count on you as my friend...and I know that you are just showing concern!
Thanks for the heads up!
We do have some marital bonds that will never be shared.
They are too personal to write about.
Funny, we write about a lot of stuff....but i promise you, D understands the NO FLY ZONE.....my wife will never allow that zone to be given up to D.
As silly as this sounds...this is really strengthening our marriage....OUR TRUST IS AT AN ALL TIME HIGH.....our love making is so intense....why spoil a good thing.
WE are grounded.....when we argue.................D is off limits...per my wife. I never thought of that agreement...but I agree with my wife.....NO D when WE are having troubles.
One NO fly zone I will share...b/c I want you to understand how we work..........since the committment to D, there is NO anal sex or touching/licking.............my wife is very very crazy sexually when her hot bottom is played with .......that is ONE of her sexual spots...............D accepted our rule....THIS IS MY TERRITORY!
MY WIFE ALLOWS ONLY HER HUSBAND TO HAVE HER BOTTOM. IT IS A VERY PERSONAL THING FOR HER...AND SHARING IT WITH ME IS A WAY TO KEEP OUR RELATIONSHIP EXCLUSIVE....AGAIN, I KNOW THAT THIS IS SOUNDS SILLY..BUT THAT IS OUR THING!
We have other No fly zones....but they are too personal to share.
We also exercise our SAFE word...over the last week, I used it once and my wife used it 2 times I believe.
WE are happy and very cautious with this.
If I stop wanting this I will stop this.....same for my wife.
IF I lose her b/c of this....that is the chance I am going to take.
As humans WE can not let go of our integrity and trust in our fellow human being...especially our spouse!
IF she tells me that SHE can be trusted....if she tells me how much she loves me and proves it with her emotional love and physical attachment....then I have to trust her!
Once we lose that trust and bond in our marriage....WE might as well divorce anyway!
I could not live with her if I didnt trust her....nor could I be married if I was afraid to trust her!
WE are pushing the boundaries....but whose boundaries are they anyway????
WE SET OUR BOUNDARIES.....................MY WIFE AND I!
WE WILL KNOW IF WE SHOULD BACK OFF...........WE WILL KNOW IF WE SHOULD NOT PUSH ANYMORE.
BUT UNTIL THEN. WE WILL TRUST EACH OTHER THE WAY HUSBAND AND WIFE SHOULD!!
again, thank-you ballspanking, i count on you as my friend...and I know that you are just showing concern!
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Once again, thank you for updating us with the details!
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