Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[reese]

Hello everyone!
It has been a while. We have been very busy with the holidays.
Since our last posts, I would like to update everyone about how wild my hotwife has been!
First, my sex with her has been too good to be true.
It appears to me that my wife is changing.
Once she is with one of her bf's she will spend more time with me for a few days. She is much more attentive to me and my urges. I have to admit that I have been feeling more isolated at times when she is away from me.
My love for her is intoxicating! The more I am with her, the more I lust for MORE!
I purposely attempt to spend time away from her..............doing my own thing with my friends or family!
I never want to be too needy for her. I love my independence and freedom. I learned a long time ago to be like that!
Women want a mans attention........and if he appears too busy for his woman at times............if he doesnt act too needy......if he doesnt chance her around everyday.............she will be challenged to capture his attention!

Anyway, I have grown more jealous over the past month.
This emotional roller coaster started with Michael. The man she met at the Maxim party!
Within a few days, she and I sat down to discuss this man. She told me that she will not pursue him in any manner if I have any reservations about him.
She told me NO games..............whatever my answer is.......she will respect it!
But if I give her permission, she will continue to be with Michael.
I told her that I love the challenge....and that she should really try to spend more time with Michael!
D.........how could I forget, he is still in the picture.
My hotwife and D have a relationship that is special.
I trust him completely.
I also want my wife to be with him....we both feel safe with him.
He is patient with my wife, sometimes confused when she wants to spend time away from him.

Since my wife has found Michael, her time is very limited for me and D.
I have to share her with 2 other men which has brought on the jealous feelings.

D has been with my wife twice since she met Michael.
He has called me to ask if he did anything wrong!

With the holidays upon us, play time has been limited...that was my response to D.
I decided that it is up to my wife to talk to HER LOVER......D.......about Michael.

About Michael:

He is very handsome. I have seen his picture that my wife has stored in her cell phone.
I have not been with my wife and Michael at any time.
She has kept her affair with him as a cheating wife.
I will admit, my hard on is very stiff when she and I have sex knowing that she is a cheating wife with Michael.
He loves knowing that he has taken a husbands gorgeous wife as his lover!

My wife wants to explain to everyone in this forum about her sex with Michael.

I am such a glutton though, as much as I am somewhat bothered and jealous by my wife and Michael, OUR sex is incredible.
It is all new..................when my wife and D are together, it is now a relationship, so when I have sex with my wife after being with D.....it is still intense...but it is losing its luster at times!

But when she arrives home after spending a lot of time with Michael.........I am so damn jealous.....I want to reclaim her immediately. The intense feelings of jealousy are intoxicating for me....i miss feeling that way!
MY wife knows this and she is making it a point to really cuck me when she is with Michael.
She loves spending time with him. She has broken off dates b/w her and I to be with Michael whenever he is available!
Michael rules right now in my wife's life. D comes in second and I am left to spend time with her whenever she isnt spending time with her other lovers! The only thing that makes all this tolerable is that my wife will be very attentive to my urges and needs once she IS available to spend more time with me. When we are together, my jealousy leaves me......and I suddenly realize how lucky I am to have a wife that will playfully cheat on me with a man...that will carry on a relationship with a man like D! I remember how much I wanted her to be a hotwife.....and how my fantasies are fulfilled all the time by my wife!

I hate it and I love it!

Life of a hotwife husband...wow!


I miss writing....I will try to spend more time informing everyone of our lives.

Sorry for being inactive for a while.

[BallSpanking]

Hi Mr and Ms Reese,

I hope you have an outstanding New Year's eve!

Wouldn't it be amazing if Ms reese spent the whole night with Michael at another Maxim party?
And fucked him bareback, and took his cum all night long until she left his big cock all shriveled and apped out by morning? Then came home drippping his cum down her inner thigh...?

By the way is Michael doing Ms reese babreback?

Happy New Year!

[BallSpanking]

Typo:
... tapped out...

[OneDayAtATime]

So Michael sees your wife more than you right now?

Whats your family think of you being alone so much?

Have you been seeing L while your wife's gone?

Michael rules right now in my wife's life

I never thought you would allow that willingly but hey thats a turn on for you.

Glad your romance,intimacy with unbridled passion is still there! She must still save a lot for you.

A few days of undivided attention is great from a woman,although i love it daily cause i'm to fuckin selfish. A few days of her attention must minimize the jealousy. Seems like you love being denied to much Not my cup of tea but like you talking about how it makes you cringe and get excited. Mrs. Reese is learning to take control and be dominant in her way. It appears that she's getting good at it.

Great drama. Can't wait to see how her pov is and how she loves teasing you. Spending time with your friends has to lead to the titty bars sometimes easing the wife being gone.

Have fun through all the aches and pains. Yeah, you've been slacking but we'll forgive you.

[wifeishot]

Reese and Mrs. Reese,

We miss your posts and want to hear what's going on in your world! Mine is much too lame compared to yours, so yours is what I look forward to! Going through Reese withdrawal!

[mrs_reese]

hi everyone,
my husband is not telling you everything/naught boy/lol!

dont forget for one minute that he wants me to act out.
there is something about my man that makes his personality SPLIT!
yes he is sane, gorgeous, intelligent and a big flirt with the women!
dont forget for another minute that HE is the one who encourages me to act out!

again, i would stop this in a newyork minute if he told me that he cant do this anymore!

I know why he doenst/ our sex is too good to be true, it is unbelievable.
no man will ever make me cum the way my husband does/bottom line!
he knows my spots/ he knows how to push my buttons/ he knows how to love me.

can i admit something to all of you?

i love my man more than you all know....not D not M not anyone else...

but I want to tell you about Michael.....
YUMMY!
He is so sexy and such an incredible lover.
can you believe that I make LOVE to him? and MY HUBBY!
I am so lucky!

more later boys and girls.
xoxoxo

[BallSpanking]

Dear Ms Reese,

To quote you, "but I want to tell you about Michael....."

So is that all?

Please, give us more than that!

How aften do you see him?
Are you going bareback?
Is Mr Reese getting creampie?

Have you gone on weekends with him?

Etc.
LOL, I'm curious, I guess!

[BallSpanking]

LOL
I didn't realize you were still in process of posting!

Sorry..., and Thx!

[mrs_reese]

michael,
he is one of the most gorgeous men i have ever laid eyes on.
he is a wonderful lover.
very attentive, considerate.
he thinks i am a cheating wife, i think that is very hot.
my hubby and i love this fact.
my hubby knows that I am getting very attached to michael.
strangely, he is a better lover than D, but not close to my hubby yet!!
hubby knows my gspots...no one else will.

talk to you tomorrow.

[BallSpanking]

[RGB49FL]

hot as always, Mrs R. You were about 1 hot lover short... good thing you found another one.. but... when do you sleep?

[mrs_reese]

I sleep during the morning. lol!

To continue about Michael.
He has been asking questions about my husband/ afraid of getting caught!

Tonight. hubby and I will be spending time as a family with our children.
Movies/dinner/and watching the ball drop at home.

I havent seen D that much lately.
I explained to our gorgeous new hotwife jane that I was really falling in love with D again and that I had to change somethings so that i would not jeapordize my marriage.

My husband means the world to me.
I would never ever leave him for another man.
Most hw's would agree; we love emotionally, it is too difficult to have sex with another person without feeling some strong emotional attachment.

Michael is falling for me/head over heals.
He scares me because he is so gorgeous and loving to me.
My husband knows all of this.
I know that my husband is nervous about my affair with Michael because he has never met him.
I know that it is killing him inside NOT KNOWING/ the mystery of my affair with Michael.

My man has only seen a few pics, and that was enough for him!
But knowing my man, he will never throw this in my face/ the affair with Michael!
Afterall, my husband is the one who wants THIS!
His wife to be a hotwife!
This is just part of the hotwife play!

I am shocked at times at how much I have changed!
Over the past year, I have grown into a very independent woman!
I have had affairs with a lot of great men!
I would have never had these affairs if it wasnt for my husband insisting that I become his hotwife.
In a way, my husband has lost a part of me, but in another way, my husband has gained a partner that has become his soul mate/ a woman that is more dedicated to a man than anyone could imagine!
He has gained a woman that is crazy in love with him. He has gained a woman that has NO doubt that her husband is the greatest lover in her life!

I have been with a few good men over the past year, and no one can make me feel and orgasm as my husband does!

I love you baby!

And I want Michael more than you know!
He comes first now, you wanted this and you know that it drives you crazy!
Enjoy the ride baby, we both know that it wont last!
Once he falls too much in love with me or once I fall in love with him/ ITS OVER!
You always WIN baby!

But you already knew that! I am your slave and I love it!

[RGB49FL]

Happy New Year, Mrs. R.

Here's hoping things simmer all through 2009. Best of luck and thanks again for all you have shared with us here.

[reese]

Happy NewYear everyone!
We had an unexpected suprise last night.
We are with our children today............last night, we were free after 9pm.
We were invited to a few parties..........and had a blast!

I posted a pic of my HW laying on a Harley!

At one of the parties.......a good friend of mine asked if my wife (who he knows will act slutty after a few drinks) would pose for a few of his friends on his Harley.
Now mind you, my friend is a great guy, and we DO NOT play HW CPL with him or his friends. It is our way of keeping our personal sex life distant from our closest friends.

It took a while of convince my wife to pose. The garage was filled with men. The wives were in the house doing what most non hotwives do best.......act boring and talk about their children all night!

Anyway...........my wife was so impressive...with most of the men pleading for MORE.......she eventually exposed her breasts in multiple shots on the Harley.
A few pics were of her showing off her gorgeous butt....gstring panties exposed for all to see!

After her performance, eveyone was amazed that my wife was SO DAMN sexy posing on the bike!

Nothing more happened, but I am sure that it will be a night that a lot of NON Hotwife husbands will never forget!

[aemn411]

[quote="mrs_reese"]And I want Michael more than you know!

I'm proud to say I have just read all 45 pages and can relate to Mr Reese's feelings and emotional ride to a small extent based on experiences my wife and I have had over the years. Mrs. Reese's quote sounds like she is very close to the edge of not turning back with Michael. How much of this is intended to tweek Mr. Reese vs how much is this really happening. For example is it 20% tweek and 80% for real (i.e 100% is marriage is truly threatened, ie Mrs. Reese is about to move in with Michael full time). Sometimes I feel Mrs Reese is playing with all of us and Mr. Reese too, but this time I don't think there is any fooling around. Anybody else want to comment?

[mrs_reese]

hi aemn411, thanks for cuming to our thread!

my hubby and i focused on US for a few days.
D has been away on a vacation with family.

That leads me to Yummy Michael.
I wish you could read his texts that I receive on a daily basis.
Hubby doesnt talk about him too much b/c HE is so jealous/ and I love it!

Michael and I will be spending tonight together.
Hubby is with friends watching football, and I wanted to spend more time with Michael since we are not with children.

I really love being with this man.
I want all to know that my hubby is such a hunky man, and being with Michael, I didnt think it could get any better than hubby, BUT Michael entered my life!

Not sure where this will lead, but for the 1st time in my marriage, I told hubby that it is getting hard to walk away from this man. Its not about LOVE as much as it is his sexiness and the powerful life he lives. He is involved with many entertainers and celebrities. I am his girl right now. He is not dating anyone and he still believes that I am a cheating wife who has a hubby in my life that has no time for me.

Michael actually asked me last night on the phone if I would ever consider leaving my hubby for him?
He was joking but I also know that he is falling for me.

I am such a naughty hotwife right now.

Oh, by the way, hubby is so damn horny all the TIME now that Michael is in my life.

I will update later!

xoxoxo

[aemn411]

[quote="mrs_reese"]Michael actually asked me last night on the phone if I would ever consider leaving my hubby for him?
He was joking but I also know that he is falling for me.
I am such a naughty hotwife right now.

My Dear and lovely Mrs. Reese, Michael wasn't joking and you know it and Mr. Reese knows it and all of us watching know it. You are right at the edge of fantasy (I estimate about 95% real) seriously considering what your life would be like with him on a perminent basis. Lets be honest Michael probably has the resources to completely take you like Robert Redford took Demi Moore in the movie "Indecent Proposal". To take a sequence from the movie figuratively - he's already taken you on his helicopter to his yacht and he's about to perminently take you to his house. At this stage, you might consider a trial move in and possibly threesomes with Michael and D at Michael's place, and you will be giving Mr. Reese and us plenty of lip service about how much you love him, but Michael is dangerously close to fucking you as well as your husband does and he has the ability to love you like your husband and probably has the resources to give you much more. I'm sure you gave Mr. Reese plenty of good sex in the last week but relatively speaking you know it and so do we that they are becoming mercy fucks and all you can think about is Michael when you are fucking your husband.

Now I've gone out here on a limb to challenge you to tell me I'm way off here, but to the interested observer that's what it looks like to me.

If I've offended you, I appologize to you but I'm trying to make the communication real and tangeable so we really know where you are. You've as much as said you would find it hard to turn it off at this point. Mr. Reese, he's going to make a serious play for her tonight - you or Mrs Reese need to stop it, but it doesn't sound like she can so you must.

By all means PM me if there is something I should know that you don't want to post.

[enduser]

.....HE is so jealous.....I love it!

Michael and I will be spending tonight together.........I wanted to spend more time with Michael............

.............I really love being with this man........

..............I didnt think it could get any better than hubby, BUT Michael entered my life!

Not sure where this will lead, but for the 1st time in my marriage, I told hubby that it is getting hard to walk away from this man........ Its not about LOVE as much as it is his sexiness and the powerful life he lives.

.................. I am his girl right now...........

............Michael actually asked me last night on the phone if I would ever consider leaving my hubby for him?

............. I also know that he is falling for me.

xoxoxo

You are waving Red Flags. It sounds like your marriage is hanging by a very slender thread. EU

[aemn411]

.................. I am his girl right now...........

............Michael actually asked me last night on the phone if I would ever consider leaving my hubby for him?

............. I also know that he is falling for me.

xoxoxo

You are waving Red Flags. It sounds like your marriage is hanging by a very slender thread. EU

Mr. Reese for God's wake up - she's crying out for help - She's just waiting to see if Michael lovers her as much as you - and she probably got the marriage proposal last night with his cock buried deep into her and she may have said "yes" and will be looking for a trial separation. EU and I are in full agreement

[mrs_reese]

Aemn411 and EU,
Thank-you for worrying about us. I really appreciate your consideration.

An update and some help in understanding US:

I came home around 4am this morning. My husband was awake. After an hour or so of talk, we made love as husband and wife. No fantasy, or real life talk about my lovers.

I want all of you to understand that there is no one that means more to me than my husband!
There are no warning signs here!
My husband implores me to make this fantasy of his as real as possible!
I do that!

I am really into Michael, but I am into D, I was into previous lovers, but at the end of the day, I am my husband's possession. I am his slave! I am deeply in love with this man that I call my husband!

Why would I want to leave him?
I have the greatest husband a wife could ever dream for, an arrangement to have any man that I choose and a life that includes trust, respect, individualism and intense sex with my husband.

Sex with Michael and the others is incredible, but again, at the end of the day, I love only one man and that is my husband!

Why would I leave him?
I have no hidden unhappiness or displeasure with my marriage.


Thanks again boys for your concern.
I luv you all for that!
xoxoxo

[reese]

Hey everyone!
I read some of the past posts.....and in support with my hotwife, WE are FINE!
I would not ever allow our mind games to damage our relationship. WE have been tested many times over the past year, and it seems that when her lover really turns up the heat, our marriage grows stronger as we tend to find each other again! The intensity of love, sex and trust grow stronger!

As for Michael, I can not deny, I am jealous of him!
He has all the connections............the great looks(even though I can hold my own with him)and the attention of my wife!
There are times that she and I are together and he will text her...telling her how much he craves her...or how he wants to make love to her.
I must admit, when that happens, she will ask me if it is ok that she replies back!
My cock grows knowing that I have to compete for her attention at this point!
I know that my wife is capable of sorting out her feelings for Michael...........and that I am the rock in her life!

The bottom line.......as she replied earlier; WHY would she walk away from a great marriage..."where she can have her cake and eat it too"!

I think some forget that I possess a personality of confidence..........she knows that if she left me.....even though I would be so damn hurt.....that I would have no problem finding a hottie such as L..........to fill the void in my life!

But in the end.................LOVE.............our LOVE...............can not be destroyed!

[RGB49FL]

Reese, such a hot relationship. Enjoy it all. Have fun and enjoy the hot sex.

[aemn411]

Aemn411 and EU,
I have no hidden unhappiness or displeasure with my marriage.


Thanks again boys for your concern.
I luv you all for that!
xoxoxo

I think we all know you have a great marriage, without any unhappiness or displeasure, but what appeared to be happining was that Michael was making you a "better offer" and you were thinking with the "small" head rather than the "large" head to use a male metaphor.

Your post above eases my concerns, but I am very intrigued as to whether Michael made a play for you last night (i.e. asked you to consider leaving your husband or even proposed marriage at some point). Its clear from your earlier posts that he is thinking about it. While one of the hottest ego trips for an unmarried man is to show up at events with friends and business associates, with a totally hot married woman that everyone knows is cheating on her husband, and to be with him at his beck and call to have wild sex with him anytime he wants. It sounded like he may be moving past that to actually wanting to possess you.

My question is (and i hope you can share this with us) did he make a play for you and how did you answer that?

Is he jealous that you go home and fuck your husband? He must know he is sharing you with your husband - right? What have you promised him about your relationship with your husband regards how much sex Michael gets vs your husband? Would Michael be happy just having an ongoing love affair with you while you are living with your husband and not with him?

I have a question for Mr. Reese also. In a prior post he admitted he is 3rd out of three in your sexual availability to him and he sounded quite NEEDY sexually of your favors. Does he like feeling needy and do you like him feeling needy and accepting your "crumbs" so to speak. It seems like this is taking his manliness away from him too much in your eyes. Would you care to comment on this? Does the prospect of him being able to fuck dozens of women like "L" neutralize this if you were full time with Michael and you were to permit it?

I must say I am fascinated by your story, however there are big gaps in my understanding how your relationship with Michael and your husband is really working and what is really being said and how close to the edge you are with him. I am curious because I have often fantisized about what it would be like if my wife decided to consciously have an full blown romantic affair with a lover where she is saying the kinds of things that you have about your relationship with Michael. Mr. Reese and i appear to have identical personalities and fantasies, except you and your husband are fast becoming Phds and my wife and I are grade schoolers lol.

[Irwinhill]

The possibility of a marriage exploding is exciting. It's the stuff of drama. A famous example is Tolstoy' masterpiece ANNA KARENINA.

But in the Reese story, Mrs. Reese provides two clues that guarantee her marriage is in no danger.

First, Mrs. Reese tells us directly that she is Mr. Reese's slave. This means that Mr. Reese holds the real power in their marriage. He controls her. She is there to serve him. It's all about Mr. Reese and his fantasy. Michael is merely a prop in the drama. He might be fun to have sex with Ihe's "Yummy") and in his separate life he might be a powerful person. But in this context--in the Reeses' story--Michael has no power. Thus, he represents no threat to the Reeses' marriage.

Second, Mrs. Reese tells us that her relationship with Michael is based entirely on a lie ("he still believes that I am a cheating wife who has a hubby in my life that has no time for me"). As many people on this Forum have pointed out, a relationship built on lies and deception--a relationship where there is no trust-- cannot last. Mrs. Reese reserves her honesty and trust for Mr. Reese. Hence, in this story, her marriage must endure.

[mrs_reese]

Irwinhill,

Thank-you, I could not have said it any better!You have read between the lines masterfully!

Over the past 6 months, my husband and I have been experimenting with something that has not been discussed in our thread; I am his slave!

I love the feeling of giving myself completely my husband: mind, body and soul.

It's a trade off for the price of my independence.
This was all my idea.
Since he has granted me complete freedom as my own individual, I wanted to give him something back for that gift of freedom.

I am his slave and I choose to be his possession.
I too balance between complete freedom and giving my life to a man completely.
I enjoy the intensity of both personality traits!

I fulfill my husbands fantasies; not by my choosing but b/c I am his slave. He OWNS my heart!
When I am away from my hubby, I am no longer his slave. I choose how to live my life as his independent wife/ especially when I am with a lover.

Thank-you Irwinhill, you are such an intelligent man.



Aemn411,

In regards to this past weekend:

Michael told me that he wants me to leave my husband and live with him.
He has fallen in love with me.
My husband and I discussed this yesterday and we have made a decision in regards to Michael.
I will continue to play the cheating wife and I will attempt to help Michael understand that this is all Michael can have from ME!

If Michael becomes too pushy or can not live with this arrangement, I will not see him anymore!
I love being with him/ FUN!
I love the sex with Michael/ very sexy, very tastey!
I love the intrigue as the cheating wife.
I love knowing that my husband really has no clue as to what actually happens when I am with Michael.
I may be my hubbys hotwife, but I am the one in control when I am with Michael.
I like the denial with my husband, knowing that I am driving my hubby wild with passion when I tell him that I am saving myself for michael tonight!

It is fun for us, not sure how much longer it may last with Michael!