MrsTruckstar wrote:
I am a Psychologist, this is what I do for a living, so yes I got that from your post, singular. When you put it all together it does shout do this for me. However, she will get her confidence back and things will improve, however she has a lot to cope with right now and throw a whole heap of menopause in for good measure, tough times indeed.
My friend, I am not disrespecting you, you asked a question, I answered it. Your response led be to think, I should point out some stuff, I have. Doesn't mean you don't love her or shower her with praise and gifts, mentally, she is more than likely at the toughest time of her life, soon she will change and emerge as a beautiful butterfly, strong and resilient again. Give her some time.
lots of love
T
Psychologist? Great. I've been wanting to ask this question of someone who actually has some education in this field. A couple of weeks ago I got it into my head that sharing my girlfriend would be fun for both of us. I'm very sexually experienced and she isn't (massive age gap). Sometimes I feel that she got a little cheated out of 'sowing her wild oats' because I came along relatively early in her life. I, on the other hand, worked in the club scene for 13 years so I had many opportunities to engage in sex with a lot of women.
There's nothing I like better than being there helping my lady get off or seeing her get off by herself. When I mentioned the three way thing she found it 'interesting' and our sex was the most mutually intense it has been for the last two years that week before she cycled down right before her monthly vistor.
As far as her pursing it that's up to her. I am not the jealous type and we even discussed our 'rules' for if it ever happened. I want to be there, condoms mandatory, etc (this was mutual by the way).
My questions are these 1) Why would I want another guy to bang my future wife? I do and the thought excites me but it goes against every moral code I was raised with which brings me to 2) Do you think the Judao Christian teachings that pervade our day to day lives cause us to feel unnecessary guilt for having fantasies or acting on them that harm no one? 3) I can't find anything to base this on other than personal experience but I know women have cycles where they're more active than men and I find that I have a monthly cycle as well. For a couple of weeks I'll be all for anything then I'll cycle down and sex is the last thing on my mind. Sometimes it's a drag because our cycles aren't in synch and, while I can perform, that's really all it is. I'm a human dildo. Do you know anything about that?