Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[BallSpanking]

There seems to a common agreement that, if you can, you should move-on.
I can't say I disagree with that sentiment, but would add that, however it is you feel about Michael, consider whether what you know of him convinces you to open-up to him again. Is that something Mr Reese can deal with..., and still be happy.

Is this Ms reese probing the bounds of being a hot wife, or is it just an indulgence?

Something tells me M doesn't know the rules of the game, or won't play by them, and that makes him uncontrollable, even risky. If she should choose to show him some consideration, it should be with strict conditions attached, and at Ms Reese's choosing, naturally. Ms Reese would have to call the shots on when, how, or IF she is going to be sweet to him.

Still, it would make me uncomfortable just knowing that I mistrust his intentions.

[BallSpanking]

PS-

Gym rat sounds great, Ms Reese!

[mrs_reese]

HI again,
Michael is not on my radar right now.
I have found the strength to let him go.
Hubby and I have talked a lot this week, and I sense his anger/frustration/jealousy issues with my affair with michael is more out of control than ever before.
I think that THIS was that ONE time that I finally bent all the rules of our games.
I realize that I truly DID it/ I created a situation so overwhelming that I brought my hubby down to his knees and had him begging for mercy!
THAT is what he has been asking for for the past year, RIGHT???
WE are going to cool off/right now/just hubby and I having good sex.
Last night, we did something different, I used my vibrator and I orgasmed 8 times as hubby licked by butt/and cleaned up my pussy. Of course, he had my feet in his face too/ he loves THAT too much.
But it was a time to do different things. I havent used a vibrator much over the past year. I forgot how easy it is to get off using one of those man made machines.
Anyway, that is all for now.
Just wanted to update everyone.
NO gym boy yet, I saw him today/ and we just talked about everything but nothing in particular. HE shows off so much around me/ i kind of miss that innocence.
One thing that he always does is ask me to lunch/and he always says just as friends.
IF he only knew how dangerous I can be!
I might play more with him next week, but right now, i like having NO ONE in my life other than hubby.
xoxoxo

[voyeur]

Mrs R-is it too soon to jump into something with another man? Maybe you should take a total break from the HW scene for a while. The gym rat will be there in a month or two. Good luck to the both of you

[RGB49FL]

8 TIMES!!!! WOW. Or is that a standard for women here on OHW. Probably wore that damn thing out completely. Even when you do something "innocent", it is still super hot.

[aemn611]

Mrs R-is it too soon to jump into something with another man? Maybe you should take a total break from the HW scene for a while. The gym rat will be there in a month or two. Good luck to the both of you

What he said - I'll explain in a PM in a bit

[reese]

I know it may be hard to believe but my HW did have 8 orgasms. I know....I had my face next to her...licking her clean after each orgasm. I was jealous....I have never gotten my wife off 8 times in less than 30 minutes. WOW!
We are doing fine right now. Just getting back to basics.....having home cooked dinners.....spending time with the children.
She is going to pursue the gym boy soon.

But to elaborate on some advice received by a few of our friends...........We both have discussed taking a mini break for intense relationships. It might be fun to watch her in action again....watch her act slutty.....she wants to play a cheating wife...but if its with the gym boy.......no problems....she is sure that HE is all about sex only......and she wants to play naughty and BAD without all the intensity of a man like Michael who became obsessed with her.

NOT much more to write about........sorry............We have been boring lately.

L is calling my wife.........wanting to hang out with her.
My wife told me that maybe this weekend....she might want to play with L...and have me clean them both up as long as I promise not to have sex with L!!

LOL!

[mrs_reese]

I am getting stronger with each passing day, but i still miss sex with michael.
My husband has told me that We should take a break until I recover somewhat and this is killing me.
But I do understand that he doesnt want to feel like he is my 2nd choice.
This makes me realize HOW badly Michael affected our lives.
I played the game and as good as i thought I was, I gave in to my emotional feelings.
Sex with my toys is nice, and yes, getting off 8 times was wild, but it doesnt replace a man and his wonderful cock.
I welcomed the break from sex with all men, and I am missing it a lot.
My hubby and I are spending all day saturday alone, and I am eager to get back to where I was before all this hotwife stuff happened.
Once WE are back. I want to play. I miss the adventure, attention, newness of a hot man and most importantly; i miss how much I turned my hubby on.

I just wanted to let go of my thoughts right now.
xoxoxo

[voyeur]

Just my .02 worth-I think a break is a great idea. Once emotions are involved, it changes the game. Sex with another person outside your marriage is exciting, thrilling, etc. But once those emotions creep in, it's time to say good bye to the other person & do what your're doing now-re-connect with each other. It may get boring for a while, but I have a feeling that you'll be back to the Mrs. R we all know very shortly. Good luck

[BallSpanking]

Do what you feel is right for yourselves at this time (and always!), it is important you preserve intimacy betweeen yourselves, in order to have the trust sufficient to allow so great a freedom.
As you can see, sex will involve emotions whether we will it or not, particularly for the woman, for whom the entire experience of having a man intruding in her deepest, most private place..., that is a bit 'intrusive' at the very least. A woman has to be in a very vulnerable, trusting place to allow herself to willingly partake of such an experience with another man.

Ms Reese is trying to play by the rules as best she can fashion them to suit her marriage and herself, but 'the game' itself, the seduction, the desire she provokes in others..., these are fruits she now craves after having her taste of it...

We love you and support you and encourage you to be well with Mr Reese. You two are much admired on this board!

[reese]

Saturday...........wife and i are going to out for the night.....3 times this week...god i missed her.
A BIG TIME THANK-YOU....to our readers....all of your comments are read and appreciated.
NO doubt a lot of you have carried us through this rough period that we have been through lately.
Ballspanking......oneday......voyeur......aemn.....likesharing..........rgb............sedv..........sunlover...nudeinnola.......
YOU all are the true heros to US............there may be others that I have missed mentioning...if I have...sorry...but the last posts from you guys are very thoughtful and genuine.
Again............thank-you friends!

SHE WILL BE BACK......guaranteed!

[mrs_reese]

WE ARE getting better. We have spent a lot of time together lately and We both are looking forward to my next encounter.
I just wanted to update everyone. Today, i am going to the gym with the thought of finally letting this hottie hit on me and maybe take him up on his offer of a drink. Both hubby and I want to play the cheating wife role again. This time, I WILL NOT allow anyone to get too close to me.

Michael has continued to leave me text messages, HE understands my rejection. I figured that I would just ignore him. I have asked hubby to leave it alone. HE wants to interject and stop all this harrassment from Michael. THE thing is that he isnt harrassing me just yet. Just being the man that swept me off my feet! I am more aware of him now and I will not allow him to manipulate me again.
NO more Michael.

Its 3pm, I will be off the the gym in an hour. HE gets there around 4. I cant wait to start hotwifing again.
I miss the attention.

I wanted to post a pic of me. Ck it out.
Hope you all like it!
xoxoxo

[mrs_reese]

So yesteday i finally was bold enough to talk to Derrick about his offer of a drink.
We met a quiet bar in our workout outfits/nothing special/just talking and drinking.
WE only talked about basic things.
WE spent about an hour together/exchanged numbers and promised to meet today.
HE is very interested in my/ he was almost shocked that I took him up on his offer of drinks.
Again, we didnt discuss anything other than normal stuff.

He texted me a few minutes ago and asked me if I will be there at 4.
I told him that I cant wait to see him.

I am excited to do this!

[RGB49FL]

The teasing continues... keep us posted, Mrs R. Drive the poor boy crazy.

[voyeur]

Mrs. R-how is your hubby handling this? He hasn't posted in a few days.

[reese]

I am good. I miss my wife just acting slutty.....i miss men wanting to fuck her....i miss her being eager to find new men...I just dont want her ever finding a guy like Michael again.
I also miss licking her freshly fucked pussy. lol!

[voyeur]

Good to hear from you Reese.

[Sunlover]

Glad to see your back Reese. Be sure to keep us updated on your thoughts about this new gym rat. Tell the misses, she's got a cute rear view....OH, and a nice haircut...lol. Take care Bro.

[mrs_reese]

Sunlover and Voyeur, I am happy to see that you were more worried about my hubby! LOL!

Yesterday I met with Derrick at our gym. As I was driving to the gym I thought about how I met a wonderful college boy I was wondering if Derrick would provide a similar experience.

He was more receptive to me yesterday. Hanging around me as I worked out.
He looked great. Blonde hair, 24 yr old, muscular, large biceps. Yummy!

We both left to have a few drinks again. We spent about an hour together. Talk and Flirting!
As we left, he hugged me and told me how much fun he has with me.
He told me that he was excited about meeting me again today.

He is so funny.
I know that he is hesitant b/c I am married.
It looks like I am going have to GIVE him some clues about a hotwife! LOL!
I just want everyone to know that I am taking small steps. I am not rushing this!

It is enjoyable for me to have this innocence as a hotwife again.

My hubby is excited about my pace.
He and I are good again.

xoxoxo

[aemn611]

You gotta love these Reeses. Mr. R is a stallion considering what he just went through but knows Mrs R needs gym boy to help her move on. And Mrs R to want to get back in the saddle so quickly is amazing - you are simply the best HW a hubby could ask for.

[voyeur]

Never a dull moment with the Reeses'. Be easy on the poor young lad Mrs. R.

[wifeishot]

It's been days without my Reese fix. Where are are you guys? We miss you!!!!

[reese]

Good Morning,

An update on my hotwife.
She met up with Derrick on Thursday to workout and share a few drinks.
She texted me a few times to keep me informed.
I was nervous.........just b/c it is starting again!

I personally went through a lot with Michael.......as much as i wanted to beat the shit out of him.......I also knew that if I DID that without my wife wanting me to do that........I would have messed with the whole hotwife dynamics of our marriage!
SO I waited...........I must say that there are a few situations that WE didnt post about Michael.
Let me just say for the record that HE is out of her life...and will never be back!
Back to Derrick and my hotwife.
She is into the cheating wife....so we will role play again with this scenario!
After drinks on Thursday, Derrick asked my wife if they could meet for drinks this weekend.
She played along with ...............not sure, I have to make sure my husband will be pre-occupied!
He told her to take no chances.
I like what is happening here....not a michael situation....just fun and possible sex!

She told Derrick........that she just wants fun!

They met Saturday night.
I sat home watching her child.....talk about true cuckolding....she was on a date and i was home feeling all those familiar feelings of hotwife play!
She came home around 230am...after bar closing.
She told me that he told her how sexy and gorgeous she was.
He also told her that he has never been with a married woman before and that she was the hottest woman he has ever laid eyes on!

They kissed for a while in the parking lot.
My wife told me that he had her pressed up against her car....and stuck his hands up her coat and felt her breasts.
She could feel his young hard on pressed against her.
That was all for the night.
My wife came home and WE had hotwife sex for the first time in a while.
All those mixed emotions were coming back to me.
I felt all the pangs of jealousy..........toward the end of my wife's relationship with Michael...I supressed those feelings...I tried to NOT think about what was happening...i knew that HE was in love with her...i knew that she was infactuated by Michael............b/c of his so called prestige....his body...BUT I also knew that I had to be patient....and hope that OUR LOVE was stronger that HIM............I knew that I had to trust HER..............and TO have faith in her!

[voyeur]

Glad to hear from you again Reese. Also, glad to hear Michael is out of your life. How did you feel knowing Saturday was Valentines Day?

[reese]

Voyeur........NOT a big deal...we celebrated friday....I had a lot of work to finish up..so we both compromised...and celebrated with a lot of sex on friday night and saturday morning...to be honest...it was nice being alone...and getting my things done.
But I want to re-iterate....I was feeling very jealous....and left out on Saturday night.
Not sure why I can not ever get over the hump...but I get so crazy jealous...it used to be such a rush..but lately it is becoming very bothersome.
I dont know how to get back to the way I used to be!