Grynch wrote:Ladies,
I would like your help here, and would love your advice on this.
My GF, now Fiancee and I have talked about Hotwifing, and she still says she isn't interested, but stops short of saying she would not at some point want to take advantage of this type of relationship.
Would the absence of sex (intercourse) between her and I contribute, or, be a contributing factor for her to want to pursue seeing/dating another guy?
Thanks in advance!
G
Couples change when they are in relationships. Many of these changes are hopefully considered improvements; however, some women feel that they have become so "wrapped up" in this one person, in her case that is you and she is so determined to make her relationship work and succeed like it is "supposed" to or "meant to" as directed by our social behaviours and learnt standards. We get deep and are not able to work out that they have or we are unsure if our relationship has become more of a habit and something to fix, rather than an equal partnership with an equally invested partner.
So when the man withdraws sexually, she will invariably think, often in this order
1. He is seeing somebody else.
2. Have I become unattractive to him.
3. He told me about the HotWife thing, ahh an excuse for him to see other people.
4. He thinks I am fat
5. He is depressed - is it something I have done? Is it work?
6. He is going to leave me.
There are ten but you get the deal, she will blame it on a change... You have provided that’significant’ change.
Under normal circumstance; i would leave it there. However your signature would be a worry to me.
I was:
1. Straight -
Does she know the ‘was’ part of this
2. Then Bi
3. Now Gay
But that hasn't stopped me from having awesome sex with Hot women!
Can you blame me!??
Does she know that you are fucking other people behind her back, I got from another thread that you had oral sex with another man the other day, if this is so and she does not know, then my learned HW mrs_hotwifecplsa above has the answer. You are not honest with each other and it is time you were. Tell her the truth, the whole truth and see if she is still here in the morning. My feeling is your relationship is toast before it really gets going. Just my opinion. X