Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[nudeinnola]

Alright boys and girls... everyone behave!

No one knows anyone here, and everyone just has the best intent... sometimes that can be a bad combination. Feelings, emotions and conclusions can be thrown around very easily, but please, no one take it to heart.

Sometimes we agree with a person, sometimes we do not. Sometimes the person is wrong about who we are, and that is fair to say since all we see of people is internet persona. We should however always be careful, and helpful.

With all this gay and straight talk flying around... seriously, life is a shade of gray in between and there is nothing wrong with that.

I just always hope for the best for Mr. & Mrs. Reese, but always request safety first. Personally, I am hoping that Mr. Reese is getting that diamond ring ready, because as much of a turn on the cuck play is, I like Mr. to be the one pounding Mrs. Reese.

My gf and I play with this lifestyle, and as silly as it sounds, relationship jumping is not that easy, if anyone else but me can control her... hahaha, good luck to them. I am sure Mr. and Mrs. Reese have the same relationship.

But I do understand where SeaCuck comes from, and all we can request is caution, because me getting my "nut on" over some simple hotwife/cuck play is not worth anyone losing a relationship. I'd rather not log onto the forum if I see that it may cause someones relationship some harm. I am sure that is the intent SeaCuck has, but as for anyone being gay... like I said, life is too many shades in between, and being gay has nothing to do with Mr. Reese being submissive to his wife. If anything, it is a submission, to allow such powerful control that she has over him that he defies his "natural" state. It does not mean he enjoys it, it means he enjoys the submission to her. Trust me I know the feeling of that submission

So there, now everyone calm down, take a deep breath........ now exhale.... and now start typing.

[reese]

Hey everyone!
Nudeinnola...you hit the jackpot with your post.
I want to thank everyone for their concern and thoughts.
ONE thing I want to clarify is this............MY WIFE truthfully is the submissive one. I love pushing her to the point of her acting out on a fantasy that she would normally NEVER DO!
She calls herself my slave! Do you realize how overwhelming to know that your wife truly feels that way?
I dont own her or degrade her. I dont control her. BUT MENTALLY...WE BOTH HAVE SUCH A STANGLE HOLD ON EACH OTHER.
What is sex to you?
Our belief is that is it a combination of an intense form of a mental and physical euphoria!
Pushing our buttonsi is what we are into right now.
It starts with the mental image of an act or a situation...then it leads to the actual event...and then the final act.....EXPERIENCING AN ORGASM FROM OUR CHALLENGES!

Do you really think that I am a submissive to my wife?
Its all about he orgasm and the rush of denial.
I have no problem acting in a submissive manner to my wife in order to continue the feelings that I experience as she and I fulfill my fantasies!
But you all have no idea how aggressive and manly I am when I reclaim my wife!!

[lukkydog]

Seagirtcuck......Wow! Having a bad day? I have never known you to trash someone as you did.

Remember the old line: "If you can't say something nice...."

What the Reese's are doing is their business...critical comments shared in a respectful fashion are fine and even encouraged by the Reese's. Nasty, derogatory comments are not wanted in this forum. Again, I am surprised by your outburst. It doesn't fit the image I had of you.

Mr. and Mrs. Reese: Thanks for the postings....I get what you're doing as do many of us on this forum...have fun and be careful.

[SeaGirtCuck]

What the Reese's are doing is their business...critical comments shared in a respectful fashion are fine and even encouraged by the Reese's. Nasty, derogatory comments are not wanted in this forum. Again, I am surprised by your outburst. It doesn't fit the image I had of you.

What did I say that was untrue?
What was disrespectful?

The man himself wrote;

I want to thank everyone for their concern and thoughts.
BUT MENTALLY...WE BOTH HAVE SUCH A STANGLE HOLD ON EACH OTHER.

The stranglehold, comment is at the core of why I said what I said.

The word stranglehold means:
A force or influence that chokes or suppresses freedom of movement or expression.

The guys wife is talking about moving in with another guy and having her and this other guy start calling the shots in his life.
Now that is a stranglehold.

I don't know about you lukkydog but that sure sounds to me like an eventual trip to hell.
As to choke and suppress any natural freedom causes damage in the long haul.

All I was trying to say is Mr Reese watch out you may experience extreme turbulence ahead.

Maybe I was a little to blunt and if I was, I express sorrow for any hurt I may have caused and offer a heartfelt apology as no hurt was intended.

In the end it's their life and their consequences, not any of ours, as we have our own lives and consequences to live out.

[lukkydog]

SGC,
While I don't agree with the way you said it, I do appreciate your sentiments and your concern. I have read much of what you write and you're obviously quite intelligent and very helpful to many here on this forum. I attribute the misunderstanding to the net and it's shortcomings.

I, too, have concerns about this next turn of events vis a vis Robert. It will be interesting to see how it turns out. I wish them the best.

Be careful, Mr and Mrs Reese, what you ask for....

[reese]

SCG...........thanks for your input.
If only WE could really see the truth in our words.
No one in this forum really understands the real ME!
Correct?
In my postings and my wife's; everyone may gain a sense of the event or the fantasy...but in real life...believe me...we do not post everything that happens. WE both have said many many times that our postings are also a form of 'foreplay'!
Some of the ideas are carried out and some of the ideas are not! Truth is always expressed...but again...some of the words are meant for the "mind games" that we like to play on each other!
Luckydog....a brief thank-you for your support too.

When I wrote about the stranglehold grip.....I was thinking about my OWN intrepretation of Terrible TED NUGGENTS song!
The words...the lyrics....music....the movement of his guitar playing as he utters the words......
THATS IS HOW I FEEL ABOUT ALL OF THIS....
But I can attest to the fact that my wife and I live a near normal life. WE interact with family...we go out with friends...we entertain friends at our home...we attend church services at times....we join in fundraisers....I coach my son in sports ..... my wife attends games.....we have baptisms...birthday parties.....................etc!
WE make love....we kiss....we shower together...we flirt....we rub each others neck or shoulders...i would lay down my life to protect my wife......
SO...without question....SCG and everyone else reading this thread....MY WIFE and I DO not intend to destroy our most precious investment....OUR MARRIAGE!

[BallSpanking]

I only just now read the latest Reeses posts, and was left a bit apprehensive.
Not reproving, but concerned.
I understand that we are mostly strangers, but there is a definite camaraderie and affection that develops from rapport with fellow travelers, and if I can summarize the view of those concerned, it seems to be that there is a great worry that the extreme limits of your HotWife play could imperil your marriage, and that sets off alarm bells all over the place.
I think no one on this board wants to see either of you get into trouble, and their concern is that this is a highly risky endeavor.
Yes, of course you are adults, and are in charge of your own lives, we just don't want to see you hurt.

[reese]

Continuing from my last post...for some reason...after writing to a certain point in this forum..the computer screen jumps all over the place so I have to stop!

I appreciate everyones concerns about playing with fire and risking our marriage on a man taking my wife away. SCG...writing about her basically being out of my life when she leaves me to live with another man is correct....
AM I AN IDIOT?? I WOULDVE WROTE THE SAME THING. I didnt appreciated the gay overtones about cock sucking..and thanks (wife) for defending me. But my wife and I discussed the risk involved with our new adventure.
But that is all that this is...an adventure!
One of our rules is that my wife's lover sign a contract(not yet completed) that states that SHE WILL be his possession and any act of sex must be in complete compliance with my wife. BUT at any time my wife or myself has the right to TERMINATE our contract! Her lover too will be able to end his contractual obligations and ONCE a termination of contract occurs by any party....IT WILL BE OVER....my wife will be back with me....fulltime!
The contract will be spelled out later to all of our readers...but i will be allowed limited access to my wife..WITH STIPULATIONS. My wife and I have had a lot of fun making the contract and sharing with each other our ideas, goals and fantasies with this NEW encounter. SHE will be in OUR home at times during the WEEK....spending the night during the week in our home.....BUT AGAIN...there will be rules to follow for me.....PER MY AGREEMENT...IF ANY OF THE RULES ARE BROKEN...LOVER AND MY WIFE WILL DECIDE THE COURSE OF ACTION AGAINST ME...THINGS LIKE NO CARE PACKAGE...NO ORAL SEX FROM HER...DENIAL OF HER SEXY FEET FOR A WEEK...STUFF LIKE THAT....

AT any time I can call it quits....and lose the bet....or she can call it a DAY...and lose the bet.
Breaking rules does not mean the game is over.
My wife informed me at that there IS NO WAY that i will b able to keep my hands off her when she comes back to me during the week.........its things like that that is making our new encounter FUN!

What is the difference if MY WIFE is with her lover spending a few days like most hotwives do...or is pretending to move out and live with her lover....?

Its all a game guys! IF that lucky guy is Robert...believe me...HE will have a lot of stipulations spelled out in the contract!
Part of the fun for me is wondering if HE really thinks that HE will actually take her away from me!!
NO one ever has...and the more that they attempt to BE THE ONE...the more closer the bond b/w my wife and I becomes!!
That DOES IT FOR ME RIGHT THERE!!!!

[reese]

thank-you ballspanking...you are very correct...we all have developed a friendship in this forum.
thanks for being concerned...and to all our friends...thank-you.
i promise you that WE wont lose each other.
The contract will protect our feelings...and will give us an idea of what to expect.
Our final thought is this.............
as i posted before..what is the difference if a hotwife goes on a vacation with her lover...or is she spends a weekend with her lover like most do in this forum or WE play with fire and MAKE believe that SHE is really moving out!
Yes..we are adults and on a given night when SHE Is actually living with her lover...the reality of the MOMENT is that I lost her...and that i am that much closer to losing my marriage.....

but will i lose her?
WE both know that with this next challenge..WE wil come out ON TOP like we always do!!

AND Our love, trust and SEX will be even stronger!!

[SeaGirtCuck]

I appreciate everyones concerns about playing with fire and risking our marriage on a man taking my wife away. SCG...writing about her basically being out of my life when she leaves me to live with another man is correct....

What is the difference if MY WIFE is with her lover spending a few days like most hotwives do...or is pretending to move out and live with her lover....?

Its all a game guys! IF that lucky guy is Robert...believe me...HE will have a lot of stipulations spelled out in the contract!
Part of the fun for me is wondering if HE really thinks that HE will actually take her away from me!!

In my postings and my wife's; everyone may gain a sense of the event or the fantasy...but in real life...believe me...we do not post everything that happens. WE both have said many many times that our postings are also a form of 'foreplay'!

Some of the ideas are carried out and some of the ideas are not!
Truth is always expressed...but again...some of the words are meant for the "mind games" that we like to play on each other!

The reason for the gay and waitress remarks is I was really trying to get your attention because I thought you were about to do something totally insane.

The operative words here are, "it's all a game", "a few days" and "pretending" and that is a whole different ballgame.
I also agree with you Mr Reese that a hot wife going away for a few days for a vacation with a lover is no different than a hot wife playing house with a lover for a few days.
If you think about and I have it is the same thing with no difference, nothing.
Many couples here have done this very thing and many other fantasize about doing it.

On the other hand either a vacation or playing house for months at a time is also something completely different.
I would call that a trial separation that may or may not be the end of a relationship.

It is true that any man that fucks any of our wives could try to and or even take them away.
I myself don't put all that much time in thinking about as that is part of the risks of doing this stuff and if that ever happens to me it is because it was meant to be and if not it won't. Unless I am getting this wrong, you get a rush from thinking about the idea and your wife likes teasing you about the possibility.

I also was not aware that this thread was a combination of reality and fantasy mixed together, I viewed it as more of a diary.

I though you two were way off the deep end but after reading this last post I have changed my mind.

Sorry for rocking a boat that sounds like it's on a classic hot wife course with an extra dose of drama in the written form thrown in for the fun of it.

PS: Love your wife's body.
To bad I pissed her off, maybe I had a shot.
Wait a minute I'm 52, and probably old enough to be her father.
She won't fuck me on a bet.

Unless..........
If you guys ever get the sugar daddy fantasy itch, maybe then I'll have shot.
I would even be willing to let her call me, Uncle Sea Girt.

Have fun.

[mrs_reese]

i am good sea cuck girl/

but how about DADDY SEACUCK???

lol!

I want to put in my 2cents;

We are very serious about our play/ but mixing fantasy and reality in our threads/ if anyone were to read all of them/god knows that there are WAY too many/ you will find that WE play with each other at times....tempting the other.....whether is make believe or pretend...it is just playing with each others minds!

But i want to clarify/ we are very accurate with our endeavours.
We may say catchy things/ play erotic mind games/ but WE always act out our fantasies.

I will not ever completely move away.
Since this has become a serious topic adding clarity is important.
I will take over night bags./ I wont be gone for more than 2 days at a time.
I wont move out/ i wont move all my clothes in his closet/
but i will deny HIM/ I will temp and torment HIM/ and I will rock his world!
I will do all of this because my hubby is MY MAN and he is my rock and I am his slave!

TIme to get ready and meet my potential live in lover!
HE has no idea what he is getting himself into

[243]

Just a speculation that you both may be eventually heading for a poly relationship if you ever get settled down with one or two good men. Appears to me that you have both taken this to a fairly high voltage psychological melodrama - with occasional comedic overtones. Mr. R, kudos to you for being so out there on the edge - with separation, homoerotic moments and for Mrs. R, who is like a beautiful racehorse just finding her stride. What you have shown us is the ebb and flow of an experimental and extemporaneous erotic journey - or is it opera? It seems like you are both on very solid ground but you have deliberately introduced uncertainty as an obvious part of the mix. Despite your evident physical enthusiasm, you both seem to have a flair for emotional rollercoasters. I wish you both continued success, satisfaction, excitement and good health.

[northern32]

AT any time I can call it quits....and lose the bet....or she can call it a DAY...and lose the bet.

Reese:
As per the quote from you above, I was wondering at what point the "game" ends? OR is the only way it ends is when one of you looses?

[mrs_reese]

hi!

Northern, the game is over when either one of us wants to quit. Whoever calls it off is the loser. Its just a way of having fun. 243- very kind words/ thank-you. We do not want to have another man live with us! Probably never!

I met Robert last night. I told him that I am not an ordinary woman who wants to have an affair despite being in a marriage.
I told him all about my history as a hotwife. He was somewhat shocked that a woman could be so forward and free with her sexuality. He had no idea about the depth of LOVE that hubby and I share. He told me that he was rather envious.
I looked incredible last night. Robert like all men had a difficult time keeping his eyes off my breasts and legs.
NO touching though! I dont want him to think i was that easy. We discussed MY PROPOSAL.
I told him about the contract. WE both admitted that we feel the chemistry developing b/w us.
I told him that i wanted to date him a few times b/f we committed to my proposal.
Like any man, he was intrigued and wanted to move to the next step.
I told him that I had to discuss everything with my husband.
I asked him what price he would pay for me to take me away from my husband.
I told him that I was seeking the highest bidder to pay for me in terms of gifts/NOT MONEY!
And once a man pays for me with a gift/ he will have ownership over my body unless I SAY NO!
That hubby will lose rights to me once a contract is signed.
Robert told me how fascinating this proposal was.
He asked about the gifts/ I told him to use his imagination!
He askedif thegift would determine how he would have ownership over me.
I I told him YES!

[mrs_reese]

WE decided to meet for another date after he is finished at his office/around 6pm.
He told me to prove my loyality to him by dressing in a black dress without panties on.
He wanted the dress to be very revealing to my body.
We wanted me in fishnet stockings to prove my intent to capture him as my live in lover.
He asked that ONCE my decision is made that HE be allowed to be in charge.
He explained to me that our meeting was business and that whatever I wanted to discuss/ that i feel free to take the opportunity to make my point. He asked that once the contract is signed and he is offering me gifts as an appreciation of me being his possession/ that I give it 100%!
He thought that this would be a lot of fun for all of us!
I asked that he be patient and allow me to make the final decision about him within a few dates.
And of course after i discuss everything with my husband.
He realized that I would be living with my husband for part of the week too.
He realized that once we start this proposal/game that feelings may develop for each other.
Asking me what happens if I am his possession and HE doesnt want me to be intimate with husband!
Telling him that once I am his possession/ if he chooses for me to remain faithful/ gifts would have to be exchanged for me to honor that request! He smiled and told me HOW he understands OUR game! ANd that he knew exactly how to approach this now! HE realized that anyone can call the game over at anytime. Once that happens/ he has the right to take back any gift that I received from him if he chooses.

Thats all for now!

[zorro]

I agree with 243. This relationship is definitely testing the boundaries of what a relationship can take, without turning to the trauma of violence. It flirts with the fears that haunt all of us: abandonment, separation, loss of love, humiliation, unmanly/unwomanly behavior, and loss of control.

What a rush!

I appreciate Seagirt's alarmed attempts to warn you, Mr & Mrs Reese. Although he sounds like he's coming from a high and mighty place, perhaps, he ultimately seems to want to protect you from the risks you are delighting in. You are definitely on a thrillseeker's wet dream of a ride.

Frankly, your adventures turn me on. I'm glad I'm not in your shoes, but I admire your courage, risky as it may be.

[mrs_reese]

You know zorro/ when you speak WE listen. We believe that your insight and thoughts are helpful to us as well as very interesting. Again, SCG/ you care! Thanks for that! I didnt like your comments about hubby going to a gay bar(no offense to my gay friends) but again, who am I to judge you? xoxoxo

Zorro:
WE want to do this! The thrill of our physical sex is so wild for me and hubby/ it took some time but hubby finally has me craving the mental rush that he craves so much!

I hope Robert is that man that truly takes me away from my husband. Not like Michael did!
But having a contract will not create any confusion for any one of us. My husband and I will have the security of knowing that my live in lover will be temporary and my lover will not have a false sense of ownership over me!

[SeaGirtCuck]

i am good sea cuck girl/
but how about DADDY SEACUCK???
lol!

Then Daddy SeaCuck it shall be.
Let me know when the sugar daddy idea hits the top of your list.

I'll view myself as maybe your future potential sugar daddy.
Who knows, maybe I'll get lucky?

I shall keep a candle in the window.

[SeaGirtCuck]

I appreciate Seagirt's alarmed attempts to warn you, Mr & Mrs Reese. Although he sounds like he's coming from a high and mighty place, perhaps, he ultimately seems to want to protect you from the risks you are delighting in. You are definitely on a thrillseeker's wet dream of a ride.

Life is full of anomalies, and unintended consequences that cannot be forscene except in retrospect, and some can be very nasty.

I thought I was seeing some of those very nasty unintended consequences coming around the bend.

The way I see it is it would be unethical for me to watch somebody destroy themselves and remain silent.

I am happy that this is not the case here.

I hope they have fun with only minor bruising at worse.

[mrs_reese]

daddyseacuck/ so your hopeful that you and I should be together one day? Why not!!!!! age is just a number as they say unless your a kinky dirty old daddy!!

and if you are then move to the front of the line!!

[reese]

I have read a lot of the posts recently. It looks like Seagirtcuck is making a play with my wife! Hmmm...should i be jealous??? I have seen a picture of Robert. My wife took one with her phone yesterday. I DO have a lot to worry about...this guy is as handsome as my wife explains. One thing my wife didnt mention....when she is living with Robert(if HE is the one) I will not be allowed any contact with L her gorgeous female lover and my sometimes lover!
I find myself getting stronger without sex from my wife. Its a new experience for me. I havent been sexual with her for 4 days I believe. Shutting me OUT now is my weaning period I assume. I am nervous about fucking her after the GAME is over...I may die and go to sex heaven! I guarantee I will DO whatever is necessary to have her leave me a package for my masterbating. She promised me that....panties/bra/stockings/hi heeled shoes....
Why am I doing this? IT will be the ultimate form of DENIAL!

[SeaGirtCuck]

I have read a lot of the posts recently. It looks like Seagirtcuck is making a play with my wife! Hmmm...should i be jealous???

Sure be jealous I'll love it.
I bet she does also.

I promise to try to steal from you but only in a fantasy based way as she is really yours.

My goal will be to get her to go to sex heaven with me, in a sugar daddy type of way.
(Who in gods name knows what that is, I'll have to research the concept.)

I think I may start a new thread on how to be a really dirty old sugar daddy.

[BallSpanking]

Too bad...
Perhaps you should introduce L TO Michael, so she won't have to suffere the dry spell... LOL!

[mrs_reese]

u guys are too crazy!

robert called me today and told me that he really hopes that I choose him/ and that he has a few ideas for me to include in the contract.

he told me that he thought a lot about all of this and that it is very much an erotic proposition for him. he even has a good attorney that would legally draw up the papers to make me feel more comfortable!!

this is getting serious.

i told robert that it will help me make a decision if I can come to his office tomorrow afternoon and give him a prize.
robert told me that his cock was getting hard just thinking aboutmy naughty thoughts.

asking me what i had in mind/ i told him that i wanted to wear a sexy overcoat/ come in naked underneath/ show him how sexy i look and drop to my knees and suck him off with everyone around the office wondering??

Hmmmmm????

[RGB49FL]

Fantastic, Mrs R. You told him. I hope you get to deliver his prize, and get yours in return. That is super hot.