Carrie, being taken away on a boat / yacht could be potentially a cause for concern for Mike as you would be out of range for any assistance if it would be necessary.
Your write up and feedback on your condo time with Aaron was amazing, sufficient info to keep us all primed waiting for the rest to your recount - well done and thank you
Happy
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How does Mike feel about your ass having been taken? I know you said he's fine with it, but dang, is he turned on by it? Surprised that you did it? Like that someone else got that? Did Aaron cum in your ass and your pussy? Or ass twice? or....?
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Not egotistical at all. We understand what you were saying, Farmgirl is all of those things except submissive, so she wouldn't fit the bill and you do, so well. No need to not enjoy you status.willingtoo wrote:Just read what I wrote above and it sounds terribly egotistical. What I meant by "hard to find" is the combination of things: pretty feet, small, submissive, attractive etc. is hard to find according to Aaron.
Carrie
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What was the tag line from the original Aliens movie? "In space no one can hear you scream"?
Anchored miles from shore no one can hear YOU scream. Be careful what you wish for.
As he continues to push the envelope and your limits, you may find that he is taking you further than you ever imagined, or might be ready for.
Please play with a safe word and signal this time!!
Yet it seems his special talents perfectly scratch your submissive itch.
Having it scratched in the finest accommodations makes it even the more fun.
Also Aaron being an uber-rich man in the kink lifestyle, he is no doubt connected to a group of men much like him. My thought is that as this true dominant continues to train you to his needs and leads Mike along, what's to say that he won't eventually turn you into a submissive, sexual play thing for his kinky group?
Hasn't he already hinted at this?
Perhaps in the future he requests to take you out of state on his private jet to a lifestyle party of his kink minded friends and couples. A swing club?? An S&M club??
Have you ever heard of Snctm?? Look it up.
A man with Aaron's wealth and influence might very well belong. Like I said a flight in a private jet to LA, Manhattan, or London to play at this ultra exclusive sex club.... Hmmmmm.
Have you ever seen 'Eyes wide shut'?
One real question is what will you do if at the dock you see that the cruise will not include just you and Aaron? Or if you meet up with another boat while out to sail?
I don't mean to be all doom and gloom. I'm just hoping you and Mike have talked about what happens if Aaron does something else that was off the agreed to script.
As for me, your story is pushing many of my kink buttons. A sexy, hot, young wife entering the hotwife lifestyle with her husband at her side.
You've entered the kink world.
And now a powerful, dominant male is leading you further down the rabbit hole with no clear idea of where it might lead or end.
I'm enthralled, excited, insanely jealous, and my cock is so hard it could cut glass.
Thanks for sharing your story.
Continued good luck to you and Mike as you continue down this path.
I can't wait to read your next post.
Anchored miles from shore no one can hear YOU scream. Be careful what you wish for.
As he continues to push the envelope and your limits, you may find that he is taking you further than you ever imagined, or might be ready for.
Please play with a safe word and signal this time!!
Yet it seems his special talents perfectly scratch your submissive itch.
Having it scratched in the finest accommodations makes it even the more fun.
Also Aaron being an uber-rich man in the kink lifestyle, he is no doubt connected to a group of men much like him. My thought is that as this true dominant continues to train you to his needs and leads Mike along, what's to say that he won't eventually turn you into a submissive, sexual play thing for his kinky group?
Hasn't he already hinted at this?
Perhaps in the future he requests to take you out of state on his private jet to a lifestyle party of his kink minded friends and couples. A swing club?? An S&M club??
Have you ever heard of Snctm?? Look it up.
A man with Aaron's wealth and influence might very well belong. Like I said a flight in a private jet to LA, Manhattan, or London to play at this ultra exclusive sex club.... Hmmmmm.
Have you ever seen 'Eyes wide shut'?
One real question is what will you do if at the dock you see that the cruise will not include just you and Aaron? Or if you meet up with another boat while out to sail?
I don't mean to be all doom and gloom. I'm just hoping you and Mike have talked about what happens if Aaron does something else that was off the agreed to script.
As for me, your story is pushing many of my kink buttons. A sexy, hot, young wife entering the hotwife lifestyle with her husband at her side.
You've entered the kink world.
And now a powerful, dominant male is leading you further down the rabbit hole with no clear idea of where it might lead or end.
I'm enthralled, excited, insanely jealous, and my cock is so hard it could cut glass.
Thanks for sharing your story.
Continued good luck to you and Mike as you continue down this path.
I can't wait to read your next post.
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I'd be extra careful in trusting the rich especially if you are not a true member of their "elite club". They know how to be charming when they want something and they can be very vindictive when they don't get what they want. I'm sure he's done his due diligence about you. If there is trouble you could find yourselves at a disadvantage in more ways than one.
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Good Morning,
I received a lot of pm's since I posted last, most with concerns about my date with Aaron. Instead of answering each, which I try to do, I decided to address your concerns with everyone.
Mike and I talked a long while. He came home early and we talked. He called Aaron and they had a long conversation and I could hear it all on speaker phone.
The first concern was the time. He said one of the reasons he looks for intelligence is that he does like to spend time with women. He's had a hard time finding women that he'd be willing to spend significant time with and turn him on as much as I do. He prefers female companionship to most men although he does have male friends. He said he has no intention of making this a romance. He said he gets bored very easily and would not make a good romantic partner as he was not a good husband. He has two other Hot Wives like me near his other residences. It's mostly about sex for him but with a little quality time to make it more interesting. He said he could never be faithful to a woman and is really too self centered to be a permanent partner. He was super honest.
He would like to spend time with both of us sometime. He wants to take both Mike and me up in his plane for a tour of the South Florida coast. Maybe take pictures of our house from the plane.
He is an experienced navigator and has had one boat or another for many years and has sailed extended distances for weeks at a time.
He plans to take me up the coast past Lauderdale and then down towards Miami and the keys. Of course he wants sex, but we will spend most of the time cruising.
He said that he would not want to ruin things with us by doing something to scare us off. He just wants to be with me from time to time when he is in Florida. Apparently he's gone a lot.
Mike asked him about his comment on other men being involved with me. He meant that there are men he knows who are also into female feet and looking for the right type like me. Most are wealthy and one is black. He just wanted us to know that there would be lots of opportunities for more Hot Wife foot excitement for us if we chose.
He knows if he violated anything we agree to, it would or could ruin the entire arrangement. He explained the anal incident. He believed Mike said it was ok to push my limits and he knew Anal was one of them so he assumed it was ok and Mike agreed that he had given that impression.
Mike made the current limits with me. I even contributed my feelings directly to him. Anal is ok if he really wants it and the pain threshold could be explored with a safe word. He said it wasn't one of his favorite things to do. He said he is mostly focused on my feet and legs but much more. Things where he can see my feet while he is having me in different positions and watching how they react to pain/pleasure.
He said he would have a cater deliver whatever food I wanted before we left. he asked if I liked the pot and I said absolutely. He said it was perfect for sex even though he doesn't smoke it with women. He has a supplier that makes sure he gets the right stuff. He said on trips like this he doesn't drink or smoke pot for safety reasons, but he wants me to.
We did not commit 100% but most likely will. He is flying to Atlanta today for a board meeting for one of the companies he board member and will be back tomorrow and hoped for an answer then.
The money was also discussed. He gave me $1000 the other night and agreed to keep it if he insists. But we don't want money involved from here on and he agreed.
We'd like you guys to offer any questions or concerns you have to help us decide. This is where this board is of value to us and why we keep posting here.
I will be checking in today for any responses from you guys and posting when I can.
Carrie
I received a lot of pm's since I posted last, most with concerns about my date with Aaron. Instead of answering each, which I try to do, I decided to address your concerns with everyone.
Mike and I talked a long while. He came home early and we talked. He called Aaron and they had a long conversation and I could hear it all on speaker phone.
The first concern was the time. He said one of the reasons he looks for intelligence is that he does like to spend time with women. He's had a hard time finding women that he'd be willing to spend significant time with and turn him on as much as I do. He prefers female companionship to most men although he does have male friends. He said he has no intention of making this a romance. He said he gets bored very easily and would not make a good romantic partner as he was not a good husband. He has two other Hot Wives like me near his other residences. It's mostly about sex for him but with a little quality time to make it more interesting. He said he could never be faithful to a woman and is really too self centered to be a permanent partner. He was super honest.
He would like to spend time with both of us sometime. He wants to take both Mike and me up in his plane for a tour of the South Florida coast. Maybe take pictures of our house from the plane.
He is an experienced navigator and has had one boat or another for many years and has sailed extended distances for weeks at a time.
He plans to take me up the coast past Lauderdale and then down towards Miami and the keys. Of course he wants sex, but we will spend most of the time cruising.
He said that he would not want to ruin things with us by doing something to scare us off. He just wants to be with me from time to time when he is in Florida. Apparently he's gone a lot.
Mike asked him about his comment on other men being involved with me. He meant that there are men he knows who are also into female feet and looking for the right type like me. Most are wealthy and one is black. He just wanted us to know that there would be lots of opportunities for more Hot Wife foot excitement for us if we chose.
He knows if he violated anything we agree to, it would or could ruin the entire arrangement. He explained the anal incident. He believed Mike said it was ok to push my limits and he knew Anal was one of them so he assumed it was ok and Mike agreed that he had given that impression.
Mike made the current limits with me. I even contributed my feelings directly to him. Anal is ok if he really wants it and the pain threshold could be explored with a safe word. He said it wasn't one of his favorite things to do. He said he is mostly focused on my feet and legs but much more. Things where he can see my feet while he is having me in different positions and watching how they react to pain/pleasure.
He said he would have a cater deliver whatever food I wanted before we left. he asked if I liked the pot and I said absolutely. He said it was perfect for sex even though he doesn't smoke it with women. He has a supplier that makes sure he gets the right stuff. He said on trips like this he doesn't drink or smoke pot for safety reasons, but he wants me to.
We did not commit 100% but most likely will. He is flying to Atlanta today for a board meeting for one of the companies he board member and will be back tomorrow and hoped for an answer then.
The money was also discussed. He gave me $1000 the other night and agreed to keep it if he insists. But we don't want money involved from here on and he agreed.
We'd like you guys to offer any questions or concerns you have to help us decide. This is where this board is of value to us and why we keep posting here.
I will be checking in today for any responses from you guys and posting when I can.
Carrie
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Thank you for listening and not getting angry or upset by what could be seen as meddling in your affairs, and for replying so fully to many of your admirers concerns, now I don't know if Mike had the time or the inclination to go on this trip, but it would have gone a long way to judge whether you could be free of anxiety with the isolation of a sea trip.
I am reading your mind blowing thread again, as I didn't read the comments of the many who follow your adventures, this makes reading your journey all the more pleasurable.
Alex.
I am reading your mind blowing thread again, as I didn't read the comments of the many who follow your adventures, this makes reading your journey all the more pleasurable.
Alex.
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willingtoo
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We don't get upset with people' warnings or concerns. They give us important things to consider. I think some people are too cautious and we don't always agree. There is risk in just being a Hot Wife. The risk is part of what makes it so damned sexy. Without some risk, life is pretty boring IMO.solstice wrote:Thank you for listening and not getting angry or upset by what could be seen as meddling in your affairs, and for replying so fully to many of your admirers concerns, now I don't know if Mike had the time or the inclination to go on this trip, but it would have gone a long way to judge whether you could be free of anxiety with the isolation of a sea trip.
I am reading your mind blowing thread again, as I didn't read the comments of the many who follow your adventures, this makes reading your journey all the more pleasurable.
Alex.
I think Aaron just likes sex without attachments and prefers people into the Hot Wife Lifestyle. I also think he is a bit lonely and likes the company of certain women without the responsibilities and demands a serious relationship involves. He said having a husband or boyfriend involved helps with communication. Both of the other girls he is involved with have cuckold partners. One is a husband and the other is a boyfriend. He really has no reason to do anything to ruin this.
I like that he is interesting to talk to, but can become very aggressive and Alpha when sex starts. That's the part that turns me on so much. He definitely has a Sadistic side to his personality but can be very friendly as well.
Mike did not want to go on the cruise. He thinks I will be OK and he doesn't want the confinement of the yacht if he gets uncomfortable. He says althought he will be nervous and anxious, he's not as afraid as he was when I went to the condo.
Aaron wants me to go without nail polish on my toes if I think my natural nails look good. Sometimes when a girl always wears polish, her nails don't look great without polish. Mike has wanted me to go natural at times in the past.
Carrie
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Carrie thanks for the update and response.
I know I always try to remind myself that anything I think I know about your situation is provided through the lens you give us.
I think as readers we all need to occasionally remind ourselves of this.
We haven’t met Frank, haven’t closely vetted him, nor are we aware of everything that has been discussed, or the manner it has been presented. If you tried to do that, you’d be writing a book and that is time prohibitive and no fun. Plus it’s none of our business to know all of your business.
So you write the cliffs notes and summarize. I would too.
From the way your story reads there certainly seems to be reason to pause and examine carefully what you’re doing.
You and Mike are obviously doing that.
Have fun this weekend as you take more steps on your journey.
Thanks for taking the time to write and share.
I know I always try to remind myself that anything I think I know about your situation is provided through the lens you give us.
I think as readers we all need to occasionally remind ourselves of this.
We haven’t met Frank, haven’t closely vetted him, nor are we aware of everything that has been discussed, or the manner it has been presented. If you tried to do that, you’d be writing a book and that is time prohibitive and no fun. Plus it’s none of our business to know all of your business.
So you write the cliffs notes and summarize. I would too.
From the way your story reads there certainly seems to be reason to pause and examine carefully what you’re doing.
You and Mike are obviously doing that.
Have fun this weekend as you take more steps on your journey.
Thanks for taking the time to write and share.
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Carrie thanks for the update and response.
I know I always try to remind myself that anything I think I know about your situation is provided through the lens you give us.
I think as readers we all need to occasionally remind ourselves of this.
We haven’t met Frank, haven’t closely vetted him, nor are we aware of everything that has been discussed, or the manner it has been presented. If you tried to do that, you’d be writing a book and that is time prohibitive and no fun. Plus it’s none of our business to know all of your business.
So you write the cliffs notes and summarize. I would too.
From the way your story reads there certainly seems to be reason to pause and examine carefully what you’re doing.
You and Mike are obviously doing that.
Have fun this weekend as you take more steps on your journey.
Thanks for taking the time to write and share.
I know I always try to remind myself that anything I think I know about your situation is provided through the lens you give us.
I think as readers we all need to occasionally remind ourselves of this.
We haven’t met Frank, haven’t closely vetted him, nor are we aware of everything that has been discussed, or the manner it has been presented. If you tried to do that, you’d be writing a book and that is time prohibitive and no fun. Plus it’s none of our business to know all of your business.
So you write the cliffs notes and summarize. I would too.
From the way your story reads there certainly seems to be reason to pause and examine carefully what you’re doing.
You and Mike are obviously doing that.
Have fun this weekend as you take more steps on your journey.
Thanks for taking the time to write and share.
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stillcanhang57
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Here's some questions.
What about rich guys statement that during the time alone together, he owns you? You never stated how Mike actually feels about rich guy buying your ass virginity for 1000. O0. If its truly just sex then why 12 hrs.? You allowed this guy to take pictures or videos last time yet Mike only gets retelling of your date. Why and do you think it's smart to allow this dude to have pics? In your past adventures, you have shut off Mike for 2 or 3 days before your dates. Now your unable , due to soreness, to have reconnected sex with Mike a couple of days and your seeing sugar daddy twice in a week. Mike seems to be losing out more and more.
You have made the jump to paid escort rather quickly despite agreeing that there would no longer be cash involved. What is your boundary now? You frequently state how wealthy and the position of power and material holdings this guy has. Is this actually what turns you on and is behind you pushing boundaries such as anal and time of dates?
Mike will once again, even longer this time, be sitting a patiently waiting while you get to experience the whole " girlfriend" package with sugar daddy. Are you still completely against him also exploring an outside sexual relationship?
How's your father doing?
What about rich guys statement that during the time alone together, he owns you? You never stated how Mike actually feels about rich guy buying your ass virginity for 1000. O0. If its truly just sex then why 12 hrs.? You allowed this guy to take pictures or videos last time yet Mike only gets retelling of your date. Why and do you think it's smart to allow this dude to have pics? In your past adventures, you have shut off Mike for 2 or 3 days before your dates. Now your unable , due to soreness, to have reconnected sex with Mike a couple of days and your seeing sugar daddy twice in a week. Mike seems to be losing out more and more.
You have made the jump to paid escort rather quickly despite agreeing that there would no longer be cash involved. What is your boundary now? You frequently state how wealthy and the position of power and material holdings this guy has. Is this actually what turns you on and is behind you pushing boundaries such as anal and time of dates?
Mike will once again, even longer this time, be sitting a patiently waiting while you get to experience the whole " girlfriend" package with sugar daddy. Are you still completely against him also exploring an outside sexual relationship?
How's your father doing?
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Sir,stillcanhang57 wrote:Here's some questions.
What about rich guys statement that during the time alone together, he owns you? You never stated how Mike actually feels about rich guy buying your ass virginity for 1000. O0. If its truly just sex then why 12 hrs.? You allowed this guy to take pictures or videos last time yet Mike only gets retelling of your date. Why and do you think it's smart to allow this dude to have pics? In your past adventures, you have shut off Mike for 2 or 3 days before your dates. Now your unable , due to soreness, to have reconnected sex with Mike a couple of days and your seeing sugar daddy twice in a week. Mike seems to be losing out more and more.
You have made the jump to paid escort rather quickly despite agreeing that there would no longer be cash involved. What is your boundary now? You frequently state how wealthy and the position of power and material holdings this guy has. Is this actually what turns you on and is behind you pushing boundaries such as anal and time of dates?
Mike will once again, even longer this time, be sitting a patiently waiting while you get to experience the whole " girlfriend" package with sugar daddy. Are you still completely against him also exploring an outside sexual relationship?
How's your father doing?
Thank you for your concern. But quite frankly your posts are a downer and indicate that you read my posts looking for negatives.
Let me address one. You make it sound like I withhold sex from Mike before these dates. If you read carefully it is his idea and I agree. It raises the sexual tension for the date.
Another. Mike doesn't want to go on the boat. He says it's too confining if he gets uncomfortable.
Mike thinks it's sexy that the guy wants to feel like he owns me. Money is out, but being temporarily owned by an Alpha man is sexy to me as well.
With all due respect, I think your read my posts looking for negatives. Mike and I discuss EVERYTHING and I think you miss that completely.
Carrie
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Good Evening,
Mike and I left work early to go shopping for my bathing suit and shoes. You can search each by the following topics:
Bathing suit: "Ball and Chain Coral Bathing suit." The model's body is much like mine and Mike LOVES it. It's sexier than I usually buy.
Shoes: "Sperry women's Angelfish Metallic Boat shoe."
I'll bet some of you are surprised by the shoes. It is almost necessary to wear boat shoes on boats for safety reasons. Plus Mike says Aaron will love slowly removing them from my feet, like a tease. Also my feet will be soft and moist which drives foot men crazy.
I need a cover and new bag but will buy those tomorrow evening or Thursday.
Several guys enjoyed looking up my dress and shoes for the first date so here are the details for those guys.
Carrie
Mike and I left work early to go shopping for my bathing suit and shoes. You can search each by the following topics:
Bathing suit: "Ball and Chain Coral Bathing suit." The model's body is much like mine and Mike LOVES it. It's sexier than I usually buy.
Shoes: "Sperry women's Angelfish Metallic Boat shoe."
I'll bet some of you are surprised by the shoes. It is almost necessary to wear boat shoes on boats for safety reasons. Plus Mike says Aaron will love slowly removing them from my feet, like a tease. Also my feet will be soft and moist which drives foot men crazy.
I need a cover and new bag but will buy those tomorrow evening or Thursday.
Several guys enjoyed looking up my dress and shoes for the first date so here are the details for those guys.
Carrie
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stillcanhang57
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Thank you for your response. Your right that I do seem to find negitive red flags about your recent choices. Sorry but they are based ob our own personal experience, 4 years, and what I see as the rapid progression of your and Mike's choices.willingtoo wrote:Sir,stillcanhang57 wrote:Here's some questions.
What about rich guys statement that during the time alone together, he owns you? You never stated how Mike actually feels about rich guy buying your ass virginity for 1000. O0. If its truly just sex then why 12 hrs.? You allowed this guy to take pictures or videos last time yet Mike only gets retelling of your date. Why and do you think it's smart to allow this dude to have pics? In your past adventures, you have shut off Mike for 2 or 3 days before your dates. Now your unable , due to soreness, to have reconnected sex with Mike a couple of days and your seeing sugar daddy twice in a week. Mike seems to be losing out more and more.
You have made the jump to paid escort rather quickly despite agreeing that there would no longer be cash involved. What is your boundary now? You frequently state how wealthy and the position of power and material holdings this guy has. Is this actually what turns you on and is behind you pushing boundaries such as anal and time of dates?
Mike will once again, even longer this time, be sitting a patiently waiting while you get to experience the whole " girlfriend" package with sugar daddy. Are you still completely against him also exploring an outside sexual relationship?
How's your father doing?
Thank you for your concern. But quite frankly your posts are a downer and indicate that you read my posts looking for negatives.
Let me address one. You make it sound like I withhold sex from Mike before these dates. If you read carefully it is his idea and I agree. It raises the sexual tension for the date.
Another. Mike doesn't want to go on the boat. He says it's too confining if he gets uncomfortable.
Mike thinks it's sexy that the guy wants to feel like he owns me. Money is out, but being temporarily owned by an Alpha man is sexy to me as well.
With all due respect, I think your read my posts looking for negatives. Mike and I discuss EVERYTHING and I think you miss that completely.
Carrie
These are just my opinions and questions. I come here to not only learn but offer advice. I xo not come here for some voyeurism, masturbation.
Sorry if I offended.
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Several guys enjoyed looking up my dress
Oh Carrie! I would certainly enjoy looking up your dress, but will be content with the link you provided.
Really like your choice of the bathing suit, a sight to gladden my eye.
On that other, what i thought was a harsh comment about your trip, I liked your non confrontational reply.
Alex.
Oh Carrie! I would certainly enjoy looking up your dress, but will be content with the link you provided.
Really like your choice of the bathing suit, a sight to gladden my eye.
On that other, what i thought was a harsh comment about your trip, I liked your non confrontational reply.
Alex.
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Carrie you will look fantastic in that suit and your feet will give a sexiness to those shoes.
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Carrie,
Wow! All that was expected and you had your anal cherry popped as well ;-) your writing is clear and evocative of the great night you experienced Saturday.
Clearly Aaron gets an A for an erotic lover. While I prefer to give a lot more warm-up for anal, certainly I know women who get off more on going straight to penetration without much prep and who truly enjoy the power dynamic of penetration that starts painful only to give way to pleasure after (I like that sometimes myself, both vaginal and anal).
I can't give him as generous a grade as a top. "Nevermind your safeword" aren't words I love to hear (if you're going into a scene with the understanding that there are no safewords, that's another matter, I'm rare in being okay with that, still I'd want it negotiated). However my view isn't the one that matters and you got a hell of a ride
I confess I fear that if money is exchanged it enters into the calculus of consent. I have quite a few friends who've been pro-dommes and of course they think about that, however that almost always involves a (usually male) submissive paying a (usually female) dominant.
Farmgirl may not be right about anal in your case however that's been my experience for myself and most of my partners. I was my current partner's first for anal and it's something she loves. We've come close a couple of times to arranging her a DP however it's not yet come together. My favorite time ever receiving anal was with an absolutely wild lesbian woman we know at a sex party.
That's a hell of a bikini you've got yourself for your boat trip, I like pairing it with the super-preppy sperry boat shoes ;-). About your toenails, maybe just go with a base & topcoat? I agree if you're wearing polish most of the time, they're not going to look their best bare.
<3 <3 I see Key Largo is about 70 miles from Lauderdale, with 15 knt wind and swells 2-5' forecast, I'd not be thinking you're likely to make the full 28 knot cruise speed of Aaron's boat, then again, I don't know the weather patterns well down there, my sailing experience is mostly new england and some carribean. Still 2-4 hours cruising I'm sure will take you to plenty of fun and secluded places where Aaron can show you a good time either in a cabin or out on deck in the forecast thunderstorms.
Thanks for relating in so much detail both your erotic times and your communication guys you've been involved with and of course Mike. I'm clear that you're doing just fine and I always like to see a woman get the pleasures she wants.
Wow! All that was expected and you had your anal cherry popped as well ;-) your writing is clear and evocative of the great night you experienced Saturday.
Clearly Aaron gets an A for an erotic lover. While I prefer to give a lot more warm-up for anal, certainly I know women who get off more on going straight to penetration without much prep and who truly enjoy the power dynamic of penetration that starts painful only to give way to pleasure after (I like that sometimes myself, both vaginal and anal).
I can't give him as generous a grade as a top. "Nevermind your safeword" aren't words I love to hear (if you're going into a scene with the understanding that there are no safewords, that's another matter, I'm rare in being okay with that, still I'd want it negotiated). However my view isn't the one that matters and you got a hell of a ride
I confess I fear that if money is exchanged it enters into the calculus of consent. I have quite a few friends who've been pro-dommes and of course they think about that, however that almost always involves a (usually male) submissive paying a (usually female) dominant.
Farmgirl may not be right about anal in your case however that's been my experience for myself and most of my partners. I was my current partner's first for anal and it's something she loves. We've come close a couple of times to arranging her a DP however it's not yet come together. My favorite time ever receiving anal was with an absolutely wild lesbian woman we know at a sex party.
That's a hell of a bikini you've got yourself for your boat trip, I like pairing it with the super-preppy sperry boat shoes ;-). About your toenails, maybe just go with a base & topcoat? I agree if you're wearing polish most of the time, they're not going to look their best bare.
<3 <3 I see Key Largo is about 70 miles from Lauderdale, with 15 knt wind and swells 2-5' forecast, I'd not be thinking you're likely to make the full 28 knot cruise speed of Aaron's boat, then again, I don't know the weather patterns well down there, my sailing experience is mostly new england and some carribean. Still 2-4 hours cruising I'm sure will take you to plenty of fun and secluded places where Aaron can show you a good time either in a cabin or out on deck in the forecast thunderstorms.
Thanks for relating in so much detail both your erotic times and your communication guys you've been involved with and of course Mike. I'm clear that you're doing just fine and I always like to see a woman get the pleasures she wants.
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sadie
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You know Mr hang, I know women who have made the choice to be supported by a sugar daddy for real. That doesn't look even a little bit like what Carrie and Mike have described in this thread.stillcanhang57 wrote: [Mike will be] waiting while you get to experience the whole " girlfriend" package with sugar daddy. Are you still completely against him also exploring an outside sexual relationship?
How's your father doing?
As it happens a friend told me today that fucking a sugar daddy is how she's getting by. This isn't sexy or fantasy or fun, she describes it as work and clearly it makes her sad. Another friend who's stone lesbian has made the choice over the couple of decades I've known her to be supported by a series of men and that most of them have been with the understanding that she also sees women. The last one she married quite a few years ago and we don't see her around anymore. It makes me sad because I miss my friend, however she makes her choices in life just.like the rest of us.
Neither of these women has any material privilege, I don't believe either sees any viable options.
Carrie has flirted a couple of times with sex work and is doing it as a kinky option from middle or upper middle class income. Having a sugar daddy is more often about having a roof over your head and food to eat. There are many points along the way of my life that I've considered one or another form of sex work however I really don't have those looks. My partner worked as a stripper for a couple of years long ago and enjoyed it, however had strong boundaries about not ever accepting money for sex. She did go on a few vanilla dates with one customer, no sex ever came out of that, she simply liked his company.
How about you try walking a mile or two in a woman's pumps before you choose to willfully misconstrue her very clear narrative into a string of self-serving lectures on morality?
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willingtoo
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Good Morning,
Up early and having Rambling thoughts. I am not editing as carefully as I have in the past so please forgive if my writing is confusing. I spent a ton of time editing and not so much lately.
Aaron called and Mike confirmed our Date.
He asked about the need for a crew for a yacht the size of his. He said the only difficult part is docking but at his Yacht club he pulls up to the main dock and guys are there to take over. He may need me to throw a line to the attendees but that's it. They take it to the slip (individual dock) from there.
The weather looks iffy, but it always does in South Florida. He has no schedule and will play it as he goes as to how far we travel. He has every navigational device possible plus weather monitors and ship to shore communication. We won't be going more than a few miles off shore. Mostly up and down the coast. He knows of several safe and secluded bays he intends to anchor for "Activities" and we might stay there if the thunderstorms kick up. He said, "Don't worry, I have it covered for any circumstance."
A change in what I am wearing. The neighbors may find it interesting that I leave in a limo wearing a bathing suit. So I will wear something else and put the suit on after I get on the boat. Aaron can assist if he wants. Our story (lie) to the neighbors is that I have a wealthy female friend that just moved to the area and I visit her. Nobody is going to confront us anyway and we have never been into meeting neighbors. Mike says, "Fuck EM" LOL ! I am also taking another suit that isn't quite as sexy that I bought for our trip to Grand Cayman.
The hook up with Brad is off. Brad is very handsome and a great lover but he doesn't offer the excitement that a more aggressive Alpha does. Mike is a great lover and we have a lot of romantic sex as well as kinky together. Plus why tempt becoming involved romantically. Never say never. Mike is going with me to Philadelphia anyway, there are a lot of museums and historical sites in Phil. that he's never visited.
We had sex last night and will refrain until after Sat. Both of us build up a lot of sexual tension that way. Again, something we both want.
We had another discussion last night. I obviously have a very strong Libido. I have discussed it with my Gynecologist several times before this even started. He did blood work and I have a pretty high level of testosterone and that could be and probably is the reason. He said it is hard to determine exactly why some women have a very strong Libido. He said it's probably a combination of factors besides the testosterone. Until I first asked, I didn't know women had testosterone. The discussion was about my concern that maybe I was a little too sexual. I am also more orgasmic than ever. 3 or 4 is the usual since I have been a Hot Wife. At least two are Full Body orgasms and the others are very strong.
Since this started I have been with 4 men. Frank several times, Tom once, Brad once and Aaron once. That's a lot of guys in a 6 month period. Needed reassurance from Mike that I wasn't becoming a real slut. I've always been a one guy at a time girl. Since discovering how submissive I am and enjoy being used and abused my Libido is even stronger than before. Was thinking maybe I should slow down. Mike said, "No way, this is just getting good !"
Mike is thrilled that finally my feet make me feel sexy. Before Mike, I never gave my feet much thought in a sexual way. I had no problem with his love for my feet and I would pose and tease with them in public for him. I could tell a few men noticed. He always wanted my feet to make me feel sexy. Now they really do. I am much more aware of my feet in a sexual way and they do make me feel sexy. It really turns me on to have my feet used and abused. Even the bastinado turns me on. I guess like some women know their breasts are sexy and men love them. I flaunt my feet like some women flaunt their breasts and other assets.
Our decorating projects have come to a stand still. I have cancelled several appointments with decorators because of recent events. There is time, and thanks to our parents, we have the money to do it right. We may even be able to buy furniture that I thought we'd have to wait on. Thanks to Foot Night and Aaron I am close to affording a white leather sectional I've been eyeing. We love our new house and I will describe later if anyone is interested. I'll journal about it anyway so I may as well share.
Tom has contacted Mike several times and is now begging for another date. That's not going to happen with him or Frank. Frank has not contacted Mike and I'm guessing on to another woman. Mike told him we are stopping completely. There are just too many possibilities now and with real foot lovers that loves submissive women like me.
We are really excited about Saturday. The condo on the Ocean and now the yacht are really sexy environments. Much sexier than our house.
I like Aaron's Jekyll and Hyde personality. Friendly and interesting then without notice, an Evil Alpha Male that takes and abuses me. very sexy to say the least! And he LOVES my feet !
More Later.
Carrie
Up early and having Rambling thoughts. I am not editing as carefully as I have in the past so please forgive if my writing is confusing. I spent a ton of time editing and not so much lately.
Aaron called and Mike confirmed our Date.
He asked about the need for a crew for a yacht the size of his. He said the only difficult part is docking but at his Yacht club he pulls up to the main dock and guys are there to take over. He may need me to throw a line to the attendees but that's it. They take it to the slip (individual dock) from there.
The weather looks iffy, but it always does in South Florida. He has no schedule and will play it as he goes as to how far we travel. He has every navigational device possible plus weather monitors and ship to shore communication. We won't be going more than a few miles off shore. Mostly up and down the coast. He knows of several safe and secluded bays he intends to anchor for "Activities" and we might stay there if the thunderstorms kick up. He said, "Don't worry, I have it covered for any circumstance."
A change in what I am wearing. The neighbors may find it interesting that I leave in a limo wearing a bathing suit. So I will wear something else and put the suit on after I get on the boat. Aaron can assist if he wants. Our story (lie) to the neighbors is that I have a wealthy female friend that just moved to the area and I visit her. Nobody is going to confront us anyway and we have never been into meeting neighbors. Mike says, "Fuck EM" LOL ! I am also taking another suit that isn't quite as sexy that I bought for our trip to Grand Cayman.
The hook up with Brad is off. Brad is very handsome and a great lover but he doesn't offer the excitement that a more aggressive Alpha does. Mike is a great lover and we have a lot of romantic sex as well as kinky together. Plus why tempt becoming involved romantically. Never say never. Mike is going with me to Philadelphia anyway, there are a lot of museums and historical sites in Phil. that he's never visited.
We had sex last night and will refrain until after Sat. Both of us build up a lot of sexual tension that way. Again, something we both want.
We had another discussion last night. I obviously have a very strong Libido. I have discussed it with my Gynecologist several times before this even started. He did blood work and I have a pretty high level of testosterone and that could be and probably is the reason. He said it is hard to determine exactly why some women have a very strong Libido. He said it's probably a combination of factors besides the testosterone. Until I first asked, I didn't know women had testosterone. The discussion was about my concern that maybe I was a little too sexual. I am also more orgasmic than ever. 3 or 4 is the usual since I have been a Hot Wife. At least two are Full Body orgasms and the others are very strong.
Since this started I have been with 4 men. Frank several times, Tom once, Brad once and Aaron once. That's a lot of guys in a 6 month period. Needed reassurance from Mike that I wasn't becoming a real slut. I've always been a one guy at a time girl. Since discovering how submissive I am and enjoy being used and abused my Libido is even stronger than before. Was thinking maybe I should slow down. Mike said, "No way, this is just getting good !"
Mike is thrilled that finally my feet make me feel sexy. Before Mike, I never gave my feet much thought in a sexual way. I had no problem with his love for my feet and I would pose and tease with them in public for him. I could tell a few men noticed. He always wanted my feet to make me feel sexy. Now they really do. I am much more aware of my feet in a sexual way and they do make me feel sexy. It really turns me on to have my feet used and abused. Even the bastinado turns me on. I guess like some women know their breasts are sexy and men love them. I flaunt my feet like some women flaunt their breasts and other assets.
Our decorating projects have come to a stand still. I have cancelled several appointments with decorators because of recent events. There is time, and thanks to our parents, we have the money to do it right. We may even be able to buy furniture that I thought we'd have to wait on. Thanks to Foot Night and Aaron I am close to affording a white leather sectional I've been eyeing. We love our new house and I will describe later if anyone is interested. I'll journal about it anyway so I may as well share.
Tom has contacted Mike several times and is now begging for another date. That's not going to happen with him or Frank. Frank has not contacted Mike and I'm guessing on to another woman. Mike told him we are stopping completely. There are just too many possibilities now and with real foot lovers that loves submissive women like me.
We are really excited about Saturday. The condo on the Ocean and now the yacht are really sexy environments. Much sexier than our house.
I like Aaron's Jekyll and Hyde personality. Friendly and interesting then without notice, an Evil Alpha Male that takes and abuses me. very sexy to say the least! And he LOVES my feet !
More Later.
Carrie
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sadie
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Carrie thanks for sharing, your writing doesn't suffer for lack of editing imo :-).
It's interesting what you say about your testosterone levels. I was talking with an old friend (at a sex party) early this year who told me about problems she'd been having with her libido as well as mood and she'd gone on a low dose of T to see a huge effect in both of those as well as her overall health.
My Testosterone level is super low, right at the bottom end of the normal range for adult women. I have a more than healthy libido, yet orgasm doesn't come at all easily for me and I've been considering adding a small boost of T to see if that helps. I'm glad you mentioned.
I'm looking forward to your coming week's installments!
It's interesting what you say about your testosterone levels. I was talking with an old friend (at a sex party) early this year who told me about problems she'd been having with her libido as well as mood and she'd gone on a low dose of T to see a huge effect in both of those as well as her overall health.
My Testosterone level is super low, right at the bottom end of the normal range for adult women. I have a more than healthy libido, yet orgasm doesn't come at all easily for me and I've been considering adding a small boost of T to see if that helps. I'm glad you mentioned.
I'm looking forward to your coming week's installments!
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willingtoo
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My GYN says it's hard to pin point what affects Libido in women. Testosterone is one for sure, but other hormones come into play as well. Also psychological factors. As I said my T levels are at the upper end last time I had a blood test. All I know is I LOVE sex.
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Since this started I have been with 4 men.
That's quite modest compared to some Hot wives, who may on occasions have four in a week! perhaps you could be described as minimalist when it comes to lovers,
and obviously very selective, they have to enjoy both Mike and your love for feet, incidentally I love that Mike features in so much of your conversation, he is rather special. It goes without saying, I would love to hear about the furniture design you plans for you new home, as you may have spotted I'm a devil for detail.
That's quite modest compared to some Hot wives, who may on occasions have four in a week! perhaps you could be described as minimalist when it comes to lovers,
and obviously very selective, they have to enjoy both Mike and your love for feet, incidentally I love that Mike features in so much of your conversation, he is rather special. It goes without saying, I would love to hear about the furniture design you plans for you new home, as you may have spotted I'm a devil for detail.Re: I need to write and hopefully get people to respond. Long Sorry.
I meant to say, have an good and exiting boat trip, your account of it may be "Tales of the Unexpected" (in a satisfying way).
Alex.
Alex.
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Love reading your narrative, and I think the only red flag you should be concerned about is your physical safety, as you would be with anyone. A good sub must overall be able to trust her Dom on that, if you do the rest is fun and games.
As for taking the cash, I see no reason to stop, as it is a part of what he likes, a way of keeping an emotional distance for him, even if you would do it for free, give the money to a charity. The money makes it an distancing thing for everyone, I think.
One kink that comes to mind is if he wants to share you, he pays more for each guy each time, but give him a halfoff if the guy is black. (whole another thought line there, lot of thoughts on that from personal experience. Wife is exclusive to black other than me--that is our personal kink).
The sharing is inevitable, I suspect. He likes ownership and you cannot share what you do not own.
Have fun with it all, and it seems like you are. Enjoy.
As for taking the cash, I see no reason to stop, as it is a part of what he likes, a way of keeping an emotional distance for him, even if you would do it for free, give the money to a charity. The money makes it an distancing thing for everyone, I think.
One kink that comes to mind is if he wants to share you, he pays more for each guy each time, but give him a halfoff if the guy is black. (whole another thought line there, lot of thoughts on that from personal experience. Wife is exclusive to black other than me--that is our personal kink).
The sharing is inevitable, I suspect. He likes ownership and you cannot share what you do not own.
Have fun with it all, and it seems like you are. Enjoy.
Husband of a hotwife with a preference for interracial.
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hotwifelover31
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Carrie, as the perennial hotwife cheer bunny, I did not chime in to provide forewarnings of the potential risk of venturing on the high seas with Aaron without Mike or anyone else present to safeguard you. Exploring this alternative lifestyle and diving into kinky and taboo sexual fantasies is fraught with risk. You and Mike are certainly aware of that and through your uncompromising communication appear to have assessed the risks.
The forewarnings you have received appear to be well-intentioned and have legitimacy. Your safety and well-being are paramount, which you and Mike are best able to assess and ensure. Your submission to Aaron has gone from 0 to 60 rather quickly, which can magnify the inherent risks of allowing someone you hardly know to have complete dominion over you. In the end, you and Mike are the only ones who can measure the potential risks and decide whether they are worth taking. You clearly have weighed those into proceeding forward with Saturday’s “yachting” excursion with Aaron. Your excitement and willingness to continue to push your submissive envelope is palpable and intoxicating. Can’t wait to hear how it all unfolds!
The forewarnings you have received appear to be well-intentioned and have legitimacy. Your safety and well-being are paramount, which you and Mike are best able to assess and ensure. Your submission to Aaron has gone from 0 to 60 rather quickly, which can magnify the inherent risks of allowing someone you hardly know to have complete dominion over you. In the end, you and Mike are the only ones who can measure the potential risks and decide whether they are worth taking. You clearly have weighed those into proceeding forward with Saturday’s “yachting” excursion with Aaron. Your excitement and willingness to continue to push your submissive envelope is palpable and intoxicating. Can’t wait to hear how it all unfolds!