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[newaussiecuck]

Bayless, 4v273 - Great points, but I think it's falling on the other side. Breaker please correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm thinking it's more of a case of her liking Dylan too much and worried about what that means.

She was VERY into him leading into last Tuesday, which included a 5 hour lunch date. Nothing wrong with his table manners. Her descriptions of Tuesday night have been nothing but positive. In fact by all accounts they well exceeded her expectations in every regard.

I think she's more struggling with how to keep seeing "her boyfriend" that she feels she could easily fall in love with, while also not harming her marriage.

The fact that he was able to hold her interest for a 5 hour lunch date where apparently nothing physical at all happened tells me he's VERY charming and easy to talk with. The fact that he waited nearly 2 months after their lunch date tells me that he's very patient and willing to play the long game. I think if he was just after a 1 and done conquest he wouldn't have put so much time and effort into it. He would have moved onto someone easier. He's invested now and won't just pump and dump the hot Mrs Breaker.

So we have this very tall, muscular, physically good looking, very charming specimen that Mrs Breaker wanted to call her "boyfriend". Leading up into Tuesday, the only question was what he was going to be like in bed. Was he going to be a dud in the sack with a small penis? Nope on both counts! He knocked that out of the park too! His penis is bigger than Breaker. He was way more stamina than Breaker. I'm sure that being a good looking, single fit guy around 30, that he's slept with WAY more women than Breaker. By all reports he has better equipment than Breaker and knows how to use it better.

I think that is what Mrs Breaker is struggling with the most. How does she keep seeing Dylan without falling in love and harming her marriage?

Breaker - I'm curious why you mention that you haven't paid any attention to whether she's communicating with Dylan or not since last Tuesday. Are you having your own issues in dealing with the aftermath of Tuesday? Perhaps Mrs Breaker is also sensing this?

[realcucklife]

Hi breaker,
You have come so far on this journey BUT!
Don’t leave this otherwise it will effect ongoing cuckold stuff or your relationship, this is serious.
Like jinxypie always used to say “we are not mind readers, don’t just leave all the work to the wife”
Think this through
Women are emotional social creatures, they like to talk through their feelings around things happening. The cuckold life doesn’t allow her to do that with anyone else apart from you if your keeping it quiet. She needs to feel loved and supported and be able to share, more importantly encouraged to share for both of your own good, it doesn’t need to be blow by blow but she needs to be able to talk about the enjoyable things and importantly feelings.

Remember you have this support network to bounce off, what does she have?

Sit her down and say you read article about cuckolds that stressed the importance of commmunication, have a discussion about how you can do this that you can both enjoy and take the pressure off the conversation, text is a start but you need to talk about things. Don’t harp her but bring it up with reference articles, even cut and paste from here some comments from cuckold that have made it work ( we have been living it for 7 years).
Again a slightly uncomfortable conversation now frees things up, and it will be a lot less uncomfortable than a discussion with a divorce lawyer.

In your writing for the last week there has been a real fall off, you were focused on getting her bedded, now it seems like the gas has come off, is she feeling this as well?
Is she feeling like she has done something wrong?
You should have the same enthusiasm, but it should be more about what she has experienced, what else she wants to do, and with who, and where, and what things you should be perusing yorurself.
You need to be her rock in these adventures, you need to be the person she comes to, you need to rely on each other. If she doesn’t feel this support she won’t see it as a positive for your relationship, and if your not talking to her about it she will think she has done something wrong and she will stop or you will grow distant.
Kind of sounds like I’m having a go at you, I’m not it’s all a bit daunting but if someone doesn’t tell you to Pull your finger out or it will go off the tracks real quick.

[Bayless]

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[wocka-wocka]

Breaker,

You are doing fine. Be aware the guilt may always be there in varying degrees in ways you cannot predict. So, don't just assume it lowers with more experiences. That's a very male,unemotional, way of thinking. This is part of the care, support, and leadership you provide that keeps her attached to you.

I think the idea of going out on a really nice date with her is a good one. Go some place "special" to the both of you. Dress well for it. Have her come home to a small gift before she gets ready for the date. It shows her nothing has changed between the two of you. Don't wait for Valentine's day. (she might have other plans...) Do it ASAP.

[BallSpanking]

The one thing that concerns me is that she has not been to the gym, and possibly has not seen Dylan since last Tuesday. Although you are correct, she has a lot to digest, you also seem to hint there has been a drop-off in her texting Dylan. That is troubling.

With any luck, her texting with Dylan will pick up again. It is likely that if she meets him one-on-one, some of their chemistry will lead to his apartment again, or yours.

How has the sex been with her since Tuesday? Has she told you he fucks her better, with his bigger cock, yet? If she does, she will be seeing him again.

[wocka-wocka]

The one thing that concerns me is that she has not been to the gym, and possibly has not seen Dylan since last Tuesday. Although you are correct, she has a lot to digest, you also seem to hint there has been a drop-off in her texting Dylan. That is troubling.

Women have a very different relationship with sex than men. American women in particular have to deal with all kinds of weird morality BS that limits their freedom. She needs space to work it all out.

The breakers are probably doing fine.

[newaussiecuck]

The one thing that concerns me is that she has not been to the gym, and possibly has not seen Dylan since last Tuesday. Although you are correct, she has a lot to digest, you also seem to hint there has been a drop-off in her texting Dylan. That is troubling.

With any luck, her texting with Dylan will pick up again. It is likely that if she meets him one-on-one, some of their chemistry will lead to his apartment again, or yours.

How has the sex been with her since Tuesday? Has she told you he fucks her better, with his bigger cock, yet? If she does, she will be seeing him again.

Hi Ballspanking, what actually troubles me the most at the moment is this statement: "I don't know if they are still frequently texting each other, like I mentioned I just haven't been paying attention".

She may be still texting Dylan as frequently as before, or not at all we just don't know. If she's not texting him she might have let him know that she needs a little time to process everything. I'm sure he'll understand and be ready to pick up again when she's ready. He knows she's married, and he knows that Breaker knows about it all and is keen for her to see him. I'm sure he realises they might need to work through some things afterwards. She's likely kept him warm but let him know she needs a little time to adjust.

As I mentioned it's more concerning to me that Breaker isn't paying attention to what she's doing, unless I've miss read his comment. She's just gone through the biggest event of her life since her marriage and her husband isn't paying attention? I'm very happy to be wrong.

[shawnm]

Breaker, I think its best to have a deep conversation on this with the Mrs asap. From what I understand, it seems she's conflicted and its very important to make her feel that whatever steps have been taken by her were the best steps and that can only come with deep verbal communication. You might think that she may be aware of what you wanted and that you are happy for the same, but it is very important to verbally communicate the same along with showing same or more actions as shown in the past. For eg: your withdrawal from showing interests in her text, etc will also be visible in many other ways to her and convey an indirect unspoken message that you are upset about the event, even though you have told that you are very happy. In this time, its important to continue with same or more excitement. Remember, she has told you multiple times in the past that her main priority is a great, excellent relationship between both of you and if she's start doubting that, things might become sad for her. That's only my opinion!

Btw, have you gone down on her after the date? If yes, are there any visible telltales that you can spot

[corey22901]

Breaker, not sure about sex between you after that night last week?

One thought is to show her that you are happy with last week, when she pushes her feet to you, ask her if you could orally please her.

Then get down on her and make her cum over and over.

If she tells you that you can take care of yourself, let her know that her pleasure is all you want, and that you hope she will be more understanding that you gain pleasure from hers.

If she says she feels guilty, be direct and say nonsense - we have plenty of time later for that. Now it is about her. You want her to enjoy this sexy time. She has to feel that sex is for her only right now and you are more than supportive. Kinda sub, but that is what you want, isn't it?

The goal here is to have her accept the fact that you are a master at oral, he is a master with his cock.

[Breaker445]

So with not noticing if she has been texting him as much as she did before their date Tuesday, it's more of me just not paying attention or peaking to see if she has like I had been. She didn't know I was getting glances at her phone when I saw she was texting him, so me not noticing now is simply me just not looking for that like I had been, she wouldn't notice the difference. So with that, it's not like me not noticing she has taken notice and thinks I am not as into it now as I was. I would say for the most part things between us are like they were before.

Last night though we were laying in bed and she very cutely told me my new change of routine of not going to the gym around her bedtime has really put a wrench in her nights. She sweetly said, "Sometimes I have my alone time right about now...." I chuckled and told her interestingly that I could go back to going to the gym at night. I don't know if that was the answer she was really looking for, I don't even think she was looking for an answer, I think she was just opening the door into her own introduction of what she said next. As she began to pull the sheets really tight toward her she said a little shy, as if she was uncertain if she wanted to tell me, but she said, "I wish someone else could be here right now...." Her eyes widened and she had this real cute little grin like she was testing the waters to see my reaction. I was instantly aroused and told her with excitement and shock that I'd leave to the gym right now if she wanted me to. She laughed and said it was probably too late and gave a glance at the clock. I insisted I could leave if she wanted and she smiled and let me know that it was ok and added, "I just wish....you know...I miss sometimes having that alone time...especially now.." I knew what she was meaning and it kept me in shock. I offered that I was there and she felt my crotch as to see if I was capable. I got lucky enough and since their date my stamina has not been an issue at all, that competition aspect in the back of my mind is really helpful. But afterwards she gave me this, 'really...?' look, like that was the best you have? I was thinking to myself at least I lasted, but I could tell she was less than satisfied. She solidified my thought when I mentioned it was good and she replied, "Well you lasted and tried." I was quiet shocked hearing her say that because there was no flirtatious tease behind it, and it was a reality reminder that I probably am nowhere near as good.

As a way to maybe describe how I am feeling now that it happened, maybe this can help. You take what happened last night and what she told me and had she said that to me a month ago I would have been overly aroused and had a difficult time containing myself with excitement. She on the other hand probably would have rolled her eyes at my excitement to it and thought nothing more than she was giving me a good tease that only I was really enjoying. Now though it's like there is a little feeling of uneasiness? to it? from my perspective, yet she is now the one having the exciting response to it and having fun with it. Her reaction to it now is like one I would have had a month ago.

Yet even through that uneasiness feeling, as time passes, I sit here and think how hot it is of her wanting him last night and settling with me and clearly I wasn't up to her standards.

[conflictedhubby]

Hi Breaker, I'm just curious if you have a new goal you are shooting for now? I know you're just hoping she releases more details on what happened tuesday, but I'm wondering if you are getting that same sense of excitement thinking about something else that may happen. As in her taking a picture or video for you, maybe all three of you together for coffee to meet him, or even ask her to sneak a pic of him working out just so you can see what he looks like. These are just examples of potential goals that I myself would find interesting if I were in you're situation, but I would like to know if you have any that you've considered that evoke that same sense of excitement?

[Bayless]

Great update Breaker. This helps to really describe how difficult and time consuming this transition is. You are the best. We all(at least me) need your skills. Fortunately for Mrs.B you are “the man.” Carry on.

[wannabecUKold]

She said, "I wish someone else could be here right now...." Her eyes widened and she had this real cute little grin

That must have been so hot for you to hear - and for her to say. If she can carry on thinking this with a 'cute little grin', you can both enjoy her horniness and her lover can enjoy her. Definitely one to take forward asap.

I fear, however, that, for you fucking her, it is soon going to be curtains. I think your role and excitement will come from working with her to get her fucked by another man. Pretty hot role for a husband.

[Bayless]

Hi again Breaker. You know as you read the writings on various Forums on this website there are more models of wife sharing than there are forums. The different approaches are as varied as as a Hotwife moving in with her new guy to couples that practice one and done where the Hotwife only sleeps with a guy once and then moves on, to make the point for them is that its all about sex and not about emotions, and there are perhaps thousands of other approaches in between these two extremes.

I realize that as tender, reflective and inexperienced as Mrs. B is, this may be too far out, but maybe what Dylan needs is some competition. Like others have suggested, take her out dancing where there are lots of guys and she will get loads of attention, and you will continue to lovingly support her. She doesn’t need to focus just on Dylan, she is a bright star. She used to tell you that she could have any guy she wants. Maybe this is her great opportunity. She has a little more experience than she had six months ago so let her go for it. She needs to understand the difference between sex and emotional entanglement. This is about SEX! Best wishes.

[BallSpanking]

Hi Breaker,

Although she did not say so overtly, it seems her alone time is important to her, and possibly not just to masturbate in privacy. I think there was a lot more behind her comment that she wished ‘someone’ could be there tonight. Clearly, that was a reference to Dylan. Her looking at the time, and deciding it’s probably too late, that is not because she is wanting to masturbate, it is because she would like to hook up with him, and the time didn’t allow for that, given the short notice.

I think there was a subtle probing about the possibility of Dylan coming over, or her visiting him.

[joel68]

I wouldn't be surprised if they got together in the next 3 days. But, if not, it's coming that's for sure! I think she wants him bad.

[newaussiecuck]

Another great update Breaker, you've put my mind at ease. I was just concerned that it was all troubling you and you had switched off from Mrs Breaker and weren't caring or paying attention to what she was doing. That would be bad, but I'm very happy to hear that's not the case at all. I think it's more of a case that you're certain now about her and Dylan and don't feel the need to try and get a peak to see if she's messaging him like you were before. Now that she's actually done the deed you've moved onto a different phase now. The old things that used to excite you don't anymore. You don't need to think the "Will she ever. . . ." thoughts anymore, as she already has!

I loved how she was wanting Dylan last night, and thanked you for trying but you just didn't do it for her. Like I mentioned earlier, she came home from Dylan very satisfied and sexually exhausted and needed time to recover (not only emotionally but physically also) and for her need to build back up. It's now built up strong enough that she's willing to work through the embarrassment of letting you know that she needs him.

It's probably the first time she's realised or at least openly acknowledged that you just can't satisfy her like Dylan can. You tried your best, but it's just not good enough. It must sting but also be exciting!

I can see a real opportunity here that you can take advantage of to get what I think you're wanting out of this. You could just let her know that anytime she's wanting Dylan she can just call him up and invite him over. Doesn't matter what time of day or night, she can just call him and he can come over. You can let her know that you can move into the spare bedroom/couch to give them privacy. That sounds like a win/win to me. She gets to have Dylan whenever she feels the need, and she doesn't have to feel awkward about you being in the room. For you though, it gives you a chance to hear how good Dylan is giving it to her. It's probably best for all 3 to meet beforehand for coffee so it's not awkward when he comes over the first time.

Given that Dylan knows you know all about it and is totally fine with it, I think this is quite realistic to achieve if you approach it right. This could become your next goal to work towards anyway. I think you should offer up this possibility very soon, with the mood she was in last night she probably would have gone for it. Even if she turns down the offer for now, she'll like that you offered it and will likely consider it a possibility in the future. At the very least it will plant the seed and she'll start thinking about how wonderful that would be. Next time she's laying there horny and wanting Dylan she'll remember your offer and start to wish she'd accepted. She'll start thinking of what that would be like and to fantasize about it. Maybe the time after she'll bring it up again, how she wishes he could be here and you can repeat your offer. Maybe she'll accept that time.

I think this is a real opportunity for you.

[newaussiecuck]

Just further to my above post, that could eventually become a stepping stone to eventually being in the same room at some point further down the track, if that is what you'd like.

While it's sounding very much like Mrs Breaker is ready for another round with her big stud Dylan, we shouldn't forget how ready Dylan must be by now. He's had to wait more than a week to have another go at the smoking hot Mrs Breaker. I bet he's more than ready to really give it to her. He may even give it to her better the 2nd time around given that she's made him wait over a week. He might even up his game further and REALLY give it to her hard to make sure she wants him again soon.

She demonstrated last night that even Breaker on his best day can't get close to what Dylan dished up last Tuesday. Dylan will be wanting to prove that it wasn't a fluke and that he can do even better the 2nd time around.

I 2nd wannabecuck's comment, which also mirrors what I had mentioned a while back would happen soon. I think Breaker is no longer seen as the provider of Mrs Breaker's sexual fulfillment. The amazing thing is it only took Dylan one shot!

She basically told Breaker that she was horny and wished Dylan could fuck her right then and there. Breaker reminded her that he was right there and ready. She was unconvinced that he could do the job but let him try, and basically said thanks for trying but I still need Dylan! That is so hot!!!! Maybe next time she'll call Dylan over afterwards to finish what Breaker had started!

[shawnm]

I bet a month down the line, Dylan would be fucking Mrs Breaker atleast thrice a week and giving her couple of orgasms with his hard fucking every time. By what Breaker has conveyed about the behavior of the Mrs, it seems pretty much that Dylan has taken her to Orgasmland and she can't wait to get more of the same. I also feel that Dylan has a prettty large cock, 8+ inches along with powerful stamina and Mrs Breaker can't get over it.

And now all the conflicting feelings also seem to be out of the way. Its only a matter of time that Breaker turns into a full-time cuckold and provider of cleanup acts if he is into it. Congrats Breaker for seeing through the Mrs with your awesome patience and cuckold seduction. One or two more of those Dylan fucks and she will pretty much be accepting this lifestyle without much conflicts. Can't wait to hear more details!

[joel68]

I am wondering about her girlfriends. There’s Jennifer who’s kinda slutty and the other one he mentioned (Who was never named.) who’s married and a bigger slut than Jennifer.

I think she had lunch with this chick on the Friday before Dylan fucked the following Tuesday. Nothing was mentioned what they talked about. This chick is not as close as Jennufer. I wonder what or if she will tell those two about Dylan. If she says anything, some of this stuff about Breaker’s desires could get around. Also there’s Dylan as well who knows.

Just food for thought, that’s all.

[shawnm]

I am wondering about her girlfriends. There’s Jennifer who’s kinda slutty and the other one he mentioned (Who was never named.) who’s married and a bigger slut than Jennifer.

I think she had lunch with this chick on the Friday before Dylan fucked the following Tuesday. Nothing was mentioned what they talked about. This chick is not as close as Jennufer. I wonder what or if she will tell those two about Dylan. If she says anything, some of this stuff about Breaker’s desires could get around. Also there’s Dylan as well who knows.

Just food for thought, that’s all.

I envision a 3some between Dylan, Mrs Breaker & the bigger slut friend or Jennifer in future Probably Breaker could also join in as a spectator

[joel68]

Possible. Now that the genie is out of the bottle, this thing could very well go to places he never imagined. A lot of different scenarios could come into play.

But first things first. They both need Dylan to fuck her again, and soon!

[shawnm]

Breaker, do take care to keep your communication channel always open and be in loop with whats happening, otherwise it will get messy later on. You are doing great btw!

[newaussiecuck]

I'm thinking a little more about the way she phrased things the other night. "Well you lasted and tried." The way she said he lasted seems to indicate that she had an orgasm while having sex with Breaker. He lasted long enough for her to have an orgasm. However, the "Well" and "You tried" indicates to me that she was totally not satisfied and was likely just getting started when Breaker finished.

After reading those comments I think it's a certainty that Dylan gave her multiple orgasms. I don't think it was simply several orgasms from several sessions (I still believe they fucked 3 times due to the time frame). I think she had multiple, rolling orgasms within each session. Pure speculation of course, as nobody was there and she's not giving details, nobody knows except for Dylan and Breaker. However based on the indications given (he has stamina) and the comments I mentioned above from the other night I think that's the case.

In terms of the big Tuesday night, I propose a different version of events to what we all assume happened. We all assume they met and had a nice long sit down dinner and then went back to their room for a couple of hours. However, given the amount of time they seemed to have after she got home to lounge around and unwind before getting up early for work the next morning, I'm speculating that they are somewhere in the West coast timezone. That puts it around 4pm when Mrs Breaker left to meet Dylan. A half hour drive makes it about 4:30pm. A little early for a sit down dinner don't you think?

Given that they met up for one reason only (they had already gotten to know each other very well during their initial 5 hour lunch date where "nothing physical happened" and the 2 months of constant texting and gym meetups that followed) I think they likely met at the bar around 4:30, had a drink for half hour to loosen up and then went to the room. I think they had sex for quite a very long time by all reports of his stamina. I propose they then stayed in the room and ordered room service.

I propose that round 2 followed, again quite lengthy and afterwards Mrs Breaker fired off the short hurried text to Breaker to check if he was OK. I think this was a check to see whether she should return home at that point or stay a little longer for round 3.

Again this is speculation but given the time frames, likely timezone, their intention and some of the comments since I think this is quite a plausible version of events. It's what I would do if I were in Dylan's shoes!

BTW, nice fantasy but threesomes with Mrs Breakers friends ain't gonna happen.

[wannabecUKold]

Well according to page 81/82 she was away 5 hours. If that ran from, say, 6pm, that means she texted at 9.30pm and returned home at 11pm.

Or shift those times back perhaps one hour to 7pm, 10.30pm and midnight.

Or, following newaussiecuck shift forward to 4pm start.

I think 6pm is the most likely. She arrives at say 6.30pm and leaves at 10.30pm. That ties in with her not staying overnight, not being out excessively late, ie she drinks till 7pm, eats till 8.30pm (it is a restaurant, after all), goes upstairs for round 1 till 9.30pm, then texts and then has another hour till 10.30pm. At that point she thinks she better get back - not too late.

In town all those times would work well an hour later - but things start early in small villages.

newaussiecuck suggests a 4pm start. That is quite early for drinking; and going up to a room at 6.30pm could mean only one obvious thing to the reception staff, and an 8.30pm finish is early - she could have had another hour without Breaker being upset.

Whatever. The important thing is that she got a damn good fucking from Dylan, Breaker is her beloved cuckold and she is going to do it all again, with Breaker's blessing.