The end for us in the lifestyle?

[sherulestherooster]

I wish you the best, looking forward to an update. Lots of good advice here, I don’t have much to add other than empathy. I know that when we started our FemDom journey, the hardest part was sometimes feeling ignored, so I inda understand that aspect. Good luck!

[Anonymousrob]

I wish you the best, looking forward to an update. Lots of good advice here, I don’t have much to add other than empathy. I know that when we started our FemDom journey, the hardest part was sometimes feeling ignored, so I inda understand that aspect. Good luck!

I think if she would lean into the femdom stuff, I would feel better.

[venus-can99]

I think if she would lean into the femdom stuff, I would feel better.

I assume you have discussed this with Rachael. Is she willing to try this out with you ?

[Anonymousrob]

I think if she would lean into the femdom stuff, I would feel better.

I assume you have discussed this with Rachael. Is she willing to try this out with you ?

Unfortunately no. She says it makes her feel uncomfortable. But there are aspects she said we can try. We will see

[venus-can99]

Unfortunately no. She says it makes her feel uncomfortable. But there are aspects she said we can try. We will see

The fact that she is willing to give it a go sounds encouraging. There is a ton of literature available on FemDom and perhaps she can discuss with women with experience in this and start with "milder" forms of FemDom.

[elina]

I think if she would lean into the femdom stuff, I would feel better.

I assume you have discussed this with Rachael. Is she willing to try this out with you ?

Unfortunately no. She says it makes her feel uncomfortable. But there are aspects she said we can try. We will see

Dear Rob,

Have you read Elise Sutton's two books "Female Domination" and "The Femdom Experience"?
These still offers key insights for male who wants their Lady to develop their Dominant side.
Unfortunately, her website femalesuperiority dot com does not exist anymore.
One of the items She had posted there was advice for males on how to seduce their Wives dominant sides.
I would suggest that you might find this both interesting and potentially highly rewarding.

I may still have a pdf somewhere, please PM me if you are interested.

Sincerely
elina

[nnjcpl2002]

If your wife still loves you, as you say, then she will not want you to be unhappy. You must let her know quite clearly that you are not happy with the current situation. If she doesn't care that she is making you unhappy, then that is a fundamental failure of your relationship, and you will need to consider some serious changes!

I had a similar issue with my wife awhile back. When we sat down and I told her about my problem, her first reaction was one of great surprise. She definitely cared and she accommodated my needs within an ongoing cuckolding relationship. I did not like being excluded or kept in the dark. It worked out. She and her lover carried on for about ten years, but I was not excluded and we all became close friends. Well, I was excluded occasionally, but only on a planned basis with my knowledge and consent. Actually, those experiences were also hot in an angsty way!!

[Anonymousrob]

I think if she would lean into the femdom stuff, I would feel better.

I assume you have discussed this with Rachael. Is she willing to try this out with you ?

Unfortunately no. She says it makes her feel uncomfortable. But there are aspects she said we can try. We will see

Dear Rob,

Have you read Elise Sutton's two books "Female Domination" and "The Femdom Experience"?
These still offers key insights for male who wants their Lady to develop their Dominant side.
Unfortunately, her website femalesuperiority dot com does not exist anymore.
One of the items She had posted there was advice for males on how to seduce their Wives dominant sides.
I would suggest that you might find this both interesting and potentially highly rewarding.

I may still have a pdf somewhere, please PM me if you are interested.

Sincerely
elina

I would be very interested.

[BigHotMess]

You are playing the game where she keeps on moving goal posts. The massive issue is that she knows your concerns and while her words have changed her actions have not. This is abusive and that feeling inside of you is a bubble that will burst. It’s time to end things and establish some Terra Firma in your relationship. If you care about it that is, I personally wouldn’t care that much at this point. I have a strong boundary of mutual respect.

[james2011]

Rob how are things going? You’re holding up ok as you sort through this?

[Anonymousrob]

They are going okay. We are moving forward on some things. I’ll fill you guys in as we go