Jane' adventure

[Janes Husband]

We kind of got lucky with the last guy. I'm not particularly sure about the other guys that are out there, how possessive, and pushy they might be. I see guys staring at her a lot.

[jane]

You wanted to see mrsreese's face too.

[Matt2]

Yesterday, Aaron, the man from the book store and i exchanged several emails. I found out he works nights, and he's a police officer. He asked if we might see each other some time, and i replied that i had to warn him that i am married. He said he knew i was, that he waited for my husband to walk away to talk to me. I asked him if he often chatted up married women. He said not that often, but he and his fiance broke up a short time ago, and he wasn't looking for a single girl, and a rebound relationship. Just something more casual. I feel super turned on and flustered. He was really cute, and muscular from what i could tell.

A Dec 3 post...

Depending on this new girl he's dating, I wonder if he might also still be interested in a married lady. I wouldn't give up on him that easily, be there for him when he wants to communicate with you. You can't/won't/shouldn't compete, just be jane - that's what he liked about you in the first place. It may not work out with this new lady and he'll want someone to talk to that won't judge him harshly.

[captaincustard]

Mrs custard keep a few FBs in her stable, but tends to pick up in bars, or via a guy we call Mr O (orgasm). Mr O seems to have an endless supply of horny friends who want to sample the delights of Mrs Custard.

But its not without problems. Some guys just cant get hard (God knows why, Mrs custard is HOT and sexy. Some guys are plain weird. One wanted her to stand in high heels watching porn whilst he jerked off.
Other guys are distinctly odd – one told her (during sex) that he was raped when he was younger and he now swings both ways….
Another had her lie naked on the floor for four hours whilst he ravaged her with a massive dildo.
One was desperate to get her pregnant, and another had a pet monkey that attacked her in jealousy. (I wonder what he did to that monkey that made it jealous of other girls?)
It’s the luck of the draw with blind dates like that. I always tell her “you keep control. You make the rules, you enforce them and don’t be afraid to say no and go home”.
As for men in uniforms (executivevpdiva) I still look hot in my uniform, but sadly Mrs Custard stops all of my fun 

[jane]

I wasn't sure about posting more, but a few people have messaged me and asked how things are going. I havn't seen Aaron much lately. We are kind of taking a break. I did go out last week with a new guy i met. Actually he is a waiter, and i have been to the restauraunt a few times. He is a big flirt. So he asked me out, and we went dancing last week. Nothing beyond that. Last night though i did see him again. Afterwards we went to his apartment. I really didn't want to get too close, but we began kissing, and he just got very into it. I felt a little light headed. Then he pulls up my top, and pulls one of my bra cups down, and starts sucking on my breast. At that point i knew i had to stop. I wasn't sure about his sexual history, and i need safety. So i broke it off. We talked today, and i told him , for it to go further he'll have to get tested. He said he'd never heard that before.

[Matt2]

At that point i knew i had to stop. I wasn't sure about his sexual history, and i need safety. So i broke it off. We talked today, and i told him , for it to go further he'll have to get tested. He said he'd never heard that before.

Bless you!

If he's being truthful that he'd never heard that before, and he's also sexually active, then he really, really needs to check his health. What kind of ladies is he boinking that AREN'T concerned about their health?

Hmmm...

[MikeandDeb]

Jane thank you so much for sharing your journey with all of us. You are an incredible woman and your husband is a very lucky man.

[blueduck1954]

Jane, I wish you would continue to post your hotwife adventures. The evolution of a liberated woman is a beautiful experience. You have many fans here.

[lustfulraj]

Dear Jane,

I came across this thread today and thank you for a really nice account of how things are going with your HW experiences. It is a real pleasure reading them. I hope things are going well in that area for you since you haven't posted in sometime now.

Take care and all the best. I hope to see more posts from you!

An admirer,
lr

[jane]

Oh thank you. I am so suprised to see someone bring back my thread. To tell the truth i really wasn't sure i should continue it. I don't think my adventures are as exciting as some others.

[zorro]

Oh thank you. I am so suprised to see someone bring back my thread. To tell the truth i really wasn't sure i should continue it. I don't think my adventures are as exciting as some others.

I do, Jane. Because you have feelings that you can articulately relate. Much more exciting than just organ grinding.

[allengt]

I also enjoy your thread Jane and that is one awesome new avatar.

[viking68]

Jane,
Here is another vote and request for your return! I too have always enjoyed seeing the world through your eyes. Plus to echo Allengt damn fine avatar!

[moviefan]

Hi,
Please do continue your postings.

EU

[nudeinnola]

It is not that no one was interested, sometimes even in the "other" postings, people do not post for a while. Trust us, we enjoy your stories. So yes, please do continue, I was wondering why you were not posting, your adventures were fun to read and.....

[Matt2]

Oh thank you. I am so suprised to see someone bring back my thread. To tell the truth i really wasn't sure i should continue it. I don't think my adventures are as exciting as some others.

I do, Jane. Because you have feelings that you can articulately relate. Much more exciting than just organ grinding.

I want to join zorro here in being inspired by how well you articulate your feelings, the whole mind-heart connection. THANK YOU for sharing that with us. I do so look forward to your posts (and I agree: that new avatar is WAY hot!)

[jane]

Okay. I really felt a little conspicuous having my own thread. Since i last posted, Aaron and i didn't see each other for a while. Not much happend in february and march. Then i began seeing him again. Not quite as often as before. Once a week at most. We had some close, very wonderful times together. A few weeks ago , while we were together, he expressed he wanted to be closer. He wanted more of me. I didn't feel i could give him any more. Two days later he called me and said he was engaged. I havn't heard from him since. I knew he was dating someone. I felt both sad, and mad for about a week. I missed him very much. This lifestyle, is difficult for me at times. I've found i have two requirements to be with someone. 1. I have to be attracted. 2. I have to get to know someone enough that i really like them. That can bring on hurt feelings at some point. David and i talked a lot this spring about feelings, and security. We both feel secure. I've never felt tempted to leave him , or anything like that. We both understand if i am to continue doing this i have to like the men enough to be friends.
Last week i kind of broke that though. I met a man on the internet, and we agreed to meet. I swore i'd never do that again. David and i met with him. I felt kind of bad for him, for reasons i won't get into. So i met with him, and then we went up to his room, after about a half hour of talking. We had sex, a couple times. It was neither bad, nor great. Just okay. It just felt extra weird , because i really didn't know him.
The next day he began emailing me. I got about 10 emails from thursday to sunday. I was getting a bit freaked out. Then , monday, he called me on my cell phone repeatedly. He wanted to see me again. It got to the point we changed our cell number tuesday. I'm still worried about his behaviour. Has anyone else had a stalker-type situation , in the lifestyle?
I could probably write a couple more paragraphs just on my feelings about the lifestyle. We all seem to have different degrees of the lifestyle. Some are swingers, some just one night stands, some are poly. We've just mostly been trying to find are place in it, if we stay in it.

[nudeinnola]

Happened to my ex GF also. Best way to avoid, have your man call him and ask him to stop. Another good way, stick to your old plan, most men that are a certain middle age and constantly looking online may have other things of concern. So unless you can go through a background check, it is best to meet them in bars... take your hubby, it will be more fun for both of you... haha.

[Matt2]

You seem to have terrible luck with Internet connections

Aaron was, at best, "temporary". He was looking for a girl when he found you. So YOU were, at best, temporary as well. Perhaps 18 months after his wedding you'll hear from him again. Life is like that; "old friends" are always good for a romp or two in the future when a young man needs his confidence stoked. Look forward to the possibility.

You've received mountains of good advice in the previous pages so I won't go there. But remember that a "quickie" in someone's hotelroom isn't all that bad. If nothing else it keeps those old "skills" up to date, and each is a learning experience. Besides, when you make a man feel good about himself... that has its own redeeming features.

If you genuinely feel better with "someone you know" then be true to yourself, Jane. Fill in the gaps between the longer-term guys with a quickie or two if you want - not a darned thing wrong with it and it keeps the juices flowing. But concentrate your flirting in places where you think men you'd like to be with on a longer basis seem to hang out. (Oops, that sounds very much like advice!)

[jrandmustang]

Jane,
Like everyone else, I hope you'll keep this thread and your story alive. I agree with Zorro and others that what makes your posts so appealing is the fresh authenticity of what you're feeling and thinking. The fact that you're still feeling your way, torn between the desire for a stable relationship, and curiosity, and disbelief that you're actually living this whole thing out, is what makes everything you write so interesting to read.
JR

[lustfulraj]

Wow!

Welcome back sexy woman! Sorry to hear about the guy from the internet. Perhaps he was just overly horny but calling and writing like that is a bit unusual. Leave him alone.

It is good to see you posting again! Your adventures are sexciting in their own special way, everyone's are. That and your super-hot av make me lustfully crazy Keep writing.

lr

[jane]

Thank you guys so much for your support. I don't mind you giving me advice. It's been a hectic week.

[fridayam]

Dear Jane,

like everyone else here, we love hearing of your adventure and we would love to hear more. It isn't that things you do are more or less exciting than others post: it is that you write from the heart and it feels real, and that is more than one can expect. Keep it up and post more. xx

[Mr_Butterfly]

Good stuff Jane. Echoing others...

The hallmark of this forum is the honest discussion of what this lifestyle really entails. Beyond the fantasy stuff, you and many other women here lay it out without the sugar coating. Thank you for that.

In your writings I see many similarities with my wife's experiences. Not a 1 for 1, but many common elements. Mrs B has a doctrine for dealing with her men finding other women. She wishes them well and sends them off with a friendly note, and an open invitation if it doesn't work out. It is difficult for anyone, woman or man, to suppress jealousies, but you can't really lose someone, if you keep it on good terms.

[seedme]

I'm sorry it didnt go well Jane.
Just my two cents: I've had 2 b/f's and the second one started rather badly. Our first encounter was awkward and less than fulfilling for me. He seemed hurried and nervous, and not terribly polite.
I had made up my mind not to see him again, but a late night call from him, when I was in just the right mood, made me give him one more try.
It turned out to be a good decision, as we have had many good sessions since then.
I guess we just needed time to get to know one anothers needs.