the adventures of my hotwife, her boyfriend, and her fuck buddies (on going)

[coastalkid]

Quite the contrary, I'm very interested in the one time a year you get to enjoy yourself! Jen has lots of adventures. You have yours too in your own way but this is a special occasion. There will be a lot of pent up emotions. I wonder what feelings you'll feel the day after and things go back to normal?

[venus-can99]

Would love to hear all about your time with Jen on her special day. Perhaps some new pictures as well? - Happy anniversary

[inivisibletwin]

Quite the contrary, I'm very interested in the one time a year you get to enjoy yourself! Jen has lots of adventures. You have yours too in your own way but this is a special occasion. There will be a lot of pent up emotions. I wonder what feelings you'll feel the day after and things go back to normal?

oh, okay! I didn't realize that was something people wanted to hear about. I'm happy to post an update after our date!

I know I talk alot about Jens extra-marital adventures, and I dont really talk about her adventures with me, but Jen and I are actually very close, and have a very strong relationship. It's true that I have been denied her pussy for a long time, and am not her primary sex partner, but I am her primary life partner, and her spreading her legs for other guys brings us closer. I absolutely feel like the time I spend with her is more fulfilling because of her extra-marital adventures!

and also, (not counting my current boob-denial, which is about to end) the only thing I am denied is her pussy. We still have a sex life other than that. and when we do fool around, the pussy denial just makes it so much hotter! sexy time with her, while she's wearing panties, and I;m not allowed under the panties because that area is owned by another man, and therefore off limits to me, i think is not only one of my favorite things, but i also think it brings us closer as a couple!

we actually fool around, under those conditions, alot! I just dont post about it. It's such a hot / beautiful / invigorating feeling to be fooling around with her, reach for her pussy, and have her stop me, and reming me I'm not allowed there, it belongs to her boyfriend, not me... though I do think that turns her on even more than it does me... and it turns me on alot!

[scarlettscuck]

Happy Anniversary to you and Jen. Right now you might be balls deep in your bride lasting longer and really enjoying her sexy body staring into each others eyes.

Don’t forget that just before midnight you need to kiss her amazing pussy goodbye until 1/20/26. A whole year! Wow.

Hope you have the best day ever!

[coastalkid]

I know I'm an outlier here but I'm truly interested in how husbands survive (or thrive) in these relationships. It's more than evident how wives get their pleasure and it is retold in countless threads. There are tons of posts/threads that share the salacious details of their wives and their adventures.

As a husband who is interested and has shared that interest with my wife, my driven interest is in how couples truly make it work and don't end up destroying their marriage. That's why your anniversary "date night" is of great interest to me. To me it represents an anchor to your connection, a connection that by some standards is voluntarily stretched thin by your style of play. You and Jen have consciously protected your anniversary for a good reason that you haven't mentioned much.

I get that you get off on the denial. As you said, "It turns you on a lot!" I don't ever expect to understand it at your level. I have no trouble accepting that you and others thrive on it. I'm a firm believer in people are different and different is good. Everybody has their very own personal kinks and it really isn't/shouldn't be, something to judge people about. My head is shouting out, "Oh yeah! Well you're crazy for thinking I'm crazy!"

The thing is I still want to know more about how you handle the implications of denial, especially when it's long term. A million questions (albeit novice/wannabe questions) come to mind. Does it ever become so routine and ingrained that you become ambivalent? Are there days when the kink doesn't have the same attraction as it does on others? Does it ever make you moody? Does Jen notice if you ever do become moody? Do you ever get jealous of Chris? Does Jen know if you are at times jealous of Chris? A big one for me, do you ever feel like you are missing some prime of your life fucking time? I try to fight back the feeling that my wife robbed me of my sexual prime years from her lack of desire. She's much better now and I'm not as good as I once was!

Sorry for the barrage of questions. I'm just thinking out loud and curious.

[venus-can99]

Happy anniversary IT and Jen. Hope you are putting your time to good use. Hopefully you are able to post some pics of the always gorgeous Jen !

[inivisibletwin]

I know I'm an outlier here but I'm truly interested in how husbands survive (or thrive) in these relationships. It's more than evident how wives get their pleasure and it is retold in countless threads. There are tons of posts/threads that share the salacious details of their wives and their adventures.

As a husband who is interested and has shared that interest with my wife, my driven interest is in how couples truly make it work and don't end up destroying their marriage. That's why your anniversary "date night" is of great interest to me. To me it represents an anchor to your connection, a connection that by some standards is voluntarily stretched thin by your style of play. You and Jen have consciously protected your anniversary for a good reason that you haven't mentioned much.

I get that you get off on the denial. As you said, "It turns you on a lot!" I don't ever expect to understand it at your level. I have no trouble accepting that you and others thrive on it. I'm a firm believer in people are different and different is good. Everybody has their very own personal kinks and it really isn't/shouldn't be, something to judge people about. My head is shouting out, "Oh yeah! Well you're crazy for thinking I'm crazy!"

The thing is I still want to know more about how you handle the implications of denial, especially when it's long term. A million questions (albeit novice/wannabe questions) come to mind. Does it ever become so routine and ingrained that you become ambivalent? Are there days when the kink doesn't have the same attraction as it does on others? Does it ever make you moody? Does Jen notice if you ever do become moody? Do you ever get jealous of Chris? Does Jen know if you are at times jealous of Chris? A big one for me, do you ever feel like you are missing some prime of your life fucking time? I try to fight back the feeling that my wife robbed me of my sexual prime years from her lack of desire. She's much better now and I'm not as good as I once was!

Sorry for the barrage of questions. I'm just thinking out loud and curious.

I dont mind the questions at all! I wouldn't be on this site if I didn't want to talk about it!

you said you're interested in how couples make it work and dont end up destroying their marriage. One of the biggest things that contributes to that, that I dont really ever talk about on here, is after-care. for example, yesterday was our big anniversary date, and I'll share what happened in a separate post, but one of the things that happened was Jen fucked a new guy, while I watched... afterward, at the end of the night, after all the fun, we are laying in bed together in the post nut clarity, we have an open and sincere discussion wherein we reinforce to each other that we are still happy, that we still love each other, that while we have embraced the lifestyle that we have its all just in the name of fun and sex. I am not actually her lowest priority, I'm her highest priority, the only reason she can be with chris and let him be her primary sex partner is because she knows I am her primary life partner and we are good. and I reinforce that I still love her, and am only happy to share her with chris and whom ever else because i know at the core of it our relationship is strong... We have these after-care talks quite often, actually. Only after the post-nut clarity, and not all the time, but often. It's so important. the sharing and all that brings us closer, but the after care reinforces it. we both know that underneath it all our relationship is strong and solid, and thats what actually allows us to comfortable and confidently do everything we do and have fun with it without worrying.

does it become routine or ingrained? yeah, actually. I'd say it actually kinda does, and the more I get denied, and the longer the denial goes, the more used to it I get, the more accept it. I've posts on this forum about how I've gotten so used to not being allowed to see Jen's pussy that I dont even look, even when I'm allowed to look (by the letter of the rule), I avoid looking because the spirit of the rule was to prevent me from seeing. She's been spread eagle on the couch for chris or other guys, and I'm allowed to look but I just dont. I maintain eye contact, and she sees me do that, and it turns her on even more. and the acceptance of it turns me on even more, too... I'll say though, that really just applies to her pussy. I can and have accepted that I wont see her pussy again for an entire year, and I'm good with that, but when it comes to her tits, I can't bare being denied those!

are there days the kink doesnt have the same attraction? I mean, not really.. maybe a little... There might be times when I crave her pussy, but those times just make it hotter that I cant have it. I think, once you identify exactly what turns you on, and openly admit it, it becomes easy and fun to stick with it. It can be torture, but the torture can be hot.

does it make me moody? I don't think so, actually, because I'm enjoying it. If I was not enjoying it then I think it would, but I genuenly enjoy it. if there is any mood its horny. being denied her pussy while chris gets it just turns me on!

Do I get jealous? heres the thing about that. my jealousy wires and my libido wires are crossed. things that SHOULD make me jealous only just turn me on. Jen knows this, so she goes out of her way to do things that should make me jealous, and it just turns me on. I don't think I've ever been legitimately "jealous" of her or the other men she sleeps with.

i will say that yes, I do feel like I'm missing on my prime fucking years, but that only just feeds into the denial and turns me on... the more you get exposed to something the more used to it you get. I have been denied so long, to so much of a degree that feeling like my prime fucking years are being taken from me just feeds into it, and further turns me on. A step away from accepting that I'd never fuck her again... so I'd never fuck again at all (cause I'll never fuck anyone else), and that hits on a deep internal level that causes me to reach a new level of turned on... I don't know how else to explain it, but its a deeper level of arousal... The thought that as of today, I wont see Jen's pussy again for an entire year, hits deep, and explodes inside me, in new levels of arousal. I love it, I'm happy with it, and I kinda wouldnt want to change it. I kinda would not want to go back to being her primary sex partner, it would not be as exciting.

I feel that if we didnt have the anniversary date, and I were to never fuck her again as long as she's with Chris, which could potentially be the rest of our lives, I would accept that and be happy with it! ...not that I dont appriceate the anniversary dates, because of course I do! but we have them at her request! and I'm grateful for them!

This level of denial is not for everyone, for sure. but it works so well for us. it works so well for me, and her, and our specific backgrounds and personalities...

[inivisibletwin]

Happy Anniversary to you and Jen. Right now you might be balls deep in your bride lasting longer and really enjoying her sexy body staring into each others eyes.

Don’t forget that just before midnight you need to kiss her amazing pussy goodbye until 1/20/26. A whole year! Wow.

Hope you have the best day ever!

thank you so much! and yes, I did exactly that! I had access to it from midnight to midnight... and at midnight I kissed it one lat time... and I am actually really looking forward to a year of denial!

I'm gonna commit to it, too. Neither Chris nor Jen will even have to stop me. I'm going to go the whole next year not seeing or touching Jen's pussy at all. Even if / when I'm allowed to according to the rules, I will just not. I will either look away, or maintain eye contact. As of today, I am actively going to avoid looking! Like it's my new years resolution! haha... in fact, I think it IS my own personal new years resolution... I want to not see or touch my wife's pussy for an entire year!

It's gonna be hard, but worth it! ...it's gonna be hot!

...in fact... Chris is at work right now, and she is asleep in his bed... when she wakes up I'm going to tell her that. I am committing myself to not looking at her pussy for a a year! I know she'll like that, too!

[inivisibletwin]

Happy anniversary IT and Jen. Hope you are putting your time to good use. Hopefully you are able to post some pics of the always gorgeous Jen !

thank you so much!! I did have a great use of time!!

I'm not allowed to take or even see any new pictures of her. I'm only allowed to look at pictures of her I already had before her and chris started dating. I do have some older pictures of her that havent been posted... and yes I'm allowed to look at those pictures all I want... but my supply of those is limited because at the time I didnt know I'd be limited, so i didnt take as make pics as I could've... and I can't take any new ones.

that said, I might just go ahead and post a pic of her! It's be fun! I have a lot of pictures of her tits, and a few of her pussy...

[inivisibletwin]

update time!!

Thank you all for being so interested in how our anniversary date went, and in how things are between her and I.

I'll also say before I get into what happened, as of today my pussy denial is back on full, until our next anniversary, one year from today... but my breast denial is officially over. the only thing I am denied now is pussy access... as far as what chris' new punishment will be, we dont know yet. He is at work right now. We might talk about it when he gets home, but either way when he tells me I'll tell you guys...

I'll also say real quick that Jen added a number to her count on our date!!

anyway...

Jen and I checked in to a nice nearby hotel on saturday afternoon. my pussy access didnt start till midnight, so we spent saturday enjoying the ammenities of the hotel, together. it was too cold for the pool, but we had a nice meal in the hotel's retaurant, drove down to the beach for a bit, and had a very nice and romantic beach day, even though it was cold.

then we went back to our room, and fooled around a bit. with her pussy and tits being off limits to me still, it was basically just a blowjob... but she gives GREAT head, even when fully clothed! ...thing about my dick is its thicker than average, so its less sensitive than average, so bj's take a while. she knows this and enjoys the challenge. She sucked my dick for a while before stopping (it was clear I wasnt gonna get off... that happens some times)

Then she took a shower and did herself up, I did not join her... then we went down to the hotel bar. we spent a few hours there drinking and talking and enjoying eachothers company. it was a very fun date! aside from all the sexy stuff she is just fun to be around! I love her so much! She's a happy and funny person! we flirted and made each other laugh. I love her smile! i love her!

after a few hours, and a few drinks, thats when things started to get racy...

She was wearing skin tight jeans, a t shirt that was so low cut you could see her bra, and a light jacket that she had taken off at this point... I have to reiterate, her top was very low cut! almost to the point of gaping. she knows I love her tits, she knows I had been denied her tits, so she was putting them on display for me, and didnt care who else saw them...

Then she volunteered to go to the bar and get us another round of drinks, while I went to the restroom... (the booze was getting to me) ...I didnt think I took all that long, in the restroom, but on my way back to our table I saw her, at the bar, being chatted up by some dude.

I laughed to myself because this would have been a problem for most husbands, but for me I was just flattered and turned on, so I just went back to our table and tried to watch her as best I could. I could just barely see her... but I did see her give him what looked like a slip of paper, but I couldnt be sure.

when she got back to the table she told me that guys name was Justin, and he approached her at the bar while she was waiting for our drinks, and started hitting on her. She said she was flattered so she flirted back (as she is allowed to do). I did not ask about the paper. I trust her.

she said she did till him she was on a date with her husband, and thats how the interaction ended.

Thats when we noticed it was almost midnight, so we went up to our room and started making out... I got her down to her panties, but stopped there... still had a few minutes to go...

once the alarm on my phone rang, telling me it was midnight, I pulled her panties off and dove in face first!

I LOVE worshiping her pussy, so I just went at it! was not keeping track of time, but I felt like it was a while... she put on romantic music... it was lovely!

eventually I made her cum, then I climbed on top and slide my cock into her for the first time in a year! I only lasted a minute or two before blowing my load into her! ...such a sense of much needed relief! ...after I collapsed on top of her, then collected my strength, I ate her out until she cam... which, yes, meant tasting my own cum... I didnt care...

then we fell asleep in each others arms!

the next day we decided to spend the whole day just naked in our room. we started our day with her playing with my morning wood, and that turning into sex... which actually lasted a good long while! it was so hot and so romantic! she said as much as she loves fucking other guys, sex with me is still her favorite...

we spent the next few hours just cuddling in bed, naked, talking, and enjoying eachother's company. we ordered room service. I suggested I hide in the bathroom while she lets the delivery guy in, naked, and she was game, but they just dropped it off outside out door.

then I noticed she was paying close attention to the time... it was around 130 when she started making out with me again, initiating sex... which I didnt think anything of. making out with her, nibbling on her nips, rubbin her clit, her stroking my dick, and before I knew it she was on top of me and I was in her again... and she was watching the clock

After I had been in her for about 10 minutes or so, when it was just after 2pm (i noticed because she did) there was a knock at the door...

Soon as she heard that knock she stopping humping, leaned in close and whispered in my ear, "That would be Justin. He takes priority over you."

I just about exploded, and probly would have, except as she said that she pulled me out of her, and climbed off of me!

I could not believe it, my heart was racing, actually, what was happening???

without cleaning herself up or anything, she walked to the door, still completely naked, and peaked through the peak hole. She told it she was right, it was Justin, which meant I needed to get out of the bed.

As I climbed out of the bed and put my boxers on, she let him in. I watched as this man I had never met stood in the doorway and checked out my naked wife. I watched her greet him and hug him. She introduced me as her husband, and told him that he had priority over me. She straight up told him she just stopped having sex with me so she could have sex with him!

I spent the next 2 hours or so on the chair by the bed, watching Justin fuck my wife!



If you've followed my story for long enough you know that one of my biggest turn ons is when my wife stops fucking me to fuck someone else, because he has priority over me. I can't explain why, but that just pushes me over the edge! She knows this, but because of my pussy denial this isn't something we get to do all that often, because it requires having sex with her...

so when Justin hot on her at the bar she decided to take the opprotunity to give me something she knows I'll LOVE, but dont ever get... Turns out when she told him she was on a date with her husband, she included that I would want to watch him fuck her. That piece of paper she gave him was a napkin, on which she had written out room number and a time, 2pm.



and I SO loved it! of my god! I cant even explain... having her stop fucking me to fuck another guy was just the hottest thing she could have done!! I HAPPILY sat in that chair and watched the whole time!!

After he came inside her, took a moment to gather his strength, he got up and got dressed. He left his number, incase she wants to see him again, and he left!

then she told me, "okay, now that he's gone you may continue your turn."

I basically dove dick first into her pussy... i had lost all control, and it was a full on hot mindless fuck! I was running on pure instinct, no thought in my head, just giving in to the raw arousal... I maybe lasted 5 minutes before having the biggest orgasm I'd had in... i dont even know... I literally passed out right then and there...

when I eventually woke back up, she had already showered and cleaned herself up. and was laying next to me, still naked, reading and waiting for me to wake up. I spent the next several hours worshiping her pussy! later that evening we had sex one more time. then as we approached midnight I went down on her again and made her cum one more time before saying goodbye to her pussy for a whole year!

What a great date!

[Veryaware]

Wow! I love all the updates, but this particular update is one I look forward to each year! Thank you for sharing your journey of love and lust!

[inivisibletwin]

Wow! I love all the updates, but this particular update is one I look forward to each year! Thank you for sharing your journey of love and lust!

thank you! I look forward to it too! I'm happy to have you following along on this journey!

[inivisibletwin]

update:

Last night, after Chris got home, the three of us talked about what the new rules and dynamic would be.

first of all, it turns out meeting Justin at the bar was pre planned! Jen and Chris had found Justin on the dating app and arranged for him to meet her at the bar, where she would give him a time and our room number!

as far as our new dynamic, the boob denial is over, and wont happen again. I told him how that was actually a bit too far for me, and he pulled back. from now on all the denial punishments will relate to my access to her pussy.

we are still on the same system of denial, and he did not say what the new punishments will be. He said we'll just have to wait and find out when a punishment if warranted.

so, for now, things are back to the new normal. The only thing I am denied is her pussy, but I am 100% denied that until our next anniversary in Jan 2026!

[inivisibletwin]

if anyone was curious how we spent out valentines day, the three of us went out together, we went to a nice restaurant and then a bar-cade.

all the while jen and chris were all over eachother like a couple, and I was just tagging along like I was just a friend.

I paid for everything, and I drove so they could make out in the back.

anyone who saw us out and about would have assumed jen and chris were an actual couple, and wondered why I, their friend, was out with them on valentines day!

the night ended with them having sex in their room, while I went to bed alone!

the perfect valentines day!

[coastalkid]

How's the search for more men to add to the body count? Is that still a thing for Jen?

[inivisibletwin]

How's the search for more men to add to the body count? Is that still a thing for Jen?

absolutely it's still a thing! We have to find her 8 more guys before the end of the year. It's only the end of February so we have plenty of time. hell, if we really tried I'm betting we could get those 8 guys in a week haha. there hasnt been any new guys yet, but there will be!