Young married guy here

[Rogueuser1]

Have you put any hard limits though or are you open to her guiding it? If she comes home with his cum inside her or her anal cherry popped are you going to be upset or do you feel like those decisions are hers to make? If you are going to be upset, make sire she knows and understands that ahead of time!

[Dream Weaver]

We thought about new account but then the guys might get suspicious. I mean it is only to chat and nothing else. I don't think she will post anything lol (the last post was in 2023 October haha).

I admit I don't know exactly how it works, but if they tag her in their own photos and leave their profile on public, it could be bad for you two. Just because you don't use it doesn't mean they won't.

[sandy691196]

She will date them as a single girl? Later she will spring.it on them that she is married? In the meantime what will they be led to believe? It's FB, FWB, Romance.. what?

She is gonna make it clear that this will be a casual relationship. Both of us don't want to lead the men on.

I am sure a lot more goes on between a loving couple than what is possible to narrate hear painstakingly. Am sure you are having detailed discussions.
Still just for curiosity- have you considered the pitfalls of solo dating, one on one?

[RunDannyRun]

Have you put any hard limits though or are you open to her guiding it? If she comes home with his cum inside her or her anal cherry popped are you going to be upset or do you feel like those decisions are hers to make? If you are going to be upset, make sire she knows and understands that ahead of time!

This is where I didn't want to appear smothering. I hinted that I just want to know how things went and she is free to whatever she feels like doing.

We thought about new account but then the guys might get suspicious. I mean it is only to chat and nothing else. I don't think she will post anything lol (the last post was in 2023 October haha).

I admit I don't know exactly how it works, but if they tag her in their own photos and leave their profile on public, it could be bad for you two. Just because you don't use it doesn't mean they won't.

Hmm this is a good point but Lauren is chatting with them already on instagram. No going back i suppose.

She will date them as a single girl? Later she will spring.it on them that she is married? In the meantime what will they be led to believe? It's FB, FWB, Romance.. what?

She is gonna make it clear that this will be a casual relationship. Both of us don't want to lead the men on.

I am sure a lot more goes on between a loving couple than what is possible to narrate hear painstakingly. Am sure you are having detailed discussions.
Still just for curiosity- have you considered the pitfalls of solo dating, one on one?

I know the risks but i did not relay them to her. I know folks insist on communication here but I am afraid that if i discuss about negatives, she might get cold feet. But she was very clear that she doesn't want to develop any feelings with these men and only wants to have sex with them.


BTW, Paul(29) is about to go on some kind of backpacking trip and told her that he might not have reception for the next couple of weeks. So she is just chatting with James(24) now. I also have access to the chats but all of us were busy. So not much has happened.

[dadah]

danny - have you and lauren had any success in arranging a date or dates for her ??

[RunDannyRun]

Hey folks,

Not sure how detailed I should be here, but she has a date! They are meeting this Saturday for some coffee. I am so excited.

[Lovefeet]

Hey folks,

Not sure how detailed I should be here, but she has a date! They are meeting this Saturday for some coffee. I am so excited.

It ia gonna be the best day for you. I hope you and her will be enjoyed and move on your path

[Xmatty1]

You should not leave out any details. I find your story very exciting.

[RunDannyRun]

So some details here. James and Lauren have been texting over instagram but my wife's Calvinist-like work ethic means that they only chat after work and that too sporadically. There is nothing too inappropriate. Just lot of talk about their interests: where they went to university, favorite food and how they find their work etc. There were a few flirty comments like he said she is super hot etc but Lauren was always polite and didn't say anything too wild. She said he looked good (referring to his muscles) a couple of times. Lauren told him about her training regime (we run a lot) and he said that he doesn't like cardio that much and the only cardio he gets is in the bedroom with a winking eye emoji (I thought that was super lame).

Lauren told me that nothing is going to happen on the date and it is just to see how the guy is in real life. So don't expect any spicy details on Saturday haha.

[dadah]

what thrilling news !! and don't be surprised if more happens that her disclaimers.. he thinks she's 'super hot' and she thinks his muscles look good. i hope she finds him a suitable and exciting fuck buddy. if she does.......you never know ! saturday may be a really special day !! keeping my fingers crossed for you.....and her!

[sandy691196]

So some details here. James and Lauren have been texting over instagram but my wife's Calvinist-like work ethic means that they only chat after work and that too sporadically. There is nothing too inappropriate. Just lot of talk about their interests: where they went to university, favorite food and how they find their work etc. There were a few flirty comments like he said she is super hot etc but Lauren was always polite and didn't say anything too wild. She said he looked good (referring to his muscles) a couple of times. Lauren told him about her training regime (we run a lot) and he said that he doesn't like cardio that much and the only cardio he gets is in the bedroom with a winking eye emoji (I thought that was super lame).

Lauren told me that nothing is going to happen on the date and it is just to see how the guy is in real life. So don't expect any spicy details on Saturday haha.

So she is actually investing time in getting to know the bloke as a "person"...

[RunDannyRun]

So she is actually investing time in getting to know the bloke as a "person"...

It was actually a conversation we had a few times. She told me that she can not sleep with someone without any kind of emotional connection. We also wondered about the ethics as in are we leading the guy on. But since Lauren made it clear that she is not looking for anything longterm, we feel it is okay. i am just reacting to Lauren's ideas and not imposing any of my wishes/thoughts.


Another small update. They are planning to have a walk and then coffee. I thought they might go to dinner but Lauren wants to keep it simple. They might probably go to his place afterwards (fingers crosse). Lauren told me that she is a bit nervous but excited. I am just being supportive. I think I will tell her before the date to enjoy herself and will explicitly tell her that I don't mind if she decided to have sex with him tomorrow itself.

[dadah]

"have sex with him tomorrow itself". don't be surprised if she does!! she knows he thinks she's 'super hot', as in hot to fuck! and he knows she thinks he has a nice body. it's coming!!

and if i might comment re "leading him on", with you understanding i am not wanting anybody to consider me being critical. here goes: if i were you i would want my hot wife who's considering getting fucked by other men to divulge to her potential fuck partner that she is married.....i.e. her pussy is available, but her larger life is not......she is married and she is devoted to her husband; he knows where she is and what she is doing; he is ok with her having extra marital fun and finds it exciting. otherwise lauren may find herself confronted with a guy who wants way more from her than just her hot pussy, and way more than yu find acceptable.

y'all's situation is downright thrilling. i just wouldn't want to see things get sideways over fuck buddy's being confused about lauren's availability. imo, leveling on the front end is the best and safest policy. there are plenty of other guys in life who would love to fuck lauren, married or not. just my opinion, please forgive if i have overstepped !!

i hope your and lauren's weekend is special and hotwife hot !! davo

[Rogueuser1]

I'm so excited for you! I hope it goes well.

Hopefully with all of this "get to know you" he isn't too angry when he finds out she is actually married and not single like she said.

[sandy691196]

So she is actually investing time in getting to know the bloke as a "person"...

It was actually a conversation we had a few times. She told me that she can not sleep with someone without any kind of emotional connection. We also wondered about the ethics as in are we leading the guy on. But since Lauren made it clear that she is not looking for anything longterm, we feel it is okay. i am just reacting to Lauren's ideas and not imposing any of my wishes/thoughts.


Another small update. They are planning to have a walk and then coffee. I thought they might go to dinner but Lauren wants to keep it simple. They might probably go to his place afterwards (fingers crosse). Lauren told me that she is a bit nervous but excited. I am just being supportive. I think I will tell her before the date to enjoy herself and will explicitly tell her that I don't mind if she decided to have sex with him tomorrow itself.

"she can not sleep with someone without any kind of emotional connection" .. That's a bummer for me. But that's me, not you necessarily.

" Lauren made it clear that she is not looking for anything longterm".. She made it clear to the guy? He knows she is married? Does he have a girl? Playing with an attached guy is way safer.

"I thought they might go to dinner but Lauren wants to keep it simple.".. THIS is the part I am liking the best. Less "getting to know".. less of "person to person" interaction.. A quick sexual encounter. Then come back and take stock of things after you have had your reclamation.
My take is that after she gets back from the sexual tryst you may not wanna send a message - "I love you more for this" or "this is our new thing in life, this makes our relationship better than before"!

Enjoy her narration of the experience.. ask her to be frank and hold nothing back. Have your very loving reclamation. You may wanna send some "possessive" vibes (not in a guilt tripping way).. kinda reinforcing that you are glad that she is back in your arms. She belongs in your arms and with you. This was just an extension of your sex life to spice things up..

Just my 2 bits

[wannabecUKold]

I assumed she would need a connection with James. That is fine. Sex alone might feel a bit slutty.

In that case she must disclose her status asap. But if she does it straight out, James may feel he has been misled. Instead, she should gently let the information slip out. Eg she can tease James about all the girlfriends he has. James will assume she must have a boyfriend, and she can say maybe (ie yes) so that James sees that she is spoken for and is here for a sexual relationship with him as a second boyfriend. Later she can make it obvious that her main bf (you) is aware of her tryst with James.

[dadah]

here is to hoping lauren comes home thoroughly and freshly fucked. if she does make sure you have your dick in her when she is telling you all about it. that will be the hottest and best fuck you've had thus far in life.

tell us what she left wearing. that will indicate her true intentions for today !!

[RunDannyRun]

Thanks folks. She told me that she will tell James that she is in a married if she likes him enough. She felt guilty about hiding it. Your advice is well received. She is not gonna tell him immediately though. She wants to only tell him later. She is still insisting that this is only going to be get-to-know date and nothing else is going to happen.

she is just wearing a nice summer dress. She is just getting ready like how she usually dresses when she hangs out with her girlfriends. nothing very revealing or slutty. She will be leaving in 3 hours.

[CuckBar]

A long 3 hours for you!
Summer dress is perfect and very convenient for fucking lol!
Good luck, hope it all goes well.

[kaskap79]

Fingers crossed for a positive meeting.

Chemistry meetings are important. I always has when I meet a Lady for the first time.

The chances for them hooking up today are slim, but hope is always there.

The time for you, will seems like it stopped, a minute will feel like an hour. But enjoy your first feelings of cuckold angst.

[dadah]

danny - has lauren told you what if anything she is gonna be wearing underneath that nice summer dress?? and a 'super hot' young woman doesn't need to wear 'revealing' or 'slutty'. a thin summer dress can announce her femininity and 'super hotness' just fine. as you have described lauren, i'm pretty damn sure she would know exactly what it is about which i speak.

has lauren given you how long she is expecting her meet and greet to last. ask her, and enjoy your saturday danny!! davo

[marriedky]

Jesus. Living the dream. Hopefully on the next date you’ll be able to clean her pussy and reclaim her. Good luck

[RunDannyRun]

Hey folks! It has been an hour and half since she has been gone. She said that she will back by 06:30 pm. I am filled with excitement and I am hoping that she will text me that she might have to stay a bit longer. let us see.

[wannabecUKold]

[RunDannyRun]

Umm I think something bad has happened. Lauren just came home and told me that the date didn't go well and she just wants some space. She just went into the bedroom and I tried to talk to her but she just said that she wants some time to process what has happened. She told me that she is not mad at me but she just wants to be alone.