Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Mon Dec 19, 2022 7:26 am
W770 - After the dust has settled from Shawn departing and the, at that point roughly six weeks of, I'm going to call it affair, seems to me your wife is due for a vacation at a nice resort with great beaches and lots of eye candy. For both of you.
Well actually, we do sometimes go off to some warm weather location in January or February to escape the cold, so there's a chance of that actually happening, lol.
Wifesharing wrote: ↑Mon Dec 19, 2022 7:55 am
w770 wrote: ↑Mon Dec 19, 2022 6:26 am
Wifesharing wrote: ↑Mon Dec 19, 2022 6:06 am
Yeah the Party could be exciting however I think if I was in that situation I would have to skip it I would actually have both of us skip it
I know that it is likely you and Lana will both go as it is the path you are on and wanting and there is nothing wrong with that there is no right or wrong in this.
For me this party is more for him then you and Lana. Is it going to be intense and sexy oh hell yes I can’t wait to hear about it but it is definitely something I would not do personally.
Can I ask you why you wouldn't go? Any perspective would be appreciated. I'm fully expecting that if we go, we'll be getting odd glances all night, and if it gets too overwhelming, I can always just leave and I'll be home in less than a minute. I know it's been about 36 hours, but I'm still feeling a bit rattled and intimidated all stemming from Shawn's staring on Saturday night and I don't really know how it will impact my general ability to interact with him and his friends.
For me personally it just would not be my seen. For you, you do seem to crave a ever more intense level of humiliation and if that is what you want then you should for sure go. I am finding it hard to articulate why i wouldn't go and why i wouldn't want my wife to go. I would be against it, please remember this is my reasons and how you decide to proceed is not right or wrong just right or wrong for you and only you can figure that out.
The party setting would be to much unknown for me it is all his friends and not yours if the guest were more neutral I would consider going but a party or people 15 years my junior and all his friends and in the know just not my thing. You both really have done a great job of planning and discussing how things will go sure there are things that don't go fully to plan but you two have been in control , this party is not something that fits that part of your previous planning. I guess the biggest thing for us, is this is about her and I, it doesn't matter what others think and what the other men think it is her and I, he is getting the pleasure to have sex with my wife, I would not be interested in going to a party that appears to be more about him showing off to his friends at your expense, your going to be viewed as the cuck and worse she is going to the older married slut. This can be hot, but in this setting that you are talking about to me my gut would be to choose to skip that for both of us. Again I am sorry i can't really articulate why I just think this feels too much like something for him and you two are props.
I am by no means saying that you shouldn't do it, I actually think you are going to do it and I think everyone has to make their own choices as to what they want. Like said above for selfish reasons I want you two to go I want to read the hot story.
Dharmadude wrote: ↑Mon Dec 19, 2022 8:13 am
The party is tricky. I have no problem with flirting in front of me. I would be okay with her fucking him right in front of me. Myself, and anyone else there could watch and it would be hot. If she so chose, more could join in and I would be there to shut it down if it went beyond her comfort level.
Like I said before, I’m not into the humiliation aspect so that would have been pre-determined and “shouldn’t “ be an issue.
You enjoy that aspect and, IMO, the humiliation will be off the charts. Not only because some or all of them know, but his personality, and lack of respect for you, will embolden him to push it. To what level? I think anything is on the table with this guy. From kissing, feeling her up, all the way to making her blow him or having some join in.
If you can handle it, I think you should go. You will get that charge from the experience plus you will be there to keep Lana from going past her limits.
IMO you should discuss what her limits are with honesty and no judgement. You have stated here some of her limits/desires but, as you have said many times, things are different now and they may have changed. You might not get another opportunity like this so you both should explore it to its fullest.
I know it seems like I have pushed this angle, and maybe my pervy nature influences it which is a fair assessment, but I believe in experiences and having no regrets so when opportunities arise then take them.
I believe it was poster Leander in this thread who described it perfectly the other day in that the pushing of boundaries is akin to a drug which keeps someone from wanting more each time, thereby explaining how the limits keep getting extended regardless of what we plan. I'm not sure what will constitute "too much" at this point, and like the famous legal quote regarding pornography, "I can't define what exactly it is, but I know it when I see it."
SixInchDick wrote: ↑Mon Dec 19, 2022 8:23 am
Part of me can't shake the feeling that you should just walk away from this crazy lifestyle before something bad happens. I'm sorry, I just can't help it. Your wife seems so amazing, I just don't want you to get hurt. At the same time, I also realize that Shawn is merely just a fantasy played out in real life. The young man with the ideal looks AND penis, which is a rare combination. The only quality time they really have is at the gym and that's hardly the definition of quality time. Otherwise, their time together is just intense physical pleasure which is not the same as day to day emotional bonding and back story. So, I'm torn. It's clearly none of my business, just my thoughts.
If I imagine the roles reversed, where you get the same experience with a perfect-looking female like Elizabeth Hurley, then would you fall for her solely based on the sex? Don't answer that

we are men, so the answer would more than likely be yes. Women aren't usually wired that way though.
This is a smart approach, and what you said is true in that they really don't spend time bonding in ways that aren't the gym or having sex. It might be a reason why I'm not necessarily too threatened by the prospect of her really becoming emotionally attached to him. Oh and Lana has mentioned several times that she doesn't get turned on like I do in the idea of watching me with another woman. There's a gorgeous blonde girl that lives in our building that says hi to me whenever we see each other walking our dogs, and one time, this girl, Lana and myself were all in the elevator together and I noticed Lana shooting daggers at the girl with her glare, basically warning the girl to not even think about moving into her territory. All with a smile on her face too.
falzar wrote: ↑Mon Dec 19, 2022 7:43 am
You"re livng my dream man. I do have some cuck experience but limited and some time ago. For selfish reasons, I really hope you and Lana both go to the party. I find the humiliation aspect of being in a social setting with your wife and her bull/lover (whichever you prefer) and his "in-the know" friends totally off the charts. As you say, you have a quick and easy escape route. How it may go is not predictable which is part of the excitment. But, of course, you and Lana must decide what is best for you as a couple.
As of now, I'm leaning towards going just to get a dose of the public humiliation, fully expecting it to eventually overwhelm me, forcing me to leave prematurely while Lana stays behind for a while.