Ask a Hotwife Thread, to be answered by VHWs only!

[Husbands Kandi]

A question for all the sexy ladies here ...........

In what ways has being a hotwife improved your lives?? In what ways are you happier??

(It doesn't JUST have to be in sexual ways - Do you feel sexier/more desirable? Are you less stressed? Do you feel more of a woman? Do you savor the "new" & "different" of having BF's / FWB's? Does the change of scenery appeal to you? Do you feel less "boxed in" or confined? etc., etc.)

You may also - obviously - have sexual reasons and ways you're happier!!

I feel as beautiful as my husband always said I was. I used to shrug him off when he’d say that, like it was an obligatory husband thing to say. Then I started to pay attention to other men and how they DID check me out and WERE hitting on me. My Secondary took me to a concert (almost 2 years ago) and asked me, “Are you trying to make me jealous?” What, why? I didn’t realize my being polite to another guy was actually flirting. Oops, LOL! Kentros would say I have a boost in confidence and hotwifing is an amazing de-stressor for me. So, yes! I feel like an amazing, powerful woman. Sex wise – I’m pushing boundaries and exploring things that hubby would never be into – that’s pretty life changing too.

[Husbands Kandi]

I hope I'm not upsetting HW husbands, but I'm really only looking for comments from VHW's. My wife LouiseQ occasionally posts on here but refuses to be categorised as a HW, let alone a VHW, as she no longer indulges. She never entertained bulls, and refused to describe her sexual partners as FBs or even BFs. She was not interested in guys - no matter how sexually appealing - if she didn't feel she could have some kind of emotional connection. Of course, this is somewhat risky, and she was aware of the possibility that either she, or the person she was seeing, would become too emotionally attached, and was always ready to break the relationship off, no matter how painful. It helped that she and I enjoy an intense bond, and I know there is very little risk of that being broken. I suppose I am a stag, although I feel the term cuckold (or wittol) covers both husbands who approve and encourage, and also those who are given no choice in their wives affairs.

Long premable, for which I apologise! As a practising psychologist, I have long been interested in the HW/cuckold phenomenon, and I am happy to share my research if any members wish to pm me. My current interest is in female sexual satisfaction ie how many encounters, or how long a session, or how many orgasms constitute 'completion'. There are stories on the website of wives who keep a 'stable' of guys she can call on. Similarly, there are tales of wives who prefer marathon sessions which go on all night. I think in the uk that is called a 'roasting', where one guy follows another.

I am interested in hearing about VHW preferences. My own wife has participated in sex parties and has cavorted with both male and female partners, but her preference has always been to have one 'secondary husband' as she terms them. She is happiest when she experiences at least three orgasms, but rarely wants more than four. She is, of course, considerate of her partner's needs and always takes the time and trouble to ensure he is satisfied.

How do VHWs see this? How many lovers is too many, how long a session is too long and how many orgasms can you take?

Thanks and best wishes

Alex

Hi Alex, well, you are in the “ask a hotwife thread,” so no worries on upsetting the HW hubbies.
Every lady is probably going to have a different take on their preferences. Here’s mine… while I’ve not participated in sex parties yet – I would like to eventually. I’m only interested in men, but not a “secondary husband.” I do have a secondary/poly lover (boyfriend) but that wasn’t out intention when getting into hotwifing. But we’ve evolved and Kentros and I talked it out and have made it work (beautifully, I might add). In regards to orgasm – can never have too many! How many lovers is too many – haven’t had “too many” before.

[Sophie]

A question for all the sexy ladies here ...........

In what ways has being a hotwife improved your lives?? In what ways are you happier??

(It doesn't JUST have to be in sexual ways - Do you feel sexier/more desirable? Are you less stressed? Do you feel more of a woman? Do you savor the "new" & "different" of having BF's / FWB's? Does the change of scenery appeal to you? Do you feel less "boxed in" or confined? etc., etc.)

You may also - obviously - have sexual reasons and ways you're happier!!

Your question made me think about this more than I thought it would, at first sight.

In my profession, you gain confidence and respect from your latest set of results and actions as time passes, I endeavour to shape lives to be the best they can. Sometimes no matter how hard I try, it's not enough, the outside factors take control and that is really sad

Being a HW, I feel even more confident to knock back guys who don't get the 'I'm not interested' talk', as I'm the one who decides if anything happens. I know some women who are 180 degrees in the other direction and others who think they are in control, but in fact are totally deluded.

So yes enhanced confidence and even more orgasms as Husbands Kandi said previously. It also makes me realise my husband is a very special man, who loves me so much that he can let me be so much more than just his life partner wife.

Sophie.

[Decman]

Hi all -- I'm in a cuckold (not necessarily hotwife) relationship as the cuckold husband. As I shared over in the Cuck forum, my wife had a little dust-up with her boyfriend for a few weeks this Summer. During the "pause" in their relationship, she and I had no sex (of any kind). While I understand my role vis a vis her and her bull when they're together, it was a bit of a gut punch to know that given the choice between no sex and having sex with her cuckold, she chose the former.

This has made me reflect on the permanence of this change to our marriage dynamic. My question to VHW's is -- have you gone through phases like this, and if so -- is there a possibility of light at the end of the tunnel -- i.e., her seeing me again some day as a sexual partner?

[Sophie]

Hi all -- I'm in a cuckold (not necessarily hotwife) relationship as the cuckold husband. As I shared over in the Cuck forum, my wife had a little dust-up with her boyfriend for a few weeks this Summer. During the "pause" in their relationship, she and I had no sex (of any kind). While I understand my role vis a vis her and her bull when they're together, it was a bit of a gut punch to know that given the choice between no sex and having sex with her cuckold, she chose the former.

This has made me reflect on the permanence of this change to our marriage dynamic. My question to VHW's is -- have you gone through phases like this, and if so -- is there a possibility of light at the end of the tunnel -- i.e., her seeing me again some day as a sexual partner?

Hi Decman,

I have stopped having sex for a predetermined time with my hubby, but have never not seen him as not being one of my sexual partners ever. I would never ever do that, I enjoy the sex we have, even though its different to what I get elsewhere.

Sorry I don't think I can help you, except to say, have you talked about this with her? Communication is the key to this LS, without it you are going to have difficulties going forward.

Sophie.

[Decman]

Thanks Sophie. As part of our cuckold relationship, I'm not a sexual partner to her -- what is troubling me is that when she left the relationship with her boyfriend, that she had no interest in restarting that relationship whatsoever. Every relationship is different of course.

[early-kink]

A question for all the sexy ladies here ...........

In what ways has being a hotwife improved your lives?? In what ways are you happier??

(It doesn't JUST have to be in sexual ways - Do you feel sexier/more desirable? Are you less stressed? Do you feel more of a woman? Do you savor the "new" & "different" of having BF's / FWB's? Does the change of scenery appeal to you? Do you feel less "boxed in" or confined? etc., etc.)

You may also - obviously - have sexual reasons and ways you're happier!!

Your question made me think about this more than I thought it would, at first sight.

In my profession, you gain confidence and respect from your latest set of results and actions as time passes, I endeavour to shape lives to be the best they can. Sometimes no matter how hard I try, it's not enough, the outside factors take control and that is really sad

Being a HW, I feel even more confident to knock back guys who don't get the 'I'm not interested' talk', as I'm the one who decides if anything happens. I know some women who are 180 degrees in the other direction and others who think they are in control, but in fact are totally deluded.

So yes enhanced confidence and even more orgasms as Husbands Kandi said previously. It also makes me realise my husband is a very special man, who loves me so much that he can let me be so much more than just his life partner wife.

Sophie.

Thanks for your response, Sophie !! Always great to hear from you ladies !!

I was trying to quote just your last 2 sentences, Sophie. Your whole post got quoted. I take it you have many more orgasms with your boyfriend(s) than your husband??

Also - how does your husband's "letting you be so much more" enhance your life?? How precious is his "freeing attitude"??

I think so many people don't understand the husbands loving their wives so much that they agree to let their wives have other romantic/sexual excitement. How would you describe benefitting from such an unselfish, generous love such as your husband has for you??

[early-kink]

A question for all the sexy ladies here ...........

In what ways has being a hotwife improved your lives?? In what ways are you happier??

(It doesn't JUST have to be in sexual ways - Do you feel sexier/more desirable? Are you less stressed? Do you feel more of a woman? Do you savor the "new" & "different" of having BF's / FWB's? Does the change of scenery appeal to you? Do you feel less "boxed in" or confined? etc., etc.)

You may also - obviously - have sexual reasons and ways you're happier!!

I feel as beautiful as my husband always said I was. I used to shrug him off when he’d say that, like it was an obligatory husband thing to say. Then I started to pay attention to other men and how they DID check me out and WERE hitting on me. My Secondary took me to a concert (almost 2 years ago) and asked me, “Are you trying to make me jealous?” What, why? I didn’t realize my being polite to another guy was actually flirting. Oops, LOL! Kentros would say I have a boost in confidence and hotwifing is an amazing de-stressor for me. So, yes! I feel like an amazing, powerful woman. Sex wise – I’m pushing boundaries and exploring things that hubby would never be into – that’s pretty life changing too.

Thanks for your response, Husbands Kandi !! You confirmed what many husbands say about their wives - that we think they're beautiful and sexy ......... but they don't believe us. Wives feel we just say that because we "have to." You've confirmed that becoming a hotwife HAS proven to you that you're hot, sexy and desirable !! I wish other sexy ladies would give hotwifing a shot - so as to prove that they too, are hot & sexy. I'm happy for you that you realize how sexy & desirable you really are.

[Sophie]

A question for all the sexy ladies here ...........

In what ways has being a hotwife improved your lives?? In what ways are you happier??

(It doesn't JUST have to be in sexual ways - Do you feel sexier/more desirable? Are you less stressed? Do you feel more of a woman? Do you savor the "new" & "different" of having BF's / FWB's? Does the change of scenery appeal to you? Do you feel less "boxed in" or confined? etc., etc.)

You may also - obviously - have sexual reasons and ways you're happier!!

Your question made me think about this more than I thought it would, at first sight.

In my profession, you gain confidence and respect from your latest set of results and actions as time passes, I endeavour to shape lives to be the best they can. Sometimes no matter how hard I try, it's not enough, the outside factors take control and that is really sad

Being a HW, I feel even more confident to knock back guys who don't get the 'I'm not interested' talk', as I'm the one who decides if anything happens. I know some women who are 180 degrees in the other direction and others who think they are in control, but in fact are totally deluded.

So yes enhanced confidence and even more orgasms as Husbands Kandi said previously. It also makes me realise my husband is a very special man, who loves me so much that he can let me be so much more than just his life partner wife.

Sophie.

Thanks for your response, Sophie !! Always great to hear from you ladies !!

I was trying to quote just your last 2 sentences, Sophie. Your whole post got quoted. I take it you have many more orgasms with your boyfriend(s) than your husband??

Also - how does your husband's "letting you be so much more" enhance your life?? How precious is his "freeing attitude"??

I think so many people don't understand the husbands loving their wives so much that they agree to let their wives have other romantic/sexual excitement. How would you describe benefitting from such an unselfish, generous love such as your husband has for you??

Yes I have more orgasms with my lovers than hubby, mainly due to I get vaginal ones, in addition to oral and finger induced ones.

Hubby "letting you be so much more" is simple, more options to go to bed, and more time in bed than I would be able to achieve. Knowing I have his full support to see and experience other lovers.

My hubby is also a voyeur, so he gets his reward from watching, I don't think his love for me allows him to let me see others, he wants it. That said I think other husbands as so in love they can be door mats. I know I'm a lucky woman, having such a husband and will never forget that. Not sure I have answered all your questions fully, but they are deep and emotionally challenging ones and I could see the answer differently tomorrow with a different set of life problems.

Sophie.

[Ckld]

Hi everyone I'm new here and from what I have read here it is almost always the husband's fantasy initially. I was wondering what are the factors that motivated the Hotwives to get into the lifestyle. I have two specific questions:
-For those who weren't satisfied sexually from their husbands for any reason (size, stamina, libido, sexual chemistry...) did it make you more accepting of this fantasy and more motivated to have sex with other men?
-the other questions is for Hotwives who feel like they lacked enough sexual experience before marriage and specially those who were virgins before their current partner. Did this play a role in developing interest in your husband's fantasy?

Thank you

[Dzs1653]

My hubby is also a voyeur, so he gets his reward from watching,

I was wanting to ask about this and there the subject has been brought up for me. I know that many of you prefer to go solo, and was wondering about exceptions to that. So my question is to those of you who, at least sometimes, have your husband there. Is it ever because experiencing great pleasure from another man in your husband's presence is actually an additional turn-on for you, as opposed to just a gift to your husband?

[Sophie]

My hubby is also a voyeur, so he gets his reward from watching,

I was wanting to ask about this and there the subject has been brought up for me. I know that many of you prefer to go solo, and was wondering about exceptions to that. So my question is to those of you who, at least sometimes, have your husband there. Is it ever because experiencing great pleasure from another man in your husband's presence is actually an additional turn-on for you, as opposed to just a gift to your husband?

I prefer hubby to be not present if I am totally honest, however until I am totally sure of a lover will fully respect my limits, I want hubby in the room to be my safety man.

My limits are variable depending upon the lover and what he likes.

It is different with hubby present as I feel the need to put on a show for him if that makes sense, without him present its all my needs and my lovers needs being satisfied.

Even when, I am with a fully trusted lover, hubby is often invited to sit and watch, he is instructed what to do if we need something that involves a third person, other than that he sits and watches only no talking or moving is aloud. He is caged for visits so no masturbation is involved. He is also towel boy, to dry the perspiration two fully committed lovers produce during a hot exciting session, he enjoys performing this helpful function.

I once allowed hubby to enter me after my lover had filled me with his sperm, and my lover watched. Hubby came on the second trust, which is not unusual for him when fully charged up. He performed the clean up as required and every thing was fine until my lover overstepped our limits and said something during our wash up chat afterwards that made me realise that I don't want others seeing what happens sexually with my hubby ever again. So it was a first and the last time for any entry in me by my hubby with someone watching. I often ask a lover to allow hubby and me a few moments alone if I want hubby to enter me, only one has refused to leave us for a few moments. Yes it was our last visit to see him.

I test the water trusting a lover when, while hubby is dispatched to make a cuppa for us.

So as I said its different with and without hubby present. Hubby is aloud to be present as a thank you for being ok with me having lovers. Some of the best times have been with hubby present, but the others were with him in another room waiting to be called to attend to our needs.

Sophie

[early-kink]

^^^^^^^ Sophie -
You said above that hubby is present as a "thank-you" for agreeing to you having lovers. Do you ever actually tell him thank-you for his love and support of you having lovers??

I actually have thought about asking this very question to ALL the hotwives for some time - but I get side-tracked while reading other topics!!

Do you ladies who are hotwives ever tell your husbands or long-term boyfriends "thank-you" for giving you your "hall passes" and supporting you in your sexual adventures???

[Sophie]

^^^^^^^ Sophie -
You said above that hubby is present as a "thank-you" for agreeing to you having lovers. Do you ever actually tell him thank-you for his love and support of you having lovers??

I actually have thought about asking this very question to ALL the hotwives for some time - but I get side-tracked while reading other topics!!

Do you ladies who are hotwives ever tell your husbands or long-term boyfriends "thank-you" for giving you your "hall passes" and supporting you in your sexual adventures???

I don't say thank you, because for us it is not like that.

He thinks it is to satisfy his voyeur needs, not my pleasure.

I let him carry on thinking that, so I am in control, which I like.

We both enjoy this, but he thinks I mainly do it to please him and only enjoy it a bit. Lets face it no matter how you look at things everyone is different. He sees me smile and knows I'm turned on, but that he considers would happen when a lover takes over and plays with my turn on bits like he does. So internally I thank him by letting him watch, but not verbally, some would say this is wrong, but it works for us.

Sophie.

[solstice]

Sophie, Is you husband quite assertive in his nonsexual life?

[Farmgirl]

Do you ladies who are hotwives ever tell your husbands or long-term boyfriends "thank-you" for giving you your "hall passes" and supporting you in your sexual adventures???

I do thank my husband, I thank him for all that he does for me. I look around and see the various marriages of people, I am very thankful for mine. Part of this is probably a cultural thing as in the South we tend to be thankful for everything. Other people from different regions see things differently.
With all that we do for each other, why would we not show thanks.

[Daveinsane]

Later after a few years of marriage, we talked about the sharing thing, well hubby started the talks. After I finally tried another man, it became one of the reasons to continue

Thanks for your response Sophie.

Can I ask what took you from just talking about it to taking a lover? Did you do it just to please your husband or did you meet the right guy?

Many thanks,
S
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To be honest, our talks excited me and I just thought what harm would it do. I checked with every possible way I could think of to see if hubby was really ok with me being with another guy. He passed them all.

The one that I knew would test him was when I said that it would only happen if the guy used condoms and I waited till he had orgasmed to state my requirement.

He tried every way to try to get me to allow the guy to not use a condom, at that point I knew he would be ok with me trying another guy. The other things really just confirmed beyond doubt for me.

Well plans were made long weekend away in a log cabin.

The guy turned up Saturday night, and he was good looking younger than us, nice size down below. No kissing was allowed my rule, big mistake on my part, he got ready, condom fitted entered me trust a few times, real good feelings for me, he went soft and it was over. The mind was willing, but the body not willing, he remained soft till he decided it was not going to happen.

Hubby and I fucked so many times it was like we were first timers all over again.

The one thing I knew for certain at that point was it was not going to be the last time to try another man.

I played it real cool with hubby, who was so upset it did not go well and I said not really my thing, I have done it for you and I hope you realise it's over.

He tried everything to change how I thought or how he thought I thought, as I wanted to control things going forward.

Yes I have had more than my fair share of other men, some married and some single, I think married is easier to organise as they don't pester and they follow our wishes without hassle.

The best have been long term as I wanted them to come back for more, and that they did. One got to me and as I have posted on here before nearly cost me my marriage and hubby now knows the signs and hits the veto button, when its going off rail. I trust him to do that as I love him so much.

Hope this answers your question Spartan Shield.

Sophie
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Damn, I thought that was a really hot story!

[Sophie]

Sophie, Is you husband quite assertive in his nonsexual life?

Very much in charge of his company as he is the MD and does not take fools lightly. At times he is what I call a bully to his workers.

Sophie.

[Sophie]

Later after a few years of marriage, we talked about the sharing thing, well hubby started the talks. After I finally tried another man, it became one of the reasons to continue

Thanks for your response Sophie.

Can I ask what took you from just talking about it to taking a lover? Did you do it just to please your husband or did you meet the right guy?

Many thanks,
S

To be honest, our talks excited me and I just thought what harm would it do. I checked with every possible way I could think of to see if hubby was really ok with me being with another guy. He passed them all.

The one that I knew would test him was when I said that it would only happen if the guy used condoms and I waited till he had orgasmed to state my requirement.

He tried every way to try to get me to allow the guy to not use a condom, at that point I knew he would be ok with me trying another guy. The other things really just confirmed beyond doubt for me.

Well plans were made long weekend away in a log cabin.

The guy turned up Saturday night, and he was good looking younger than us, nice size down below. No kissing was allowed my rule, big mistake on my part, he got ready, condom fitted entered me trust a few times, real good feelings for me, he went soft and it was over. The mind was willing, but the body not willing, he remained soft till he decided it was not going to happen.

Hubby and I fucked so many times it was like we were first timers all over again.

The one thing I knew for certain at that point was it was not going to be the last time to try another man.

I played it real cool with hubby, who was so upset it did not go well and I said not really my thing, I have done it for you and I hope you realise it's over.

He tried everything to change how I thought or how he thought I thought, as I wanted to control things going forward.

Yes I have had more than my fair share of other men, some married and some single, I think married is easier to organise as they don't pester and they follow our wishes without hassle.

The best have been long term as I wanted them to come back for more, and that they did. One got to me and as I have posted on here before nearly cost me my marriage and hubby now knows the signs and hits the veto button, when its going off rail. I trust him to do that as I love him so much.

Hope this answers your question Spartan Shield.

Sophie
[/quote]


Damn, I thought that was a really hot story!
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Hi Daveinsane,

Not sure what you mean by story as in the UK that infers its not a true account of things, when what I have said is how I see it happened. If that makes sense.

Sophie.

[2wheel]

Later after a few years of marriage, we talked about the sharing thing, well hubby started the talks. After I finally tried another man, it became one of the reasons to continue

Thanks for your response Sophie.

Can I ask what took you from just talking about it to taking a lover? Did you do it just to please your husband or did you meet the right guy?

Many thanks,
S

To be honest, our talks excited me and I just thought what harm would it do. I checked with every possible way I could think of to see if hubby was really ok with me being with another guy. He passed them all.

The one that I knew would test him was when I said that it would only happen if the guy used condoms and I waited till he had orgasmed to state my requirement.

He tried every way to try to get me to allow the guy to not use a condom, at that point I knew he would be ok with me trying another guy. The other things really just confirmed beyond doubt for me.

Well plans were made long weekend away in a log cabin.

The guy turned up Saturday night, and he was good looking younger than us, nice size down below. No kissing was allowed my rule, big mistake on my part, he got ready, condom fitted entered me trust a few times, real good feelings for me, he went soft and it was over. The mind was willing, but the body not willing, he remained soft till he decided it was not going to happen.

Hubby and I fucked so many times it was like we were first timers all over again.

The one thing I knew for certain at that point was it was not going to be the last time to try another man.

I played it real cool with hubby, who was so upset it did not go well and I said not really my thing, I have done it for you and I hope you realise it's over.

He tried everything to change how I thought or how he thought I thought, as I wanted to control things going forward.

Yes I have had more than my fair share of other men, some married and some single, I think married is easier to organise as they don't pester and they follow our wishes without hassle.

The best have been long term as I wanted them to come back for more, and that they did. One got to me and as I have posted on here before nearly cost me my marriage and hubby now knows the signs and hits the veto button, when its going off rail. I trust him to do that as I love him so much.

Hope this answers your question Spartan Shield.

Sophie

After badgering my wife into doing it that was her plan as well, only once to shut me up. OOPS. She liked and also knew "it was not going to be the last time to try another man."

Almost 2 years now (1 1/2 active, CV19 shut us down) she's had 100+ different men 2 regulars, many repeats and 2 GBs.

[early-kink]

Do you ladies who are hotwives ever tell your husbands or long-term boyfriends "thank-you" for giving you your "hall passes" and supporting you in your sexual adventures???

I do thank my husband, I thank him for all that he does for me. I look around and see the various marriages of people, I am very thankful for mine. Part of this is probably a cultural thing as in the South we tend to be thankful for everything. Other people from different regions see things differently.
With all that we do for each other, why would we not show thanks.

I'm not surprised, Farmgirl, that you tell your #1 thank-you !!! You two have it going on. Soooooo many couples have sex lives that stink .......... you two have something great.

[Roman7]

I am not too good in English.
I have some questions to experienced hot-wives and their husbands.
We have married for 8 years. We are both in 38yrs. We live in South-East Asian country, very religious and very traditional. I use to read erotic stories in English. I found out this lifestyle and other fantasies.
In recent years, i feel that I want her to feel more sex.
So, I use some toys vibes and sleeve.
She is very traditional and so shy about sex.
At first, she didn't like my toys.
After 4 or 5 times I used them, she began to like them.
Now, she even reminds me to use them.
Sometimes, I ask her if she likes more bigger and longer cock.
She says Yes for sometime. Sometime she says that she wants me only. Not other man.
In our country, when a woman fantasizes about other man or have sex with other than her marriage, it is like a sin by religion or in our tradition.
In my opinion, your countries have proper social surrounding and easy to make your living.
Here is my question...
(1) is that possible to make this lifestyle in such situation?
(2) How do ya all make to live in this lifestyle away from your living stress ( economically, socially and traditionally) ?
(3) Will my fantasy come true ?
( I don't to want to be a cuck, I just want to make her a hot-wife and feel more in sex.)
I don't have enough story and photos to share. But I wish to share some of her photos.
Thanks to all OHW members.

[Parsifal]

Dear VHWs,

For the 3 years we've been into this lifeatylez my wife's encounters have always excluded me. I'm trying to ease her into the practice of me watching at least occasionally, but so far she's been resistant. What are the advantages of having hubby present, from your perspective? What are the hangups to overcome? How does she evolve to feel my presence as something other than a distraction?

[Liese]

I'm speaking as someone who always has hub present, and hub always participates at some point too. I want him there, we're a team in this.

Advantages for me: He keeps me feeling safe. When he's there, I know I'm desired by at least someone in room. I know I'm bringing joy and pleasure to him in the same moment that I'm receiving joy and pleasure. I know we'll have hot sex afterwards just the two of us for days, bringing us closer together.

[h73213]

How do I get my religious wife who says she only wants to be with me and hates the idea of another man to try it without ruining my marriage. I love her and don’t want anything to end our 20 year marriage so if I have to quit trying for this fantasy I will but I want to watch her one time with stranger so badly.