a long stony way

[lionbrand]

Thank you for sharing your experiences. I'm an huge fan of your wife. She is amazing!

[gruenberg]

so how it went on.

the last episode in my wifes live didn`t left her happy. nor satisfied. and i was the one who had to deal with it.

to brighten her up and our anniversary coming up i booked a holiday a few hours flight in the South East. The plan was
to fly alone without our daughter and leave her at my parents. This was a win-win-loose-situation. Win for our daughter,
because that meant icecream and sweets as staple food for a week. Win for my parents to spoil her. and to buy all this
toys which was necessary to life a live of a small child. Loose for us, because we had to spend a week in the sun, relaxing,
watching the sea and only thinking what to eat and what to drink alone without our daughter.
The week was way to short, part of it, because my wife bought me as a present for our anniversary diving lessons. i always
wanted to do that and it was real fun.
The last day of the trip was actually our anniversary and i spend my last lesson in the morning, the flight was in the evening.
Unfortunatly we had to fly during the night but, remembering all the great times we had, we looked forward for some champagne
in the plane. Looking back and knowing my wife, it now was somehow surprising that there wasn`t any extramarital sex during this
week. actually i didn`t think much of it earlier, but now writing it down, it seems surprising.

On our flight we were seated in a three-seat-row. Me by the window, my wife in the middle and beside her a younger businessman.
he somehow found out that it was our anniversary and spend us some of champagne at the flight. The diving in the morning,
the sun the whole day, the dimmed light in the plane and the alcohol made me fall asleep early on the flight. i woke up as we
already were approaching.
feeling dizzy from the champagne, the early hours, not only me, but also my wife, we said goodbye to our neighbor and left the
airport.
coming home we didn`t much anymore and went to bed. the next morning, before our daughter was brought home, i made my wife
a late anniversary breakfast and brought it to our bed. then she told me.
the businessman next to her bought her some more champagne and they had a funny talk. during the flight, getting more and
more tipsy, they talked about everything and one of this thing was of course sex. he flirted with her, although he knew it was
our anniversary and he talked my wife into giving him a handjob in the dark plane under her blanket. and she did. and not only
that. my wife, like usual, wore a summer dress and because of maybe some security checks, she also wore panties. he talked
her into giving him her panties as a souvenir. and she did. just before he was coming, he announced it to her. my wife was somehow
in panic, she told me, but i didn`t belive her, that that was the reason, and so she just slipped under the blanket (benefits of
being petite) and took the head of his penis in her mouth and swallowed his load.
on our anniversary,
on our anniversary, with me sleeping beside her.
on our anniversary, with me sleeping beside her, and some unaware people around.

it is always fun to be married to my wife. and because she was so happy, to be married to such a supporive husband, i got
a worldclass blowjob that sunday. which meant, two loads inside her within 12 hours.

[wifeneedn]

What a wonderful vacation! Congratulations too.

[lionbrand]

As I have said many times before, your wife is amazing! Did she let that guy touch her as well? All the best to you both.

Ps . I agree 100% with what you said about travelling without kids.

[gruenberg]

What a wonderful vacation! Congratulations too.

yes it was wonderful. but the last chapter in the plane was something new to me.
until this experience i never was present while my wife did something. in the plane i was sleeping beside her. every minute i could waked up anytime. maybe our legs somehow touched while she had his penis in her mouth. my wife is petite and she could somehow curled up in the narrowness of the plane seat, i don`t know how she did it.

[gruenberg]

As I have said many times before, your wife is amazing! Did she let that guy touch her as well? All the best to you both.

i guess so, that he felt her up. she dropped her panties in the plane for him. i guess she had something like that on her mind.

Ps . I agree 100% with what you said about travelling without kids.

i love my daughter. i would do anything for her, like probably most of dads around the world, but some days without her is also fun.
and i guess, her grandparents did everything to make her happy. and more.
do you have children?

[gruenberg]

this episode on the plane was a change in our unspoken arrangment. as already mentioned, i was physically present, although i was asleep and didn`t realized anything. i could woke up anytime to find my wife with a penis in her hand or in her mouth.
until this time she always played alone, telling me afterwards.
we talked, as so often, about this and i made it clear, that i am not interested in watching or even participate in any of her extra marital activities. for my wife it is the same. a little bit. she informed me that she was also thinking it is better to play alone, because she can let herself go and don`t has to check with me and my feelings. and she also told me (but that was something that was also clear to me already) that i might not handle it, how she would behave.

for example, we often spend time as a family, my wife, my daughter and myself. like going to the zoo or walking in the evening to a nearby playground. you could never imagine, watching my wife with our daughter playing, that she could be someone so different. she is the perfect suburban mom, looking innocent and all, and i find myself thinking, that she can be a total different person, like leaving the house in just stockings and high heels under her coat to have sex with someone other than her husband and being totally submissive to this other guy and letting him use her for only his pleasure. this change in just a few hours. this amazes me alot.

[lionbrand]

As I have said many times before, your wife is amazing! Did she let that guy touch her as well? All the best to you both.

i guess so, that he felt her up. she dropped her panties in the plane for him. i guess she had something like that on her mind.

Ps . I agree 100% with what you said about travelling without kids.

i love my daughter. i would do anything for her, like probably most of dads around the world, but some days without her is also fun.
and i guess, her grandparents did everything to make her happy. and more.
do you have children?

Yes, we have two kids. My spouse has not slept with anyone - just has let two of her colleagues to touch her everywhere one time each at a bar and she played a bit with the other guy's cock at the same time. That same guy made her cum in a bar too. After corona nothing has happened. For her these adventure were mentally really bad, therefore, I have not said anything related to that for a long time.

I admire your wives courage to follow her urges. She really rocks.

[gruenberg]

i believe there is a connection between my wifes general wanting people to be fine and her attitude to giving blowjobs. following our history until now it is clear that my wife likes to give head. this last episode in the plane fits perfect in the chain.
it happened often with her boss that she gave him only blowjobs, him cumming in her mouth or on her face or even clothing was often the only sexual contact. it was afterwards my task to satisfy her secxually. it wasn`t that she wasn`t statisfied just giving head to a guy, but she didn`t came from that. her one-night-stands were often including extensive oral on the lucky guys. not that there wasn`t sex at this occasions, but also alot of blowjob action.

my wifes general attitude to please people is one of the things i love so much about her. she is just a kind person. she cares a lot of her family and friends. and of course of me.

[john jasson]

Yes. Very intriguing. And you are not alone. I have frequently kissed my wife goodbye and wished her luck for a good fuck. Why on Earth would you not?

[rascalnvixen]

Yes. Very intriguing. And you are not alone. I have frequently kissed my wife goodbye and wished her luck for a good fuck. Why on Earth would you not?

Did that same thing every time she left to play without me!!

Rascal

[gruenberg]

Yes. Very intriguing. And you are not alone. I have frequently kissed my wife goodbye and wished her luck for a good fuck. Why on Earth would you not?

you may read my situation by far. till today i have this maybe naive idea of a traditional monogamous marriage. for my part i am monogamous, but i know my wife can`t be and i maybe will loose her, if i would lock her up in an even golden cage. i do it for her. because she is the love of my life and shouldn`t we all make our beloved happy.

[wifeneedn]

Yes. Very intriguing. And you are not alone. I have frequently kissed my wife goodbye and wished her luck for a good fuck. Why on Earth would you not?

you may read my situation by far. till today i have this maybe naive idea of a traditional monogamous marriage. for my part i am monogamous, but i know my wife can`t be and i maybe will loose her, if i would lock her up in an even golden cage. i do it for her. because she is the love of my life and shouldn`t we all make our beloved happy.

Well said gruenberg, Well said. I think that fits a lot of us here.

[gruenberg]

A little while back these days Anna was over. Anna is a co-worker of my wife who worked as an escort while being at university. she is now married and was with her husband already together when she started escorting.

somehow, the brilliant lawyer my wife is, we talked about Anna`s escort experience. again. my wife is fascinated and i know for sure this whole topic is a recurrent component of her sexual phantasies.

Anna told us how she started. being 19 she worked as a waitress with low income. her boyfriend, also a student, and Anna just moved in their new small appartment. her workplace was a hotel bar of one of the fancier hotel. Anna witnessed on a few occasions the meeting of a young beautiful girls with elder men and it was obvious what was going on. one of that girls talked with Anna one evening and afterwards, whenever they met at the bar.
this girl told Anna that she is also a student and that it is easy money for a young beautiful girl. at her waitress job Anna had an really unsympathetic boss who always hit on her. being 19 and naive she did nothing to report him to HR, maybe it wouldn`t helped anything, but this particular evening, he was all slimy and agressive for a date, and Anna was kind of frustrated. she needed the job and she needed the money, but it was to much fpr her so she decided to quite. this girl gave Anna her telephone number and offered her to call her, if she needed any help. Anna discussed her situation with her boyfriend but had already decided to give it a try. her boyfriend wasn`t that happy about it, but he was also supportive (at the beginning), because they needed two incomes to finance ther student life.
Anna told us, she was very nervous, as she was calling her new friend and they agreed to meet. at the meeting, her new friend told her, that she is working for an agency and they were always seeking for new faces. i guess, she meant, new bodies. and if Anna would like, she would introduce her to the manager. Anna told us, she was even more nervous, finally meeting the manager, who was an eastern european guy, who seemed to be nice but, in Anna´s words, look rather scary. the first meeting with him, he made asked her a lot of questions, but she felt comfortable until he asked her to strip naked, because he wanted to see what she can offer. she did, and afterwards he told her he will get in contact with her. he called her a few days later and they discussed that it might be a problem, that Anna had a boyfriend and that usually meant trouble. Anna reassured that her boyfriend is fine with her escorting (what was not exactly the truth) and so they settled to meet the other day at a hotel for "further negotiations". Anna told us, that she didn`t realized it first, but entering the hotel room, she soon discovered what that meant. after some small talk he ordered her to undress, what she did. Anna didn`t get much into details, she was a little shy about this, but they had sex. Anna must have been good, because he hired her, and that was her start as an escort.
of course he didn`t gave her any money for this initial session and looking back, Anna told us, that she was kind of naive, because she didn`t thought about the possibiliy, that he might not hired her and it would only had been sex.

[gruenberg]

so how it went on:

our experiences approach the present gradually.

let`s call him the client.

my wife was some kind frustrted bout the lack of a permanent lover on her side like her boss or Mr. Black. Someone she could submit more. This episode on the plane was fun for her, me being so close, but it also left her sexually frustrated deep inside. her bad experience with online dating did also nothing for her balance. thatswhy she walked the path which was apparent. it started with hints, small one, that she got a new client. he was in our age and from town, but was abroad the last years, now coming back and establishing business here. i saw the sign this time and we talked and my opinion was not positive. the reason is simple, with Mr Black not in our town, we knew, we can handle the situation outside the lifestyle. we won`t see him. With her boss it was a classical affair and even her boss had no interest in interaction with us outside of that whole thing. we could easily handle this. but with her client it was different. he was single, he lived in our town, he was the same age, he went to the same university, so it probably could be that we have mutual friends or some other connection. my wife didn`t told me much about him, at the beginning i even didn`t know his name, but everytime she spoke of him it was obviously that she was attracted to him. my concerns weren`t heard in our disscusons and afterwards my wife, the devil lawyer she is, somehow even managed the situation that i thought it was a good idea. she is brilliant.
but i also knew for sure that i couldn`t hold her back if the wanted him. and she wanted him. i knew. she knew. and if he knew at that time, he learnd it later.
my wife, the devil temptress she is, made it not too easy for him. there was a work related lunch, which was maybe longer than usual and there was working overtime and meetings in the evening, nothing just talking and flirting. he knew she was married, because on one occasion we talked on the phone and he was there in her office some evening. my wife also dressed sexy and i knew for sure she made some sexy moves in meetings to present her legs or her incredible butt. but he made no move forward. it was always only verbal flriting. and this drove my wife nuts.
finally there was a move going on. one evening my wife informed me, that he asked her for a date the upcoming weekend. she already accepted, informing him, that i was away for the weekend with our daughter and that would fit perfect. so i took our daughter and we made a road trip to the sea for a longer weekend with quality daddy time. something i really like.
we left on thursday and her date was on friday. my wife prepared for her date and it was clear, if he wasn`t a totally idiot, that he would get laid. i wasn`t home but i was informed that she looked sexy, the way she dressed. little red dress, red high heels and pink underwear. underwear meant, bra and garter belt. no panties. i guess some tan coloured stockings. for my wife, the shoe-fetishist she is, was this a good pretext to buy new shoes and that was what she did. not only one pair, no, she bought two. why, i can`t answer this. i am missing the second x-cromosome for this answer.

i got a text, when she was leaving, i got a text, sitting with my daughter at the hotel restaurant eating pasta, when they met, i got a text, reading my daughter a story to sleep, when they left for a bar. i got a text, already sleeping, that she is at his flat. i read this last one in the morning. and i also read one at the breakfast that my wife is on her way home. my guess, they didn`t talk the night, so i knew there was something going on.

it was saturday and i heard nothing from my wife till noon. she called and told my that everything is fine, she had incredible sex with him, he treated her good, what meant, he treated her rough. she was tired, my daughter was hungry, thatywhy we didn`t talked much and agreed to talk later. in the later afternoon, my wife called again and i got some details. the client, i already didn`t kne his name, had a nice appartment downtown and knew to treat her right. my wife, the submissive pet she is, was very happy that he did it to her very rough and he was very dominant. and that she is very thankful that i made (???) her do it. semantic subtlety.
on sunday, my wife already changed in supermom mode, when we arrived and there was nothing left, except the red high heels beside her dressing table in our bed room.

[wifeneedn]

Great recollection from your past guenberg, always look forward to more of you two. Me being an incurable lifelong cuckold it's enjoyable to read about a woman that knows what she wants and works to get it. Almost addicted say like a cuck just the other side of the coin.
"I'm missing the second x-cromosome for this answer." Makes perfect sense to me. I've said, "She uses both sides of her brain at the same time and I only use one."
Cheers.

[gruenberg]

The Client played it well or how it went on:

i have to say it, but the Client played his part well. My wife was excited of their first night together and was entusiastic to repet it. but he totally ignoried her. that drove my wife nuts. normally she is the one men are lust after and the men are after her. there was no call, no email, nothing and my wife got more and more confused, angry, bitchy. the last one was my problem.
after maybe two or three weeks the made a fool of herself (her words, but she is right) and she contacted him but he didn`t respond. first it was a private contact and there was no reply. so she asked her secretary to contact him about some business stuff. he answered and they talked. my wife told me she wanted to keep cool and let him feel, that she is pissed, but he turned the conversation around and after a little talk they had a meeting for the next weekend. actually we had planned a meeting with friends for this specific saturday, but my wife canceled it because she wanted to meet the Client. Saturday came and she dolled up for him. she looked incredibly. she dyed her hair a little bit more blonde than her natural colour. she let her nails done and even buyed some new high heels. always an excuse to buy new high heels.
the plan was to go to a restaurant and afterwards they would go to his apartment. i stayed at home babysitting while she got a taxi downtown. she was kind of pissed at him that he ignored her, but she was also dressed up for sex and i wondered how long she wanted to play the peeved one. in the morning when she told about her night i learned that it lasted only moments. very short moments. they met accidentally infront of the restaurant and chatted a little bit. he kissed her and her bad mood was over. she told me it was a demanding kiss (what ever that means) and the way he held her so powerful her intention to make him fidget lasted only seconds. she giggled as she told me that he demanded her panties in the restaurant and she had to confess, that she wasn`t wearing some.
i don`t remember, even don`t know if i ever knew, much details about the sex they had afterwards but it must have been good, because she came home in the morning and wanted more.
before we could know it my wife was in a heated affair with her client, whose name i didn`t knew at that time.

my wife always called him the Client, when talking about him and now looking back this wasn`t bothering me much. i had my concerns that she wouldn`t be safe and we talked about it. her response was, that she is his lawyer. and she coudl destroy him with a snap of her finger. but there was no reason to do.

the sex between them was how my wife liekd it. rough, raw, animalistic. he treated her rather hard and when she came home she looked always some kind of destroyed. but smiling and glowing. i was fascinated about the speed they developed in such an affair. soon after their first meeting there were the first signs of BDSM and my wife submitted submissively to him.

[john jasson]

Very hot indeed.

[gruenberg]

so how it went on or how to handle my wife.

before i get into details about my wifes submission to the Client i have to tell what happened a few days after their meeting and it is maybe
a part of the puzzle of my wives submission to him.

my wife came home one day after work and was really pissed. really. of course i asked what happened and she was too angry to tell at first.
later in bed, she came down from her vulcano, she told me, that her secretary came in her office and wanted to talk to her. her secretary is a young beautiful girl and i am always delighted to meet her, visiting my wife at her workplace. she is nice to look at. tall, slim, long legs, beautiful face, long dark hair. just sexy. she sat down, my wife told me, and started to stammer around and finally asked my wife if it would be a problem to go on a date with one of the clients. someone had asked her out and she wanted to go, but check before with my wife if it is appropriate. my wife held a speach about separation work and private life (at that moment i looked at her questioning, but i remember, she ignored my look) but told her secretary that she don`t think it is a good idea but she will not prescribe what she should do in her private life. before leaving my wife asked her secretary who she wants to date and her secretary told her that it was THE Client.

that this was a shock for my wife is understatement. of course her secretary didn`t knwo that my wife already had sex with him and of course my wife did her best to conceal her anger at that moment.

my guess was at that time, that the Client just had lost my wife as his sex toy.

[gruenberg]

it turned out that the Client was actually dating my wife`s secretary.

my wife was pissed but didn`t want her secretary to guess the real reason. the client even had one business meeting at my wife`s office one day. at that morning my wife told me that she would totally ignore the fact that she had sex with him and let him feel, that he crossed a line he shouldn`t have to. the result was different of course. in the evening of that day, i asked my wife how there meeting went, and she told me, that she couldn`t resist him and although she knew he was some kind of dating her secretary, they made a meeting on the upcoming weekend.
of course i wanted to know why she changed her mind so fast, and her explanation was simple: she wanted to show that bastard what would be the difference between her and her young unexperienced secretary.
she did her best to impress that evening. she looked superb. she spend the whole day preparing for him. of course shoe shopping was also a part of tha preparation. black high heel boots over the knees. then there was her typical little black dress. also a new one. backless, no bra of course. she went to the hairdresser and let her nails be done. bright red. above and below. i came home that afternoon, while she was in the shower shaving her body. there was no single hair left below her eyes. soon after she left, not before showing me at the door, by lifting her dress, that she didn`t had on panites.

[gruenberg]

i don`t remember exactly, but i guess i spend the evening baby sitting our daughter all the while my wife was on her back
with her heels (my guess was that she didn`t undress her boots) in the air.
i even don`t remember her coming home that evening, but i remember that my wife informed me, the next day that the Client
was actually dating her secretary and that he told my wife that she can`t do anything about that. he would be happy to meet
with my wife further one but would understand that this would be to much trouble for her. a little detail i still remember, my wife
told me, that he had his speech, while she was on her knees between her legs and giving him a blow job. he asked my wife for
a decision and she just kept on blowing him, what meant for her, that she was fine with this arrangement.

i know my wife and i know how jealous she is, especially with me, so it surprised me that she gave in. must be a magic stick she
became acquainted with.

she tried to play it cool, but i witnessed her and it was obviously that she was not happy about the situation with her secretary.

so how it went on or how everything changed:

there was another date with the Client and my wife asked me to drive her to the hotel. i wondered why they met in a hotel, although
he was dating her secretary, i didn`t believe that she already lifed with him. but i didn`t asked my wife and so i found myself again
like some years ago im my car with a super sexy wife next to me in the passenger seat to meet her lover. i dropped her off, she gave
me a deep kiss, and disappeared in the lobby of this 5 star hotel.

then i made a big mistake.

before leaving i decided to use the toilet of the hotel, i parked the car, jumped in the hotel and while i was leaving i met King A. III
in the lobby, who was just entering. who is King A. III? well, there were more or the less two main groups in our school. the "normal"
pupils (my team) and the rich arrogant pupils. and to the second group King A.III. belonged. actually he wasn`t a king, but he was
the leader and spokesman of this guys and because his name started with an A we called him King A.III. for us, the "normal" pupils
the A. stood for "asshole". the III. was actually right, he was the III. in his family with his forename. it was not that we hated each other,
we just didn`t like each other, which led to sometimes not so nice situations. but i don`t want to get into to much details about that.

of course he recognized me and we greeted us, even with a hand shake. he also was some kind of nice, which surprised me a little bit,
and asked me what i was doing there. of course i couldn`t tell him the truth that i just brought my wife here for her extramarital affair.
we exchanged some non commital kindnesses and during our short conversation i recognized a change in his face with transformed in
a knowing arrogant expression. sitting in my car my head was spinning. could it be, that King Asshole III. is the one my wife is submitted
to?
on my way home i got text-messages from my wife. first: i won`t be coming home till the morning. so i should not wait for her.
the second: i have some news for you.

i already knew what the news were about.

of course i couldn`t sleep one minute and my wife came home in the ealy morning. i was still awake and she came into our bedroom.
we talked. again. and she informed me about, what i already was afraid of: yes, the Client is the King.

King A.III, the Client, asked my wife, after entering the suite of the hotel earlier that night, if my name is ****. my wife was kind of
surprised and asked him how did he know. then he told her that he met me just minutes before and because of our surname.

the cat was out of the bag.

[gruenberg]

this changed everything. or at least.

my wife informed me that she won`t stop seeing him. she told him, that i knew, she had extramarital sex and that we weren`t swingers.
it is just her who has the right (funny word in this case) to have sex with whoever she wanted (something, we never discussed, but
obviously she saw it that way). King A. III found the whole situation more than funny and, based on the words of my wife, had real hard
sex with her that evening. he was always a little bit rougher, but this evening he not only used her hard, he was also making jokes while
having sex with her, about me and the fact that my wife is "his little fuck toy".
my wife was sorry and also told me that she didn`t felt comfortable that he put in me in their sex talk. but he was so into it, that she
couldn`t stop him and finally enjoyed his roughness and the way he took her.

why did it change so much?
until that time my wife always played the cheating wife. which meant, that she could easily separate her two worlds. the world of being
supermom and perfect wife, and the world of being a ..... (actually what?)
this separation was gone and we soon learned what that meant.

[wifeneedn]

OK that's been one of my fears (turn on's) for years and your story had my chastity cage feeling really tight!
Quick kind of caught memory. We were at a restaurant having dinner with one of her hung men friends and they were sitting together and I was on the opposite side of the both when a friend of mine stopped to say hi. It was obvious I was uncomfortable but did my best to stay calm. He never said anything but flirted with my wife much more after that night.
Really enjoy going down your memory lane story's.

[john jasson]

Super hot. Please continue.

[gruenberg]

OK that's been one of my fears (turn on's) for years and your story had my chastity cage feeling really tight!
Quick kind of caught memory. We were at a restaurant having dinner with one of her hung men friends and they were sitting together and I was on the opposite side of the both when a friend of mine stopped to say hi. It was obvious I was uncomfortable but did my best to stay calm. He never said anything but flirted with my wife much more after that night.
Really enjoy going down your memory lane story's.

i guess he knew from your encounter what`s up. was his flirting successful?