Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Oct 25, 2021 11:55 pm

solstice wrote:
Wed Oct 20, 2021 7:39 am

Or one of you fall down drunk.
Good point. We were out on a weeknight and SW does not really drink sake, so we kept it modest and only ordered the little container of sake for Ms. I and me to share. SW just had little sips when it was her turn, etc.

But of course she had glasses of red wine and was the most relaxed about drinking, in that a) she didn't have to concern herself with driving and b) she didn't have to wake up early the next morning.

So it was all good!

slenderfish

Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Tue Oct 26, 2021 12:06 am

Mark K wrote:
Thu Oct 14, 2021 2:21 pm

I do a lot of handy things, but do not attempt electrical work for this reason. I also see the electricians that work at my home do the same thing though - and I always ask them to state to me they know the risks are are working at their own risk.
I'm in Texas on another little business trip. We are pushing to get the final steps completed in the kitchen element of the remodel. To that end, the plumbing crew are there this weekend to hook up the water for the main sink, the island sink, the dishwasher, reinstall toilet and sink in the powder room, etc. And the electrical crew will also be over to complete the lighting in the ceiling and install all wall switches as well as the electrical outlets, including for supplying power to the dishwasher, the disposal, the microwave, and the cabinet lighting.

I mention this to settle that I only jumped in that week when it was exigent, and that I do prefer to let qualified professionals do the work under normal circumstances and when they are available.

In that week, I'd committed to the quote of $2k to unpack and install all the kitchen appliances (including the exhaust fan above the stove), and hauling them upstairs without scratching the new floors. So was shocked (no pun intended) when I realized the outlet for the exhaust fan was not ready, and that I had about 30 min to get it completed in order to keep the installers on schedule and avoid a major added charge if this spilled into a second day.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by rooster444 » Wed Oct 27, 2021 1:03 pm

I still think if you took her to a resort that offers a naughty vibe, single men and a lot of fun you would be eating cram pie by the end of your first night. Just sign-up for FB groups like 'Hedo Couples for Singles' or 'Temptations Cancun Couples & Single Guys', post a couple pictures, note what dates you will be there and let it rip. I sent my wife away to Club Med Turks & Caicos for a long weekend and see had her first Hotwife fling in about 8 hours after arrival. All this dancing around with the usual suspects seems to add to the frustration.

slenderfish

Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Wed Oct 27, 2021 2:05 pm

rooster444 wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 1:03 pm
I still think if you took her to a resort that offers a naughty vibe, single men and a lot of fun you would be eating cram pie by the end of your first night. Just sign-up for FB groups like 'Hedo Couples for Singles' or 'Temptations Cancun Couples & Single Guys', post a couple pictures, note what dates you will be there and let it rip. I sent my wife away to Club Med Turks & Caicos for a long weekend and see had her first Hotwife fling in about 8 hours after arrival. All this dancing around with the usual suspects seems to add to the frustration.
I'd love to do this but know for a fact that SW would never agree to go to this kind of resort. Unless something has changed over the past year or so, or, even realizing, perhaps I request this as my birthday trip?

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by Parsifal » Wed Oct 27, 2021 2:39 pm

slenderfish wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 2:05 pm
rooster444 wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 1:03 pm
I still think if you took her to a resort that offers a naughty vibe, single men and a lot of fun you would be eating cram pie by the end of your first night. Just sign-up for FB groups like 'Hedo Couples for Singles' or 'Temptations Cancun Couples & Single Guys', post a couple pictures, note what dates you will be there and let it rip. I sent my wife away to Club Med Turks & Caicos for a long weekend and see had her first Hotwife fling in about 8 hours after arrival. All this dancing around with the usual suspects seems to add to the frustration.
I'd love to do this but know for a fact that SW would never agree to go to this kind of resort. Unless something has changed over the past year or so, or, even realizing, perhaps I request this as my birthday trip?
Gala and I tried Pearl Desire several years ago before, as she was in the lead up to her taking the hotwifing plunge, her "toe dipping" phase. She wasn't ready for the baccanale, girls gone wild sort of atmosphere, so most of it was too overwhelming - for her. But then was then and now is now. Just a few weeks ago, she proposed another trip like that, out of the blue, but maybe to Temptations (where single men are in play) rather than Desire (couples only). Apparently, she's grown to look less judgmentally on that kind of vibe - but if only she scores. (We'll just have to see about that.) In any event, it might be fun to meet you all there!

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by regular3 » Wed Oct 27, 2021 9:54 pm

Parsifal wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 2:39 pm
slenderfish wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 2:05 pm
rooster444 wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 1:03 pm
I still think if you took her to a resort that offers a naughty vibe, single men and a lot of fun you would be eating cram pie by the end of your first night. Just sign-up for FB groups like 'Hedo Couples for Singles' or 'Temptations Cancun Couples & Single Guys', post a couple pictures, note what dates you will be there and let it rip. I sent my wife away to Club Med Turks & Caicos for a long weekend and see had her first Hotwife fling in about 8 hours after arrival. All this dancing around with the usual suspects seems to add to the frustration.
I'd love to do this but know for a fact that SW would never agree to go to this kind of resort. Unless something has changed over the past year or so, or, even realizing, perhaps I request this as my birthday trip?
Gala and I tried Pearl Desire several years ago before, as she was in the lead up to her taking the hotwifing plunge, her "toe dipping" phase. She wasn't ready for the baccanale, girls gone wild sort of atmosphere, so most of it was too overwhelming - for her. But then was then and now is now. Just a few weeks ago, she proposed another trip like that, out of the blue, but maybe to Temptations (where single men are in play) rather than Desire (couples only). Apparently, she's grown to look less judgmentally on that kind of vibe - but if only she scores. (We'll just have to see about that.) In any event, it might be fun to meet you all there!
Gala and Pinky.....Now that would be an epic coming together!

slenderfish

Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Wed Oct 27, 2021 10:30 pm

regular3 wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 9:54 pm

Gala and Pinky.....Now that would be an epic coming together!
Indeed!

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by rooster444 » Thu Oct 28, 2021 6:26 am

Parsifal wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 2:39 pm
slenderfish wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 2:05 pm
rooster444 wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 1:03 pm
I still think if you took her to a resort that offers a naughty vibe, single men and a lot of fun you would be eating cram pie by the end of your first night. Just sign-up for FB groups like 'Hedo Couples for Singles' or 'Temptations Cancun Couples & Single Guys', post a couple pictures, note what dates you will be there and let it rip. I sent my wife away to Club Med Turks & Caicos for a long weekend and see had her first Hotwife fling in about 8 hours after arrival. All this dancing around with the usual suspects seems to add to the frustration.
I'd love to do this but know for a fact that SW would never agree to go to this kind of resort. Unless something has changed over the past year or so, or, even realizing, perhaps I request this as my birthday trip?
Gala and I tried Pearl Desire several years ago before, as she was in the lead up to her taking the hotwifing plunge, her "toe dipping" phase. She wasn't ready for the baccanale, girls gone wild sort of atmosphere, so most of it was too overwhelming - for her. But then was then and now is now. Just a few weeks ago, she proposed another trip like that, out of the blue, but maybe to Temptations (where single men are in play) rather than Desire (couples only). Apparently, she's grown to look less judgmentally on that kind of vibe - but if only she scores. (We'll just have to see about that.) In any event, it might be fun to meet you all there!

It would be fun to have a 'Hot Wife Week' at a place like Temptations. Recently it has become a bit of a spot for bachelor parties so there are plenty of single young guys looking to score. Imagine 7-8 couples with 'hot wife wannabes' roaming the pool looking for their match.

slenderfish

Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Fri Oct 29, 2021 11:42 am

rooster444 wrote:
Thu Oct 28, 2021 6:26 am

It would be fun to have a 'Hot Wife Week' at a place like Temptations. Recently it has become a bit of a spot for bachelor parties so there are plenty of single young guys looking to score. Imagine 7-8 couples with 'hot wife wannabes' roaming the pool looking for their match.
Yes, that would be fun. Loads of fun!

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by Mr Mrs Cream » Fri Oct 29, 2021 11:58 pm

slenderfish wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 10:30 pm
regular3 wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 9:54 pm

Gala and Pinky.....Now that would be an epic coming together!
Indeed!
🤩😍💎

Let’s vote:
+1

afagehi7

Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by afagehi7 » Sat Oct 30, 2021 5:06 am

Mr Mrs Cream wrote:
Fri Oct 29, 2021 11:58 pm
slenderfish wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 10:30 pm
regular3 wrote:
Wed Oct 27, 2021 9:54 pm

Gala and Pinky.....Now that would be an epic coming together!
Indeed!
🤩😍💎

Let’s vote:
+1
That could rival wickedJaz for hottest girl girl scene

slenderfish

Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Nov 08, 2021 7:07 am

Update from the weekend.

As noted above, we are in the final stretch of the house remodel. We agreed to host Thanksgiving dinner this year, in the "new" kitchen and upstairs, all rooms filled with guests from out of state, etc. So SW made herself scarce on Sat and Sun while I went into my handyman mode, taking care of this and that; you know, many things that take an hour or two each and don't justify calling in a specialty contractor.

It was her niece's birthday on Saturday (the one who lived with us until recently) so SW joined the girls' bottomless mimosa birthday brunch. It began at 12:30 and SW called me at 3:30 to say she is coming home, but should she do errands, etc. to stall for time? I told her that the water was off in the house but it would be back on by 4:00, but that I would love if she did her errands to give me more time. She agreed, and I didn't hear from her until I was in the shower at 8:45. She called me three times and I finally picked up with soapy hands and she asked if I could get over to a local "happening" restaurant without delay. I said it would be about 15 min but she asked me to do it in 10 min.

I jammed over there and, as I suspected, saw that she had been holding court at the bar. One attractive woman was just leaving and SW made sure I got the introduction, and then I took this woman's seat.

Let's review that SW had been drinking wine since the 12:30 brunch, left there at 4:00, did an errand, and then skipped all the others and drove to this bar, arriving (if I had to guess) around 5:00. And glasses of wine from then until I arrived just before 9:00. Apparently she had been watching a NFL game with the guys at the bar, from when it started, and when I arrived it was just finishing.

Her side of the bar was stocked with three well-dressed and smiling black men. Sitting all around her. She'd been bantering with them all through the game. She was off her bar stool and moving behind them, touching their shoulders, leaning in to better hear what they were saying in the loud bar.

Actually, she only sat down for a minute when I arrrived and then asked me to watch her bag and her sunglasses. I ordered my usual vodka martini and looked over the food menu. She was off and back to her prancing and flirting with the guys. Her empty chair started to make me feel uncomfortable so I took her seat next to one of the guys and began an appropriate conversation.

It's interesting, in that some on this string have suggested I take her to some kind of upscale, popular bar/restaurant/club that is known to be frequented by handsome black men. These places exist not too far from where we live, but when I'd tried to do this in the past (a few years ago), SW immediately started giving me a bit of pushback, observing that she just "isn't into black guys" and that I should put the brakes on this fantasy.

The connector in this came up during my conversation with the guy next to me. This new upscale bar/restaurant is a bit closer to where we live, and on this night was unusually mixed in its crowd. Like, much more than usual. The guy sitting next to me asked if we'd been to this new place very many times, etc. and let on that it was the first time for him and, apparently, the other guys. He then lamented the closing down of the place they used to go for upscale dining, bar, game on the monitors above the bar, etc. That's the place I was trying to get SW to feel comfortable, as our "go-to" place, and that she had rejected!

So some of the crowd from that other place were now at this new place, a place SW really likes, and she is now flirting and bantering as if they are in her court, etc. Couldn't have developed any better!

A bar seat opened up on the other side of the three guys, so she sat there. She ordered some sushi and asked it to be served to her down there. So we were bookends. As the game was over, and she was torched from the day and the night, we bid our goodbyes. SW gave her number to a black woman who was there trying to meet a guy, and said if she is successful then we should go out on a double date. SW then pointed out another black woman who arrived after the game, and told me that she had been here earlier, had chatted up SW, and had told SW that she prefers blonde women. SW was a bit surprised that this woman a) was back; b) was talking up one of the three guys; and c) was ignoring SW. I think SW felt a bit jilted.

Was fun for me!

I'll write about Sunday night shenanigans a bit later. A pattern is definitely developing!

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by bar9716 » Mon Nov 08, 2021 9:40 am

I think someone have found a favorite new place to frequent.

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Unread post by Mark K » Mon Nov 08, 2021 10:15 am

So, she went to the bar alone? And was there for a few hours prior to calling you? Interesting, if I am reading that correctly.

slenderfish

Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Nov 08, 2021 10:23 am

Mark K wrote:
Mon Nov 08, 2021 10:15 am
So, she went to the bar alone? And was there for a few hours prior to calling you? Interesting, if I am reading that correctly.
Yes, exactly!

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by TheHammer » Mon Nov 08, 2021 10:43 am

Did she say if any of the guys hit on her?

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Unread post by afagehi7 » Mon Nov 08, 2021 11:45 am

Not sure I understand this: SW was a bit surprised that this woman a) was back; b) was talking up one of the three guys; and c) was ignoring SW. I think SW felt a bit jilted.

Perhaps your fantasy is within striking distance? Just the right guy and situation away. Certainly closer than a couple of years ago. I think Mr G and the sexual tension between them is a LARGE contributing factor.

Did you explore any fantasy talk yet?

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by superb101 » Mon Nov 08, 2021 12:42 pm

How was she dressed? Did she say anything after you arrived home?

slenderfish

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Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Nov 08, 2021 2:09 pm

TheHammer wrote:
Mon Nov 08, 2021 10:43 am
Did she say if any of the guys hit on her?
She did not say, but she's also insouciant when it comes to these kinds of things.

But of course once I arrived, when she said "see, I do have a husband" the guys then seemed to be acting much more deferential. But I had no direct comparison. That is, until SW went over and sat with them to show she has full stewardship over herself.

As it should be.

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Unread post by slenderfish » Mon Nov 08, 2021 2:15 pm

superb101 wrote:
Mon Nov 08, 2021 12:42 pm
How was she dressed? Did she say anything after you arrived home?
She was dressed in a cute pink sweater with a design, over a white camisole-type top. Wearing beige-white jeans, with a pink belt, and beige-white boots that are pretty sexy. I should've taken a photo. Doh!

Did not say anything except ask if that woman (the one who hit on SW) ended up leaving with one of the guys (the handsome one). I said that he would have been better off with her (SW) and that he'd initially tried to sit closer to her when he arrived, but there was no chair. That she should have asked him to move closer once a chair did become available, and that her failure to do so left him exposed and room for that other woman to make her move. That I'd tried to be friendly enough with the guy that he wouldn't be hesitant to join us. Opportunity missed.

She laughed it off, and that's when she told me the woman had hit on her, earlier in the evening.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by Tryn » Mon Nov 08, 2021 7:52 pm

Hmmm… did she go alone is the real question. Obviously she drove there by herself, but maybe she planned to “run into someone.” Perhaps Mr. G had shared with her that he enjoys watching games there and she went hoping to run into him. A lot of guys go watch football without their wives and of course some go with their wife. If SW went there in hopes of running into Mr. G, then he goes without his wife. He may have even said to her last week that he would likely go catch the game there, giving SW an opportunity to see him outside of their workouts. They may have even had tentative plans to meet there after her brunch, which really wouldn’t be going alone, now would it! But maybe it was just a random stopping a new place.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by regular3 » Tue Nov 09, 2021 12:24 am

Slowly but surely momentum is building.

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Unread post by slenderfish » Tue Nov 09, 2021 2:07 am

regular3 wrote:
Tue Nov 09, 2021 12:24 am
Slowly but surely momentum is building.
Indeed, I think this uptick in energy is significant. i'll post about her Sunday behavior, now.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by slenderfish » Tue Nov 09, 2021 2:49 am

So I noted her stopping at that new upscale restaurant with its upscale cocktail bar on Saturday after her niece's birthday, etc. If that wasn't enough, let's go into Sunday.

A local wine place, kind of a boutique, apparently has events from time to time, but had ceased these as of March 2020 for the obvious reason. You know that SW really likes these events and gets all dolled up, etc. We've of course been missing these, and peppering our contacts who used to produce them, to get back on that horse and ride it. Virtual wine tastings just do not work for SW.

About a week ago, this local place sent out an email announcing their first "private" event, outdoors in the back of their retail location, for Sunday the 8th, from 1 to 5 p.m. It was forwarded to us by our friend who had escorted us on the Bordeaux trip a few years ago. SW was elated and we grabbed two tix without hesitation.

Fast forward to Sunday. She was a bit slow in the uptake that morning, given the long day of drinking on Saturday, and I had aspirations to continue progress on my undertakings with the house (final insulation installation and drywall repairs in downstairs closets) so she slept late while I gathered supplies from the paint store and the local big-box hardware store.

When I arrived home carrying these supplies, I unexpectedly heard her beckon me from upstairs. She announced she was horny and that I should drop my projects and come up to "make the love" to her. I didn't need to be asked twice!

She was naked and ready. Tore off my clothes and went down on me without delay. I rubbed her sweet little heart-shaped ass and deliberately caused my middle finger to linger on her little rosebud. She responded with a bit more vigor so I penetrated her sweet asshole just a bit.

After just a couple of minutes of that, she stood up over me and slowly descended her honey pot onto my hardness, impaling herself ever so carefully. And began riding, again beginning slowly, then building a bit of pace.

She dismounted to take a pee, and returned. I asked her to turn around and let me take in the view of her fabulous ass, bobbing up and down on me, and she readily took up that position.

After several minutes like that, I rolled her onto her back and entered her from the missionary position.

And I then asked her to tell me again, nice and slowly, about her last encounter with Mr. S. She initially said it was so long ago, she essentially forgot about the details. I reminded her that I have all of it seared into my memory, and that I refer to in in my mind often enough when I'm alone. I started with the dinner at the restaurant, reminded her that he paid and also splurged on a bottle of wine, etc. She then took up the narrative and told me how they closed the check and walked across to her hotel room, both ready to jump each other's bones, and fumbled with the room key before falling into the room and onto the bed.

She started going right in to the sex but I asked her to back up, to fill in the details. I asked her if they had kissed. She said they had, and that he was really into the French kissing that night. I asked her about how it worked, in that he's so tall. How did they match up with their mouths? She said that they were at that point laying on the bed, already naked. I asked about how the clothes came off, and she said they each took of their own clothes, watching each other, and that it was quick to get naked. She resumed with the kissing and hands roaming over each other's bodies.

She said she was ready for him to enter her waiting pussy. I asked her if she was wet, and she said of course. I complimented her on her body, knowing and preparing itself for his cock to probe into her tightness. She said she was at this point on her back and she spread her legs to encourage him to slide in without further delay, and he obliged. She wrapped her arms around his back and felt his long body, and looked down from time to time to see his manhood going in and out of her.

She continued the narrative. He withdrew from her and kissed down her neck, suckled each breast in turn, and then continued down to her waiting heat. His mouth kissed her pussy lips, and he began a slow and satisfying session of licking and teasing her lips and little love button, her clit.

She was feeling it but was not ready to orgasm. He then encouraged her to roll over, and he kissed the cheeks of her ass, then worked his way back up to her neck, and entered her from behind.

I said this certainly resonates with me, in that anyone who is enamored with SW is by definition an ass man, and would not be happy without a chance to see his cock sliding in to her from behind, watching that fabulous ass bouncing back onto it. Been there, done it, love it, and love that she shared it with him. I said I'm surprised he didn't explode right then and there.

She said that she reached back and between her legs, and fondled him a bit, and then began rubbing her clit with her fingers while he fucked her with more energy from behind.

As she built up her desire and energy, she could feel an expansion of his size and effort, and she then climaxed as he also reached his peak, and released his orgasm deeply into her body.

She then reached her orgasm with me, then and there.

When she recovered, she asked if I enjoyed the retelling of it all. I said I absolutely did, and that I'd already orgasmed myself as soon as she told me he moved her to doggy style. That the image in my mind was just too hot and I lost control, and I had remained silent in order that she could build to the finish for her own climax. Mission accomplished!

I think I need the proverbial cigarette. I'll finish the narrative about the wine event, but in a separate posting later today when I have a bit of time.

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Re: Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

Unread post by solstice » Tue Nov 09, 2021 7:42 am

In the UK, we have restaurants that are the opposite from upscale: We call them greasy spoons, I take it that SW would not be found dead in such an establishment? :D

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