Birth control?

[sana9889]

When my husband and i were trying to get pregnant, i was still meetin up with my bf regularly but we were being careful.
I was a bit naive back then and made a few mistakes.
I hadn't done any anal before them.

Now the mistakes...

I thought the best time to get pregnant was the week before my period. So 3 times a day for that week my husband would spend 5 minutes try to get me pregnant with a few drops of his sperm. We did this for two months. Other times, he would put a few drops in me in the morning before going to work, and again at night.

I'd sneak in some fun with my bf from time to time. It was usually kissing, sucking and masturbation. After the first month, about a week and a half after my last period he wanted some pussy.
We decided he would not cum in me the first round. I would have him jerk off into my mouth before we started anything.
Then we would have sex, finishing with me on all fours- our favourite at the time and letting him him have a 2nd orgasm after an hr or two of hot deep pussy sex. I did a pregnancy test the next day to be sure. All negative.. I was safe. We repeated this a few days that week.Stopping short of a week.before my expected period- so my husband could get me pregnant..

As per plan, by husband started trying to get me pregnant a week before my next expected period. On the expected period day (two weeks or so after the 'safe sex' with my bf).. no period. I took a test... and i was pregnant. I had sex with my husband the say before right. So he must have gotten me pregnant right!

Other consideration... my husbands penis has no shaft and is about 2inches long at best. My bf has a fairly large head, and is almost 8 in long. My husband ejaculates a few drops. My bf cum can fill a half a condom.

I only ran through this scenario with a friend about a year ago.. and realised.. ita very certain my husband is the father of my daughter. I have not told my bf about this- could cause problems.with him and his wife, and my husband

As much as part or me likes that I have a child from my boyfriend, its a very stressful and sometimes depressing realization to be in.
My husband does not know about my secret life. I never wanted it to ever go this far.

[sana9889]

One the nit of birth control... come off birth control makes you horny as f. Even though i wasn't having sex with my bf as much as i was planning for my husband to get me pregnant.
I wanted sex all the time. i needed to suck his dick every day.

[gruenberg]

The fact is that the possibility of pregnancy is part of the appeal of this lifestyle. With all its consequences.
If you break it down to the basic social level, then the female has sexual intercourse with another male. Why is that? Because she wants the sperm and therefore the genetics of the other male.
If we play in the lifestyle, then you can project that onto this formula.

Is this a good idea from a social point of view? Nowadays with all the possibility of detecting the biological father? Probably not.

But most of the time when our brain and will to survive as a group of primates were developed, there wasn't a DNA kit to buy for some bucks. So nobody cared who the biological father was, important was the one who raised the child. Maybe the best of two worlds: the best physical genetics and the best stable enviroment.

You put it perfectly. Thats what I think also. My girlfriend always says that she wants sperms since it makes her so excited...

What you write about your situation it is only a matter of time your girlfriend gets pregnant. You should start to learn to live with this. It is not said that it is bad, but just realize it will happen.

[little sissy Benita]

My mommy (former wife) and her african husband don´t use birth control pills or use condoms.

I promised her to be a good cuckold and to accept my return into babyhood now complete

I think thats absolut right and as my mommy she don´t need permission from her baby daughter

She got her 3th black baby and i start to begging for the next black sibling

So great that former daughter got also her first black baby, think she learn from mommy to prefer african/black men. Wonderful that she start in young age to support BNWO

little Benita

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

My wife and I have two children from well before her hotwifing days. They are both clearly mine. Her pregnancies were absolutely brutal. We decided that two was enough, so I got snipped. She wouldn’t have to worry about birth control.

As fate would have it, her OB-GYN put her on the pill anyways (super light dose) to help manage her menstrual cramps.

Then, along came her boyfriend.

He was a bachelor his whole life, never had kids.

What I figured was going to be a few months at most turned into a year…..two years…..three years……five years…….ten years.

He sort of became a part of us. He became a good friend for me, and a true long-term lover (dare I say second husband?) for my wife.

Threesomes were common. (I’d watch and jerk while he enjoyed her/she enjoyed him.)

In those intimate post-coital moments after all three of us had cum, we would occasionally discuss the possibility of him fathering a child with my wife. We had become curious about “spreading his seed,” and what our duty to this world is. (I could go on and on, here. There are all kinds of philosophical lenses. As a matter of fact, J.D. Vance recently got into hot water talking about cat-ladies and what a woman’s greater role in society is. We were basically doing the same thing as a threesome. Is a man’s primary role to “spread his seed,” increase genetic diversity?)

One major obstacle was that my wife and I were not exactly discreet about my vasectomy so many years prior. People knew her pregnancies were hard, and they knew I got snipped because of it. How would we explain her pregnancy to our families?

Another concern for us was that if we were going to commit to giving him a child, we were basically saying that he’d be in our lives for at least the next 20 years, probably longer. By this time, we were 10 years (or so) together.

In the end, my wife decided to “shelve” her relationship with him after 16 years. (Various personal reasons!)

We are, of course, happy that we never went through with it.

My wife has since moved on to boyfriend #2, now. He already has two kids of his own. (20-somethings like ours, now, in college, etc.) They live in Los Angeles with their mom, far from here.

There is no talk of children, of course. Just good, clean fucking!