Did he actually brag to you about how he was fucking your girlfriend? Did he brag to others?subguy80 wrote: ↑Wed Jun 19, 2024 10:55 amAbout a month into our initial dating as sophomores in college, my girlfriend (later wife) told me she didn't want to ever be in a monogamous relationship, including marriage. We talked it through and she just felt that she wasn't meant for monogamy and couldn't commit to it. I was pretty devastated because I was thinking we were getting into the girlfriend/boyfriend stage and I was really crazy about her. However, the more we talked, she convinced me that she felt the same way about me and that it was possible to love a person and still want to have sex with others.bradisalpha wrote: ↑Tue Jun 18, 2024 4:04 amMy latent desires as a Dominant Alpha male have been awakened as a BF to hot wife/cuckold couples.. much the same as I grew up taking other’s girlfriends and then handing them back after I had sex with them. It was what sexually excited me then and continues to sexually excite me today. Those latent desires are always burning inside me and awaken each time I have sex with a hot wife and cuckold her husband. It is “who I am” !!
What latent desires lay deep inside you that have awaken ??
Brad
After our initial discussion, she told me she had a FWB that she had been having sex with for a year and she wanted to continue. I met him a few times and I thought he was a jerk. I'm convinced he was in love with Sarah and wanted to get more serious with her. She, on the other hand, chose me and only wanted him for the sex. When Brad says, " I grew up taking other’s girlfriends and then handing them back after I had sex with them," this comment really hit "home" with me. This guy was doing just that, fucking Sarah and then sending her back to me, like rubbing my nose in it, bragging to me about his sexual prowess and getting back to me in the way he knew best. The funny thing is, the thing that completely blindsided me, was that I did get an erection the first time that happened. I had stopped by her apartment without any notice. She had apparently just had sex with this guy because when we stared messing around and I put my finger in her pussy, it came out wet with semen. She said, sorry, let me go shower first. I said, no, don't shower.
To finish the story, she saw him for another few months, but eventually stopped. That didn't stop her from finding another guy (or two or three) to fuck on the side, however. By that time, I had fully accepted it and it became who we are. I married her after senior year and we've stayed in the lifestyle in one manner or another for over 20 years.
When she told you she never would be monogamous, did she tell you that you were free to see other women? How did you feel about that? Did you have sex with other women or was your marriage an open marriag only for her?