Guys that have been both bull and cuckold: Which is more enjoyable?

[jesandjerry]

I think the statistic is flawed. Not only because on this website are more cuckold than bulls.
When I was young and handsome and super fit and able to fuck six times a day.... over having a hard fuck lasting over an hour....
I was a bull and sometimes a cuckold and I prefered being a bull.
20 years later, less attractive, less handsome, less strong in bed... it is more difficult for me to be accepted as a bull and I am not willing to do that effort. That' s why sometimes I am still the bull, but more often the cuckold.

Long story short: Everybody can be a cuckold (if he finds a hotwife) but not everybody can be a bull.
Therefore I believe many who say they prefer being cuckold, say this because either they have no chance to be a bull or have not even ever made the experience, or they are just to lazy to make the effort that is necessary to become a bull and instead settle with accepting being cuckold....

I believe, bull is the first prize, cuckold only the second.

[bewareoflizzy]

I was an 18 year old high school graduate working at the local supermarket during the summer preparing to go off to college. This young, red-headed, petite, married woman with a baby in tow always came through my check-out aisle and flirted with me while I tried to concentrate on ringing up and bagging her order. She lived just around the corner where my friends and I hung out at night playing basketball or just chewing the fat. She would drive by in her big car and I would wave and smile. Once she rolled down the window while stopping at the corner and I approached the car. We flirted and she asked me if I wanted to take a ride. I jumped in and we were off. I was so excited, I started to shake. We went to an all night diner and talked about just anything. She told me she was married to a much older man and he wasn't home much as he was running a restaurant and had to put in long hours. The table was set and a few weeks later while hanging near her house, she popped out her door and invited me in. We went upstairs to her bedroom with the baby sleeping in the next room and she gleefully disrobed me and defrocked me of my virginity.

It was a shocking experience and I hurriedly dressed and left as soon as I came inside her. But, it didn't take long to get over the angst and when she would stroll into the grocery store when I was working and looking ravishing I would feel the surge of desire again. She started inviting me over when she knew her husband was working and after she could put the baby to sleep. I started to relax with her and she showed me many things I could do to please a woman. I loved learning and she was so happy to teach me as she relished our lovemaking. We would go to a motel, the drive-in movies, anywhere where we could fuck. At some point, she let me know that her husband knew and approved, even laying out her clothes a time or two for our dates. It seemed rather bazaar at the time but I was enjoying myself too much to worry. We even fucked at his parent's house a couple of times while they were away, in their bed! I would come home from college on a weekend and the doll would be in the bedroom window meaning she was free. It continued for a few more years until things just petered out. Then, in my senior year of college I met my future wife.

[jesandjerry]

Oh, I crossed what fits Most "even Not totally accurate" and am 1% in your Poll.
I feel a Bit lonely....

Was a Bull (seldom still am), now a cuck (mostly) being Bull was more enjoyable (but cuck IS also OK, better than boring monogamy).

[bewareoflizzy]

I was an 18 year old high school graduate working at the local supermarket during the summer preparing to go off to college. This young, red-headed, petite, married woman with a baby in tow always came through my check-out aisle and flirted with me while I tried to concentrate on ringing up and bagging her order. She lived just around the corner where my friends and I hung out at night playing basketball or just chewing the fat. She would drive by in her big car and I would wave and smile. Once she rolled down the window while stopping at the corner and I approached the car. We flirted and she asked me if I wanted to take a ride. I jumped in and we were off. I was so excited, I started to shake. We went to an all night diner and talked about just anything. She told me she was married to a much older man and he wasn't home much as he was running a restaurant and had to put in long hours. The table was set and a few weeks later while hanging near her house, she popped out her door and invited me in. We went upstairs to her bedroom with the baby sleeping in the next room and she gleefully disrobed me and defrocked me of my virginity.

It was a shocking experience and I hurriedly dressed and left as soon as I came inside her. But, it didn't take long to get over the angst and when she would stroll into the grocery store when I was working and looking ravishing I would feel the surge of desire again. She started inviting me over when she knew her husband was working and after she could put the baby to sleep. I started to relax with her and she showed me many things I could do to please a woman. I loved learning and she was so happy to teach me as she relished our lovemaking. We would go to a motel, the drive-in movies, anywhere where we could fuck. At some point, she let me know that her husband knew and approved, even laying out her clothes a time or two for our dates. It seemed rather bazaar at the time but I was enjoying myself too much to worry. We even fucked at his parent's house a couple of times while they were away, in their bed! I would come home from college on a weekend and the doll would be in the bedroom window meaning she was free. It continued for a few more years until things just petered out. Then, in my senior year of college I met my future wife.

We worked together at a supermarket and she was very friendly. I wanted to ask her out but she was engaged to a guy about 4 years older than us and I wasn't planning on getting involved in something like that. But, one fateful day, she called me at home and things took off from there. We became lovers. Ironic how my two biggest relationships were with a married woman and an engaged gal. Long story short, she broke off the engagement and we were living together within two years. She took a job at a very high end department store and had to dress the part. I started to have an appreciation for how a woman prepares, puts on her make-up, styles her hair, and dresses in a fashionable, sexy way. It soon became my passion and I encouraged her to wear sexy clothing on a regular basis. Of course, this attracted much attention from the male population. This was a quandary and it bothered me no end. My jealousy appeared, especially when I noticed her flirting with certain men. Eventually we married and started a family. She would get all dolled-up for me and we would smoke pot, drink wine, and have incredible sex. We would broach fantasies while under the influence but my jealousy would preclude any talk of my wife taking a lover. Then, quite suddenly, that changed. I started to fantasize about her being with a younger guy. Our sex life was great but I was average size and didn't have the stamina or recovery that I once did. I sensed her growing desire for more. We started talking during our dates and I teased her. She was now working at the restaurant and there were plenty of candidates there. She was never more alluring than in this period of her life (mid-thirties)and seemed ready and restless.

[marine20]

i fined that being a bull is more fun. unless i'm in a 3-some with my wife and her bull. i love seeing her suck and fuck, especially when she has two cocks in her at the same time.one of my hottest memories is having her take both of our cocks in her mouth together. she looked like a real slut then. i bet most women have never done that.having two cocks sticking in a womans mouth makes her look like a real whore. i love her for it.

[Timewarner]

I look back an realise i was a bull but didnt know it. I remember a couple women coming into the barracks on a few occasions and fucking them so hard to impress them. They would come into the barracks and long story short would walk out with me. Lol.

[Thebestdays1]

The only times I was a 'bull' were when I used to have threesomes with my wife's elder sister and her partner. Before they'd become a couple he'd been fucking my wife during the two periods I'd been working overseas and she'd been staying at her mum and sister's house. She used to write to me and tell me in great detail about what they'd get up to and I used to enjoy masturbating as I pictured the scene in my head.

He and the SIL stayed with us a couple of times and during their first visit, as the SIL's period had just started, I suggested to him to see if he could persuade my wife to fuck him whilst I was out on my morning run. At the end of their first visit, I had a threesome with him and the SIL, during which, I had his penis in my mouth twice.

The next time they visited, the SIL and I came up with a plan to initiate a foursome with my wife but the SIL chickened out at the last minute. The next morning, their last with us, she caught me as I was about to go for my run and called me into their bedroom, where she apologised. She suggested a threesome as a way of an apology, during which, I had my first experience of fucklicking and I found I loved the experience of licking her as she sucked me, whilst at the same time I had the humiliation of his balls banging against my face, except when he'd pull out and fuck my mouth. He ended his orgasm in my mouth but the SIL complained that she hadn't been able to see it.

After a couple of minutes she had me turn onto my back and after lowering herself on to me she told me to suck him. I was unsure initially but she warned me that if I didn't, she wouldn't agree to a foursome. I didn't think he'd be too interested as he'd only just cum but it didn't take long before he was fully erect and I realised I was going to have to suck him off.

I met them quite a few times during the following two years as I was staying close to them whilst I was house hunting after getting a new job. I was always begging her to agree to the foursome as I was desperate to watch him fuck my wife. She knew exactly how to control me and I'd suck him off and fondle, fluff and clean him each time we were together.

I loved being the cuckold who waited for my wife to come home from a date or join them in a threesome and suck him off in front of her and I loved being the 'bull' for my SIL and being under her complete control as I begged her to let me watch him fuck my wife.