Wife dating Bull not just fucking

[hwc]

Lucky_Stag,

You wrote:

Totally - in fact I got her to role play breaking up with me for someone she'd fallen for whilst we were fucking just the other week. We'd never gone there before, but I found it incredibly hot. From skimming comments in this thread, it looks like I'm in the minority.

My god, would just love to hear the details of those conversations!

Is it something you are happy to share?

[ticklemang]

My wife’s bull is her boyfriend as well. They go on vacations together, dates, shopping, he brings her to work events, and everything like that

[troilusand]

With her last lover, Cressida would have phone conversations with her lover, Diomedes' favorite Aunt and Uncle -- the ONLY relatives of his he liked. She and the Aunt got quite close; close enough that she and he took a two week trip to drive to the West Coast so she could meet them. They obviously knew Cressida was married but in love with their nephew so they had them stay at a their house for week or so to get to know her better.

A great time was had by all.

Troilus

[Tamilcuck]

My wife’s bull is her boyfriend as well. They go on vacations together, dates, shopping, he brings her to work events, and everything like that

Hi tickle. That is nice to hear. It's like they are a real couple. I wish my wife and bull could be so open.

[hwc]

Might be a silly question but if a 'bull' is dating someone, doesn't that change his status from bull to boyfriend? Genuine question and would like to hear what others think....

[coastalkid]

I know there are many topics on wives playing alone, which is a topic my wife and I go over. She started playing alone, and now we play together. As we become more comfortable with regular sessions, she will opt for private sessions, as that is what she prefers. She has also mentioned the idea of not just going to their place or a hotel but them taking her out to dinner first or drinks and then getting fucked. More like she is getting taken out on a date by them. She said this makes her feel like less of a "sex toy" and makes the connection with her bull feel more legitimate.

Do you like the idea of your wife going on dates and such with her bulls? Does it add to the excitement, or is this even more risky and make for more emotional connection? I'm curios what peoples thoughts are on this and make sure I'm not overreacting to this. My wife already talks to her our bull daily.

So, it's not "just about sex" with your wife. At least she's made you aware of that. She needs to feel like it's something more because for sex alone, in her eyes, it cheapens the experience for her. She doesn't want to be just a "sex toy". That helps to understand what makes her enjoy herself. The only real concern would be to what end and frequency will that development of her "connection" be? Is there a limit for you? Is there a limit for herself? Is there a point that you would become uncertain and uncomfortable? I know she's a smart lady. How do you feel?

[60dCommon]

About a year after our Big Night where she admitted cheating with multiple men for months, revealed that she didn't enjoy sex with me, and also said she was turned on by feminizing/emasculating/humiliating me, my wife got into this topic. I was sitting on the bed, naked, as she laughed at how much my flaccid penis looked like an acorn. She went on to say that "it's not just sex with him."

What followed was, maybe, our deepest discussion in which she explained that she needed his masculine presence in her life - how it was natural and necessary for a woman to need and have a strong, masculine man for sex, but also for all the other masculine things I could not provide. She said she was proud of me for letting go - letting go of trying to be something I couldn't be, and embracing my role as her cuck. Some weeks later, when she told me she was attending an event hosted by friends of ours (hers and mine) with him as her date, I confessed that I was proud to be her cuck. It was the truth.

[troilusand]

60 penny, so there were TWO Big Nights, if I'm following you, right? The admission of cheating on you, AND then, a year later, revealing her pleasure at sissifying you. Did that begin a year ago? How long have you been married?

And if you would, I'd like you to describe yourself and what besides your "acorn" pee pee she finds so non-masculine about you. Are you girl-pretty? Small body? Fat or skinny? Cowardly? Or other things?

And did you know/feel these things about yourself all your life?

Feel free to ignore these requests if you want (telling us can be humiliating)...but I think you won't --I'm guessing you'll LOVE your admissions! Or P.M. me if that would be easier...

Troilus

[Cindi]

I also enjoy going on dates as it enhances the passion like foreplay and leads to hot encounters.
My husband has encouraged me to act single and date men. I do with great pleasure and it has made our marriage stronger

[Tryagain]

We have had a great time with other guys. Lucky for me, my wife does not need an emotional connection - just happens to like the guy and his personality - and has a very big cock. I love watching and my wife loves having me there too.

NO DATES FOR HER. This is a totally shared experience :-)

[coastalkid]

You wouldn't have started this thread if you didn't have some sort of mixed emotions about this. I know I could be all wrong and you're actually perfectly fine with all of it so you can set me straight on that.

I'm interested to know how you feel? Are your pleasure to anxiety levels imbalanced? Do you feel compelled to say nothing and process the feelings on your own? If you felt like you just couldn't take it any longer, do you think about how you would express your feelings to her without "ruining" things?

This is of great interest to me. I always am deeply fascinated by how couples make adjustments once they are in the "put into practice" phase of their hot wife/cuckold relationship. It seems to me that often the husband and wife are on two distinctly different emotional paths. It makes me wonder if those two different experiences create a distance in being able to relate to each other. When neither partner has experienced or witnessed the outcomes of the regular practice before, it is all NEW input to process. That sounds like it would make it more difficult to explain your feelings.

Ultimately, you spend much more time with your feelings (good or bad) than you do the actual physical (also good or bad). The time spent on the physical sexual side of anyone's life will always be small in comparison to time spent working, sleeping and other responsibilities. I would think that if you spend more time "thinking and feeling" it would be important to have good feelings. Something that compels you to go again at the drop of a hat.

When I read about a husband/bf that has that moment of doubt or frustration that has exceeded his limit, it always breaks a handful of ways. One, he just gives in, no fight left in him, just done, acceptance, joy of life gone, LEARN to be happy in a new less satisfying way. Two, they compromise, one way or another, whatever. Three, they split up, fun ride until it wasn't.

[hotcouple66]

think this is common. But that it also can be a bit scary. that its not just sex....

[Long Lurker 34]

I also enjoy going on dates as it enhances the passion like foreplay and leads to hot encounters.
My husband has encouraged me to act single and date men. I do with great pleasure and it has made our marriage stronger

C
- I can't say I have come across you posting much. I'm just wondering if you had a thread in the past that might have 'fallen' off the forum.
- Would it be possible for you retell how you got started and of course the 'in between'. Always interested.