should I let my wife have a one night stand?

[BadCandy]

thanks for the advice everyone! lots of very helpful posts on this topic!

As I type this right now, Thursday morning, Lisa is over at Nate's place. She spent the night with him, last night, and hasnt come home yet. They have been seeing eachother 2 - 3 times a weeks.

We decided she's gonna go ahead and have a one night strand, we just have to find a guy. Not sure how to go about doing that, we're considering a dating app?

some people asked if she wants to fuck a coworker or a friend or something, It seems like what she wants is a stranger, someone she doesn't know. the excitement of the unknown. she wants to go out on a date with a guy she doesn't know, with the intention of the night ending in sex, then never talking to him again.

I'll keep everyone posted on how this little venture goes!

[venus-can99]

Sounds like you both have found a good balance with Nate. She gets to enjoy him for sex and come home to you for you.
Good luck with Lisa's ONS and hopefully it works out well - giving her the experience she craves. Has she talked to Nate about this at all?

[Bartleby]

OF COURSE YES!

what a weird question to ask on this forum.

[milf9902]

She wants to. You are ok with her having sex with other men. Yes, you should let her.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum milf9902.

[John Ryan]

Safety is always paramount. So many weirdos out there.

[BadCandy]

Hey everyone! Sorry it’s been so long since I’ve posted an update… life has me busy… those of you who have reached out asking for updates, thank you! I appreciate your interest in my situation!

So, she did it! My wife had a one night stand!

It happened a few weeks ago. We decided to just let her handle it, since it was her thing. She created a profile in a dating app. I’m not gonna say which one. But her profile clearly stated that she’s married but looking for a hook up with her husband’s permission. So they Guy knew about me from the get go.

As you can imagine, she got a flood of matches and messages… eventually she picked one, and went on a date with him.

She met him at a bar so they could get a few drinks and break the ice, then went back to his place. I had her pack a thing of pepper spray to be safe.

Of course I couldn’t sleep, waiting at home alone. I thought about calling up Nathan to talk to him about it, but decided not to… maybe I should’ve, idk…

She came home the next morning and told me about her night… she said right away that she was both extremely turned on, still, and also a bit embarrassed, because of what happened… but the embarrassment was turning her on more, and might want to orchestrate more situations like this…

Basically, the guy didn’t tell her that he had a roommate. He was renting a room in a two bedroom house, and another guy was renting the other room… she didn’t find that out till the next morning…

So she went back to this guys house, spent the night in his room with him, had sex twice, and gave each other oral. She said she had at least three orgasms with him, and she swallowed his cum… then she slept naked in his bed with him.

The next morning, assuming no one else was in the house, she took a shower, then didn’t bother getting dressed. She went out to the living room, fully naked, hair wrapped in a towel, expecting to only see the guy she spent the night with, but found both him and his roommate hanging out in the living room.

She said she was super embarrassed but also turned in by being naked for both these guys, so she played it coy but didn’t really try to cover up.

They talked for a bit, the roommate offered to make breakfast (obviously trying to get her to stay naked) she lingered but declined… she said she had to get home to her husband, and the guy she alerted with gave her a kiss and a boob squeeze…

Then the room mate asked if he could feel her boobs too, so she let him.

Then she got dressed and came home to me. When she told me this she was so turned on by it she was rubbing her clit… she said she masturbated in the car on the way home.

We had sex right then and it was hot af! Then she called up Nathan and spent the night with him!

Now she wants to have me and Nathan arrange situations where other guys can “accidentally” see her naked.

My wife has gone wild! …and I love it!!

[The Owl]

Safety has two primary levels:

1. Health. Solution = condoms (a good but not perfect solution).

2. Physical safety. There are dangerous men in the world. But, there are are a lot of men who would be honored to have the pleasure of your wife's body for a night. How she finds such a man is the challenge. Sounds like she is motivated to meet that challenge.

I'm wondering if she has somebody in mind already or a fantasy about how she will find the "stranger." Anticipation and fantasy can be as powerful as the actual experience. It might be hot for both of you to talk about her thoughts, plans, fantasies regarding the "stranger."

[Tryagain]

This is a terrible idea in my opinion. I know every guy for the first time is a stranger really. But if you are present or in the same house at least she can be safe. Sure...that is not what she wants. And there are plenty of people here who do meet anonymously where the husband/boyfriend is not present.
That does make it is ok.

If you like opioids use them. But you are placing yourself at risk. All risky behavior is not safe by definition. She needs to understand this and explore why she has this need. it is not like she can't have sex with others - just not with strangers ALONE.

[Nunky2908]

Yes, of course you should. My wife has frequent one-night stands when "out with the girls".
My only stipulation is that she brings home the creampie. I have savoured some magnificently sticky and tasty ones, often more than one load in there.

[BCiym]

Absolutely if she trusts the man.

[Pecannut]

Wow! So hot! Could she also fuck the roommate next time?

[Wantsomefunto]

Wow send her back
To his apartment to be naked all day for
More of his friends to see

[Pecannut]

Would she let you post a pic here too?

[Nunky2908]

Of course you should. You'll enjpy it when she comes home. My wife has had loads of one-night stands, sometimes more than one, when she goes "out with the girls". She's free to do whatever with whomever, wherever and whenever.
There's only one rule - bring home the creampies. I've had some really magnificent, hot, sticky, tasty creampies.

[BadCandy]

Thank you all so much for your responses to my post… but as I just posted in the update, my wife did it!

[Long Lurker 34]

Thank you all so much for your responses to my post… but as I just posted in the update, my wife did it!

BC
- You shall have to do another update about what has transpired since that first encounter. It seems like plenty.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the update BC - sounds like your lovely hotwife is turned on by being in front of strangers too. What does Nathan think about the new developments and will she be looking to for more thrills like MFM, etc.

[manmuscle]

I had an exGf that realized how much she liked being watched, teasing and being in control after she was watched having sex with another guy. It really turned her on to be in control and wanted so badly. I also think it freed her from the sexual dogma many women have been feed.

Once I learned this about her, I would show her off every chance I could. Some of the hottest times were on vacation and she didn't have to worry about peer responses. I would intentionally dress her up to show her off in very touristy places. A thin tank top and no bra (she had small perky breasts) with shorts that barely showed a little but cheek was the hottest. Especially if she wore sexy panties.

All the married dudes wanted her badly. I would mention a guy that was checking her out and she would casually make eye contact with him and see how much she turned him on.

We would go back to the hotel that afternoon and fuck like rabbits because she was so turned on.

I almost got her to go on stage at a topless bar on amateur night. She was really turned on by the idea of all the men seeing her nearly naked and wanting her. Didn't happen, but the idea really turned her on.

[Tryn]

There’s a whole section on this site where guys can see her naked!