I just came across a statistic that may be of interest to the OP...
As I and several others expressed, the OP's husband's hotwife (maybe cuckold?) fantasy may seem unusual or shocking, but it's far more common than the public realizes or acknowledges.
In the book "Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life", Justin Lehmiller reports the results of a survey of 4,175 Americans focusing on sexual fantasies. According to Lehmiller, 58% of male respondents had cuckolding fantasies (generically defined in this case as sharing one's committed mate with others).
At nearly 2/3rd of all men, I'd say that's pretty normal.
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The reason why I asked my wife to be with other men, is a love her so much that she shall have all joy life can give her.
I am also very secure in our marriage, so I do not feel a risk for her to run off with another man.
He is not asking you to be a hotwife, so he can be with another Lady. If you ask around in this forum, you will see that almost all the men in here has no desire to be with another Lady. So just relax, he wants all the best for you.
One that is very hot for me is to watch my wife have sex with another man. I can then see all of her body and how it reacts, which I feel very hot. When I have sex with her, I can normally only see some parts of her body and not all of it.
Some men likes to be humiliated by their wife or the wife's lover. But many does not like the humiliating. You have to ask your husband what he likes and then find out if it is also something you want.
In general, the best thing to do is talk, talk and talk. And then talk some more.
If you after all the talking agrees on trying it, you and your husband shall have a stop word. This stop word will stop the game, no matter where it is at the moment. The person using the stop word, does not have to explain why.
Just so you both know that the other person is fine with what is going on and do not regret afterwards.
For many couples it stays as a fantasy that spies up the sex, for others who takes the plunge it will most likely be a life changer for the better.
I will recommend that you join the Ladies Lounge, it is only for Ladies. They will ask you to provide a normal picture, it can be that they ask you to stand in front of the fridge with an orange in your hand or something like it. No nude pictures or pictures like that.
In the Ladies Longe you can ask other Ladies all the questions you have. They are very open minded and gladly share their experiences.
You can discuss with your husband on a more qualified level about you and him can continue with this fetish.
I can inform you that my wife and I have the hottest sex just after she returns home from her lover. We both think so.
I am also very secure in our marriage, so I do not feel a risk for her to run off with another man.
He is not asking you to be a hotwife, so he can be with another Lady. If you ask around in this forum, you will see that almost all the men in here has no desire to be with another Lady. So just relax, he wants all the best for you.
One that is very hot for me is to watch my wife have sex with another man. I can then see all of her body and how it reacts, which I feel very hot. When I have sex with her, I can normally only see some parts of her body and not all of it.
Some men likes to be humiliated by their wife or the wife's lover. But many does not like the humiliating. You have to ask your husband what he likes and then find out if it is also something you want.
In general, the best thing to do is talk, talk and talk. And then talk some more.
If you after all the talking agrees on trying it, you and your husband shall have a stop word. This stop word will stop the game, no matter where it is at the moment. The person using the stop word, does not have to explain why.
Just so you both know that the other person is fine with what is going on and do not regret afterwards.
For many couples it stays as a fantasy that spies up the sex, for others who takes the plunge it will most likely be a life changer for the better.
I will recommend that you join the Ladies Lounge, it is only for Ladies. They will ask you to provide a normal picture, it can be that they ask you to stand in front of the fridge with an orange in your hand or something like it. No nude pictures or pictures like that.
In the Ladies Longe you can ask other Ladies all the questions you have. They are very open minded and gladly share their experiences.
You can discuss with your husband on a more qualified level about you and him can continue with this fetish.
I can inform you that my wife and I have the hottest sex just after she returns home from her lover. We both think so.
When you are lying of your death bed, you only regret the things you did not do.
The most beautiful woman in the world is the woman lying naked and sweaty next to me.
The most beautiful woman in the world is the woman lying naked and sweaty next to me.