Young married guy here

[Luigical1931]

Never too much information!

Thought you may say that tbh. If you asked her to not allow him to, do you think she would agree?

Just thinking there’s plenty of other places for him to cum, that are more cleanable so to speak!

I get the impression she’s not the kind of girl that would enjoy a facial, swallowing etc. though?

I am fairly certain she won't swallow. I think both of them finish inside her. So I won't bother asking them.

Both of them? Am I missing something or just misinterpreted what you’ve said?

Sorry, I am a sleepdeprived. I meant both Adam and Lauren like it if Adam cums in her.

Got you!

As long as you’re happy with that arrangement, that’s the main thing!

[Rogueuser1]

My wife always hated condoms because she couldn't feel me cum inside her so I don't think she is lying to you about feeling it - even the warmth matches what my wife said.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the bunch of updates Danny. Hope you catch up on your sleep after enjoying the wonderful sounds of Lauren and Adam having sex. Them going away for the weekend to Poconos sounds like an interesting development. Will you be kept upto date as the visit progresses and will you "participate" via video/audio from home?

[joel68]

Yeah, venus-can, I wondered about that too. It would be interesting if Adam went along. After all, Danny is not objecting to her going away with him for a weekend. Definitely a new development in this whole thing.

If that were to happen, I am sure Danny would love it.

If not, then maybe she could text him with "fuck updates".

[onceacuck]

I am fairly certain she won't swallow. I think both of them finish inside her. So I won't bother asking them.

Both of them? Am I missing something or just misinterpreted what you’ve said?

I'm guessing that he meant to say, "both of them prefer when he finishes inside her."

[edgedndenied]

Does it bother you that she told you there going to the Poconos without talking to you about your thoughts first.
Also with them spending at least 3 to 4 nites sleeping together do you feel Lauren may be falling in love with Adam. They seem more emotionaly connected and he has replaced you where PIV sex is concerned

[wannabecUKold]

He meant ‘both of them want him to finish inside her’.

[Luvelixer]

When was the last time you came inside of her?

[RunDannyRun]

Thanks for the bunch of updates Danny. Hope you catch up on your sleep after enjoying the wonderful sounds of Lauren and Adam having sex. Them going away for the weekend to Poconos sounds like an interesting development. Will you be kept upto date as the visit progresses and will you "participate" via video/audio from home?

I asked Lauren is she is very opposed to recording. She shut it down immediately.

Does it bother you that she told you there going to the Poconos without talking to you about your thoughts first.
Also with them spending at least 3 to 4 nites sleeping together do you feel Lauren may be falling in love with Adam. They seem more emotionaly connected and he has replaced you where PIV sex is concerned

It really doesn't bother me. Please do remember that you are getting a partial view into our lives and that too via written medium. She has always been a confident woman (especially in the matters that she is an expert in) and I am sure she knows where the line is (to not hurt me). I am sure there is some emotional connection between them but I am still certain that she loves me more.

When was the last time you came inside of her?

It's been forever. I don't remember. Definitely months ago.

I am about to sleep. They had sex again and will probably fuck again in sometime but I am off to bed as I have some important meetings tomorrow.

[The Owl]

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Okay.. maybe TMI but she said she loves it when he cums inside her. She can't exactly describe the feeling but she says it just lights up some neurons in her cavewoman brain. I am not sure if it is true but she said she can feel the warmth of his cum but I think she is bullshitting as it should be same internal temperature, right? She said she likes how it twitches inside her. I regretfully asked her if she felt similar when we were having sex and she said maybe once at the start of our relationship. My ED issues really did a number on our relationship

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The following is from Medicine.net... the findings are not conclusive but a 2002 study was fairly consistent with her self-report.

Medicine.net: Semen contains several chemicals, including serotonin and oxytocin and various other hormones, and several prostaglandins that may act as mood enhancers. Moreover, it contains melatonin, the hormone that improves your sleep quality.

Studies report that various chemicals in semen may help reduce depression when absorbed in the body through oral or vaginal sex.
Some studies have even reported that women who had unprotected sex had a lower incidence of depression than those who used protection (condoms).


So... maybe she is right. Not to mention being fucked by a substantial cock feels good to a woman, as does orgasm from sex.

[marriedky]

Thank you for the updates. So glad you all are still good and she’s getting the pounding from Adam’s big cock she deserves and wants

[viking53]

Danny, thanks for the update…
Lauren spent tha the remainder of the night with Adam? Is this the new normal? If so how many times per week, on average?

i think around 3-4 nights in a week. But depending on the work commitments, she switches things up. But usually at least 3-4 nights a week.

As it has become this regular and often, I think Lauren should once more take up that they should move to the marital bed for her sake, especially if it is having an effect on her work.

[ColoCuck75]

Thanks for the bunch of updates Danny. Hope you catch up on your sleep after enjoying the wonderful sounds of Lauren and Adam having sex. Them going away for the weekend to Poconos sounds like an interesting development. Will you be kept upto date as the visit progresses and will you "participate" via video/audio from home?

I asked Lauren is she is very opposed to recording. She shut it down immediately.

Does it bother you that she told you there going to the Poconos without talking to you about your thoughts first.
Also with them spending at least 3 to 4 nites sleeping together do you feel Lauren may be falling in love with Adam. They seem more emotionaly connected and he has replaced you where PIV sex is concerned

It really doesn't bother me. Please do remember that you are getting a partial view into our lives and that too via written medium. She has always been a confident woman (especially in the matters that she is an expert in) and I am sure she knows where the line is (to not hurt me). I am sure there is some emotional connection between them but I am still certain that she loves me more.

When was the last time you came inside of her?

It's been forever. I don't remember. Definitely months ago.

I am about to sleep. They had sex again and will probably fuck again in sometime but I am off to bed as I have some important meetings tomorrow.

Danny,

Sorry to hear about your troubles. Hopefully you've gotten it all figured out with the new doc. I figured something happened for you to disappear.

Does look like things are back to a better place now.

So not Florida but a weekend trip to Poconos sounds hot and like that other trip maybe things keep getting hotter. I think Lauren knows exactly how to both push both your cuckold buttons and enjoy the great sex with him too. It's kind of a win-win for all three of you.

• Are you jacking off finally to them having sex?

• Has Lauren still been asking him to have sex with her in your bed?

• Think she wants to get Adam to embrace it fully that he's her preferred lover by having him sleep in your bed with her?

• Is Lauren staying the whole night sleeping in his bed afterwards? Not coming back to bed with you lately?

• Are you and her doing well again I hope? And has Adam started talking to you again?

Here's to your crazy busy week going smoothly. Enjoy and remember to ask her to make your cuckold wishes cum true this weekend on her trip with Adam!

Later!

[leander99]

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[leander99]

Danny, thanks for the update…
Lauren spent tha the remainder of the night with Adam? Is this the new normal? If so how many times per week, on average?

i think around 3-4 nights in a week. But depending on the work commitments, she switches things up. But usually at least 3-4 nights a week.

In my opinion 3-4 is dangerously high. At that point she is basically in a relationship with him. Her emotions may become soo intense that she will could lose the emotional connection with her husband.

I mean, I do think there is a line there that is dangerous, where the husband starts losing and the lover becomes her main connection? Where exactly the line would be different for different couples. But 3-4 times a week is high maybe?

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the updates Danny and hope your week goes well with lots of rest and love from Lauren.

[RunDannyRun]

The following is from Medicine.net... the findings are not conclusive but a 2002 study was fairly consistent with her self-report.

Medicine.net: Semen contains several chemicals, including serotonin and oxytocin and various other hormones, and several prostaglandins that may act as mood enhancers. Moreover, it contains melatonin, the hormone that improves your sleep quality.

Studies report that various chemicals in semen may help reduce depression when absorbed in the body through oral or vaginal sex.
Some studies have even reported that women who had unprotected sex had a lower incidence of depression than those who used protection (condoms).


So... maybe she is right. Not to mention being fucked by a substantial cock feels good to a woman, as does orgasm from sex.

Maybe I am just riding the cope train but this seems a bit pop-sciency. I agree with you on the last part that his girth gives her loads of pleasure but the other part about semen curing depression sounds a bit far-fetched.

As it has become this regular and often, I think Lauren should once more take up that they should move to the marital bed for her sake, especially if it is having an effect on her work.

I think I missed something. She stays with him through the night these days. So it doesn't make any difference if they sleep in his room or in our bedroom.

Danny,

Sorry to hear about your troubles. Hopefully you've gotten it all figured out with the new doc. I figured something happened for you to disappear.

Does look like things are back to a better place now.

So not Florida but a weekend trip to Poconos sounds hot and like that other trip maybe things keep getting hotter. I think Lauren knows exactly how to both push both your cuckold buttons and enjoy the great sex with him too. It's kind of a win-win for all three of you.

• Are you jacking off finally to them having sex?

• Has Lauren still been asking him to have sex with her in your bed?

• Think she wants to get Adam to embrace it fully that he's her preferred lover by having him sleep in your bed with her?

• Is Lauren staying the whole night sleeping in his bed afterwards? Not coming back to bed with you lately?

• Are you and her doing well again I hope? And has Adam started talking to you again?

Here's to your crazy busy week going smoothly. Enjoy and remember to ask her to make your cuckold wishes cum true this weekend on her trip with Adam!

Later!

• Yes! Every time I listen to them, I masturbate.

• Not really? I feel like I missed something here but why is everyone asking me about them sleeping in our bed? I feel like my bed doesn't really host any significance.

• Yes. She is with him the whole night these days. No need to pretend that I am taking sleeping pills

• We are fine. We have our loving moments that i probably fail to mention here. Adam and I are just like house mates. He doesn't really talk to me unless there is a need.

In my opinion 3-4 is dangerously high. At that point she is basically in a relationship with him. Her emotions may become soo intense that she will could lose the emotional connection with her husband.

I mean, I do think there is a line there that is dangerous, where the husband starts losing and the lover becomes her main connection? Where exactly the line would be different for different couples. But 3-4 times a week is high maybe?

Probably but it seems to work for us. Even if she leaves me (most likely not for Adam), I just delayed the inevitable. She would have probably left me anyway. But I am happy as I had an amazing year full of sexy memories. .

[Rogueuser1]

Don't think like that about her leaving you --- you are a good man and she loves you. Even if you can't provide her the sex she would like you are doing plenty of other good things for her. Focus on all the other aspects of your relationship and your love for one another even if you are her friend-husband rather than her lover.
And besides there is no reason you shouldn't be good at licking pussy. If you aren't doing it already make sure you are holding and kissing her every night, stay focused on some form of physical intimacy even if it isn't sex.
Oh and stop jerking off so much - save that for her. You really should think about a chastity cage even if you are self locked so that you aren't jerking off every time they have sex.

[Jeremie11231]

Maybe I am just riding the cope train but this seems a bit pop-sciency. I agree with you on the last part that his girth gives her loads of pleasure but the other part about semen curing depression sounds a bit far-fetched.

I know, but...
This is the research paper:

Gallup, G.G.J., Burch, R.L. & Platek, S.M. Does Semen Have Antidepressant Properties?. Arch Sex Behav 31, 289–293 (2002).

https://doi.org/10.1023/A:1015257004839

Abstract

"In a sample of sexually active college females, condom use, as an indirect measure of the presence of semen in the reproductive tract, was related to scores on the Beck Depression Inventory. Not only were females who were having sex without condoms less depressed, but depressive symptoms and suicide attempts among females who used condoms were proportional to the consistency of condom use. For females who did not use condoms, depression scores went up as the amount of time since their last sexual encounter increased. These data are consistent with the possibility that semen may antagonize depressive symptoms and evidence which shows that the vagina absorbs a number of components of semen that can be detected in the bloodstream within a few hours of administration."

It's already well established that semen has all kinds of local effects on the cervix (even recommended by obstetricians to have sex in late pregnancy to help soften the cervix) -- what is more fuzzy is what the too-many-to-count components in semen have on the larger system, including the nervous system.

[joel68]

Danny, so Lauren put the kabosh on videoing or recording them this weekend in the Poconos. I think we all know you would love it if she were to change her mind.

As an alternative, maybe you cold suggest that she send you texts which tell about the trip and also "Fuck updates". That way you can possibly stroke your cock while they are fucking at the same time in another city. Just knowing when they are actually fucking would probably be hot for you. Have you thought of discussing that with her?

I really think that they will possibly spend the entire weekend fucking when they are not sleeping or eating. What do you think?

[RunDannyRun]

I know, but...
This is the research paper:

Gallup, G.G.J., Burch, R.L. & Platek, S.M. Does Semen Have Antidepressant Properties?. Arch Sex Behav 31, 289–293 (2002).

https://doi.org/10.1023/A:1015257004839

Abstract

"In a sample of sexually active college females, condom use, as an indirect measure of the presence of semen in the reproductive tract, was related to scores on the Beck Depression Inventory. Not only were females who were having sex without condoms less depressed, but depressive symptoms and suicide attempts among females who used condoms were proportional to the consistency of condom use. For females who did not use condoms, depression scores went up as the amount of time since their last sexual encounter increased. These data are consistent with the possibility that semen may antagonize depressive symptoms and evidence which shows that the vagina absorbs a number of components of semen that can be detected in the bloodstream within a few hours of administration."

It's already well established that semen has all kinds of local effects on the cervix (even recommended by obstetricians to have sex in late pregnancy to help soften the cervix) -- what is more fuzzy is what the too-many-to-count components in semen have on the larger system, including the nervous system.

I stand corrected. Thanks for the source.

[Jeremie11231]

Well, just because there is this one study doesn't prove anything really solidly, but I think one thing can be said without a doubt is that semen has *effects* of all kinds. It's probably hard to get funding to do huge research studies on it, ha ha - just fails to rise to those priority levels. But I know there is also research from other animal species suggesting that semen promotes bonding -- i.e., making the recipient more desirous of the partner whose semen it was / more likely to seek to opportunities to receive it.

Which, if that is true for us as well, is kinda hot...

[nutjob]

Not really? I feel like I missed something here but why is everyone asking me about them sleeping in our bed? I feel like my bed doesn't really host any significance.

It’s the superiority factor. The wife, fucking another man in the marital bed, is an indicator that the husband has been made inferior or is considered lesser. Think of it like this: if the marital bed is reserved for the most important man in her life, then if the wife is fucking the bull in the marital bed, then the obvious conclusion is the bull is now the most important man in her life (at least sexually). For some folks, especially cuckolds, that kind of transgression, the power and status exchange/loss, is intensely arousing and significant.

[edgedndenied]

Danny
If they are sleeping in your marital bed that is very significant. It is another step in Adam becoming the man of the house. In many cuckold relationships where there is a live in Boyfriend The boyfriend moves into the master bedroom and the husband moves into the guest room permanently. It seems you are willing to let Lauren dictate what happens as if you were to object she may leave you.

[The Owl]

I asserted that there is some research regarding semen's antidepressant effects for women, and Jememie11231 provided the citation.

And, as Jeremie stated, one study does not make a fact. But Lauren's report that going bareback with Adam gives her more of a zing than when using a condom may not just be her imagination.

Regarding your relationship, I hope it endures. Given Adam's intellect (or lack thereof) and given how much Lauren enjoys your company, it would be in your interest to do everything in your power to be the loving partner Lauren desires, while encouraging her to enjoy her lover. My guess is her lover will not be Adam forever. But from how you describe her, she won't have any problem finding another willing semen donor (so to speak) in the future.

Keep the emotional bond with her and your mutual commitment as something you can both cherish.