mundyman wrote: ↑Sat Jun 03, 2023 6:04 am
w770 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 03, 2023 5:47 am
Thanks for all of your words of encouragement, warnings and red flags, opinions and criticisms. I'm taking it all to heart and am hoping to have some stretch of time to directly respond to a lot of them today/tomorrow.
michael8401 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 03, 2023 8:03 am
Just remember this is all just fun and she’s only doing it because you actually want her to. She will stop on a dime if you say so. It’s all for fun and it’s all a game. Adam may not get that but both of you do.
Congrats man! I think you guys are the best
Thanks!
Update: spent the last 3 hours in the gym, weights, cardio, sauna, really trying to clear my head and be in the moment. Lana texted me earlier, saying that she was leaving her friend's place with the girls for their hair appointment and that they had plans to go to lunch afterwards followed up with some shopping. I checked her location and she was still on the lower east side (presumably Adam's place). So I video called her but she didn't respond. 2 minutes later, she video called me back, and I asked about her night. She was still in bed and had the covers pulled up to her shoulders, so she very well could've still been naked in bed with Adam. She definitely seemed distracted, and said that she didn't want to be late for the appointment, so the call was quick, and we ended it with "I love you's." I think it's safe to assume that Adam was right there, watching and quietly laughing at my supposed cluelessness.
She's at her hair dressers now, and will likely be there for the next 3 hours. As far as her friend's social media, she posted pictures of what looks to be a dinner date with her husband last night, so it looks like Lana and Adam had dinner together.
I'm going to call a banana rama pause tomorrow when she gets back (assuming she stays the night again with Adam) and that reconnecting conversation and hopefully reclaiming will determine if we keep going in this game, or move onto what we had before with Shawn or even Sebastian.
My mind is racing with questions. Did she do anal with Adam? How many times did they fuck? Did she make him delete any videos? Even if she did, did he secretly record her again? How "romantic" was their time last night before going back to his place? What "couple things" are they doing today after her hair appointment?
I can't drink like that again today. Being hungover hurts. I used to be able to shake them off in my 20s without too much effort. But now, they tend to last well into the afternoon.
W,
Why the gigantic amount of angst with this particular lover of Lana’s??
What is it about Adam that has you so on edge??
Your nerves, stress, angst and concern are off the charts.
I would think you’ve got to be getting used to Lana going off and getting fucked by younger dudes with huge cocks that make her feel like you never could.
What gives??
I think it's primarily a function of circumstance as with Shawn, there was always a constant process of feedback whereas with Adam, we're going days without that same communication and it's a lot tougher than I imagined it would be, even if it's a game.
TheHammer wrote: ↑Sat Jun 03, 2023 6:38 am
w770 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 03, 2023 5:47 am
My mind is racing with questions. Did she do anal with Adam? How many times did they fuck? Did she make him delete any videos? Even if she did, did he secretly record her again? How "romantic" was their time last night before going back to his place? What "couple things" are they doing today after her hair appointment?
Don’t read too much into dinner last night, people have to eat, even with a fuck buddy. Likewise, if will gps shows up at a bar or restaurant this afternoon, it doesn’t mean anything “couple” wise. From what has been seen and heard via texts and the phone in the office leading up to this and the stationary gps last night vs all around town, this is all about sex and not romance.
Its likely she did anal given what you saw from in the office and assuredly they have fucked plenty, but this is what is assumed and excepted.
I know your mind is racing but given everything has gone as anticipated so far, you have nothing to worry about vs in they are out and about all night until the wee hours.
There is nothing you can do about the videos, he likely saved a copy somewhere so doesn’t matter if he deletes the ones on his phone.
Try to look at the positives, your wife was getting fucked all night by a young stud who is rocking her world and she will be back home in your arms soon where she wants to be. This was just an extremely intense role playing game and it certainly doesn’t mean you have to play it again.
Thank you, I guess it was naive to think that they would just be in bed for the entire weekend, so I may be reading way too much into the normal processes of life such as the need to eat.
As far as the videos, my only hope is that there aren't any with her face. There are several already where you can hear him call out her name and then her voice responding, so people closest to us may be able to discern that it's her from that context, but you're right, I should focus on the things I can control as opposed to the things I can't.
Open2it wrote: ↑Sat Jun 03, 2023 7:04 am
I think the operative phrase is your “supposed cluelessness”. He’s the one who was clueless. He probably has no idea how close she came to not going this weekend. Her friends post of dinner with her husband should be comforting from the perspective that the friend was not covering or even knowledgeable of Lana’s extramarital adventures. I think the most you can read into anything is that Lana spent the night with her fuck buddy. She may have found it to be incredibly arousing to be on the phone with you while Adam was in her.
I’d suggest you get her some of her favorite flowers and wine for a romantic debrief of what you each liked and didn’t like about the weekend. That type of communication will go a long way towards tailoring future trusts to meet both your needs and desires. I must say that for a couple that’s only been at this a short while, you both are impressive in how you’ve both played the game.
I read this and immediately went on the alcohol delivery app for our area and ordered her champagne of choice. Great advice, thank you!
shawnm wrote: ↑Sat Jun 03, 2023 7:09 am
w770 wrote: ↑Sat Jun 03, 2023 5:47 am
Thanks for all of your words of encouragement, warnings and red flags, opinions and criticisms. I'm taking it all to heart and am hoping to have some stretch of time to directly respond to a lot of them today/tomorrow.
Update: spent the last 3 hours in the gym, weights, cardio, sauna, really trying to clear my head and be in the moment. Lana texted me earlier, saying that she was leaving her friend's place with the girls for their hair appointment and that they had plans to go to lunch afterwards followed up with some shopping. I checked her location and she was still on the lower east side (presumably Adam's place). So I video called her but she didn't respond. 2 minutes later, she video called me back, and I asked about her night. She was still in bed and had the covers pulled up to her shoulders, so she very well could've still been naked in bed with Adam. She definitely seemed distracted, and said that she didn't want to be late for the appointment, so the call was quick, and we ended it with "I love you's." I think it's safe to assume that Adam was right there, watching and quietly laughing at my supposed cluelessness.
She's at her hair dressers now, and will likely be there for the next 3 hours. As far as her friend's social media, she posted pictures of what looks to be a dinner date with her husband last night, so it looks like Lana and Adam had dinner together.
I'm going to call a banana rama pause tomorrow when she gets back (assuming she stays the night again with Adam) and that reconnecting conversation and hopefully reclaiming will determine if we keep going in this game, or move onto what we had before with Shawn or even Sebastian.
My mind is racing with questions. Did she do anal with Adam? How many times did they fuck? Did she make him delete any videos? Even if she did, did he secretly record her again? How "romantic" was their time last night before going back to his place? What "couple things" are they doing today after her hair appointment?
I can't drink like that again today. Being hungover hurts. I used to be able to shake them off in my 20s without too much effort. But now, they tend to last well into the afternoon.
Most likely they were fucking when you called and she took a break to call you back. That counts for something. Possibly Adam may be licking her pussy while she video called you. I believe she had planned on coming Sunday morning, so she will have 2 nights with adam. Wonder what all they did. Hope she tells you every minute detail.
How would you compare Shawn and Adam physically looks wise, built wise, height wise and sexual prowess wise. While I had earlier asked about kinky sex between them. Does Adam also facefuck her, lift and fuck her and all like Shawn used to do.
Shawn and Adam are both really similar in how Lana describes their sexual prowess. They both are very dominant, aggressively pound her tight pussy, they both face fucked her (something that immediately gets her dripping wet) , and both lift her up and would fuck her against the wall.
As far as appearance, Shawn is slightly taller, but not by much. He also had much bigger muscles like what you'd think you'd see on a personal trainer whereas Adam, while extremely muscular, is more lean. Both have six packs, and they both seem to love showing off their bodies.
Cocks - Shawn has almost a porn star cock. I didn't think they came that big and was left basically in shock when I saw it for the first time. Adam's cock is a solid 8 inches and incredibly thick. He's sent me videos of him stroking himself, and I can see how he's barely able to grab the circumference of it. Lana's told me how they would take a long time easing it into her. Once he was all the way in, she would tell him to just hold her and kiss her for a few minutes before he started thrusting. But once her pussy was more acclimated to his size, he would be merciless, and would pound her into the mattress of his cabin.
Update: she's just finishing up at the hairdressers and is leaving for lunch now. I checked her friend's social media and this looks to be true, as her friend posted pictures of the group of girls and mentioned how they were headed to one of their favorite cafes. There have been instances where this group of girls orders the "bottomless brunch" option, and they stumble out into the city after multiple mimosas. It's a safe area so that doesn't concern me, but I'm curious how at liberty Lana will feel in telling her girlfriends about Adam when she's had too much to drink. The cafe is also on the East side of town, so Adam won't be far away.