tojanman wrote: ↑Wed Nov 22, 2023 8:32 am
Ahh shit. Here we go again!
Seriously. Every time I think we're just about to go back to being a boring normal couple, lol.
gesdell wrote: ↑Wed Nov 22, 2023 6:49 pm
3 weeks is a long time not to come. After one week I would break down and jack off. You sir, are committed to this, I hope it is as good as Lana says the orgasm will be.
I honestly don't think I can make it that long. I can't remember the last time I went more than 2 weeks without cumming.
3532734dreamer wrote: ↑Wed Nov 22, 2023 7:07 pm
Hi w770.
Happy to be able to read your latest updates, thank you. Exciting stuff! I think everyone is waiting in anticipation for December 12th.
w770 wrote: ↑Sun Nov 19, 2023 7:53 am
Of all the things that has happened in the last year, their love making was definitely the most impactful on me, as it really hurt, especially having her on the other side of the country. However, I've actually come around to not only appreciating it, but being turned on by it. I'm not exactly sure how that evolved, but Shawn and I do talk about it while we jerk off together sometimes, and Lana is fully aware of how I felt at the time and how I feel about it now. She's been really accepting of how I've responded to in the past by it and how I've changed since. She's always been really good at emotionally handling the rollercoaster and keeping our marriage and how it's the number one priority in the back of her mind always.
You are fortunate to have Lana and that she is capable of handling you emotions so as, in addition to her own. And good for you that you have been able to communicate your feelings to her (and to Shawn in perhaps a less direct way). That's not always easy to do and requires a degree of trust and vulnerability. But it's very positive.
I would also say you are both fortunate to have each other. I don't think Lana has had the sexual experiences she has had in the past year to the same extent prior to your relationship. Though, if you don't know what you are missing, does it matter? Has Lana said anything about how the past year has changed her (I mean excluding being pregnant)? Or about how she views sex now compared to before? Or does she blow it off as just fun, as opposed to something impactful or life altering?
There seems to be a lot of talk of love-making coming from Shawn lately. And I would expect that he would deliver on that once he's there. But I'm still curious about how much love-making there was when Lana was in California. I can't believe that it was just the once when you were witness to it. Did you get any more details in that regard from either of them?
And how are you feeling about the probability of them making love again (and possibly more often) in December. One thing is the emotions around their love-making in the past transforming into emotions of arousal now. But how do you feel about the future probability of it? Are you sure you are ok with it? And if you are, how far would you be ok with it (what boundaries)? I think it would suck for you to re-experience those emotions from when Lana was in California by assuming it was mostly because she was on the other side of the country from you.
w770 wrote: ↑Wed Nov 22, 2023 3:50 am
Afterwards, Lana and I went to bed and I gestured towards getting on top of her to make love, but she denied me saying, "don't you think it would be hot if we didn't make love until Shawn has had me?" I mentioned that 3 weeks might be a bit much, but she said that the orgasm that I would have would be more intense that any I've had recently, especially if I don't allow myself to cum until then.
Ok, this sounds like a lot of fun! Especially in combination with you being restricted in your access while Shawn is there. It's a thin line between Lana dening you until he has had her and you continuing to be denied (or heavily restricted) once he's there. And is she really thinking about your orgasm, or hers? Some of her most intense orgams have been triggered by love-making. With Shawn when they were making love and he was holding off making her cum until she said what he wanted her to say. With Evan when they were making love in the lotus position and looking into each others eyes. I have little doubt that saving herself for Shawn will heighten the sex between them, and the resulting orgasm.
Would that be something you would consider playing into? Building up her anticipation, her craving to be filled by his big cock? Encouraging her not to hold back in her desire to be properly satisfied? And focusing on her orgasms?
Oh, one last question, sorry! Are you planning anything for the anniversary of Lana and Shawn's first time? If not on the date then after he has arrived? To mark the occasion...
From your last few posts it sounds like you are in a better place now. Hope it continues. Wish you all all the best.
Well Dec 12 is when Shawn comes into town. I think his parents will want to spend some time with him before they leave for Florida so if he is to fuck Lana, it would maybe be a few days after? I'm not too sure yet.
Addressing your question about Lana's past sex life compared to now and how the last year has changed her - well she was pretty promiscuous in college and the handful of years after college, going home with a guy almost every weekend. However, she would rarely sleep with them, but rather just do oral. She was known for giving the most incredible head, so much so that one time she went home with a guy she met at a club, and he told his roommate how unbelievable she was at sucking cock that the roommate really had to know, so the next week, she went home with the roommate and proved how amazing she really way. She's had 4 (if I'm counting correctly) one night stands, 2 of which she can't even really remember - she just remembers waking up naked with a guy in his bed. But after we got together, she became really conservative sexually, so if this year changed anything, it really brought her back to the slut she used to be.
As far as the love making and Shawn - it was really difficult for me when they were in California because of the distance and the inability to reclaim and reconnect with her, especially after something so big. But Lana and I have talked about it, and again last night over date night, and I asked her upfront "Do you love him?" I let her know that I wouldn't be mad, but we need to be on the same page. She said that she does love him, and that they made love several times in California, but it was nothing compared to what we have. We have over a decade of being together and have been there for each other through the biggest life events and nothing can replace that, and no matter what, our marriage and our family will always come first, and that she will never leave me. It hit like a ton of bricks at first hearing how they made love multiple times in California, but I eventually came around to it, and am now turned on by it. But like I said in an earlier post, if I ever thought that the marriage was in jeopardy, I wouldn't let it go further.
Regarding holding off - I think Lana's idea of denying me the other night was to heighten both of our orgasms in a few weeks time. You're absolutely right that her most powerful orgasms have been with love making with Shawn and Evan, and she also understands that the buildup will make my orgasm when I eventually make love to her again just as powerful.
The question will be whether I can hold off that long.
Finally, your question on the anniversary between Shawn and Lana having sex for the first time - we actually haven't talked about that at all. I'll bring it up, although seeing as it's Thanksgiving and we'll be with her family the entire day, I don't think it's a great time to bring something like that up, lol.
parmaham55 wrote: ↑Wed Nov 22, 2023 11:53 pm
Oh, one last question, sorry! Are you planning anything for the anniversary of Lana and Shawn's first time? If not on the date then after he has arrived? To mark the occasion...
Oooh, that idea sounds fun, W. The traditional one year anniversary gift is paper, so perhaps you could draw up a fun agreement that you sign and frame, signing over all access rights to Lana’s pussy to be in Shawn’s control up until the end of the visit (or longer?) (Of course, we know it’s a fun game, the true owner of Lana’s pussy is Lana).
You could find wording that you know will suit Lana and the situation.
Perhaps you’d consider adding a clause assigning your rights to your own orgasms over to the two of them for the entire duration too!
Then give it to Lana on the anniversary date.
snoogaloo82 wrote: ↑Thu Nov 23, 2023 4:07 am
parmaham55 wrote: ↑Wed Nov 22, 2023 11:53 pm
Oh, one last question, sorry! Are you planning anything for the anniversary of Lana and Shawn's first time? If not on the date then after he has arrived? To mark the occasion...
Oooh, that idea sounds fun, W. The traditional one year anniversary gift is paper, so perhaps you could draw up a fun agreement that you sign and frame, signing over all access rights to Lana’s pussy to be in Shawn’s control up until the end of the visit (or longer?) (Of course, we know it’s a fun game, the true owner of Lana’s pussy is Lana).
You could find wording that you know will suit Lana and the situation.
Perhaps you’d consider adding a clause assigning your rights to your own orgasms over to the two of them for the entire duration too!
Then give it to Lana on the anniversary date.
that sounds like a totally fun idea!!
Yeah, it does sound like something fun to commemorate, but it's a conversation that we likely won't have until tomorrow afternoon at the earliest seeing as we're around her family all day today and will be staying the night at her parents' place.
Update: So as I mentioned above, we had date night last night and Lana confessed that she does in fact love Shawn and that they made love multiple times in California. I had always assumed that she loved the way Shawn and Adam pounded her pussy into submission, and the way she wrapped her legs around their waists as they made her cum was her body's reaction to the sheer primal lust of it all. However, when it's me and her, the way she wraps her legs around me is more of a desire to connect on a much deeper level. It sounds cheesy but that's what it is. And so when I saw her grab Shawn's ass in California and pull him into her with her legs while he slowly thrusted into her, it really did appear that she was in love with him. And then knowing that they spent the entire weekend doing that, on top of him pounding her pussy mercilessly, it was a lot to take in, but I accept it. And on top of all of that, he knows that she's pregnant so I'm assuming that he will be gentle with her for the time that he's here next month. Lana and I talked at length about this last night and if either of us ever feels that there is a legitimate threat to the marriage, we let the other person know and we'll stop.
Since I'm trying to hold off from cumming until Shawn has had Lana, but him and I are on an almost nightly routine of getting on camera together at night, it put us in a weird spot last night. I can't really explain or fully understand my relationship with him, but we do have a sort of friendship, but with an odd sexual nature between us. He fucked that girl that he's casually seeing, but after he got home, we got on camera, and we both got naked together. Lightly stroking our cocks together with the understanding that we didn't want it to go too far as I'm trying to hold off, he teased me a bit. "You know how much your wife begged to taste my cock after I came in her? It was like she was starving for a real man..."
After we had wrapped up our call, I motioned to Lana, who was mostly asleep, to make love knowing that I would be denied, but in the denial itself was part of the game that we both understood. I started caressing her legs and fondling her breasts outside of her nighty and kissing her neck, positioning my erection onto her ass so she could feel how much I wanted it, when she reached back, stroked me for about a minute and told me, "Not until after Shawn makes love to me..."
