Sexual limits

[Hungry4IT]

No Barebacks a big thing for us for safety concerns until we find a solid long-term partner.

And my girl told me when we started HWing that she would keep her ass for me and only give it up if I allowed it. I was happily suprised at this and now make the joke that maybe the right guy will earn it some day.

[NewCuck98]

My wife has no limits when fucking around.
Limits are for me: I don't get to fuck her ass, neither cumming in her mouth while she loves to swallow another guy's cum.

[Cray-z-dayz]

My wife has a "no anal... ever!" policy, otherwise everything else is possible.


-Cray

[HWBarb4Fun]

My husband literally has no limits, but I did, and he was always right there to make sure guys didn't violate or encroach on any of my rules that he and I mutually agreed on in advance of my first encounter as HW

[kort677]

My wife has a "no anal... ever!" policy, otherwise everything else is possible.


-Cray

my wife is the same, she will not allow her anus to be penetrated

[CoupleFun555]

We have no set limits. We both understand that each of us can enjoy a variety of types of sex. So, why have a “limit”. She has her own wants and sex acts sh has little to no interest in, but’s not a limit we set as a couple.

[zorro]

Since we set up the poll in the first place and others have been so open, it is only fair for us to share where we are coming from.

For new partners, no bareback. For regulars, no limits.

That works well for us.

[DaCuck]

I believe this is a matter of it being no limits due to the fact that the lifestyle itself is very out of the norm… I have no doubt that the only limitation placed on all the the relationship is that the wife return home...Eventually.

[Stag78]

I ultimately have no issues with her doing any of these things with a lover under the right circumstances, which would be mostly determined by her.

For the guys who are saying their lady isn't OK with anal, is that the way you voted on the poll? What if she comes to you one day and says her lover fucked her ass and she loved it? And she wants to do it again? Would you be OK with that?

That's why I answered "No Limits", because ultimately she gets to decide what is OK for her. Even if your girl has been steadfastly against a particular act, she may decide to do that very thing under the right circumstances, and I think it's best to just accept that possibility.

[2wheel]

My wife has a "no anal... ever!" policy, otherwise everything else is possible.


-Cray

DITTO

[dinoo]

Since we set up the poll in the first place and others have been so open, it is only fair for us to share where we are coming from.

For new partners, no bareback. For regulars, no limits.

That works well for us.

Hi Zorro, well said.
You now it worked well for us too.

Dinoo

[Flavius]

There are of course limits - none of which are given as options.

The use of sheaths certainly is advisable but is not a hard limit. So, in the end she can do to her liking. That would be true for me as well if I were in the situation.

Even when we started, we only had the use of condoms as a limit. At that time, it was meant as a limit not to be abolished. As time went by this limit was watered down a little by her. Finally, we have agreed that it is her decision whether to do it with or without them. Normally she still uses them. I myself have so far withstand the temptation to refrain from using them when having sex with another woman.

I would be lying if I said I never had problems when I saw her doing things or she told me about things which were out of bounds between the two of us. Especially that she allowed some men to use her backdoor was hard to swallow for me. This particularly as we had tried that once and it had gone painful because of HER wish to do it without lube. Since that she has never done it with me again. She has kept saying that it is a matter of size, first and foremost thickness. Tough.

[iwish]

Just a fantasy. But if we went down this road I would want her to go into every relationship, whether its a one-off or a full fledged relationship, with the idea it's for her pleasure. She should do whatever she wants. If she wants to try something she's never done before, that we've never attempted or maybe even thought of I'd want her to go for it fully. I'd want her to be fully satisfied. Taken to places she didn't know existed. If that met being used like a piece of meet and being pounded into submission so be it. If she wants hours of sensual love-making so be it. As long as it was for her enjoyment she should do it. If she want a new cock (or two) in her vagina that's up to her. If she wants to try anal sex (we never have) she should go for it. If she wants to try two men at once or simply meets two guys (or more) and can't decide which one she wants then she should have both. If she identifies a couple that captures her attention she should experiment. If she has the urge to let them cum in her mouth, all over her unbelievable breasts (and I say that after more than thirty years of experience with them), or in her married pussy so be it. I would just want her to get exactly what she wants.

[zorro]

Just a fantasy. But if we went down this road I would want her to go into every relationship, whether its a one-off or a full fledged relationship, with the idea it's for her pleasure. She should do whatever she wants. If she wants to try something she's never done before, that we've never attempted or maybe even thought of I'd want her to go for it fully. I'd want her to be fully satisfied. Taken to places she didn't know existed. If that met being used like a piece of meet and being pounded into submission so be it. If she wants hours of sensual love-making so be it. As long as it was for her enjoyment she should do it. If she want a new cock (or two) in her vagina that's up to her. If she wants to try anal sex (we never have) she should go for it. If she wants to try two men at once or simply meets two guys (or more) and can't decide which one she wants then she should have both. If she identifies a couple that captures her attention she should experiment. If she has the urge to let them cum in her mouth, all over her unbelievable breasts (and I say that after more than thirty years of experience with them), or in her married pussy so be it. I would just want her to get exactly what she wants.

A sweet and loving attitude.

[Curioushubby99]

We have never had any agreed limits but in reality started out with self imposed limits due to assumptions about what each other wouldn't be happy to see. Thankfully we both soon realised that we both wanted to see each other enjoy ourselves as much as possible and clarified that there should be no limits whatsoever, and the sex should be as natural and as good as possible. We hold nothing back as "just for us"

As far as my wife being a HW she now absolutely knows she can do whatever she wants with who she wants. In reality what she does is controlled by, how good the guy is, how much she likes him, and how comfortable she is with him. So yes she has solo meets, bareback sex, dv & dp etc. As for me I enjoy similar freedom with other ladies although she prefers that I don't have solo meets.

[dinoo]

As far as my wife being a HW she now absolutely knows she can do whatever she wants with who she wants. In reality what she does is controlled by, how good the guy is, how much she likes him, and how comfortable she is with him.

Like with us.
The only difference: we had this arrangement from the beginning.
So without the word "now".

It worked very well. No discussions between us, no mental restrictions for my wife when fully engaged.
Two times in our history I asked her: "And what would you do if he would try to penetrate you anally?"
Two times about the same answer: "I think I was ready for it, it crossed my mind to let it happen, but fortunately I didn't need to decide."

Dinoo

[SilverStag]

To quote the pirate Captain Barbosa in the original Pirates of the Caribbean, "They're not really "rules", more like guidelines"

[isinlarsa]

My wife and I have limits regarding what the two of us do sexually -- specifically anal sex. I'm not really into anal sex, and my wife isn't particularly interested in doing it with me. However, she has done anal sex with other men she's had sex with -- to please them. For some weird reason I find it hot that she will do things sexually with other men that she doesn't do with me. It turns me on that other men have possessed her in ways I haven't.

[2inUPMichigan]

The only thing off limits is bareback as I always insist on condoms and hubby is in agreement for safety reasons.

Other than that limits on actual sexual activity?
It is up to me to decide on a case by case basis what I will or will not allow.

[early-kink]

My wife and I have limits regarding what the two of us do sexually -- specifically anal sex. I'm not really into anal sex, and my wife isn't particularly interested in doing it with me. However, she has done anal sex with other men she's had sex with -- to please them. For some weird reason I find it hot that she will do things sexually with other men that she doesn't do with me. It turns me on that other men have possessed her in ways I haven't.

What is it that's so hot about the lady doing things with other guys that she won't do with us?
When I had a then-hotGF some years ago, we didn't even discuss limits when it came to specific acts. I know for a fact that she did things with them that she didn't do with me.

[isinlarsa]

My wife and I have limits regarding what the two of us do sexually -- specifically anal sex. I'm not really into anal sex, and my wife isn't particularly interested in doing it with me. However, she has done anal sex with other men she's had sex with -- to please them. For some weird reason I find it hot that she will do things sexually with other men that she doesn't do with me. It turns me on that other men have possessed her in ways I haven't.

What is it that's so hot about the lady doing things with other guys that she won't do with us?
When I had a then-hotGF some years ago, we didn't even discuss limits when it came to specific acts. I know for a fact that she did things with them that she didn't do with me.

I think hotwife husbands are turned on by other men possessing our wives and our wives willingly opening themselves up to other men. This is enhanced when the wives are possessed in ways beyond how the husband has his wife.

[eurocuck]

We forgot to discuss any limits or boundaries at very start 21 years ago. So wife is now able to decide case by case... seams we were in a hurry to make our first experiments...

[ucaneffher]

My ex and I started with the following rules when we were 18:
1. No kissing
2. No bareback
3. No cumming inside

Within two years my girlfriend was frenching with every man she was with and had become quite the cum dumpster by letting every man she was with fill her up with the exception of one guy who was always cautious. She was going to give up her anal virginity at age 20 to her favorite lover who happened to be the first man to cum in her after me. I loved how things were going at that point. She knew she had zero limitations and could do what she wanted with whomever, however, however many partners individually or at once if she so desired.

[wifesharer]

My slut wife has no limits, if I could tell you what she has actually done I may get banned, love her to bits but she is pure filth.

[wifesharer]

For us as beginners we have no kissing, no anal, and no cuddling. Before anyone makes a comment, I already know the “she has someone else’s dick in her mouth but can’t kiss” remark. Just preference I suppose.

Totally get that comment, my wife takes any strangers cock and spunk but sees kissing as to personal, some people don't get that, enjoy.