Told my wife my fantasy.

[Someone2love]

Anyways that's all for now. What does everyone think, have I got past where most wannabes get? Is this normal for your wives to slowly move to the goal without committing to having sex with another man? If so, what is your guesses on if she will eventually do it. Any kinky ideas that I could try to keep building on what I have so far? Thanks for reading and I'm looking forward to your responses.

I think you've been doing great - very encouraging to us other wannabes. How have things been going the past 6 months?

[BritishCuckCpl]

I offer our blog that's aimed at people new to the scene or just exploring. So there's no porn and it focuses on the benefits in hopefully a fun way with some actual stats.

But the fact that she's even considering it is a good sign. When my wife was at a similar stage I found several things really shifted the landscape.

One is that we went to a social evening with others in the lifestyle. They don't seem to run often which is a shame but she went just for an evening out away from family but listening to the adventures and stories of wives, cucks and bulls made it more real and fun sounding and she found they were nice ordinary people, it removed a lot of the fear and mystery.

Another thing was joining a group chat with me and a bull. She joined to just observe and make sure I wasn't talking about other women but she found she enjoyed reading our conversation and couldn't resist reaching out to the bull directly, chatting one on one, flashing then meeting. 15 years can collapse down very quickly if she feels confident.

[nutjob]

One is that we went to a social evening with others in the lifestyle. They don't seem to run often which is a shame but she went just for an evening out away from family but listening to the adventures and stories of wives, cucks and bulls made it more real and fun sounding and she found they were nice ordinary people, it removed a lot of the fear and mystery.

Where do you find such social events?

[BritishCuckCpl]

The sometimes advertise on platforms like this and fab swingers.

Where was a cuckolding forum who used to run them more often but that forum closed down a few years ago. Maybe members should start setting them up more often at local bars and hotels.

[Bullbe]

Well that all sounds very promising!

You're right; the thought about feeling bad for your kids isn't rational (and I don't mean that as an insult!). But, our brains don't always give us a perfect reason for everything. Feeling is...feeling. There's a part to it that could be valid; if she has sex with other men, will it undermine your marriage and thus harm your kids? There's a possibility of that, which can't be ignored. It's imporant to really open up communication, and be fully honest and open with each other. Getting into this is like a magnifying glass; what it finds, it magnifies. If it finds problems, it will magnify those. If it finds love, it will magnify that.

I once got to watch my wife have sex with a guy who had an absolutely enormous cock. It was incredibly enthraling! I sooo loved watching them together, seeing his huge cock go in and out of her, and hearing her moans of delight. That happened years ago, and I still fantasize about it from time to time. I hope you too get lucky (if you get into hotwifing!) and find a great guy for your wife who has a huge cock and knows how to use it.

I laughed out loud on this - us guys pontificating on rationality oh the sweet irony