Figuring it out

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by rascalnvixen » Tue May 10, 2022 5:52 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Tue May 10, 2022 4:32 am
rascalnvixen wrote:
Mon May 09, 2022 7:26 pm

That sure sounds like fun!!!! If you do, be sure Adventurer takes some pics to share, if he is allowed!!! I can just imagine you in a sex swing with guys lining up and backing up around the room!!!! :D

Rascal
Maybe I should mention that when we go to the sex club, I don't actually have sex with other men! I enjoy seeing all the naked people, and I have an exhibitionist side, so I like being watched as Adventurer and I play. I just don't think I could have sex with a random stranger.

Adventurer and I have talked about inviting a couple or play partner that we've already developed a relationship with to join us at the sex club. I think that would work. He also likes to tease me about pre-arranging a gangbang (maybe with several OHW friends flying in for the occasion!) but I'm pretty sure that I enjoy the idea of a gangbang more than I would like the actual thing. I need to have some level of control of the situation and some connection with the people that I'm fucking.

All of which is to say that the sex swing will be reserved for my husband or someone else that I'm close to. No long lineups :) But if a crowd wants to watch, that would be exciting.
Shucks!!!! There goes my chances!! Hehehe. I'm sure you could sell tickets to watch hubby doing you on the swing, or even just you on the swing!!! I'm sure there would be a good line of guys and girls who would line up to watch your exhibitionist self!!!! :mrgreen:

Rascal

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Wed May 11, 2022 2:31 pm

A few weeks ago, Adventurer had a solo date with Tess!

It isn’t my place to tell details of their encounter, but since it was my first time being on the other side of the “my spouse is out having sex with someone else” situation, I thought I’d share my feelings about it.

When Adventurer and Tess made the plan to get together, I was very happy for them. She has some interest in exploring BDSM, and that’s Adventurer’s kink as well. I knew that they would have a lot of fun together. I also know that Adventurer is a great guy who would make sure to go at her pace and ensure that she enjoyed herself. He’d be a good choice for her first time.

She was also a good choice for him. She’s fun and kind, and is very much in love with her husband. I don’t feel in any way threatened by her. She even asked my blessing before they confirmed a plan. She’s also beautiful, sexy, and adventurous and I knew that Adventurer would enjoy himself.

When I play on solo dates, Adventurer enjoys when I send him photo and video updates. In the week before his date, he asked if I’d want that, but I said that I didn’t. I was OK with them having sex, but didn’t necessarily need evidence of it. Tess’ husband, Charlie, felt the same way. So we both declined.

On the day of the date, Adventurer packed a bag to bring with him. He asked if he could take a few of our sex toys: cuffs, spreader bar, nipple clamps, flogger. It was a bit weird to think about him using them on someone else, but I had no problem giving him my blessing. He just had to promise to clean everything really well afterwards :)

When he was ready, I kissed him goodbye and he left to drive to the hotel. A few minutes later, Charlie texted me, “My wife just left to have sex with your husband. That’s such a weird thing to write.”

Charlie was feeling a bit anxious. It wasn’t jealousy exactly, just nervous energy that he didn’t know how to channel. We chatted for a bit and that seemed to help. He was home alone and thought he’d masturbate to ease some tension. I was home with my kids and had several chores to do, so I wished him well on his endeavors :) He assured me that chatting with me had already put him in the right state of mind.

Other than that, I didn’t really spend much time thinking about where Adventurer was or what he was doing. It wasn’t that I didn’t care, I just kept myself busy. When he did get home, though, I wanted to hog him for awhile. It wasn’t a sexual reclaiming (plus, I figured he might be kind of tired after his marathon day :) ), I just wanted to be with him.

I asked if he wanted to walk the dog with me. It would give us time to talk privately. I wanted to know how the day went, what they did, and most importantly how he was feeling about it. Looking back, I’m pretty sure that I mostly wanted to remind myself that I’m “his person.” Even if he’s intimate with other women, I’m the one that he can talk to about anything, and we are in this together. He was very willing to share and it felt good to both of us all around.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Johng1953 » Wed May 11, 2022 2:36 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 2:31 pm
A few weeks ago, Adventurer had a solo date with Tess!

It isn’t my place to tell details of their encounter, but since it was my first time being on the other side of the “my spouse is out having sex with someone else” situation, I thought I’d share my feelings about it.

When Adventurer and Tess made the plan to get together, I was very happy for them. She has some interest in exploring BDSM, and that’s Adventurer’s kink as well. I knew that they would have a lot of fun together. I also know that Adventurer is a great guy who would make sure to go at her pace and ensure that she enjoyed herself. He’d be a good choice for her first time.

She was also a good choice for him. She’s fun and kind, and is very much in love with her husband. I don’t feel in any way threatened by her. She even asked my blessing before they confirmed a plan. She’s also beautiful, sexy, and adventurous and I knew that Adventurer would enjoy himself.

When I play on solo dates, Adventurer enjoys when I send him photo and video updates. In the week before his date, he asked if I’d want that, but I said that I didn’t. I was OK with them having sex, but didn’t necessarily need evidence of it. Tess’ husband, Charlie, felt the same way. So we both declined.

On the day of the date, Adventurer packed a bag to bring with him. He asked if he could take a few of our sex toys: cuffs, spreader bar, nipple clamps, flogger. It was a bit weird to think about him using them on someone else, but I had no problem giving him my blessing. He just had to promise to clean everything really well afterwards :)

When he was ready, I kissed him goodbye and he left to drive to the hotel. A few minutes later, Charlie texted me, “My wife just left to have sex with your husband. That’s such a weird thing to write.”

Charlie was feeling a bit anxious. It wasn’t jealousy exactly, just nervous energy that he didn’t know how to channel. We chatted for a bit and that seemed to help. He was home alone and thought he’d masturbate to ease some tension. I was home with my kids and had several chores to do, so I wished him well on his endeavors :) He assured me that chatting with me had already put him in the right state of mind.

Other than that, I didn’t really spend much time thinking about where Adventurer was or what he was doing. It wasn’t that I didn’t care, I just kept myself busy. When he did get home, though, I wanted to hog him for awhile. It wasn’t a sexual reclaiming (plus, I figured he might be kind of tired after his marathon day :) ), I just wanted to be with him.

I asked if he wanted to walk the dog with me. It would give us time to talk privately. I wanted to know how the day went, what they did, and most importantly how he was feeling about it. Looking back, I’m pretty sure that I mostly wanted to remind myself that I’m “his person.” Even if he’s intimate with other women, I’m the one that he can talk to about anything, and we are in this together. He was very willing to share and it felt good to both of us all around.
Really looking forward to details later?

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by playdohsa » Wed May 11, 2022 3:12 pm

We are settling into being a play separate kind of couple and it’s nice to see an example of this dynamic working. I find it rare.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Mr1SexyGILF » Wed May 11, 2022 4:37 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 2:31 pm
A few weeks ago, Adventurer had a solo date with Tess!

It isn’t my place to tell details of their encounter, but since it was my first time being on the other side of the “my spouse is out having sex with someone else” situation, I thought I’d share my feelings about it.

When Adventurer and Tess made the plan to get together, I was very happy for them. She has some interest in exploring BDSM, and that’s Adventurer’s kink as well. I knew that they would have a lot of fun together. I also know that Adventurer is a great guy who would make sure to go at her pace and ensure that she enjoyed herself. He’d be a good choice for her first time.

She was also a good choice for him. She’s fun and kind, and is very much in love with her husband. I don’t feel in any way threatened by her. She even asked my blessing before they confirmed a plan. She’s also beautiful, sexy, and adventurous and I knew that Adventurer would enjoy himself.

When I play on solo dates, Adventurer enjoys when I send him photo and video updates. In the week before his date, he asked if I’d want that, but I said that I didn’t. I was OK with them having sex, but didn’t necessarily need evidence of it. Tess’ husband, Charlie, felt the same way. So we both declined.

On the day of the date, Adventurer packed a bag to bring with him. He asked if he could take a few of our sex toys: cuffs, spreader bar, nipple clamps, flogger. It was a bit weird to think about him using them on someone else, but I had no problem giving him my blessing. He just had to promise to clean everything really well afterwards :)

When he was ready, I kissed him goodbye and he left to drive to the hotel. A few minutes later, Charlie texted me, “My wife just left to have sex with your husband. That’s such a weird thing to write.”

Charlie was feeling a bit anxious. It wasn’t jealousy exactly, just nervous energy that he didn’t know how to channel. We chatted for a bit and that seemed to help. He was home alone and thought he’d masturbate to ease some tension. I was home with my kids and had several chores to do, so I wished him well on his endeavors :) He assured me that chatting with me had already put him in the right state of mind.

Other than that, I didn’t really spend much time thinking about where Adventurer was or what he was doing. It wasn’t that I didn’t care, I just kept myself busy. When he did get home, though, I wanted to hog him for awhile. It wasn’t a sexual reclaiming (plus, I figured he might be kind of tired after his marathon day :) ), I just wanted to be with him.

I asked if he wanted to walk the dog with me. It would give us time to talk privately. I wanted to know how the day went, what they did, and most importantly how he was feeling about it. Looking back, I’m pretty sure that I mostly wanted to remind myself that I’m “his person.” Even if he’s intimate with other women, I’m the one that he can talk to about anything, and we are in this together. He was very willing to share and it felt good to both of us all around.
Adventurer is such a lucky man, first of all to be able to share in all of your sexual adventures, and secondly to have your blessing to play with another bright and beautiful young lady.

I am really looking forward to his recount.

Mr GILF
Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. - Dr. Seuss

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by rascalnvixen » Wed May 11, 2022 7:32 pm

LFA, I don't know how you keep impressing me, but you do!!! What a fantastic frame of mind concerning Adventurer's adventure with Tess. I love that you are willing to let him enjoy some fun with some other women, I'm also sure that isn't a fully open concept for you. I would think there may be some women that you would be concerned about being with him. I'm talking about those "ladies" who are not as intellectually in touch with the idea of non-monogamy. I enjoyed reading that you wanted to be close with him upon his return. I could see a lot of women who would be somewhat "chilly" when hubby returns in that situation. Reclaiming?? Haha, it is definitely a different situation when it is the man that has been out playing. Women can usually continue with some sex with hubby upon her return, but the man might not have what is needed to reclaim. So, the idea of having some close intimate personal time together is very good. Vixen and I have done the same upon my return if I have been with one of our lady friends. The more I read of your comments the more I admire you. Thanks for your viewpoint!!

Rascal

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu May 12, 2022 6:32 am

Johng1953 wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 2:36 pm

Really looking forward to details later?
I can't promise that, but Adventurer might want to share.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu May 12, 2022 6:34 am

playdohsa wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 3:12 pm
We are settling into being a play separate kind of couple and it’s nice to see an example of this dynamic working. I find it rare.
It doesn't seem super common on this site, or at least I don't read a lot of posts about it. I do think, like all of the relationships on this site, it takes a strong and healthy marriage first in order to do it well. So far, it is working for us but it does require honest communication and transparency. Best wishes to you and your partner as well.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu May 12, 2022 6:35 am

Mr1SexyGILF wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 4:37 pm

Adventurer is such a lucky man, first of all to be able to share in all of your sexual adventures, and secondly to have your blessing to play with another bright and beautiful young lady.

I am really looking forward to his recount.

Mr GILF
He IS a very lucky man! But I'd argue that I'm pretty lucky too. He's been super supportive of me and my sexual explorations over the past few years.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu May 12, 2022 6:44 am

rascalnvixen wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 7:32 pm
LFA, I don't know how you keep impressing me, but you do!!!
Aw shucks! Thank you Rascal.
rascalnvixen wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 7:32 pm
I'm also sure that isn't a fully open concept for you. I would think there may be some women that you would be concerned about being with him. I'm talking about those "ladies" who are not as intellectually in touch with the idea of non-monogamy.
That is 100% true. My level of comfort with this entirely depends on the other woman. I do trust Adventurer completely, but if his "date" was single and wanting more from him than sex and friendship, I would probably be much more concerned.

Funny story, I used to tell him that he could flirt/text/have sex with other women "as long as they aren't more attractive than me." He'd always reply, "Excellent. So I can fuck any woman in the world then?". He's a smooth talker that one :)
rascalnvixen wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 7:32 pm
the idea of having some close intimate personal time together is very good. Vixen and I have done the same upon my return if I have been with one of our lady friends.
I'm kind of the same way even when I'm the one who has returned from being with someone else. I want the emotional intimacy with Adventurer again afterwards as much or more than the physical intimacy.
rascalnvixen wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 7:32 pm
The more I read of your comments the more I admire you. Thanks for your viewpoint!!
That feeling is mutual. You are a naughty boy with a dirty mind, but I also appreciate that you seem to genuinely care about the people on this site. Thank you for your support in this journey.

rascalnvixen

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by rascalnvixen » Thu May 12, 2022 8:13 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Thu May 12, 2022 6:44 am
That feeling is mutual. You are a naughty boy with a dirty mind, but I also appreciate that you seem to genuinely care about the people on this site. Thank you for your support in this journey.
OMG!!! I've been found out!!! :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops:

You are most welcome!! I will always be your bra!!! :shock: :D 😍

Rascal

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu May 12, 2022 10:04 am

My last play date with G was the first weekend in April. We had planned to get together again later that month, but my family all contracted COVID. We rescheduled for May, but a loved one passed away and I had to concentrate on family instead of hot wife adventures. All of which is to say that it has been a while since we’ve been able to be together.

On Tuesday of this week, G let me know that he was going to be driving by our area for work. He wondered if I might want to meet him in a park for a quick hello (Note: this is the same park where I originally met him in October 2020 and ended up giving him a blow job). The idea of another visit there made me smile.

Adventurer encouraged me to go. He knew that I’d been working hard to support him, our kids, my in-laws, and everyone who had been grieving, plus grieving myself. He thought that a park visit might be a nice break from reality, and would give me a chance to “re-fill my cup” so to speak. I texted G and the plan was in motion.

It should be noted that spring has finally sprung in Southern Ontario and we’ve been having beautiful weather…I expected the park to be busy. But I did put a picnic blanket in the trunk of my car just in case we found a private spot to hang out.

I also chose an outfit that would work well for any outdoor shenanigans. There was a black t-shirt that was fairly casual but did hug the ladies nicely, and a green denim skirt that ended just above the knees. I thought it looked nice, but Adventurer suggested that I wear my mini jean skirt instead. It is pale denim and ends an inch or two below my butt. I find it ridiculously short, so I rarely wear it. Adventurer thought it was time to take it out of hibernation. His enthusiasm was humorous, so I made the change. I also removed my panties. I was now guaranteed to flash anyone who saw me get into or out of my car.

G and I arrived around the same time. We both got out of our cars (he was parked to the right and couldn’t see the flash) and kissed. Adventurer was right, it was a good distraction :) G also said that I looked really good, so I guess Adventurer’s choice of skirt was the right one.

G took my hand and we went for a walk down a trail in the less busy section of the park.

“We need to deviate from the trail a bit,” G said to me with a mischievous smile. “I see a picnic table over there and I need to kiss you on it.”

“Oh, you NEED to, do you?” I asked, but I agreed that if it was essential we should probably do it.

I hopped up on the edge of the table and G stood in front of me. He kissed me tenderly with his tongue exploring my mouth. My hand was in his hair. His hands were on me. One pulling me towards him, the other sliding its way up my thigh. He broke the kiss to smile at me and comment on how wet I was. I told him that he was responsible for that.

This table was in the middle of an open field and it felt too exposed, so we decided to move on. G commented on how challenging it is to walk with an erection. I took sole responsibility and apologized for his difficulties.

Soon, we found another picnic table. This one was behind a couple of trees and around a corner from the main trail. It wasn’t entirely secluded, but was pretty close. We decided to give it a test run. I once again sat on the edge, and G once again stood in front of me.

As we kissed, G’s hands groped my breasts and played with my nipples. One hand slid up my skirt. His fingers played with my clit and it didn’t take long for me to orgasm. He then slid his fingers inside me and made me cum again, before returning to my clit to bring me a third orgasam.

I was trying my best to be quiet. I was also keeping a general eye on the area around us to make sure no one came walking by. At that point, though, I was pretty laser focused on getting him inside me.

I told G that I wanted him. I leaned forward and began to undo his belt. He helped. I skooched as far forward as I could and he got between my legs. He rubbed himself against my wetness and then thrust inside. I’m surprised I didn't scream. It felt very good.

He fucked me for a few minutes as my legs wrapped around him. He picked up speed and I was soon clamping down around him in orgasm. He paused to kiss me. My pussy walls continued to squeeze and massage him, and he commented on how good it felt.

Then he noticed a couple in the distance. They were still far away, but were walking in our direction. He pulled out and pulled his shirt down to cover his cock. I shimmied my skirt back into place and sat sweetly on the table. The couple walked by.

At one point, they did turn to look in our direction, but only for a moment. Then they were gone.

G and I decided that maybe it was time to make use of the picnic blanket. We went further into the grove of trees and found a nice grassy patch. He lay on the blanket smiling at me. He looked so innocent there staring up at the tree. I lay down beside him and kissed him. Soon, my hand went into his pants and began to stroke him. He was very hard for me.

I told him that I needed to taste him. I got on my knees on the blanket and took him in my mouth. He made very appreciative moaning sounds.

This was when I learned that my super short skirt was very practical. I straddled G on the blanket and didn’t even need to pull the skirt up. :)

I kept watch as I bobbed up and down on him, but no one was around. I rode him to the most wonderful orgasm. I leaned forward to kiss him in thanks. Then I climbed off and lay beside him. He kissed me and told me how much he enjoyed the feel of me cumming around his cock.

I asked if he wanted to feel that again, but he said that what he really wanted right then was the feel of my mouth on his cock. I smiled and said, “Consider it done.”

His cock tasted like pussy and I licked it clean before taking him deep. He seemed to like when my tongue massaged his balls a bit while he was deep in my throat. I also gave nice attention to the tip, enjoying the taste of his pre-cum mixed with my own cream. I found a nice steady pace for moving up and down that made him let out a guttural groan. He told me that I was going to make him cum like that.

“Do you want me to make you cum?” I asked, my mouth lifting just slightly from his cock and my eyes twinkling with a bit of devilish desire.

“I want to cum inside your pussy and fill you up,” was his reply.

I straddled him again and noted that I was likely to make a big mess on him. He didn’t care. He put his hands on my hips and thrust up into me as I rode him. It was hard and deep. He kept going. I could feel my own orgasm building as he lost himself in my wetness.

He came hard and I followed soon after. My pussy milked all of the cum out of him before I climbed off. He was laying there smiling and sated (plus a little out of breath). I told him that he looked very happy. He said that was because he was happy.

We adjusted our clothes to be decent and lay together on the blanket for a while. The birds were singing, the leaves were rustling, the sun was shining down on us, filtered nicely by the trees. We got caught up on what had been going on in our lives in the past 6 weeks. At one point, we sat up a bit and he took a picture of me to send to Adventurer. I look disheveled but sated and very happy.

Altogether, I’d say that I enjoy hot wife visits to the park :)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Johng1953 » Thu May 12, 2022 10:15 am

Beautiful.
Hope we get to see the pic.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by hoping_she_will_1day » Thu May 12, 2022 11:17 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Thu May 12, 2022 10:04 am
Altogether, I’d say that I enjoy hot wife visits to the park :)
This may be the largest under-statement I've ever read! :shock:

Ms Curious and I both read this, then reminisced about our own public playtimes which were always interrupted before either of us finished. Once by Shore Patrol, while we were fucking in our car in a "restricted area" on base after dark. He could have hauled us in but I think he may have enjoyed the view for a couple of minutes before he scared the shit out of us. :lol:

We're very happy to hear that you got some fun time and let go of some tension. Very glad also that G's cock was able to support your needs! :mrgreen:
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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by hoping_she_will_1day » Thu May 12, 2022 11:18 am

Duplicate
Our story: viewtopic.php?f=48&t=65850#p1284434

Some pics: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=65745

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by eventfire » Thu May 12, 2022 11:48 am

Just incredible

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Thegooddaddy » Thu May 12, 2022 2:36 pm

Hey Hoping tell Ms Curious I say hi In Columbus! When can I come pick her up and take for some margheritas, some strong margheritas? Didn’t you promise some more photos of her? Maybe you can ask her to take some tonight?

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu May 12, 2022 4:08 pm

hoping_she_will_1day wrote:
Thu May 12, 2022 11:17 am

Ms Curious and I both read this, then reminisced about our own public playtimes which were always interrupted before either of us finished. Once by Shore Patrol, while we were fucking in our car in a "restricted area" on base after dark. He could have hauled us in but I think he may have enjoyed the view for a couple of minutes before he scared the shit out of us. :lol:
That's so sexy! Outdoor/public sex is definitely high on my kink list. I'm glad I'm not the only one. 😉

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu May 12, 2022 4:09 pm

eventfire wrote:
Thu May 12, 2022 11:48 am
Just incredible
Thank you stranger 😉.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Matureone2560 » Mon May 16, 2022 1:28 am

Well, a bit of dogging to add to the CV, very sexy K.

Just no end to your naughtiness :whip:

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Adventurer » Mon May 16, 2022 3:14 am

Matureone2560 wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 1:28 am
Well, a bit of dogging to add to the CV, very sexy K.

Just no end to your naughtiness :whip:
Her naughtiness is awesome, isn't it? She was so giddy when she came home. And looking phenomenally sexy. There was much more fun had that evening :D.
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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Matureone2560 » Mon May 16, 2022 4:17 am

Adventurer wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 3:14 am
Matureone2560 wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 1:28 am
Well, a bit of dogging to add to the CV, very sexy K.

Just no end to your naughtiness :whip:
Her naughtiness is awesome, isn't it? She was so giddy when she came home. And looking phenomenally sexy. There was much more fun had that evening :D.
Ahh the reclaiming, it's probably old, but you're a lucky man Adventurer :mrgreen:

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Tue May 17, 2022 5:26 am

Adventurer wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 3:14 am
Matureone2560 wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 1:28 am
Well, a bit of dogging to add to the CV, very sexy K.

Just no end to your naughtiness :whip:
Her naughtiness is awesome, isn't it? She was so giddy when she came home. And looking phenomenally sexy. There was much more fun had that evening :D.
Thank you both :) I have always enjoyed sex and I think people should have more fun with it...push themselves a bit and explore what interests them. Is that naughty? If so, I'm a very naughty girl.

I've learned in the past couple of years that the right partner makes all the difference. I was spoiled with Adventurer as my first and only for most of my adult life. I assumed sex was always awesome. I've learned that sex with other people isn't always great....but when you do find a person that gets you, understands your body, and is committed to ensuring you both have a good time, well that's worth being giddy about :)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Seekingmore12 » Thu May 19, 2022 11:21 am

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Thank you both :) I have always enjoyed sex and I think people should have more fun with it...push themselves a bit and explore what interests them. Is that naughty? If so, I'm a very naughty girl.

I've learned in the past couple of years that the right partner makes all the difference. I was spoiled with Adventurer as my first and only for most of my adult life. I assumed sex was always awesome. I've learned that sex with other people isn't always great....but when you do find a person that gets you, understands your body, and is committed to ensuring you both have a good time, well that's worth being giddy about :)
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Times two !

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Fri May 27, 2022 9:58 am

Adventurer and I decided to visit a sex club to celebrate the Canadian long weekend this past Monday. We had been to this club once before (with another couple) and had enjoyed the experience. I wrote about it in an earlier post.

Ever since that initial visit, we had been thinking about going back. The start of summer seemed like an excellent time to do so. We told the kids we were heading to Toronto to go on a date….which was technically true…we just didn’t go into detail about what we’d be doing on our date :)

We walked for a bit in the city, and then headed over to the club. It has an outdoor pool with a private pool deck (although there are a few nearby towers that probably get a good view). It seemed like a good place to spend Victoria Day afternoon. We signed in and left our clothes in a locker. Then we went out to the pool.

Our previous visit had been on a weekend when the club is reserved for couples and single women. On this visit, a Monday, single men were also allowed. I hadn’t really thought about that before we got there.

When we walked out to the pool, there was a couple hanging out near the stairs kissing. There were two single guys, sipping beer and watching things behind their sunglasses. And at the other end of the pool was another couple that were talking.

We left our towels on some beach chairs and got into the pool. We wanted to end up at the end where the talking couple were, so we had to walk by the two single guys. I felt a bit self conscious. It was strange because I hadn’t been nervous about going to the club, and I wasn’t nervous getting naked to walk out to the pool, but the single men added a new dynamic that I hadn’t mentally prepared for. If I made eye contact, would they consider it an invitation?

I smiled briefly, said “hello” then walked on by. It worked fine.

We stood near the talking couple and sipped our gin and tonics. It turns out that the couple were not actually together. She lives nearby and comes frequently to naked sunbathe and hang out. He was chatting her up – curious if she ever met anyone that she wanted to play with, how she found the experience, etc.

After a bit of small talk, we left them to it and just focused on each other. Adventurer was playing with my breasts a bit and pulling on my nipples. I told him that he was getting a hard on under the water. He pulled me close to kiss me so that I could feel it properly. Yup, definitely a hard cock!

We talked about what we might want to do while we were there. He joked that he hoped I’d fuck some strangers, and I told him that was not going to happen. The plan was for us to only play with each other. We might watch people and be watched, and if some beautiful woman invited him to assist her he had my full permission, but that was the extent of it. He said he would keep his eye out for beautiful women then ;)

A few other people came out to the pool: a couple in their mid-fifties, a group of five young people, another female sunbather. It was all very comfortable. We said hello or smiled as new people arrived, but mostly people stuck with their original groups.

At some point, we decided to go inside to get another drink and take a tour of the indoor rooms. As I got out of the pool, I could feel people checking me out. It was kind of empowering.

The group of 5 was sitting near where we had left our towels and sandals.

“My shoes are underneath the chair where you are sitting,” I said to a trans man on a lounge chair, as I bent down to retrieve them. “I promise that I’m not trying to be inappropriate.”

“No problem at all,” he said with a smile. “I hope you enjoy the view”

His ass was inches from my face. I smiled and said that I had thoroughly enjoyed it. Then I slipped the shoes on my feet and we went inside.

We decided to take a tour of the place before we went back to the bar. On the main floor, the ballroom looked the same as it had previously, except that the stage was now open. “This is where I came in your mouth last time,” Adventurer recalled.

Across the hall, the couple in their 50s were playing in the dungeon. The room looked pretty much the same, although the glory hole confessional booth was no longer there. The sex swing on one side looked inviting, and I said that I was ruling out using the St. Andrew’s cross this time around. I wasn’t feeling very BDSM-y. We didn’t linger long, though, because we didn’t want to interrupt the blow job that was taking place.

We went upstairs where there were six different spaces. They all looked the same as they had previously and all were currently empty. Adventurer pulled me into one with a red bench and asked if he could please eat me. I never need to be asked that question twice.

I lay down and he worked his magic, making me orgasm first with his tongue and then with his fingers. I offered to reciprocate with a blow job but he said that he wanted to wait. He did pull me over to the edge, lift my legs and slide his cock into my pussy for a bit though…just to get a feel of it.

We heard a lot of sexy sounds coming from the dungeon below. The blonde 50 year-old was definitely getting fucked and was having a great time. We decided to go check it out. As we walked down the stairs we saw the group of five standing around the dungeon door. They were watching as the blonde woman was now on her hands and knees. Her husband’s cock was in her mouth and she was getting pounded from behind by a young man. It was very sexy.

We went back to the bar. Adventurer got a drink. I decided to stick with water for this round. We went outside to the pool. A few more people had arrived and a few others had left. We chatted for a bit. I was leaning back against Adventurer, facing the other people in the pool. He reached around and began to play with my clit under the water. I turned my face towards him and said he was a very naughty boy.

He continued to play as he kissed my neck a bit. I whispered that he was going to make me cum if he kept that up. He whispered back that that was the plan. I closed my eyes and just let myself go with it.

I’m pleased to report that I was quite quiet throughout the experience, but I did cum hard.

When I opened my eyes, I noticed a few people watching. I smiled. Turned to kiss my husband and took another sip of my water.

We decided that maybe it was time to get some dinner. We got out of the pool, toweled off, grabbed our things from the locker and got dressed. We walked a few blocks and had some great sushi and cocktails. We checked in with the kids at home. All was well. Then we went back to the club.

The crowd was definitely picking up at this point. I was also starting to feel the alcohol. Case in point: I began to do a bit of a stripper dance and grind against Adventurer as the music played. He told me that I was attracting an audience. I smiled at the young black man to the left of us, and at the slightly nerdy white guy to the right.

Adventurer reached around and began to grope my breasts. I turned and kissed him quite passionately. I was grinding against him quite hard. He told me that if I smiled at the men again, they would probably come and help me. I told him that I wasn’t interested.

“Are you sure?” he asked teasingly.

“Yes,” I said definitively, and with a chuckle.

We kissed some more and then turned to take in what else was happening in the pool. Having not received a nod of consent from us, the black man had moved on to another couple nearby. He asked if they would like his assistance. They said no, and he got out of the pool to head inside.

Adventurer said he was going to go use the bathroom. I told him that if he left me, I could guarantee that some of the single guys would come over.

“Have fun with that,” he teased. I shook my head at him as he walked away, but also admired his butt as he climbed up the stairs and got out of the pool. I’m a lucky woman.

As soon as he got inside….literally…the nerdy guy beside me said, “You are very beautiful.”

I smiled and thanked him. He asked if Adventurer was my husband. I said that he was. “That’s what I thought. You two are really into each other,” he said.

I shifted my focus to the couple on the other side of me and asked if they came here often. It was their first time, so we started chatting about the space and my limited experience. Adventurer returned and I introduced him. The single guy seemed to have taken the hint that I wasn’t looking for someone new.

This story is getting a bit long, so I’ll just say that a couple of other guys approached us in the pool to ask if I wanted a massage, or if they could join in. We politely said no and they were very respectful.

I will also say that at one point a man came and began masturbating standing next to me when I was inside by myself. He wasn’t talking to me or even looking at me (he was looking out a window at the pool), but it was a bit weird.

Adventurer and I decided to play some more. We tried out the sex swing. We then went upstairs (where single guys are only allowed if they are invited by a woman or couple) and enjoyed fucking in lots of ways as other couples fucked nearby.

When we were ready to go downstairs, two single guys were waiting at the bottom of the staircase. I think they were hoping someone would invite them up.

They were both in their 20s, tall, with dark hair. In fact, they looked very similar.

They followed us into the dungeon and watched as Adventurer kissed me. He told me to lay back on the bench and masturbate. I smiled at my audience and began to rub my clit.

Both men asked if I wanted them to join me. I said no.

I made myself cum hard. Adventurer slid his fingers inside my now dripping pussy. “Are you sure you don’t want one of them to join you?” he whispered in my ear. “Look how hard those cocks are for you? They are stroking themselves thinking about fucking you? It would be hot to watch you suck them.”

I kept shaking my head. No. I was sure. I just had trouble saying it out loud. I was breathing heavily. His fingers and his teasing soon had me cumming and squirting all over. It was a mess.

He stood up and brought his cock to my face. He stroked it as I smiled at him. I licked it a bit and he began to cum. He shot his load on my chin, cheeks, and lips. I smiled at the strangers as I used my fingers to guide his cum into my mouth and clean myself up.

I thanked them for being my audience and apologized for not letting them join in. “I’m not ready yet to have sex with stranger,” I said as we walked away.

Adventurer said he really liked the “yet” in my statement :)

Later, as we were driving home, he apologized for being pushy. “I can see that it might have been annoying that I kept asking you to play with other men,” he said. I told him it was completely OK. I didn’t feel pressured and I knew my own mind. Plus, I know that sometimes his penis takes over his brain and I have to think for the both of us :)

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