It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[wannabecUKold]

I’m with rascal on this.
If the stud were a real long term dominant and OP a real sub, it would be the right thing to do but here we just have a fine cock and great body. Just treat it like Deliveroo.

[coastalkid]

If you don’t understand how hot it would be for Connor to be the first to fuck Lana in W’s marital bed in their new home, you don’t fully grasp the cuckold intensity and angst, ie, pleasure that would provide to everyone involved - especially W. It’s over-the-top . And I think it would be more intense if it’s done with Connor still thinking Lana is cheating…

You're right!!! I'm not a cuck. I understand the desires to some point, but I am a strong advocate for the original couple. I think that is the basis of the lifestyle. The couple give each other the rudder they need to get through life together with all of their individual needs. The couple is primary and that is why I think they should do the first sex in the house on their own. They could have Connor on standby out in the living room waiting to have his way with her and he could watch or go mow the lawn when Connor gives her a good one, or two, or three. That's all up to them. They don't have to follow my thoughts, I'm just sharing an opinion, as you just did!!!

Rascal

I share your opinion FWIW! There needs to be SOME moorings that hold the primary in place when the weather gets unstable. Losing your grip on the rudder in a storm is the fast track for disaster.

Can you imagine if every milestone/event in a marriage was associated with someone else like, "Honey remember when we bought that couch and "X" was the first guy to fuck you on it?", or, "I sure love our gazebo in the backyard sweetheart! It was "Y's" favorite place to fuck you!", or "Remember when we got our first camper trailer and Z was the first one to fuck you in it? I slept in our old tent." I'm sure some people would crave this kind of relegation and welcome it and I say, to each their own.

Like you, it's just my opinion but this type of thing leaves a legacy that says the best part of all these things is that you weren't the first or important enough to be the first. It's clear that people like to live in the moment. It makes sense, but a primary partner needs to be relevant. When does making someone irrelevant become irrelevant?

[tojanman]

Hitting the bump on this. Hopefully W770 has an update on Lana’s escapades.

[venus-can99]

W - hope the move went smoothly and y'all are settled in. Hope you guys connected with Connor as well.

[havingfun740]

Looking forward to hearing from W. Moves are so incredibly time consuming especially with a little one! High stress for sure.

[w770]

Hi everyone,

Time is limited as always so I'll have to keep it to bulletpoints.

Update:

- We're moved into the new house but not done unpacking
- Lana and Conner have fucked twice since the weekend of the wedding.
- He was first to fuck her in our new house, and we are going with the cheating wife angle for now
- He made it a point to fuck her in every room of our house. Not only that, but every surface as well, meaning that they've fucked on the kitchen island counter, he's bent her over the dining room table, our shower, the living room before we ever had a chance to hang up the curtains, etc.
- When the new mattress to our marital bed was delivered, I was at work in the office, and so Conner came over, they laid it across the floor and fucked on it. Same with the couch when it was delivered.
- Lana is thinking of telling him that she's feeling guilty and will "confess" to me soon, and at that point, we'll transition into a bull/cuckold relationship ideally.
- The cat is out of the bag with our entire friend group.
- I've gone out for beers with some of the husbands of the friend group and one of them confessed to me afterwards that he has also been curious about opening up his marriage but never had the courage to tell his wife.
- Lana and I have discussed how we would want things to be with Conner, if I would want to watch, participate, just listen from outside of the bedroom. I'm not opposed to any of it, so we'll see how that goes. I think she might tell him tonight about my knowledge.

I feel like I'm leaving something out but I can't really remember right now. Sorry for keeping this short. Meeting in 15 min and then another one right after. Busy busy. Hope everyone is well!.

[w770]

Okay, now I remember what I wanted to mention earlier. It's funny because it came to me as I was in my meeting. Anyway, Adam randomly messaged me with "Damn bro, I really miss the taste of your wife's tight pussy." When I saw his message and didn't respond, he followed up with a video of him and Evan taking Lana at the same time - Evan on the bottom with Lana riding him and Adam having her anally. His message to that was, "Lol sucks to be you."

I haven't responded and when I showed Lana, she told me to just ignore him.

Okay next meeting.

[w770]

Oh and another detail I left out earlier - when Conner and Lana fucked on our bed, he pulled out and came on the mattress. They didn't even put sheets on it at that point. And yes, it was my side of the bed.

[JismMuncy]

Seems to me that Adam has a really massive ego and is a mean ahole on top of that. Not a great personality combination!
W770, now that the cuckolding cat is out of the bag wrt your close friends, what is stopping you informing Adam that you have known all along? I say this because it would also be an opportunity to knock him down a peg or two. He should feel sheepish once he is told that you actively encouraged Lana to conduct their affair throughout (though he is an idiot so no guarantee!!) and one reason it is not still ongoing is because of his bad attitude, which may not be strictly true, but he would not know this! I would also inform him that the main reason Lana dropped him is because she is seeing a younger stripper who is better in bed than Adam. I'm sure getting his ego bashed will result in him getting mean and nasty, but he is anyway, so what difference will it make? Just a suggestion on how you could proceed with him.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the updates W. Hope you can "smell"/"feel" Conner when you are on the bed with Lana

[w770]

Seems to me that Adam has a really massive ego and is a mean ahole on top of that. Not a great personality combination!
W770, now that the cuckolding cat is out of the bag wrt your close friends, what is stopping you informing Adam that you have known all along? I say this because it would also be an opportunity to knock him down a peg or two. He should feel sheepish once he is told that you actively encouraged Lana to conduct their affair throughout (though he is an idiot so no guarantee!!) and one reason it is not still ongoing is because of his bad attitude, which may not be strictly true, but he would not know this! I would also inform him that the main reason Lana dropped him is because she is seeing a younger stripper who is better in bed than Adam. I'm sure getting his ego bashed will result in him getting mean and nasty, but he is anyway, so what difference will it make? Just a suggestion on how you could proceed with him.

You know, I actually considered that, but Lana just said to leave it alone.

Thanks for the updates W. Hope you can "smell"/"feel" Conner when you are on the bed with Lana

Oh it was a very visible cum stain on the mattress when I got home. It's interesting too because as I'm building furniture or unpacking another box, Lana tells me where and how Conner fucked her there. "He bent me over the counter here" "We fucked up against this wall." She even showed me the hand prints she left on the sliding glass door where he took her from behind in the living room in full view of any neighbors lucky enough to spot them.

She tells me that Shawn, Adam, and even her one night with Tyler were all incredible lovers, but Conner is on another level. He never seems to get tired, can get it up extremely quickly, has super human control, a perfect body and face of a model. They've fucked and made love. He'll pound her into submission one minute and slowly thrust in and out of her while kissing her lips, softly telling her, "there you go... there you go... cum with me now...." He can be romantic when they're in the lotus position, and talk dirty to her as he tells her "yeah, work that sexy ass on my cock" as he takes her from behind and forces her to do the work. He tells her how gorgeous she is while also mocking me, asking her "your husband ever been this deep inside you?"

Update: On her lunch break, Lana talked to Conner and told him that one of the women from the bachelorette party told her husband, who told me, which lead me to checking her phone, and she ultimately confessed to me. He offered to speak to me in person, so that might happen soon, it really depends on my schedule with work.

[Rogueuser1]

Awesome - glad things are developing well, especially him getting to be her first fuck all over the house and on the new bed and couch. Hopefully she gives you some missionary only sex in the bed but still lets him pound her wherever and however he wants.
Sounds like a hot video from Adam --- if you ever want to share let us know, I am sure many on this board would love to review it. That and the one of him giving you the finger while he takes her anal virginity --- hot!!
How do you feel about the entire friend group knowing? it will be interesting to see how folks treat you and Lana going forward - it's going to impact some of those friendships. Hopefully most of them positively. It would be hot if she could get another wife to be a wingman with her and they could go out together to pickup guys. Maybe even have a threesome with conner? Anything is possible...

[sandy691196]

Seems to me that Adam has a really massive ego and is a mean ahole on top of that. Not a great personality combination!
W770, now that the cuckolding cat is out of the bag wrt your close friends, what is stopping you informing Adam that you have known all along? I say this because it would also be an opportunity to knock him down a peg or two. He should feel sheepish once he is told that you actively encouraged Lana to conduct their affair throughout (though he is an idiot so no guarantee!!) and one reason it is not still ongoing is because of his bad attitude, which may not be strictly true, but he would not know this! I would also inform him that the main reason Lana dropped him is because she is seeing a younger stripper who is better in bed than Adam. I'm sure getting his ego bashed will result in him getting mean and nasty, but he is anyway, so what difference will it make? Just a suggestion on how you could proceed with him.

You know, I actually considered that, but Lana just said to leave it alone.

Thanks for the updates W. Hope you can "smell"/"feel" Conner when you are on the bed with Lana

Oh it was a very visible cum stain on the mattress when I got home. It's interesting too because as I'm building furniture or unpacking another box, Lana tells me where and how Conner fucked her there. "He bent me over the counter here" "We fucked up against this wall." She even showed me the hand prints she left on the sliding glass door where he took her from behind in the living room in full view of any neighbors lucky enough to spot them.

She tells me that Shawn, Adam, and even her one night with Tyler were all incredible lovers, but Conner is on another level. He never seems to get tired, can get it up extremely quickly, has super human control, a perfect body and face of a model. They've fucked and made love. He'll pound her into submission one minute and slowly thrust in and out of her while kissing her lips, softly telling her, "there you go... there you go... cum with me now...." He can be romantic when they're in the lotus position, and talk dirty to her as he tells her "yeah, work that sexy ass on my cock" as he takes her from behind and forces her to do the work. He tells her how gorgeous she is while also mocking me, asking her "your husband ever been this deep inside you?"

Update: On her lunch break, Lana talked to Conner and told him that one of the women from the bachelorette party told her husband, who told me, which lead me to checking her phone, and she ultimately confessed to me. He offered to speak to me in person, so that might happen soon, it really depends on my schedule with work.

1. Adam should be avoided like the plague. Nothing good will come from any kinda engagement on any level.

2 Conner is a good bet. Much younger.. plays to her cougar instincts. He is a pro (lets call it the way it is).. he knows it- she knows it.. No romance.. no fancy notions of wife stealing blah blah.. He will cater to all her fantasies in a professional manner.
There is a lot to be milked from this liaison in the coming 1year at least. Only caution required is the periodic health check (seeing his profession)..
He will cater to your fantasies too now.. He knows his "clients"!
This is gonna play out the Shawn way sans any of the romantic magic that developed with him.
Conners will bring in the cavalry at some point! Meaning orgies and new dick..
Always remember he is a pro and knows how to keep his clients on the boil.
This looks like a perfect set up unless there are nasty surprises.
Now that your friends know you are a cuck.. recruiting some of them might be a lark. Lana can work the wives while you "corrupt" their hubbies!
Possibilities are huge when there is a team effort!
A hubby or two might start looking at Lana in a different way too! Again new possibilities!

Have fun!

[JismMuncy]

[/quote]

1. Adam should be avoided like the plague. Nothing good will come from any kinda engagement on any level.

[/quote]

I would normally would agree and this was my initial thought upon reading w770's post about Adam, he is bad news. However there was an ulterior motive to my suggestion.

In the past Lana had secret communications with Adam and each time w770 found out about it from Adam, not Lana. Adam and Lana stopped communicating once his new GF moved in (I believe that is what w770 said, but perhaps I have that wrong)?
So why is Adam making contact with w770 now?
Maybe it is just a random contact, but in the past the pattern was that when Adam made contact with w770 to abuse and belittle him, it usually came after he felt he had something with which to lord over him e.g. Coercing Lana into denying w770 sex.
Lana says that Connor is the most skilled sexual partner she has had to date, but I think everyone can agree that of the men she has been with since they started down this road, Adam seems to be the one who has brought out the worst side of Lana, actively encouraging her to be deceptive with w770 . After what has happened previously, would it be a huge surprise if it turns out that Lana has had secret communications with Adam prior to him re-contacting w770?

[airhorn]

Hi everyone,

Time is limited as always so I'll have to keep it to bulletpoints.

Update:

- Lana is thinking of telling him that she's feeling guilty and will "confess" to me soon, and at that point, we'll transition into a bull/cuckold relationship ideally.

What does 'bull/cuckold relationship' look like to you? Actual involvement, or just a wittol thing?

[Dream Weaver]

Seems to me that Adam has a really massive ego and is a mean ahole on top of that. Not a great personality combination!
W770, now that the cuckolding cat is out of the bag wrt your close friends, what is stopping you informing Adam that you have known all along? I say this because it would also be an opportunity to knock him down a peg or two. He should feel sheepish once he is told that you actively encouraged Lana to conduct their affair throughout (though he is an idiot so no guarantee!!) and one reason it is not still ongoing is because of his bad attitude, which may not be strictly true, but he would not know this! I would also inform him that the main reason Lana dropped him is because she is seeing a younger stripper who is better in bed than Adam. I'm sure getting his ego bashed will result in him getting mean and nasty, but he is anyway, so what difference will it make? Just a suggestion on how you could proceed with him.

Now now, you know you know it’s up to Lana whether to cut ties not him. She needs that door available and it’s not his call.

[leander99]

Oh and another detail I left out earlier - when Conner and Lana fucked on our bed, he pulled out and came on the mattress. They didn't even put sheets on it at that point. And yes, it was my side of the bed.

Oh, that's deliberate.

He's marking his territory. They probably discussed this beforehand

Edit: this guy knows what he's doing. He'd make an excellent bull. He will probably feel you out when talking to you.

And he will claim Lana as his, if you let him. Which you should just allow. He will take it forward from there.

[w770]

Awesome - glad things are developing well, especially him getting to be her first fuck all over the house and on the new bed and couch. Hopefully she gives you some missionary only sex in the bed but still lets him pound her wherever and however he wants.
Sounds like a hot video from Adam --- if you ever want to share let us know, I am sure many on this board would love to review it. That and the one of him giving you the finger while he takes her anal virginity --- hot!!
How do you feel about the entire friend group knowing? it will be interesting to see how folks treat you and Lana going forward - it's going to impact some of those friendships. Hopefully most of them positively. It would be hot if she could get another wife to be a wingman with her and they could go out together to pickup guys. Maybe even have a threesome with conner? Anything is possible...

Seems to me that Adam has a really massive ego and is a mean ahole on top of that. Not a great personality combination!
W770, now that the cuckolding cat is out of the bag wrt your close friends, what is stopping you informing Adam that you have known all along? I say this because it would also be an opportunity to knock him down a peg or two. He should feel sheepish once he is told that you actively encouraged Lana to conduct their affair throughout (though he is an idiot so no guarantee!!) and one reason it is not still ongoing is because of his bad attitude, which may not be strictly true, but he would not know this! I would also inform him that the main reason Lana dropped him is because she is seeing a younger stripper who is better in bed than Adam. I'm sure getting his ego bashed will result in him getting mean and nasty, but he is anyway, so what difference will it make? Just a suggestion on how you could proceed with him.

You know, I actually considered that, but Lana just said to leave it alone.

Thanks for the updates W. Hope you can "smell"/"feel" Conner when you are on the bed with Lana

Oh it was a very visible cum stain on the mattress when I got home. It's interesting too because as I'm building furniture or unpacking another box, Lana tells me where and how Conner fucked her there. "He bent me over the counter here" "We fucked up against this wall." She even showed me the hand prints she left on the sliding glass door where he took her from behind in the living room in full view of any neighbors lucky enough to spot them.

She tells me that Shawn, Adam, and even her one night with Tyler were all incredible lovers, but Conner is on another level. He never seems to get tired, can get it up extremely quickly, has super human control, a perfect body and face of a model. They've fucked and made love. He'll pound her into submission one minute and slowly thrust in and out of her while kissing her lips, softly telling her, "there you go... there you go... cum with me now...." He can be romantic when they're in the lotus position, and talk dirty to her as he tells her "yeah, work that sexy ass on my cock" as he takes her from behind and forces her to do the work. He tells her how gorgeous she is while also mocking me, asking her "your husband ever been this deep inside you?"

Update: On her lunch break, Lana talked to Conner and told him that one of the women from the bachelorette party told her husband, who told me, which lead me to checking her phone, and she ultimately confessed to me. He offered to speak to me in person, so that might happen soon, it really depends on my schedule with work.

1. Adam should be avoided like the plague. Nothing good will come from any kinda engagement on any level.

2 Conner is a good bet. Much younger.. plays to her cougar instincts. He is a pro (lets call it the way it is).. he knows it- she knows it.. No romance.. no fancy notions of wife stealing blah blah.. He will cater to all her fantasies in a professional manner.
There is a lot to be milked from this liaison in the coming 1year at least. Only caution required is the periodic health check (seeing his profession)..
He will cater to your fantasies too now.. He knows his "clients"!
This is gonna play out the Shawn way sans any of the romantic magic that developed with him.
Conners will bring in the cavalry at some point! Meaning orgies and new dick..
Always remember he is a pro and knows how to keep his clients on the boil.
This looks like a perfect set up unless there are nasty surprises.
Now that your friends know you are a cuck.. recruiting some of them might be a lark. Lana can work the wives while you "corrupt" their hubbies!
Possibilities are huge when there is a team effort!
A hubby or two might start looking at Lana in a different way too! Again new possibilities!

Have fun!

The entire friend group knowing is liberating in a lot of ways. Like anticipated, I still maintain respect amongst everyone and they look at our situation with a sense of curiosity rather than disrespect, so that's good. The husband that expressed his wanting to open up his marriage has texted me privately telling me to go more into detail with our expereinces so I'll probably expand on what we've been up to since Shawn. As far as other friends getting involved, I highly doubt that as none of the other couples seem to be open to it. They've said things like "there's no way I could ever let that happen" or "I think that's too adventurous for us."

1. Adam should be avoided like the plague. Nothing good will come from any kinda engagement on any level.

[/quote]

I would normally would agree and this was my initial thought upon reading w770's post about Adam, he is bad news. However there was an ulterior motive to my suggestion.

In the past Lana had secret communications with Adam and each time w770 found out about it from Adam, not Lana. Adam and Lana stopped communicating once his new GF moved in (I believe that is what w770 said, but perhaps I have that wrong)?
So why is Adam making contact with w770 now?
Maybe it is just a random contact, but in the past the pattern was that when Adam made contact with w770 to abuse and belittle him, it usually came after he felt he had something with which to lord over him e.g. Coercing Lana into denying w770 sex.
Lana says that Connor is the most skilled sexual partner she has had to date, but I think everyone can agree that of the men she has been with since they started down this road, Adam seems to be the one who has brought out the worst side of Lana, actively encouraging her to be deceptive with w770 . After what has happened previously, would it be a huge surprise if it turns out that Lana has had secret communications with Adam prior to him re-contacting w770?
[/quote]

I've checked and it appears legitimate that Lana has not had any communication with Adam. I also think that he would have sent me screenshots if they had as he's shown a liking towards that sort of sadism.

Hi everyone,

Time is limited as always so I'll have to keep it to bulletpoints.

Update:

- Lana is thinking of telling him that she's feeling guilty and will "confess" to me soon, and at that point, we'll transition into a bull/cuckold relationship ideally.

What does 'bull/cuckold relationship' look like to you? Actual involvement, or just a wittol thing?

I'm not sure what you mean by "wittol thing." Can you explain?

Seems to me that Adam has a really massive ego and is a mean ahole on top of that. Not a great personality combination!
W770, now that the cuckolding cat is out of the bag wrt your close friends, what is stopping you informing Adam that you have known all along? I say this because it would also be an opportunity to knock him down a peg or two. He should feel sheepish once he is told that you actively encouraged Lana to conduct their affair throughout (though he is an idiot so no guarantee!!) and one reason it is not still ongoing is because of his bad attitude, which may not be strictly true, but he would not know this! I would also inform him that the main reason Lana dropped him is because she is seeing a younger stripper who is better in bed than Adam. I'm sure getting his ego bashed will result in him getting mean and nasty, but he is anyway, so what difference will it make? Just a suggestion on how you could proceed with him.

Now now, you know you know it’s up to Lana whether to cut ties not him. She needs that door available and it’s not his call.

Oh and another detail I left out earlier - when Conner and Lana fucked on our bed, he pulled out and came on the mattress. They didn't even put sheets on it at that point. And yes, it was my side of the bed.

Oh, that's deliberate.

He's marking his territory. They probably discussed this beforehand

Edit: this guy knows what he's doing. He'd make an excellent bull. He will probably feel you out when talking to you.

And he will claim Lana as his, if you let him. Which you should just allow. He will take it forward from there.

It's interesting that you mention that he was marking his territory as I didn't think that at first but it makes a lot of sense. Most of the time, he asks her where she wants him to cum, but with that instance, he just pulled out and sprayed all over the bed, so you could be onto something.

Update: I'm leaving the office soon and going to meet Conner at a bar nearby. Oddly, as much experience as we've had in this lifestyle at this point, I'm oddly nervous.

[parmaham55]

Good luck!

If I may throw in a bit of a curveball for reading later, I fear Lana’s enthusiasm for this new ‘open’ lifestyle may be short-lived. A couple of points:

- Lana thrives on the sex, yes, but even more on the secrecy, the danger of being discovered, the three-day rule. Yes, you can argue that Lana has been open with you w770 throughout, but we all know that’s not the case. She may well tire of Conner once it becomes ‘the three of you’ in the relationship. Exciting new sex scenes for sure, but lacking that extra thrill. Lana’s had threesomes and been watched before, much more dangerously. (giving blow-job while Shawn on a zoom with his pals comes to mind). She thrives on apologies after, not planning ahead.

- Being open with the friend group has been a big step for you, discussed here on the forum. It’s also a big step for Lana. The dynamics of her friends will change. She may tire of their enquires and envy. For her the way past that may be to keep some secrets from them going forward.

So, secret encounters from you and Conner in future would be a thrill for her. Not with Adam perhaps, but how about Texas-man, or more recently Kevin . Keep an eye out for sexting at the very least.

[eventfire]

I can see Conner's profession becoming a real problem for Lana.

[ColoCuck75]

W,

Hopefully the drinks with her new lover went well. The fact you're still feeling the cuckold angst going to meet him means you are still enjoying this whole thing with your wife.

Contrary to some of the naysayers on here. I think it's super hot she has had sex with him in every room before you even had a chance. Now when she does sleep with you, if it's allowed, your wife will always remember her first time everywhere.

I just wanted to ask a few quick questions on the new beau.

• Where do you and the wife hope things progress with Conner regarding him being her bull? I guess how far does she want to take things down the rabbit hole this time?

• Are you jacking off in the house knowing he went first before having any sex or making love to your own wife?

• Have you decided whether to watch, sit outside the room or be banned from the house while they make love? Or did they make that decision for you?

Here's hoping your meet and greet with her new lover goes well. Now like everyone else I can't wait to hear later. Either way enjoy the fun.

[venus-can99]

Hope the meeting with Conner went well...

[jeffx]

I wonder what Conner's thinking, to offer to talk to the husband of your affair partner, it's not normal in a "I'm sorry dude" kind of way, where he wants to help fix things.
Given his age, I wonder if he's approaching it as more of a "Lana loves me and we want to be together, you have a child together, so I want us to be civil" type of thing.

[sandy691196]

No. His line will be:
I am a pro, I do this for a living..
Your marriage is safe.
Any sexual favors you need? Strippers? Orgies?

[parmaham55]

Perhaps he'll bring some upholstery cleaner and a multifabric stain remover spray - various brands come to mind.