ucaneffher wrote: ↑Wed Jul 17, 2024 4:05 pm
inivisibletwin wrote: ↑Wed Jul 17, 2024 3:01 pm
if you're reading this than you're probly well aware that Chris is Jen's primary sex partner. when it comes to sex of physical intimacy, her relationship with him takes priority over her relationship with me.
since chris has been living with us, about 4 years now, jen averages about 4 to 5 nights a week sleeping in chris' room with him, and 2 to 3 in my bed with me. so, almost even, but him just a little more... though thats an average, not a rule that we keep track of. there really isnt anything determining which room she sleeps in other than all of her stuff being in chris' room. (it was our room, the 'master bedroom' that her and i shared until chris moved in and i moved to the 2nd bedroom so he could take my place in the big room.)
anyway, its not really consequential, but it kind of just occured to me this morning that jen hasnt slept in my bed with me in about 3 weeks or so, i think... 2 weeks for sure, probly 3.
which means shes been sleeping in chris' bed with him every night for the past 2-3 weeks!
and not only does it NOT bother me at all, but it didnt even register till today. we just hit bed time and she just goes to bed with him, and we dont even think anything of it. its just how it is!
anyway, i didnt really have anything else to post about. I just love that they are spending so much time together and getting closer and closer as a couple.
Funny that you mention... Over time that's how it becomes. Totally normal for her to naturally be with him and for you it is also totally normal for her to naturally go with him.
This was a concept that I really struggled with in the beginning when my girlfriend first got a second boyfriend but after a couple of years it had become normal to be understanding and accepting of her relationship with him and her preferences to be with him, prefer to go out with him, spend the night with him, post pictures with him instead of with me.
Naturally with time and as their relationship matured, I accepted him being her primary choice and I am certain that with time you have also come to this point where you not only accept that he is her primary choice but you like it and prefer that he is the main man in the relationship. I wish I could find myself in your shoes. I would really like to see my girlfriend (and hopefully wife one day) dating and in a relationship with another man just like your wife.
whats interesting, to, as i think about what you said... every step of our journey, when ever she's been with another guy, even if its just for the sex, i've always felt a preference for her being with the other guy. sorta like, well i get to have her anytime i want, but he only has her tonight, so i should step aside and let him get the most out of his time with her.
looking through my list of names of guys she has slept with... firstly I recognize i should have written down more than just a number and a name haha... there should have been some indicator as to the cirumstances... but, there was a guy, this was circa 2015-16, so before we met Chris... we'll call this guy Patrick...
this was before we moved into the apartment we have now, at the time we had a small studio apartment. our furniture consisted of a bed, a reclining chair, and a desk...
we had an account on a dating site, to find guys for Jen to hook up with. we were getting tons of DM's from guys. i got to play gate-keeper, and go through them all, and pass on to her any that i approved of.
we started talking to Patrick. i talked to him first, and once i decided he was cool, i passed him on to her. she messaged back and forth with him for a couple weeks before making plans to meet.
they straight up made plans to hook up. it wasnt a date, there wasnt any seducing, it was just lets meet up, and go back to our place.
he lived an hour away. so we planned for him to spend the night at our place... keeping in mind the size of our apartment, and the amount of furniture we had... this is why were we so determined that our next place, the place we have now, would have two bedrooms haha...
so we met up with him at a nearby mall, grabbed a quick dinner, stopped at a store for booze and condoms, which i bought, then headed back to our apartment.
from the moment we got home, i felt the urge to sorta step aside. i get her all the time, its his turn now. he only has this weekend... i went to put the groceries away, and he said he wanted to take a shower, and did jen want to join him? she said sure!
our apartment had a big walk in closet, that you had to walk through to get to the bathroom. I made myself a drink, then i went to see if they wanted a drink first or if they wanted to wait till after the shower. i walked into the closet just in time to see him, in his boxers, taking off her shirt. she still had her bra, and jeans on. the shower was already running. so I got my answer. they'll have a drink AFTER the shower haha. Wanting to give them some privacy, I went back to the kitchen, grabbed my drink, sat down in the recliner and turned on the TV.
i waited about 15-20 minutes or so, before deciding to check on them. they left the closet door, and the bathroom door open for me, so i walked right into the bathroom to find them both naked, in the shower together. his dick was standing straight up (thats how i knew they where gonna have a good time!) she was shaving her pubic hair, since she hadnt had the chance to do so before, and she knew he was gonna spend time down there, and he was washing his hair... i have to admit that wasnt what i was expecting to see them doing in the shower together... but hey, dude really wanted a shower!
i walked in and asked how it was going. he said he couldn't believe that Jen didnt know she was hot... she's always been pretty modest, not thinking she was all that hot, even though, i mean, look at her! ...anyway, he said something like, "damn, with that body? how does she not know she's hot!" and promptly plaid with her breasts, while she smiled a very flattered smile.
after the shower, they came out of the bathroom, but neither of them bothered to get dressed. they both stayed naked until I left for work the next day.
they sat on the bed together, and i sat on the recliner, while we all had a drink, and before i knew it he was going down on her. she came pretty hard, while i sat by and watched.
after that we all had another drink, before they finally had sex the first. the moment I saw his dick enter her i remember actually saying to myself, "finally!" ...and suddenly everything in my universe felt right. so i sat back in the chair and watched them fuck!
after that he decided he needed to run to the store real quick. while he was gone Jen gave me a blowjob. she said she woulda fucked me but her pussy was Patrick's for the weekend, so I only get a blowjob... He walked back in to find her blowing me. I came in her mouth, then jumped in the shower.
I got out of the shower to find them sitting together on the bed, naked. him sitting with his back against the wall, legs open, her sitting between his legs, leaning her back against his chest, her legs open. he had one hand on one of her boobs, and the other on her clit. he was casually fondling her while watching TV.
so i sat in the chair, and conversed with them while they did this. small talk, nothing important.
the rest of the day consisted of me sitting in the chair next to the bed, while they either cuddled, naked on the bed, or fucked. I watched them fuck two more times, and do 69, before it got late and we decided to go to bed.
only thing was, we only had one bed, but it was a king size bed! so i joined them in the bed. Jen in the middle between Patrick and me. Jen and Patrick still nude, me in my boxers because thats what i always wear to sleep in.
ofcouse, she slept in his arms, and he fondled her all night. at one point i pretended to be asleep while he fingered her to orgasm!
eventually i did fall asleep, but the next morning she told me that she didnt get any sleep all night because Patrick never stopped fondling her! ...and she said that with a coy little grin that let me know she loved it!
they had sex 3 more times the next day. i watched each time! missionary, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl... i sat at the foot of the bed while they did reverse cow girl, and the sight of him balls deep in her is something i will never forget!
while they did regular cowgirl i sat on the edge of the bed and made out with her. i could feel the rythm of his thrusting while i made out with her! that was one of my all time favorite moments!
eventually i had to leave for work, and at the time we were not quite as extreme as we are now, the rule was if i left she had to put panties on. so her pussy was all for the other guy, and not me, but only so long as i was there. even if i wasnt in the actual room, as long as i was with the party, so to speak... but if i was not there then the panties went on, and pussy was off limits.
i was on the late evening shift, so i left for work in the evening, patrick stayed after i left, but she put on panties.
about 2 hours into my shift she texted me, she said patrick hasnt let go of her boobs since i left, and he wanted permission to take her panties off for one more time. i texted back that i was happy he hasnt let go of her boobs, but since i left the panties have to stay on... as far as i know the panties stayed on, but every time i look back on that weekend, i wish i had said yes to him taking off her panties one more time...
after that weekend he started getting more and more obsessed. he was messaging her multiple times a day, trying to buy her things. at one point he wanted to buy her a gun, which we both thought was a little weird... it was making her feel more and more uncomfortable til she eventually asked me to tell him to leave us alone. so i told him, politely, that he would have to move on. he said he just wanted to protect her, i told him i understand, but thats my job, thats what im doing, so i have to ask him to stop messaging her. and we never heard from him again.
i know this post started off as a way to relate to the whole preferences thing, and turned into me just recounting one of her sex stories haha... but hey, people seem to want to know more of her stories, right?