Asking GF to watch porn went wrong!

[Fapster69]

So we had another successful porn watching session! She is always reluctant at first and asks me, "Do you still enjoy having normal sex with me?" I say back, "This is sex with you! The only reason I enjoy this is because you are with me!"

The minute the videos come on she goes into full film critic mode it's actually hilarious!

The first video I put on this time was this...

https://spankbang.com/630rf/video/wife+ ... band+films

The wife in this video looks EXACTLY like my GF from the back it's crazy. I made a joke saying, "Is that you? What have you been upto?" and she replied, "Yeah, it is. See all those times I told you I was going out with (friends name), I was actually at the beach with this black guy..."

Amazing!! She is getting better at playing along with the fantasy! She said doing it in public like that would be scary because of the risk of being caught.

The next video I put on was this...

https://watchporn.to/video/3849/mrsamst ... mpie-ever/

Straight away she made a comment saying, "The guy wearing a condom ruins it!" He takes it off a couple of seconds in and she said, "That's better!" Me and my GF never use condoms because she's been on the pill for years, but to hear her comment about it being better with no condom when it's a random guy just hit different! She also complimented what the wife was wearing for a change!

There's a caption in the video where it says the bull cumming made the wife immediately cum again and my GF said, "That is a lie! That just doesn't happen in real life!" Interestingly enough she never even commented about the wife getting creampied bareback, I think she just sees it as normal because like I said, we never use condoms.

She then got bored of this video being mostly the same angle so I put another amateur video on then she asked me to put an actual porno on because amateurs aren't as good looking!

The next one I put on was this...

https://www.superporn.com/video/mischa- ... black-cock

I have showed her a Prince Yahshua video before so she immediately recognised him and laughed! He was wearing an oversized suit in the video I showed her before and she said, "It's the guy with the little head!"

I've never showed her a video with some lesbian action, the two in this video kiss eachother and eat eachother out but my girlfriend didn't even comment on it! I said ,"What do you think about there being two women?" and she just shrugged as if it was normal! I said, "That's interesting because if it was two guys I would be like hell no!". She said, "But you watch videos with two guys?" and I said, "Yeah they're not fucking eachother though!" An interesting look into her mind that seeing two women doesn't put her off!

The last video I put on was this one...

https://m.tnaflix.com/blonde-porn/Horny ... deo6169660

I immediately skipped to about 19:29 where she's sucking his cock. My girlfriend was super wet during this entire session but she kept saying, "It's because you're touching me!" I've touched her MANY times in the past and she's never gotten as wet as this and as wet this quickly! I said you you think you'd do a better job than her and she said, "Obviously! You've seen what I can do! "

At about 20:00 the dude starts forcing her head down on his dick and my girlfriend was still watching curiously. This was VERY interesting because my GF has a phobia of choking and I thought this would be the LAST thing she'd want to see in a porno. I was wrong clearly! She even started sucking my cock while this scene was playing out!

The entire time she kept asking if we could have sex now and I kept sayng no because I wanted to finish her off during a video. She then said she would sit on me and face the TV and I said "Hell yes let's do it! " So she started riding me while watching the TV. I was trying so hard not to cum from the minute she sat on me! The whole process got me horny as FUCK!

While she was bouncing on me I said, "Do you think you could ride his?" she said yes but I then said, "Well that dildo I bought is too big for you so I don't think you could!" and she said, "Yeah his cock is real but and would feel better so I definitely could!"

She came exactly at 26:10 riding me while that girl was riding the BBC on screen!

Amazing again from her! I still can't believe how far we've come since my first post! She is still adamant she would never do it in real life but I'm just happy she's came this far! Baby steps!

[Statein88]

Slight (and admittedly unsolicited) suggestion - give her some lovemaking “sessions” without the porn. She’s lowkey asking for that based on some of her responses. I’m not saying don’t ever work in the videos to your sexy time, but give her some 1x1 loving attention without the fantasy sometimes too. Trust me, you can’t badger them in to liking it. You have to let the seed grow over time. It’s definitely planted, but don’t over-water it and drown it out. She will need frequent reassurances that you love her and want her regardless of if she ever does this or not.

[RuleEmAll]

Great story so far Fapster69! Any updates?

[Fapster69]

Great story so far Fapster69! Any updates?

I've been laying low for a while like others suggested! I tried to watch porn with her one night and she was not feeling it at all so I decided to take a step back.

However, a few days ago I tried again and had success!

Before we go to sleep we watch TV shows in bed. Instead of putting a TV show on I double clicked on my porn playlist and said, "Oops my finger slipped! "

This was the video I put on... https://www.tnaflix.com/amateur-porn/Bl ... deo9442785

She said, "Why did you not do this earlier instead of now when we are about to go to sleep! " She didn't mention the video at all or have any sort of negative reaction!

So I was spooning her in bed and touching her while she watched the video. Just like the previous times she got wet almost immediately! When there's no porn involved it always takes a while to get her wet, so she is obviously enjoying it!

She let out a few moans at 15:50 in that video where she sucks his cock, I've noticed from previous sessions that my GF seems to react the most to blowjob scenes!

At the 18:00 mark when she is riding him I said to her, "That's what it looks like when you're riding me! I wish I could watch you from that view!" and she said, "I do it a lot better than that though!"

I didn't want to overstay my welcome so I slid my cock in and we had sex with the video playing and my GF came pretty hard around the 23:40 mark and me shortly after!

Once we were finished we both mentioned how good that sex was, not a single mention of the video we had sex to! I decided to not bring it up and we both went to sleep.

I think I had success this time because I just put the video on immediately and didn't build it up. Whenever I say something like, "Let's watch porn!" it lingers in her mind and when it comes to it, she has built it up too much and can't get into it.

I guess she is a spur of the moment person!

[Bent_n_Twisted]

It took *years* to go from a chance remark, to my wife being willing to play with the fantasy, then to her bringing it up and even dreaming about it. Sometimes it is best to be patient, and let the thought percolate. Initially, she said she would never do something like that, but over time she began to accept that the idea turns her on, and eventually she started to 'own' it and began bringing it up on her own.

[Fapster69]

It took *years* to go from a chance remark, to my wife being willing to play with the fantasy, then to her bringing it up and even dreaming about it.

So I’m doing alright then considering I only brought it up last year?

We watched another hotwife video a few days ago and the bull picked the wife up and started fucking her.

My GF was amazed that he was able to do such a thing! I said to her, “I could do that easily!” in a sarcastic tone and she said, “Yeah right! There’s no way you could do that! ”

[patw3268]

This thread is my absolute #1 thread. If you really want to this, ask her about her fears of cuckolding you. “You’re probably right” is the best response you can make. We mess up when we try to sell it.

You have the long term mindset which I think is right, your life execution is off a bit. Let’s make it a goal to get you cucked by 2027. Deal?

[Fapster69]

We were out walking yesterday and she mentioned that we should go on holiday next year.

I said, "Yeah lets book Jamaica " and she said, "Why?! Have you been talking to someone on one of those sites or something! " I said, "I would never do something like that without telling you first! "

She then said something very interesting!

She said, "Why is it always a black guy anyway! I would prefer a nice Spanish guy or something! "

I then said, "That would be too boring! " and she shook her head and laughed with a look on her face like " ".

So there we have it! I know she was joking but I really think if we were on holiday and we found some Spanish stud she would go for it if the conditions were right!

Maybe we could book Benidorm or somewhere crazy try and get chatting to people when we're out one night?

[patw3268]

When she asks a question like this. Your only response would be answer with another question?
-what do you like about Spanish guys?
-could you really handle a Spanish guy?

[OpenAries69]

Love this story!

[Fapster69]

During our last viewing session we watched a video where the husband was wearing a cuck cage.

She was totally confused and said, “What the hell is that thing? “ Of course I know what it is but I tried to play dumb and said, “I think the husbands wear them so they don’t touch themselves?” and she laughed again in bewilderment but was watching intently! Whenever we could see husband on screen filming I said, “Look it’s me!” which also gave her a good laugh!

The next movie we watched was a woman getting spit roasted by two black guys.

Out of absolutely nowhere she said to me, “What if I cheated and then filmed it? Would you enjoy that?” but I said, “No that would be different because I wouldn’t be involved! “

She laughed at my reply as if I said something stupid! She couldn’t see the difference whether I was involved or not! I guess in her mind it’s cheating even if I am involved?

Now I’m thinking maybe I should have just said yes to her!

[Abrandnewstart194]

No, you need to hold to that “rule”. It’s either something that you’re doing together, or it’s something she’s doing without you. If you don’t want her to be doing it without you, if you want it to bring you closer rather than pushing you apart then it’s important that you as a couple are always at the center of everything, and that you as a couple ALWAYS come FIRST.

It’s very easy to be pushed out of the center when a woman discovers her enthusiasm for this lifestyle.

[bbarnsworth]

Read what Abrandnewstart194 said above again. Then read it again a few dozen more times to let it sink in.

There are a (very) few couples who can make this work where the wife is constantly playing behind her husband's/boyfriend's back, he's humiliated over and over again, and the relationship remains strong. But, not many. Yes, such relationships exist, but they are rare.

You should be on this ride together, not apart. Maybe solo play becomes part of it, but it shouldn't (in my opinion) ever be behind your back without your knowledge. My wife and I started this ride 15 years ago (wow! Has it been that long?) and we are much closer for it. But, it's because we are together about it, not apart. With it together, it has built our relationship, not made it less.

On your GF thinking of it as cheating, regardless of the circumstances: My wife, before getting into this, thought of non-monogamy as cheating. She knew I had played with a married woman before (husband was in total support, and a friend). She insisted this woman had been cheating on her husband and I had been complicit. That eventually changed of course, but it was years down the road before it did. Consensual non-monogamy isn't cheating. Cheating is a hideously destructive thing that breaks trust, breaks relationships, breaks people. I would never, ever cheat on my wife nor would she cheat on me. She's had sex with lots of guys in the 15 years, but not once has she ever cheated on me. It might be hard to wrap one's brain around this idea. But, sex with someone other than your partner does not equal cheating if your partner knows and is supportive. Even being in love with someone else is not cheating, if your partner knows and is supportive. Read that again; knows and is supportive. That's the difference.

[leggysman]

Plenty of us are ok with - or even enjoy - our wives playing primarily solo. I mostly have not been involved in my leggysandy's dates, and I've found that to be pretty hot. She hasn't had a threesome (or moresome) without me present, but I wouldn't mind at all if she did. [ Instead of coming home to me freshly fucked by a guy, it would be 2 or more guys! Woot! ]

My only qualm would be if I missed out on her first DP or DVP. I've always wanted to try DP, but we haven't quite managed to take advantage of our opportunities.

You should have said, "it's not cheating if I know and approve".

'Cheating' implies deception and dishonesty.

But also, perhaps you could have added, "but to approve, I'd want to be involved somehow". If that's what you require.

[Fapster69]

No, you need to hold to that “rule”. It’s either something that you’re doing together, or it’s something she’s doing without you. If you don’t want her to be doing it without you, if you want it to bring you closer rather than pushing you apart then it’s important that you as a couple are always at the center of everything, and that you as a couple ALWAYS come FIRST.

It’s very easy to be pushed out of the center when a woman discovers her enthusiasm for this lifestyle.

Very true! I’m glad I used my brain and said no. My penis wanted to say yes to her but that would have potentially opened a can of worms!

I did think it was strange that she brought it up out of nowhere though! It was almost as if she had considered it?

[Fapster69]

This is just my personal blog at this point so I'll tell you the latest porn escapade! I repeat myself a lot but this is as far as we've gotten, so it's to be expected!

We've made it a thing where one day we will have normal sex with no porn and the next day we will watch porn, so a one on one off type of deal.

I've called our porn day "movie night" and when I'm spooning her in bed I will put on the playlist I have expertly curated!

She no longer protests me putting it on and actually enjoys critiquing things in the videos.

I put on a video of two white people fucking. It was the full version of this video...
https://www.xvideos.com/video.iiufbmb50 ... nging_body

I skipped into the doggystyle part and my girlfriend made the comment that it was too boring so I skipped it!

I said to her, "What do you mean boring? What would be not boring to you?" and she shrugged!

The next scene I put on was the full version of this...
https://www.xvideos.com/video.hcovdkd8b ... ubble_butt

She then made a comment about how she looked too trashy and that all of the girls in porn look trashy!

I said, "What do you mean trashy?" and she said the girls look like they are from the roughest parts of town! So I said, "What? Would you rather watch people who look rich and well off?" and she said yes!

This is where a lightbulb went off in my head! Blacked has some high production values and they all look super rich so I put on my BBC playlist! We've watched some blacked stuff before but I put on a new video she hadn't seen.

The video I put on next was this...
https://www.tnaflix.com/amateur-porn/%5 ... vista+Camp

At the start of the video where she's in the car getting fingered I could see my girlfriend was watching intently. Usually she would complain and say that's too many guys or something but she seems to be getting acquainted to this kind of stuff now!

After some fingering action I skipped ahead to 10:00 where she's sucking their cocks and my girlfriend said, "Oh my god I wasn't expecting that!"

I said to her "It's crazy how they are getting paid to do this!" and she said, "Don't even think about it!"

I was fingering my girlfriend throughout all of these movies and at this point she started getting soaking wet (as usual) but this was the wettest she'd been in a long time! I even said to her and she said her usual stock excuse of, "It's because your touching me!"

While Haley Reed was getting gangbanged I said, "Look it's you on our holiday to Jamaica!" and she actually laughed out loud! (I've previously made a joke about booking a holiday to Jamaica for some BBC action!)

I skipped the scene ahead to 25:30 where the guy puts his cock in her ass and my girlfriend said, "There's no way she's enjoying that!" and I said, "It looks like she's enjoying it to me!"

My girlfriend HATES anal! It took forever for her to let me touch her asshole when we fuck. She won't even let me put a fingertip in, so it's always interesting for me to see her reaction to anal scenes.

She was watching Haley get fucked in the ass and didn't even complain or ask me to skip it!

I said to her, "I love how they are all taking turns!" and she didn't reply but her soaking pussy told me she was enjoying it!

When we got to the DP scene at 30:10 I said again, "Look it's you in Jamaica!" and she laughed again followed by a loud moan and even wetter fingers for me!

She was on the verge of cumming and asked me to fuck her so I obliged and she came almost immediately followed by myself!

So there we have it! Another extremely successful porn session!

My take away from this time is that she doesn't seem to push back at all and seems to be going with the flow the entire time! She even laughs at my Jamaica jokes which is a really good sign surely?

I also find it incredibly interesting how she HATES anal but seemed to get extremely turned on at the anal and DP scenes?

What do you think guys? Good progress?

[patw3268]

I think she was into the BBC scene. And delt with the anal part. Great update. I’ve said this before but asking her questions and not putting your input into it will expedite your process. Let this be her fantasy, too.

[Abrandnewstart194]

It’s not at all unusual for a woman to do things with her Bulls that she won’t do with her bf/husband. Oftentimes, women who are dead set against anal eagerly give up their asses to please their Bulls, and end up loving it, but still deny their bf/hisband.

[Fapster69]

It’s not at all unusual for a woman to do things with her Bulls that she won’t do with her bf/husband.

New fetish unlocked!

Watching her get fucked in the ass by someone else would be AMAZING! Especially when she always denies me!

[leggysman]

It’s not at all unusual for a woman to do things with her Bulls that she won’t do with her bf/husband.

Indeed; knowing this (and being fine with it) I pre-cleared that concept with leggysandy before she took the plunge and became a hotwife.

But, in the event, we kind of re-discovered anal between us anyway (and she did it with a few other guys) - so the only thing really was cumming in her mouth, which I suggested as an example of something we didn't really do together. She did that on a couple of her dates.

[Fapster69]

so the only thing really was cumming in her mouth, which I suggested as an example of something we didn't really do together.

Damn that’s crazy! My girlfriend has always been a swallower, I guess I take it for granted!

I finish in her mouth every single blowjob. She’s been on the pill for years as well so I fuck her raw every time.

If we ever find a bull it will be hot to see her swallow a load and get busted in raw.

These things are normal to her so she would do it with no hesitation!

[nutjob]

If we ever find a bull it will be hot to see her swallow a load and get busted in raw.

You’ve obviously made her much more comfortable with watching interracial porn and hotwife/cuckold videos, and it seems like there’s been some fantasy talk during video watching. Do you feel like you are making progress towards actually, maybe, getting her to do something in real life?

[Fapster69]

You’ve obviously made her much more comfortable with watching interracial porn and hotwife/cuckold videos, and it seems like there’s been some fantasy talk during video watching. Do you feel like you are making progress towards actually, maybe, getting her to do something in real life?

Unfortunately not! Last time she said if it ever happened she would leave me for the black guy and the video I took of her fucking him would be the last thing to remember her with!

She still considers it cheating and doesn’t know why I’m turned on my it!

I still think if we were on holiday or something and the stars aligned perfectly and we started talking to the right guy then she would 100% do it!

[nutjob]

Unfortunately not! Last time she said if it ever happened she would leave me for the black guy and the video I took of her fucking him would be the last thing to remember her with!

She still considers it cheating and doesn’t know why I’m turned on my it!

Was that said jokingly, or seriously?

Have you tried talking her past the cheating view? An argument that you, as the person hypothetically being cheated on, are the one who gets to say what cheating is and isn’t, and that if you don’t consider something cheating, then it’s not cheating?

[Fapster69]

Was that said jokingly, or seriously?

A bit of both! And I’ve told her many times that it’s not cheating but she still doesn’t agree!