Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[slenderfish]

I, amongst a growing following, are eagerly awaiting to see how the your plans work out.
Now I'm wondering what the the two, or is it three, of you are going to get up to for Christmas and New Years.

Wow, this like tuning into a favourite show to see the episode.
All the best.

You know, I'm also feeling like this is a grand novella writing itself, with a bit of encouragement from me, from OHW friends, and of course SW.

Good question about "next season" (lol).

SW has already floated a concept with Mr. S that she usually does a December trip to NYC to visit her friends there, and the perhaps he might have reasons to run over to NYC from where he lives....

But SW just came over to me while I am writing this and mentioned that Mr. S continues in his lack of ongoing communication via text or other. She had all the plans in order for the November encounter(s) and would much prefer he confirm sooner versus later. She is not going to plan any NYC trip until they have a chance to reconnect or at least have sufficient momentum to justify it.

Also as a side note, she moved away from the East Coast and Midwest in order to get away from cold, wintery weather. I know SW was contemplating scenarios (assuming everything continued swimmingly with Mr. S) wherein he would have to travel to her during the months Jan and Feb. I say this because she asked me about what that might look like if it became germane.

So the ball remains pretty much in Mr. S' court. SW would love for him to become what she had envisioned. So far not quite there.

[samlowen]

Also as a side note, she moved away from the East Coast and Midwest in order to get away from cold, wintery weather. I know SW was contemplating scenarios (assuming everything continued swimmingly with Mr. S) wherein he would have to travel to her during the months Jan and Feb. I say this because she asked me about what that might look like if it became germane.

So the ball remains pretty much in Mr. S' court. SW would love for him to become what she had envisioned. So far not quite there.

The ball is probably going to remain in his court for quite some time. He knows she will be coming back to his neck of the woods multiple times per year to see family. Why extend himself when she's the one chasing him?

[slenderfish]

And for those who are still rooting at some level for Mr. B, he texted me early afternoon yesterday that he had dinner plans up in our area and if I had time to do a business meeting say, at 5:00 p.m.

I agreed and mentioned to SW that he would be stopping by to meet with me. She had plans to do a girlfriends' dinner and was being picked up by one of the girls at 5:15. So SW gave me a sour face and asked if I could delay Mr. B and/or divert to another location. I told her if she wants to avoid a crossover with Mr. B, then she should stay on her time frame and be out of here by 5:15 because I expected Mr. B to be slowed down by traffic and not arrive until after 5:15.

She stayed on the 5:15 plan and, sure enough, Mr. B arrived at 5:20.

We worked on his business deal for an hour then switched to social talk. A couple of points for color in the story:

1) Mr. B confirmed that he was up in the area yesterday to take Ms. R out for dinner and a big roll in the hay.

2) He also confirmed that the reason he and his date (Ms. R) were a complete no-show to our prior shindig (for Ms. M's going away party) was that he arrived to pick up Ms. R at her house (about a half mile away from here) and they decided to go straight to the dessert (e.g. fucking) instead of going through all the time and trouble of being social at our party.

I told him I respect and agree with the above.

[slenderfish]

Also as a side note, she moved away from the East Coast and Midwest in order to get away from cold, wintery weather. I know SW was contemplating scenarios (assuming everything continued swimmingly with Mr. S) wherein he would have to travel to her during the months Jan and Feb. I say this because she asked me about what that might look like if it became germane.

So the ball remains pretty much in Mr. S' court. SW would love for him to become what she had envisioned. So far not quite there.

The ball is probably going to remain in his court for quite some time. He knows she will be coming back to his neck of the woods multiple times per year to see family. Why extend himself when she's the one chasing him?

On that note, I'll add some other color that may provide some food for thought (or at least for the active imagination).

The subject of Mr. S' request for anal has been dancing in my mind off and on, and I believe also in the mind of SW. As such, I actually went online and got ready to order a set of anal training toys, with the idea that I could laugh it off as a tease if SW rejects offhand. But I didn't do it yet. Read on.

After I returned late from boys' night out on Wednesday, and after she thrashed around in bed for a couple of hours not able to get fully to sleep, she said she was having difficulty sleeping and would prefer to have sex to pass a bit of time, use up a bit of energy, and relax. This was about 2:00 a.m. and highly unusual for her (the sex part, not the sleeping difficulties). Of course I was gallant and did my best to meet her needs.

Rather than giving her missionary which is what she generally prefers, and especially these days, I turned her on her stomach and proceeded to lick her little tight rosebud, to see if she would push me away and turn back onto her back. She did not. So I proceeded to push my tongue as deep as I could into her backside, and she readily accepted it.

Then we got to the actual fucking and eventually she was on her back with me on top. She didn't mention anything about Mr. S even though it was really the time for her to do so, to get me to climax. Instead, she stayed quiet and I move a small finger into her ass, and then a regular finger, making sure it was very wet, and then was thrusting in and out with my finger while also thrusting in and out of her pussy with my dick. She usually complains after a short time if I'm doing this kind of ass play, but this time she kept with it and I pushed the limit even more by sliding in a second finger and then plunging the two fingers deeply in and out of her ass while continuing with the missionary action.

I figured she would start to get sore so was waiting for her to "pull the trigger" by mentioning Mr. S or something that would cause me to go over the edge. But she did not.

Instead, I whispered to her "mmmm.... you are taking it deep in your ass..." and she promptly had her orgasm. I had mine, and we both smiled in the afterglow.

[slenderfish]

Also as a side note, she moved away from the East Coast and Midwest in order to get away from cold, wintery weather. I know SW was contemplating scenarios (assuming everything continued swimmingly with Mr. S) wherein he would have to travel to her during the months Jan and Feb. I say this because she asked me about what that might look like if it became germane.

So the ball remains pretty much in Mr. S' court. SW would love for him to become what she had envisioned. So far not quite there.

The ball is probably going to remain in his court for quite some time. He knows she will be coming back to his neck of the woods multiple times per year to see family. Why extend himself when she's the one chasing him?

On that note, I'll add some other color that may provide some food for thought (or at least for the active imagination).

The subject of Mr. S' request for anal has been dancing in my mind off and on, and I believe also in the mind of SW. As such, I actually went online and got ready to order a set of anal training toys, with the idea that I could laugh it off as a tease if SW rejects offhand. But I didn't do it yet.

Read on.

After I returned late from boys' night out on Wednesday, and after she thrashed around in bed for a couple of hours not able to get fully to sleep, she said she was having difficulty sleeping and would prefer to have sex to pass a bit of time, use up a bit of energy, and relax. This was about 2:00 a.m. and highly unusual for her (the sex part, not the sleeping difficulties). Of course I was the gallant man and committed to do my best to meet her needs.

Rather than giving her missionary which is what she generally prefers, and especially these days, I turned her on her stomach and proceeded to lick her little tight rosebud, to see if she would push me away and flip again onto her back. She did not. So I proceeded to push my tongue as deep as I could into her backside, and she readily accepted it. I worked on that for at least five minutes.

Then we got to the actual fucking and eventually she was on her back with me on top. She didn't mention anything about Mr. S even though it was really the time for her to do so, to get me to climax. Instead, she stayed quiet and I moved my smallest finger into her ass, to see if she was up for it. No protests. I swapped out for a regular finger, making sure it was very wet, and then started slowly thrusting in and out with the finger in her ass while also thrusting in and out with my dick in her pussy. She usually complains after a short time if I'm doing this kind of ass play, but this time she kept with it and I pushed the limit even more by sliding in a second finger and then plunging these two fingers deeply in and out of her ass while continuing with the deepest missionary action I am able.

I figured she would start to get sore so was waiting for her to "pull the trigger" by mentioning Mr. S or something that would cause me to go over the edge. But she did not.

That being the case, I instead whispered to her "mmmm.... you are taking it deep in your ass..." and she promptly had her orgasm.

I also had mine, and we both smiled in the afterglow.

And sleep found both of us.

[Parsifal]

What is it with all of these classy women becoming anal sluts? Coaxed on by some the frequent Farmgirl-isms on that topic that I've read on this Forum and paraphrased for my wife, she too seems to be developing something of a fetish for it.

[afagehi7]

I think she's ready to give up her ass. She's at least seriously considering it which is extremely hot on it's own merit. You should order the training set. If you have a toy store locally get it there and strike while the iron is hot. Maybe also a jeweled plug she can wear during sex (or whilst doing the dishes haha,)? That seems to be all the rage these days. Elena's husband said she likes it and it gives her additional pleasure during intercourse.

I think you like the idea of her giving her ass to mr. S so gotta prep her so it's good if it happens. A bad experience at this point could have disastrous effects

I'm not an anal guy but fuck that's hot.

[54321]

eb4cplslooking wrote:

Quietly book an adjoining room or close by. Being able to hear muffled voices and sounds would send you over the top....go for it brother.

Parsifal wrote:

Especially the loud, primal screaming and shrieks right before it all gets and stays really quiet - that's the best part

Sorry to hijack this thread but I just got a powerful image in my mind of the sensational and super hot Mrs Parsifal emitting 'loud, primal screaming and shrieks' with her lover 'right before it all gets and stays really quiet.' Ooooh!

54321

[Parsifal]

eb4cplslooking wrote:

Quietly book an adjoining room or close by. Being able to hear muffled voices and sounds would send you over the top....go for it brother.

Parsifal wrote:

Especially the loud, primal screaming and shrieks right before it all gets and stays really quiet - that's the best part

Sorry to hijack this thread but I just got a powerful image in my mind of the sensational and super hot Mrs Parsifal emitting 'loud, primal screaming and shrieks' with her lover 'right before it all gets and stays really quiet.' Ooooh!

54321

It's easy for me to superimpose Mrs Parsifal into some of these situations, for she, like SW, is one of those ultra classy blondes with need of an outlet. And Fish, like I, loves analyzing and facilitating it. So I do relate to this thread ...

[XYAlpha]

SF,
Is there a reason she will not give you her first ass?
Is it something she or you desire him to have and you not?
Denial?

Cucking?

XY

[afagehi7]

SF,
Is there a reason she will not give you her first ass?
Is it something she or you desire him to have and you not?
Denial?

Cucking?

XY

I think he's had her ass and she's not an anal version. He did mention that her reserving her ass for Mr S would be hot.

Maybe fish can clarify as maybe I'm conflating his tread with someone else.

[slenderfish]

SF,
Is there a reason she will not give you her first ass?
Is it something she or you desire him to have and you not?
Denial?

Cucking?

XY

I think he's had her ass and she's not an anal version. He did mention that her reserving her ass for Mr S would be hot.

Maybe fish can clarify as maybe I'm conflating his tread with someone else.

Happy to clarify. We went through a full anal phase some years ago. She initially seemed to like it and would offer it on occasion even without my asking. But then she decided she no longer cares for it and hardly remembers ever enjoying it.

Let's be clear, I'm an ass man. Proof is that I'm with SW. She knows that the guys who go for her are attracted by that ass. So she does realize what comes with that, oftentimes, is the ass man also might like anal.

[tit4atat]

One thing you haven't talked about much is how you felt after that first time. What goes thru your mind now that SW has a boyfriend that she is planning on seeing on a regular basis (distance limiting)? Knowing that he might be bigger than you or that he pleases her differently?

[slenderfish]

One thing you haven't talked about much is how you felt after that first time. What goes thru your mind now that SW has a boyfriend that she is planning on seeing on a regular basis (distance limiting)? Knowing that he might be bigger than you or that he pleases her differently?

Fair question.

I do know that he is bigger than me. SW appears to be going through her inner struggle in that she apparently does want to get together with him again despite his not engaging her in the time in between, in the way she was envisioning. She was expecting more doting and attention along the way.

Mr. S seems to be approaching this almost like a bull, in that he seems to be all about the meetup and the sex (as far as I can tell). That, or he's just not into it. But SW has adjusted her expectations and instead of cutting him off and cancelling, she appears to be all set for the next round.

You asked about me. I mention the above because it's thrilling to me that SW seems to be enthralled enough to be making this adjustment. It's hard for me to fathom, I normally would not believe it. I love this element, that she's turned on enough to absorb the paucity of what Mr. S is providing in the interim, and still into it.

I have been getting great pleasure reflecting on some of the elements of what she described when they were in bed together. How he was laying behind her in the aftermath and she decided to rub her clit to orgasm and was kind of expecting him to start getting himself re-aroused, but he said he was not comfortable doing that in front of her. A tame but at the same time intimate element.

I also like thinking about her now, that she has a vivid image of him for reflecting when she plays with herself. She used to tell me that she doesn't fantasize, per se, when she does this. I believe that has changed, and this change has activated something within her.

So I guess my point is that I am pleased and proud of myself and of her ("us") that we are already beginning to see the dividends of this adventure.

And I'm having all the normal and expected feelings that go along with it. The new feeling of the mix of maximum turn-on to think of my lovely wife sharing her body with another man, to the exact opposite turn-off feeling at virtually the same moment knowing that some Joe has captured her in a way that I have not, and that he has not even begun to earn it in any of the ways I've done.

So it becomes a reflection on myself. I realize that so much of what I always assumed is expected by SW is in actuality something that I expect from myself, for her. Good to know.

And that we seem to have had a nice start to our adventure into this lifestyle. This itself is very satisfying.

Got a lot of ground to cover in the relatively near future. Will be very interesting to see how it plays out.

As a more direct answer to your question, I am positive that the newness of Mr. S and also the fact that he is another man (e.g. not me) with a bigger body and cock for her to discover and indulge herself with, is something she is looking forward to repeating and getting deeper into it all with him. She has been carefully cautious in how she discusses and describes him, in that she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. It's cute and sweet, and a turn-on for me.

[afagehi7]

That she masturbated herself to orgasm in front of him is new to us. I don't think you told us about that.

I think XY is asking (and if not I will) about the potential for some denial play.

Something in her has awoken... What exactly we don't yet know. She seems timid with details. Hopefully that changes. After all you want her to have bigger and better, it's part of the fantasy. I guess she doesn't understand this yet?

So, will she likely give up her ass and will she be denying you her ass as part of the play?

[dorsetben]

What wonderful developments! Loved reading about you exploring her delicious rear especially. Must be exquisitely painful to think that Mr. S is likely to get to enjoy her utmost intimacy.....

[slenderfish]

That she masturbated herself to orgasm in front of him is new to us. I don't think you told us about that.

I think XY is asking (and if not I will) about the potential for some denial play.

Something in her has awoken... What exactly we don't yet know. She seems timid with details. Hopefully that changes. After all you want her to have bigger and better, it's part of the fantasy. I guess she doesn't understand this yet?

So, will she likely give up her ass and will she be denying you her ass as part of the play?

When she mentioned his preference and request for anal, and noted that she effectively said "no way" I reminded her that she has enjoyed anal in the past and to never say never. I then whispered into her ear that I'd love for her to be so turned on with Mr. S that she suddenly desires to give him her ass, that such a scenario is part of the point of this lifestyle for her to achieve this level of sexual desire, etc.

With that foundation, I did later follow up in an intimate moment about how she might consider giving it just to him (e.g. denying me) and that it might just become "their" thing. Also that it might motivate him to provide the extra ongoing attention she prefers but he presently does not provide.

That is, renegotiate the deal with him, by offering her ass as chattel.

[Aureus]

How about suggesting to her that she wears a pretty buttplug for Mr S as part of her outfit. Should be quite an amazing surprise for him when he unpackages that.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Aureus.

[slenderfish]

How about suggesting to her that she wears a pretty buttplug for Mr S as part of her outfit. Should be quite an amazing surprise for him when he unpackages that.

I'll get that gem-style plug that seems to popular these days, and also the training set (as suggested). See where it goes.

[Observer1931]

How about suggesting to her that she wears a pretty buttplug for Mr S as part of her outfit. Should be quite an amazing surprise for him when he unpackages that.
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I'll get that gem-style plug that seems to popular these days, and also the training set (as suggested). See where it goes.

It goes in her ass SF. ( could not resist this)lol

[BallSpanking]

From your description, it sounds like SW herself is attracted to Mr S in spite of his lack of interacting after their hookups. Add to that she has not shut-down the likelihood of anal play, and her grudging acceptance of the likelihood of her giving him what he wants, without him reciprocating, and her eagerness to see him again in spite of the insufficient reciprocity, and also, her reserve in speaking about him open terms that fully describe her feelings about this ... One is left with the impression that she really IS into him, and is reluctant to admit this openly, or even (perhaps) to herself.

It would appear she is willing to shelve the usual expectations she would have from a suitor, and wants him badly enough to become his booty call. This suggests that he fucked her really well, and he got under her skin, for her to put herself out there for him, completely open.

Let's hope Mr S outdoes himself and provides SW with prolonged and attentive fucking sessions that overcome SW's remaining reluctance to being a HW, and changes her expectations of what she needs from a Bull (and not a BF).

[Mark K]

How he was laying behind her in the aftermath and she decided to rub her clit to orgasm and was kind of expecting him to start getting himself re-aroused, but he said he was not comfortable doing that in front of her.

She would not have had to ask me twice about doing this for her...

[KyGrappler80]

Giving her ass as chattel. What a great line and a great idea.

[slenderfish]

How about suggesting to her that she wears a pretty buttplug for Mr S as part of her outfit. Should be quite an amazing surprise for him when he unpackages that.

I'll get that gem-style plug that seems to popular these days, and also the training set (as suggested). See where it goes.

It goes in her ass SF. ( could not resist this)lol
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I tossed it in the air and you hit it into the outfield. Nicely done!