It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:31 pm

gulfcpl wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 5:43 pm
So glad it’s working itself out.
We are too, thanks!
whenwillshe wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:03 pm
Congratulations on raising the bar.
I would have been surprised if he had bailed on this incredible deal.
Thanks again for sharing and we look forward to the next month in your journey.
My wife is also following along and has had many orgasms of her own on this thread
Any particular encounter that stands out to her? I'm always interested in what women get turned on with.
mundyman wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:09 pm
Damn the torpedoes!!
Full speed ahead.
Have fun!!
Does Lana have an older sister or Aunt?
LOL.
No, just a brother who... let's be nice and say that Lana got the looks.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by whenwillshe » Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:35 pm

w770 wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:31 pm
gulfcpl wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 5:43 pm
So glad it’s working itself out.
We are too, thanks!
whenwillshe wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:03 pm
Congratulations on raising the bar.
I would have been surprised if he had bailed on this incredible deal.
Thanks again for sharing and we look forward to the next month in your journey.
My wife is also following along and has had many orgasms of her own on this thread
Any particular encounter that stands out to her? I'm always interested in what women get turned on with.
mundyman wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:09 pm
Damn the torpedoes!!
Full speed ahead.
Have fun!!
Does Lana have an older sister or Aunt?
LOL.
No, just a brother who... let's be nice and say that Lana got the looks.
She loved the initial session and then the follow up from you on Lana's account while in your bed with the phone on.
Those tripped her trigger, using her vibrator as I read aloud.
She usually ha 2 orgasms in our sessions and these were intense and loud with her telling me to cum in her cum filled pussy.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:37 pm

InigoMontoya wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:19 pm
w770 wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 12:55 pm
Lana will lay out the boundaries and should he exceed those, he knows that those actions will end the experience.
No, he doesn't know that. All evidence that he will be in possession of says quite the opposite.

By hiding the fact that you knew all along, Superman "knows" that he can bend Lana to his will (and maybe he can). As such, he'll believe that whatever rules Lana puts in place, he can - with time and a few sweet words - convince her to break.

After all, he "convinced" her to fuck around on her husband once; breaking one of the (traditionally) biggest rules around.

Why *wouldn't* he think that he can convince her to break other rules?

This started out as a very hot thread, but it's increasingly becoming a slow motion train wreck. I know you're having fun right now, but I just don't see this one ending well. MAYBE the fact that he leaves in a few months will stop the inevitable, but at the rate y'all are going, I'm not convinced that will be soon enough.

Best wishes. Truly.
I understand that you're have the advantage of being objective while I had the advantage of knowing Lana, so I try my best to not purport to know more than others and take all input as useful perspective at the very least. I'm optimistic in us as a couple and although I feel the well known angst that's part and parcel with this lifestyle, I don't worry about any real damage done. We've been very consistent in our entire time together at having the perspective of "us vs the problem" as opposed to manifesting any argument into a "her vs me" , so I don't see why we would abandon that now.

As always, I appreciate the thoughts though.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by phoenix2020 » Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:44 pm

Have you welcomed her home yet and how did you reclaim her after just a bj?

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Wed Dec 07, 2022 7:13 pm

phoenix2020 wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:44 pm
Have you welcomed her home yet and how did you reclaim her after just a bj?
I realized that I forgot to mention her return home. She came back and we made out for a while. I don't think I tasted his cum on her but I did smell a sort of musk? We didn't do anything for the first hour or so but talk. It was like the bonding we typically did last week after he fucked her pussy but just emotionally. She mentioned how if at any point, I can pull the plug on the entire experience and we can go back to being the normal married couple we were a little over a week ago and we'll look back at this as just a crazy time we shared. Then we went into the bedroom and she stroked my dick while retelling me what happened one floor below us and finished me off in her mouth.

We're planning on working out together tomorrow morning and taking the day off from all things Superman. Of course there's work, which is probably a good thing as it helps normalize the day, but otherwise, we're happy with where things are now and where they're headed.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Wed Dec 07, 2022 7:15 pm

whenwillshe wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:35 pm
w770 wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:31 pm
gulfcpl wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 5:43 pm
So glad it’s working itself out.
We are too, thanks!
whenwillshe wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:03 pm
Congratulations on raising the bar.
I would have been surprised if he had bailed on this incredible deal.
Thanks again for sharing and we look forward to the next month in your journey.
My wife is also following along and has had many orgasms of her own on this thread
Any particular encounter that stands out to her? I'm always interested in what women get turned on with.
mundyman wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:09 pm
Damn the torpedoes!!
Full speed ahead.
Have fun!!
Does Lana have an older sister or Aunt?
LOL.
No, just a brother who... let's be nice and say that Lana got the looks.
She loved the initial session and then the follow up from you on Lana's account while in your bed with the phone on.
Those tripped her trigger, using her vibrator as I read aloud.
She usually ha 2 orgasms in our sessions and these were intense and loud with her telling me to cum in her cum filled pussy.
That's really hot. I think in a few months when this is in the past, Lana and I will look back and fantasize about the first time he took her too.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by william70 » Wed Dec 07, 2022 7:18 pm

Has anything been brought up to him about her getting pregnant?

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Wed Dec 07, 2022 7:22 pm

william70 wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 7:18 pm
Has anything been brought up to him about her getting pregnant?
No it was never brought up. It's like it didn't even registers in his head about it being something to be concerned about. But I guess we'll see what he does the next time they're having sex and he's about to cum, whether he gives her forewarning or not.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by slowsteady » Wed Dec 07, 2022 7:27 pm

w770 wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:37 pm
InigoMontoya wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:19 pm
w770 wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 12:55 pm
Lana will lay out the boundaries and should he exceed those, he knows that those actions will end the experience.
No, he doesn't know that. All evidence that he will be in possession of says quite the opposite.

By hiding the fact that you knew all along, Superman "knows" that he can bend Lana to his will (and maybe he can). As such, he'll believe that whatever rules Lana puts in place, he can - with time and a few sweet words - convince her to break.

After all, he "convinced" her to fuck around on her husband once; breaking one of the (traditionally) biggest rules around.

Why *wouldn't* he think that he can convince her to break other rules?

This started out as a very hot thread, but it's increasingly becoming a slow motion train wreck. I know you're having fun right now, but I just don't see this one ending well. MAYBE the fact that he leaves in a few months will stop the inevitable, but at the rate y'all are going, I'm not convinced that will be soon enough.

Best wishes. Truly.
I understand that you're have the advantage of being objective while I had the advantage of knowing Lana, so I try my best to not purport to know more than others and take all input as useful perspective at the very least. I'm optimistic in us as a couple and although I feel the well known angst that's part and parcel with this lifestyle, I don't worry about any real damage done. We've been very consistent in our entire time together at having the perspective of "us vs the problem" as opposed to manifesting any argument into a "her vs me" , so I don't see why we would abandon that now.

As always, I appreciate the thoughts though.
Yeah. That's all well and good.

Anyways, I strongly suggest that you seriously consider the sage counsel InigoMontoya and other posters with his knowledge and wisdom of this scene are attempting to convey to you.

This is going way too fast. It is much easier controlling a car moving at 90 miles per hour than for any rational person to believe that this trajectory is anything other than ballistic!

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by skinny-one » Wed Dec 07, 2022 7:56 pm

You've got a great set of limits. One additional one I would add: His friends. I see no upside to you guys if S-man starts bragging about this arrangement to anyone--especially if it involves social media. Make it hard and fast.

Just my 2 cents.
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Wifesharing » Wed Dec 07, 2022 8:01 pm

skinny-one wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 7:56 pm
You've got a great set of limits. One additional one I would add: His friends. I see no upside to you guys if starts bragging about this arrangement to anyone--especially if it involves social media. Make it hard and fast.

Just my 2 cents.
I agree nothing good comes from that you guys are already going very fast you need to control the speed. The advice about speed on here is just good caution ⚠️

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by setv4 » Wed Dec 07, 2022 9:33 pm

This is an amazing thread of You and Your Wife's Hot Journey into Hotwifing! Thank you for the great and detailed writing of your journey! I hope that everything goes as You both want it to go, and still have a Loving and Strong marriage, along with one hell of a hot time with your Wife's Hot, young stud.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by trecital » Thu Dec 08, 2022 12:42 am

There is an awful lot of pontificating going on here, about what 'w770' should and shouldn't do.
And a lot of it based on their own personal experience.
I know that this advice is offered with the best of intentions, but it assumes that that individuals experiences are going to be a good fit for everyone else. Which is patenely not true.

If there is one thing I've learnt, after many years of reading and communicating with other cucks, that there is no 'one size fits all' method.

And to be perfectly honest, 'w770' strikes me as an intelligent person, perfectly able to make his own mind up about what he does.

In particular, I have to take issue with the idea that as soon as the cuck accepts some sort of humiliation to take place, then his wife will lose respect for him. That does not apply in my case. And I've read many other cuck encounters where that is also not the case. Read someon like 'Canadian wittols' postings and you will see a 'cuck' whose wife has maximum respect for him. Maybe even more respect than she would otherwise have. And there are plenty of others who are similar.

Another comment I saw on this forum only this morning was a cuck describing himself as an 'alpha cuck'. I knew immediately what he meant. Not all cucks are beta's, wimps or sissy's.
In my cuck relationship I'm the one who is really in charge. Yes, a lot of 'topping from the bottom' going on. But that's the only way it's going to work for me. My wife and boyfriend have understood this from the beginning. They understand this and tacitly agree to it. For me 'cuckolding' is not a 24hr lifestyle choice. Yes, I often think about cuck type things during the day. But actual cuck activity is almost exclusively reserved for sexual activity, for the bedroom.

Cuckolding is a complex and diverse set of circumstances, and ways of thinking.

Please, just let's ease back from the 'listen to xyz, he wrote the bible on cuckolding' type comments.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Thu Dec 08, 2022 1:45 am

skinny-one wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 7:56 pm
You've got a great set of limits. One additional one I would add: His friends. I see no upside to you guys if S-man starts bragging about this arrangement to anyone--especially if it involves social media. Make it hard and fast.

Just my 2 cents.
This is really good, thanks. I'll add this one in.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Thu Dec 08, 2022 1:46 am

setv4 wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 9:33 pm
This is an amazing thread of You and Your Wife's Hot Journey into Hotwifing! Thank you for the great and detailed writing of your journey! I hope that everything goes as You both want it to go, and still have a Loving and Strong marriage, along with one hell of a hot time with your Wife's Hot, young stud.
Thanks, it helps having a place to sort out my thoughts and get feedback from people who are more experienced

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Thu Dec 08, 2022 2:02 am

trecital wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 12:42 am
There is an awful lot of pontificating going on here, about what 'w770' should and shouldn't do.
And a lot of it based on their own personal experience.
I know that this advice is offered with the best of intentions, but it assumes that that individuals experiences are going to be a good fit for everyone else. Which is patenely not true.

If there is one thing I've learnt, after many years of reading and communicating with other cucks, that there is no 'one size fits all' method.

And to be perfectly honest, 'w770' strikes me as an intelligent person, perfectly able to make his own mind up about what he does.

In particular, I have to take issue with the idea that as soon as the cuck accepts some sort of humiliation to take place, then his wife will lose respect for him. That does not apply in my case. And I've read many other cuck encounters where that is also not the case. Read someon like 'Canadian wittols' postings and you will see a 'cuck' whose wife has maximum respect for him. Maybe even more respect than she would otherwise have. And there are plenty of others who are similar.

Another comment I saw on this forum only this morning was a cuck describing himself as an 'alpha cuck'. I knew immediately what he meant. Not all cucks are beta's, wimps or sissy's.
In my cuck relationship I'm the one who is really in charge. Yes, a lot of 'topping from the bottom' going on. But that's the only way it's going to work for me. My wife and boyfriend have understood this from the beginning. They understand this and tacitly agree to it. For me 'cuckolding' is not a 24hr lifestyle choice. Yes, I often think about cuck type things during the day. But actual cuck activity is almost exclusively reserved for sexual activity, for the bedroom.

Cuckolding is a complex and diverse set of circumstances, and ways of thinking.

Please, just let's ease back from the 'listen to xyz, he wrote the bible on cuckolding' type comments.
A lot of this resonated with me especially the mention of the term "alpha cuck" and how cuckolding is not a 24/7 sort of endeavor. Like yourself, although my relationship is balanced, my wife has always said to me and our family/friends that I'm the decision maker and she defers to me. Now I understand that this sentiment might seem counter to what's been expressed here but it's a forum for a particular lifestyle and in this specific area, Lana and I have chosen to play certain roles with the same ultimate goal. But I understand the impression that some might get here that she's the one in charge because of the focus on her having sex with someone else.

As always, I take all views and throw them into the equation as I won't claim to know more than I do and others with experience. Like I've said before, everyone here has the advantage of objectivity in their perspective, colored by their own experience while I have the advantage of knowing Lana and our marriage like I do. It's all a process of give and take, ying and yang, a great symbiosis in my opinion.

More specifically, since there seems to be a wave of comments remarking on the speed of progression, I'm definitely going to try and step back and evaluate that as objectively as I can.

Thanks everyone. Today is scheduled to be a low key day. Lana and I are taking a long lunch break today and going to some cute french restaurant that she loves. I'll see how she feels about taking a breather and a longer pause from all things Superman just to get a feel for her thoughts.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by mundyman » Thu Dec 08, 2022 3:06 am

w770 wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 2:02 am
trecital wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 12:42 am
There is an awful lot of pontificating going on here, about what 'w770' should and shouldn't do.
And a lot of it based on their own personal experience.
I know that this advice is offered with the best of intentions, but it assumes that that individuals experiences are going to be a good fit for everyone else. Which is patenely not true.

If there is one thing I've learnt, after many years of reading and communicating with other cucks, that there is no 'one size fits all' method.

And to be perfectly honest, 'w770' strikes me as an intelligent person, perfectly able to make his own mind up about what he does.

In particular, I have to take issue with the idea that as soon as the cuck accepts some sort of humiliation to take place, then his wife will lose respect for him. That does not apply in my case. And I've read many other cuck encounters where that is also not the case. Read someon like 'Canadian wittols' postings and you will see a 'cuck' whose wife has maximum respect for him. Maybe even more respect than she would otherwise have. And there are plenty of others who are similar.

Another comment I saw on this forum only this morning was a cuck describing himself as an 'alpha cuck'. I knew immediately what he meant. Not all cucks are beta's, wimps or sissy's.
In my cuck relationship I'm the one who is really in charge. Yes, a lot of 'topping from the bottom' going on. But that's the only way it's going to work for me. My wife and boyfriend have understood this from the beginning. They understand this and tacitly agree to it. For me 'cuckolding' is not a 24hr lifestyle choice. Yes, I often think about cuck type things during the day. But actual cuck activity is almost exclusively reserved for sexual activity, for the bedroom.

Cuckolding is a complex and diverse set of circumstances, and ways of thinking.

Please, just let's ease back from the 'listen to xyz, he wrote the bible on cuckolding' type comments.
A lot of this resonated with me especially the mention of the term "alpha cuck" and how cuckolding is not a 24/7 sort of endeavor. Like yourself, although my relationship is balanced, my wife has always said to me and our family/friends that I'm the decision maker and she defers to me. Now I understand that this sentiment might seem counter to what's been expressed here but it's a forum for a particular lifestyle and in this specific area, Lana and I have chosen to play certain roles with the same ultimate goal. But I understand the impression that some might get here that she's the one in charge because of the focus on her having sex with someone else.

As always, I take all views and throw them into the equation as I won't claim to know more than I do and others with experience. Like I've said before, everyone here has the advantage of objectivity in their perspective, colored by their own experience while I have the advantage of knowing Lana and our marriage like I do. It's all a process of give and take, ying and yang, a great symbiosis in my opinion.

More specifically, since there seems to be a wave of comments remarking on the speed of progression, I'm definitely going to try and step back and evaluate that as objectively as I can.

Thanks everyone. Today is scheduled to be a low key day. Lana and I are taking a long lunch break today and going to some cute french restaurant that she loves. I'll see how she feels about taking a breather and a longer pause from all things Superman just to get a feel for her thoughts.
A tremendous adventure you are on.
Have a great couple day as you are no doubt both looking at each other in amazement that you are doing this.
Have fun with each other this weekend.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by SixInchDick » Thu Dec 08, 2022 4:24 am

Someone beat me to it, I was going to ask if anyone brought up the whole "she's going off the pill" issue. That's pretty wild how Superman still didn't say anything else about that. I really can't wait to hear what happens the next time they do the deed. It would be hot if she actually was going off the pill, but I wouldn't want a guy like that knocking her up anyways. :lol:

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by phoenix2020 » Thu Dec 08, 2022 5:09 am

SixInchDick wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 4:24 am
Someone beat me to it, I was going to ask if anyone brought up the whole "she's going off the pill" issue. That's pretty wild how Superman still didn't say anything else about that. I really can't wait to hear what happens the next time they do the deed. It would be hot if she actually was going off the pill, but I wouldn't want a guy like that knocking her up anyways. :lol:
I think that ship has sailed, especially since it wasn't really going to happen.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Bi_Giver » Thu Dec 08, 2022 8:32 am

I enjoy reading about your progress. I think it would be fun if Lana told Superman that she came clean with you and that although you took it hard , came to accept their arrangement. You could set something up where you could home unexpectantly and find them together fucking! I would be curious to know what he would do!

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by KevDi69 » Thu Dec 08, 2022 9:50 am

Good luck with this next chapter in your adventure! It sounds like you and Lana have a good game plan going ahead. Glad you two are taking the day to be together.

The only person Lana should lose respect for in this saga is Superman. I think he clearly clearly showed what a douche he is when he admitted he was trying to get them caught by you and that in CA he would intentionally leave clues so the other married woman would get caught by her husband. Both wives were giving him the gift of their bodies and he returns the favor by trying to at least get them in trouble or ruin their marriages. What was Lana’s reaction to that?

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by diet_dew_86 » Thu Dec 08, 2022 10:29 am

It sounds like she has the greater interest in your being present. With regard to the discussion of whether you'd be undressed as well, have you asked what her preference is?

Maybe I missed this detail but I think it would be better for you to meet with him and her first in a non-sexual encounter with the hotwife aspect on the table. I think it will help establish the boundaries and relationship dynamics. I think it is easier to move from a Stag-style dynamic over time to more Cuckold than it is the other way around.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Thu Dec 08, 2022 2:55 pm

mundyman wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 3:06 am
w770 wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 2:02 am
trecital wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 12:42 am
There is an awful lot of pontificating going on here, about what 'w770' should and shouldn't do.
And a lot of it based on their own personal experience.
I know that this advice is offered with the best of intentions, but it assumes that that individuals experiences are going to be a good fit for everyone else. Which is patenely not true.

If there is one thing I've learnt, after many years of reading and communicating with other cucks, that there is no 'one size fits all' method.

And to be perfectly honest, 'w770' strikes me as an intelligent person, perfectly able to make his own mind up about what he does.

In particular, I have to take issue with the idea that as soon as the cuck accepts some sort of humiliation to take place, then his wife will lose respect for him. That does not apply in my case. And I've read many other cuck encounters where that is also not the case. Read someon like 'Canadian wittols' postings and you will see a 'cuck' whose wife has maximum respect for him. Maybe even more respect than she would otherwise have. And there are plenty of others who are similar.

Another comment I saw on this forum only this morning was a cuck describing himself as an 'alpha cuck'. I knew immediately what he meant. Not all cucks are beta's, wimps or sissy's.
In my cuck relationship I'm the one who is really in charge. Yes, a lot of 'topping from the bottom' going on. But that's the only way it's going to work for me. My wife and boyfriend have understood this from the beginning. They understand this and tacitly agree to it. For me 'cuckolding' is not a 24hr lifestyle choice. Yes, I often think about cuck type things during the day. But actual cuck activity is almost exclusively reserved for sexual activity, for the bedroom.

Cuckolding is a complex and diverse set of circumstances, and ways of thinking.

Please, just let's ease back from the 'listen to xyz, he wrote the bible on cuckolding' type comments.
A lot of this resonated with me especially the mention of the term "alpha cuck" and how cuckolding is not a 24/7 sort of endeavor. Like yourself, although my relationship is balanced, my wife has always said to me and our family/friends that I'm the decision maker and she defers to me. Now I understand that this sentiment might seem counter to what's been expressed here but it's a forum for a particular lifestyle and in this specific area, Lana and I have chosen to play certain roles with the same ultimate goal. But I understand the impression that some might get here that she's the one in charge because of the focus on her having sex with someone else.

As always, I take all views and throw them into the equation as I won't claim to know more than I do and others with experience. Like I've said before, everyone here has the advantage of objectivity in their perspective, colored by their own experience while I have the advantage of knowing Lana and our marriage like I do. It's all a process of give and take, ying and yang, a great symbiosis in my opinion.

More specifically, since there seems to be a wave of comments remarking on the speed of progression, I'm definitely going to try and step back and evaluate that as objectively as I can.

Thanks everyone. Today is scheduled to be a low key day. Lana and I are taking a long lunch break today and going to some cute french restaurant that she loves. I'll see how she feels about taking a breather and a longer pause from all things Superman just to get a feel for her thoughts.
A tremendous adventure you are on.
Have a great couple day as you are no doubt both looking at each other in amazement that you are doing this.
Have fun with each other this weekend.
Thanks! Yeah it was a pretty sweet, low key day. We barely even talked about Superman or anything even remotely related to this entire experience. Instead, we just went on a long lunch, and then after lunch we walked around with the dogs. I kinda thought that her sex drive would be more amped up in light of her talk with him yesterday but in fact, the opposite.
Bi_Giver wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 8:32 am
I enjoy reading about your progress. I think it would be fun if Lana told Superman that she came clean with you and that although you took it hard , came to accept their arrangement. You could set something up where you could home unexpectantly and find them together fucking! I would be curious to know what he would do!
It is hot to think about, coming home and seeing them already going at it. Maybe in the next few weeks, that will be the case. Superman seems like the type to enjoy that circumstance as well, so it might be for everyone's benefit.
KevDi69 wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 9:50 am
Good luck with this next chapter in your adventure! It sounds like you and Lana have a good game plan going ahead. Glad you two are taking the day to be together.

The only person Lana should lose respect for in this saga is Superman. I think he clearly clearly showed what a douche he is when he admitted he was trying to get them caught by you and that in CA he would intentionally leave clues so the other married woman would get caught by her husband. Both wives were giving him the gift of their bodies and he returns the favor by trying to at least get them in trouble or ruin their marriages. What was Lana’s reaction to that?
She has a really good poker face so although she was thinking what an asshole he was in the moment when he told her that, she was barely unphased in terms of her reaction to his telling of it. She wasn't necessarily surprised though, as no one should be. I mean, we're not about to get upset at an asshole for acting like an asshole.
diet_dew_86 wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 10:29 am
It sounds like she has the greater interest in your being present. With regard to the discussion of whether you'd be undressed as well, have you asked what her preference is?

Maybe I missed this detail but I think it would be better for you to meet with him and her first in a non-sexual encounter with the hotwife aspect on the table. I think it will help establish the boundaries and relationship dynamics. I think it is easier to move from a Stag-style dynamic over time to more Cuckold than it is the other way around.
Well, it's pretty certain that I'll be touching myself while watching them, but I'm a tad insecure about the size differential between the two of us, so that's the only consideration that's holding me back from whipping it out. Regarding your other question, she prefers that I'm there watching her, but she also understands if it's too much for me at first, so I might just be listening in the first few times, which is also really overwhelming.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by magnus » Thu Dec 08, 2022 3:19 pm

w770 wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 2:02 am
trecital wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 12:42 am
There is an awful lot of pontificating going on here, about what 'w770' should and shouldn't do.
And a lot of it based on their own personal experience.
I know that this advice is offered with the best of intentions, but it assumes that that individuals experiences are going to be a good fit for everyone else. Which is patenely not true.

If there is one thing I've learnt, after many years of reading and communicating with other cucks, that there is no 'one size fits all' method.

And to be perfectly honest, 'w770' strikes me as an intelligent person, perfectly able to make his own mind up about what he does.

In particular, I have to take issue with the idea that as soon as the cuck accepts some sort of humiliation to take place, then his wife will lose respect for him. That does not apply in my case. And I've read many other cuck encounters where that is also not the case. Read someon like 'Canadian wittols' postings and you will see a 'cuck' whose wife has maximum respect for him. Maybe even more respect than she would otherwise have. And there are plenty of others who are similar.

Another comment I saw on this forum only this morning was a cuck describing himself as an 'alpha cuck'. I knew immediately what he meant. Not all cucks are beta's, wimps or sissy's.
In my cuck relationship I'm the one who is really in charge. Yes, a lot of 'topping from the bottom' going on. But that's the only way it's going to work for me. My wife and boyfriend have understood this from the beginning. They understand this and tacitly agree to it. For me 'cuckolding' is not a 24hr lifestyle choice. Yes, I often think about cuck type things during the day. But actual cuck activity is almost exclusively reserved for sexual activity, for the bedroom.

Cuckolding is a complex and diverse set of circumstances, and ways of thinking.

Please, just let's ease back from the 'listen to xyz, he wrote the bible on cuckolding' type comments.
A lot of this resonated with me especially the mention of the term "alpha cuck" and how cuckolding is not a 24/7 sort of endeavor. Like yourself, although my relationship is balanced, my wife has always said to me and our family/friends that I'm the decision maker and she defers to me. Now I understand that this sentiment might seem counter to what's been expressed here but it's a forum for a particular lifestyle and in this specific area, Lana and I have chosen to play certain roles with the same ultimate goal. But I understand the impression that some might get here that she's the one in charge because of the focus on her having sex with someone else.

As always, I take all views and throw them into the equation as I won't claim to know more than I do and others with experience. Like I've said before, everyone here has the advantage of objectivity in their perspective, colored by their own experience while I have the advantage of knowing Lana and our marriage like I do. It's all a process of give and take, ying and yang, a great symbiosis in my opinion.

More specifically, since there seems to be a wave of comments remarking on the speed of progression, I'm definitely going to try and step back and evaluate that as objectively as I can.

Thanks everyone. Today is scheduled to be a low key day. Lana and I are taking a long lunch break today and going to some cute french restaurant that she loves. I'll see how she feels about taking a breather and a longer pause from all things Superman just to get a feel for her thoughts.
This would be very similar to my situation as well.

I am a cuck in the bedroom. I get off on the fact I can't adequately satisfy my wife sexually with my modest endowment. I really get off on her fucking better endowed men and the humiliation of watching her be satisfied in a way I cannot satisfy and having her tell me and tease me about that truth.

However that ends at the bedroom door. We are not in a FML relationship and in every other area of our lives, my wife trusts and expects me to lead our family and I happily embrace that burden of performance. I make sure we are financially sound, protected and healthy and my wife is the first mate in that endeavor.

My wife sees our cuckolding arrangement as a gift she is extremely grateful for. She gets a physically, mentally strong man who keeps our family moving in a successful direction, but she gets to be a slut and let herself go wild with men she doesn't have to rely on for anything else. To only seek them out for pleasure, is truly freeing for her and it turns her on to have that one area where our power dynamic is flipped. She loves that other men desire her and she can live out that fantasy and then come home to a man who is even more on fire for her, losing his mind to reclaim her.

Cuckolding takes many different forms and I appreciate the various ways in which couples engage in our wonderful kink. While I don't identify with the "sissy cuck" or even submissive cuck type, I certainly appreciate when those men share their experiences and I don't judge them for the way they choose to engage in this lifestyle. It's exciting for me to read the various ways couples choose to live this life.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by phoenix2020 » Thu Dec 08, 2022 4:28 pm

w770 wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 2:02 am

Thanks! Yeah it was a pretty sweet, low key day. We barely even talked about Superman or anything even remotely related to this entire experience. Instead, we just went on a long lunch, and then after lunch we walked around with the dogs. I kinda thought that her sex drive would be more amped up in light of her talk with him yesterday but in fact, the opposite.
That might just be due to her period. I know my wife gets very horny towards the end of it though. I'm just having the feeling that she enjoys the private time with him though. Coming home to you makes it even better for her as you reclaim her.

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