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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Tue Nov 26, 2019 11:14 am

Des,

I understand how hot that conversation was with your wife and how HOT this entire situation is and will be, but for the life of me, I don't understand why you would go to the hall bath and jerk off when you have a very hot and desirable woman who's pussy was probably very wet following that discussion!!! Put the DIVO on and take her to the bedroom or bend her over the back of the sofa and give her what you and she probably both want!!!!!

I don't think even in my MOST cloudy thoughts that I would ever jerk off when there is a hot woman right there!!! Hmmm.... unless you did something wrong and she's got you on restriction!!!! :o :shock: :whip: :mrgreen: Oh, no!!! That could never happen, could it??? :lol:

Thanks for the hot update!!!! looking forward to a full and unedited report in two and a half weeks and a day!!!!

Rascal

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Unread post by subtoall » Tue Nov 26, 2019 11:18 am

Des,
At the risk of sounding preachy, were I in your shoes I would feel conflicted about pursuing a sexual relationship with Beau's parents. While the onus of maintaining positive family relationships within Beau's family is certainly on his parents, rather than you and your wife, I would feel uncomfortable with this liaison based on its potential to hurt Beau by its betrayal of something that I suspect is very special to him. I don't doubt that he might be aware of his parent's interest in your wife based on her weekend at their house, especially their skinny dipping episode, and likely many conversations they have had with him in the interim where their excitement about her has probably been pretty apparent. By the same token, were you to go through with sleeping together, it is not impossible for me to imagine that Beau would sense a change in the dynamic between his parents toward you guys, and figure it out, or even just suspect.

The potential to deeply hurt someone whom you all care a great deal about is, for me, enough to rule this out. Unless I'm totally misreading the dynamics of these relationships. Again, this is really more on his parents than it is on you, but I can't help but see this as a clear boundary violation within that family, and my values don't permit me to take part in that, even if I would otherwise enjoy it. We make sacrifices for those whom we love.

Sorry to be such a killjoy. I'm just hoping to save you all (especially Beau) some unnecessary grief. :)

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Unread post by Des 31 » Tue Nov 26, 2019 12:35 pm

rascalnvixen wrote:
Tue Nov 26, 2019 11:14 am
Des,

I understand how hot that conversation was with your wife and how HOT this entire situation is and will be, but for the life of me, I don't understand why you would go to the hall bath and jerk off when you have a very hot and desirable woman who's pussy was probably very wet following that discussion!!! Put the DIVO on and take her to the bedroom or bend her over the back of the sofa and give her what you and she probably both want!!!!!

I don't think even in my MOST cloudy thoughts that I would ever jerk off when there is a hot woman right there!!! Hmmm.... unless you did something wrong and she's got you on restriction!!!! :o :shock: :whip: :mrgreen: Oh, no!!! That could never happen, could it??? :lol:

Thanks for the hot update!!!! looking forward to a full and unedited report in two and a half weeks and a day!!!!

Rascal
Funny, Rascal. :lol: I'm not in the dog house, just didn't want to interfere with the adult-channel movie she wanted to watch, but I joined her part of the way through. She has a new dick-shaped, soft rubber vibrator I purchased online and just recently arrived in the mail. She took that with her to watch the movie, which she said sounded hot. The acting was sub-par but I agreed the plot was hot. She said at one point, "I have to try that position." It's would take a while to explain what the characters were doing and really not practical anyway, but who am I to decide what a woman wants to do? If she ever does, I'll do my best to tell you about it.

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Unread post by Des 31 » Tue Nov 26, 2019 12:40 pm

subtoall wrote:
Tue Nov 26, 2019 11:18 am
Des,
At the risk of sounding preachy, were I in your shoes I would feel conflicted about pursuing a sexual relationship with Beau's parents. While the onus of maintaining positive family relationships within Beau's family is certainly on his parents, rather than you and your wife, I would feel uncomfortable with this liaison based on its potential to hurt Beau by its betrayal of something that I suspect is very special to him. I don't doubt that he might be aware of his parent's interest in your wife based on her weekend at their house, especially their skinny dipping episode, and likely many conversations they have had with him in the interim where their excitement about her has probably been pretty apparent. By the same token, were you to go through with sleeping together, it is not impossible for me to imagine that Beau would sense a change in the dynamic between his parents toward you guys, and figure it out, or even just suspect.

The potential to deeply hurt someone whom you all care a great deal about is, for me, enough to rule this out. Unless I'm totally misreading the dynamics of these relationships. Again, this is really more on his parents than it is on you, but I can't help but see this as a clear boundary violation within that family, and my values don't permit me to take part in that, even if I would otherwise enjoy it. We make sacrifices for those whom we love.

Sorry to be such a killjoy. I'm just hoping to save you all (especially Beau) some unnecessary grief. :)
Thanks for all that advice, SubToAll. But it's a bit early to fret. I personally can't say with any certainty what will happen and, of course, it hasn't yet happened. Everyone involved will have time to think it over before the time it might come about. I'm sure each of us will be talking to the others about that issue. It's my impression that his parents are very smart and I can't imagine either doing or saying anything in his or anyone else's presence to bring about suspicions. I know for certain my wife is excellent in maintaining confidences. I'll let you know here.

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Unread post by afagehi7 » Wed Nov 27, 2019 2:16 am

Des - I disagree with subtotal and think y'all should go for it. Just don't kiss and tell. I'm sure the parents wouldn't tell Beau. Beau is lucky to be getting NSA pussy and living every college guys fantasy. He's not losing anything if y'all f his parents. Hell, he should be happy for his dad

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Unread post by Des 31 » Wed Nov 27, 2019 5:25 am

Xalar11 wrote:
Tue Nov 26, 2019 9:55 am
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Your wife's question is common for us here. That's the thing about adding so many details as I tend to do. It's actually a small part of our lives. Some of those we know say the same about her other past-time activities, which are numerous. I'm reasonably sure that if I answer that in this thread, most would consider it irrelevant to this website's topics and might bore some, so I'll respond to you in a PM. She and I spend much of our time together, having nothing to do with her sexual entanglements. Thanks for writing and best wishes to you both.

~ Des
I would beg to differ. It wouldn't be boring at all. I'm sure I'm not the only one who would like to hear more of "the essence" of your and your wife relationship, just the two of you.

Another issue, of course, I read your very exciting report about Jack and Beau stopping by at your house last friday. I think I have said it already a few times, you're am excellent writer.
But when your wife shouts in throes of passion that "she loves them" to Jack and Beau, doesn't this hurt you at all, even if it just a little?
What is actually the difference when she says "I love you" to you? Sometimes it's difficult to grasp what your wife actually keeps exclusively and only for you, her husband? What are the things that only you make her feel?
Hi Xalar. For the reason I couldn't believe many would care, I had to think about that for a while. But since you asked, I recalled similar questions in the past. Without trying to include every little detail, a few things may give you an idea.

I’ve often been asked in PMs and in our thread about what the other part of our lives are like. The part chronicled here is the fun part but a smaller part than it may seem written here. She likes taking adult education classes and has other interests. Here’s a potential new development from a few days back as an example:

We went out for breakfast but my wife wanted only juice, coffee and a slice of toast. She had intended to take me to the gun range this morning. She changed her mind after I mentioned I’d rather watch her practice than personally shoot targets with her.

She laughed and said, “I guess because you’re a ‘watcher’ that figures. If you want to watch, how about us going to the Brazilian dojo to see some jiu jitsu moves?” I drove her from the waffle diner to the studio and she introduced me to the “Grandmaster” as I was told by my wife to address him. The guy is a fit, beefy guy, probably in his late 40s. He told my wife she could spar with him today and turned to me, saying, “She’s among our best students.” I had seen her only once a while back when she had first joined. After some two or three months, she has been an occasional Saturday morning visitor.

As an know-nothing observer, I thought she was pretty good, although the master is unquestioningly better. Upon leaving as she paid the bill, her grandmaster told me he has suggested to her she should also check into training at a Muay Thai studio across town. I’m unsure of the difference but was told it’s perfect in life and death situation. I asked how to spell it and wrote it on a sticky note from the desk.

That seemed a tad dangerous as he explained it, but he assured us she shouldn’t worry about anything like that. The problem for students in that art is that, to be competent, it takes a lot work and requires some toughening of the shins and hands. He said with a laugh as we were about to walk out, “But if you go, don’t stop coming here.” She said she likes the place too much to quit coming by now and then.

She has a tendency to get overly excited about anything new to learn and asked if it would bother me if she signed up for whatever Saturday mornings that might require. I try not to complain and said it’s okay with me if it’s just mornings as is the case with her other past times. What she likes about jiu jitsu is that a practitioner is less likely to end up on the ground in the event of a confrontation. It’s hard to fight on your back. She’s going to have a talk with someone at the other place before deciding. (And before I’m asked, no, she has never faced any situation in which she needed to use that skill.)

For a banker, she possesses a lot of unrelated skills. She’s a firearms expert, an exercise enthusiast, a golfer, has a variety of basic mechanical skills and occasionally plays racquetball with any guy or woman who happens to be available at the gym. When she occasionally comes across advertised short-term, adult educational courses that interest her, she signs up for those, even a ten-week astronomy class a year or so ago. Some we know who learn of several of those often ask whether she spends much time with me - well, that’s relative. She spends more time at work and other activities than with me, but we’re perfectly happy when we do things together and that’s more often than it may seem when I write here about her life.

That seems like a lot to some but the way I see it, it makes her a more interesting person to me. Most of her interests aren’t necessarily mine and I have often inquired whether she thinks I’m more boring by comparison. She thinks that’s funny each time I ask and says, “You have all the skills I care about in a spouse.” That’s good enough for me.

From a hotwife perspective, she has met a few hookups at various places where some of these take place. An example is that she met Beau, and eventually his roommate Jack, through an adult education calligraphy class at the local community college. For that reason, I guess you could say her activities have side advantages.

Added on later: I could have mentioned the painting contractor recently at our home phoned to ask if she would go out with him on that date they had earlier discussed. She will be off work for a long weekend, so he's taking her out tonight on a different sort of date. He had told his former girlfriend-nude dancer about my wife and she wants to meet her. He will pick her up at our home and they're going to the lounge where she works, then back to his place for a while before returning home tonight. It isn't clear to her whether the dancer will join them.

Extraneous work-related responsibilities also take time away from home ~ ~ Each December, her boss receives more work-related holiday party invitations than he can attend. He asked her to split up the invitations with him and she will attend several in his place. He told her that because she persistently finishes up projects earlier than needed, she can take any five days off in December she feels best to make up for the time she will be at the after-hour parties.

When she was golfing with the board's chairwoman, the woman told her something she hadn't before known. She had assumed her current position came about because her boss gave her the job. The chairwoman said that wasn't correct, that the board had made the decision and told him at the time not to tell her she was their choice. Five candidates were considered, but the HR department's told the members three had personality problems with their underlings and a credit check on the other found he was often behind in paying his bills. All are considered competent at their jobs but are had to take some reeducation classes at the bank's expense. The woman told her she was their favorite choice anyway and she hopes she stays with the bank for the rest of her career. She liked that.

~ Des
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Unread post by ericsacto » Wed Nov 27, 2019 5:31 am

Again, thanks for the updates. Looking forward to finding out what happens when Beau’s parents visit.

Will Beau know the parents are visiting? I wonder if he sees the four of you after you had sex, would he get the vibe that something happened.

Any thoughts about how the visit would play out? Would it happen right away during the first night or have the sexual tension be there the entire next day and let it happen the second night.

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Unread post by Kays cuck » Wed Nov 27, 2019 6:16 am

I really love reading your thread, Des. Everything about you and your amazing wife's lives is very interesting from the dynamic itself, to the super hot sex details. You're a lucky man. As always, I'll keep following and waiting for your next updates!

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Unread post by Des 31 » Wed Nov 27, 2019 10:52 am

Xalar11 wrote:
Tue Nov 26, 2019 9:55 am
Des 31 wrote:
Sun Nov 24, 2019 8:39 am
Your wife's question is common for us here. That's the thing about adding so many details as I tend to do. It's actually a small part of our lives. Some of those we know say the same about her other past-time activities, which are numerous. I'm reasonably sure that if I answer that in this thread, most would consider it irrelevant to this website's topics and might bore some, so I'll respond to you in a PM. She and I spend much of our time together, having nothing to do with her sexual entanglements. Thanks for writing and best wishes to you both.

~ Des
I would beg to differ. It wouldn't be boring at all. I'm sure I'm not the only one who would like to hear more of "the essence" of your and your wife relationship, just the two of you.

Another issue, of course, I read your very exciting report about Jack and Beau stopping by at your house last friday. I think I have said it already a few times, you're am excellent writer.
But when your wife shouts in throes of passion that "she loves them" to Jack and Beau, doesn't this hurt you at all, even if it just a little?
What is actually the difference when she says "I love you" to you? Sometimes it's difficult to grasp what your wife actually keeps exclusively and only for you, her husband? What are the things that only you make her feel?
Hi Xalar, I was focusing on your first remark and realized later I didn't answer your other questions. That "I love you" is just something she does when excited. She feels it when having sex. I know that, so it doesn't bother me. As for what's different between others and me - well, when it comes to sex, probably not much except it's admittedly more fun with someone other than the guy she lives with day to day. I get it, so that doesn't bother me either. Her old saying, "If it wasn't more fun with others, what would be the point?" seems rather obvious. I'm sure that's true with about every hotwife, otherwise they would just stick to sex with their husbands. I know she loves me, but that has to do with a lot more than sex.
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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Wed Nov 27, 2019 1:05 pm

Hey Des!!

Thanks for the update, as usual!!! A quick question, you mentioned that your wife was going to split the work related holiday invitations with her boss. Will you be attending those with her as a couple or will she be on her own? I would think it important given her public position that she shows a strong family presence and not going solo. Just curious, as usual!!! :)

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Unread post by afagehi7 » Thu Nov 28, 2019 1:48 am

Des - bjj is mainly ground fighting. Most 1 on 1 fights end up on the ground. Ground fighting does nothing for a multiple attacker situation. In this case, a more standard martial art is better. Muay Thai is a good one for that as would be anything. The main difference between Muay Thai and American kickboxing is in Muay Thai you can use knees and elbows and kick below the belt. The primary Muay Thai power kick is a kick where the shin hits the hamstring of an opponent and is basically a Charlie horse on steroids. I've trained in a few different styles. She is probably better to take an advanced female specific self defense. As a woman, she'll learn important techniques to deal with people larger (males). Even in muay Thai, they generally fight in weight classes. If you want any more information, PM me and I'll give you my email.

Is she fucking anyone at the gym? I'll bet she either has or is going to blow Mr. Grandmaster. And, I highly doubt he has earned the title grandmaster. That is a lifetime goal and if he's not earned it and has people calling him that..well, stay away from him because that is a big No-no in martial arts. Most of mine have preferred titles such as sifu.

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Unread post by Des 31 » Thu Nov 28, 2019 5:24 am

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Hey Des!!

Thanks for the update, as usual!!! A quick question, you mentioned that your wife was going to split the work related holiday invitations with her boss. Will you be attending those with her as a couple or will she be on her own? I would think it important given her public position that she shows a strong family presence and not going solo. Just curious, as usual!!! :)

Rascal
Yeah, at least a couple. I'll have some conflicting schedules during that time but can explain my wife's absence as part of her job responsibilities. She can do the same when going without me. This will be the first year we didn't go to places together for gatherings like that but the hosts will understand and guests don't seem to think about why spouses aren't with others we have seen without their husband or wife. I'm sure that won't be a problem for either of us. Good question . . .

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Unread post by Des 31 » Thu Nov 28, 2019 5:29 am

ericsacto wrote:
Wed Nov 27, 2019 5:31 am
Again, thanks for the updates. Looking forward to finding out what happens when Beau’s parents visit.

Will Beau know the parents are visiting? I wonder if he sees the four of you after you had sex, would he get the vibe that something happened.

Any thoughts about how the visit would play out? Would it happen right away during the first night or have the sexual tension be there the entire next day and let it happen the second night.
I haven't yet thought all that through but I don't think anyone will say anything that might bring suspicion to either Beau or Jack. We should have all that sorted out by the time it comes about mid-December. Thanks for writing, Eric.

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Unread post by samlowen » Thu Nov 28, 2019 6:56 am

Has she looked into Krav Maga to improve her ground skills? I don’t practice martial arts myself but two co-workers of mine speak very highly of it. Happy Thanksgiving, btw!

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Thu Nov 28, 2019 7:02 am

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Is she fucking anyone at the gym? I'll bet she either has or is going to blow Mr. Grandmaster. And, I highly doubt he has earned the title grandmaster. That is a lifetime goal and if he's not earned it and has people calling him that..well, stay away from him because that is a big No-no in martial arts. Most of mine have preferred titles such as sifu.
Totally agree with the title issue. Grandmasters are usually THE absolute top of the style of the martial art in discussion and there is only one Grandmaster. Everyone responds to his/her orders. Unfortunately, there are many in the Western world that realize they will never be able to rise to that level in any existing system of martial art, so, they create their own "style" and deem themselves Grandmaster. Most folks in the martial arts world do not look highly upon such people. He may be an excellent instructor, but this is a clear sign he has self image issues. Agree with Sifu and I have studied with several who ended up being good friends. My chief instructor (who has been elevated to 9th degree black belt by the national organization for our style) prefers to be called Sensei as many other do as well. Sorry to say due to some injuries not related to martial arts training, I'm no longer able to participate anywhere near the level I used to compete in.

BJJ or Brazilian Ju Jitsu especially as developed by the Tracy brothers is an excellent style for a woman having to deal with a single attacker and I have seen many practitioners defeat opponents from the floor. And it is not viewed by most as being barbarian since it usually does not involve throwing of fists and kicks in an obvious manner. Good points A7!!

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Unread post by solstice » Thu Nov 28, 2019 9:16 am

Des says,
I haven't yet thought all that through but I don't think anyone will say anything that might bring suspicion to either Beau or Jack. We should have all that sorted out by the time it comes about mid-December. Thanks for writing, Eric.


You both seem to be in command of your hot life, and are able to compartmentalize your relationships. I wonder if many of your wife's lovers feel chuffed that they have managed to seduce such a high flying lover,when all the time they are the fish at the end of the line: I am not suggesting that she treats any of her partners as victims, but she really is in control..

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Unread post by curiouscouple122 » Thu Nov 28, 2019 10:28 am

In most hotwife dynamics, they should always understand that they are the fish at the end of the line. That's how hotwifing works the best.

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Des 31 wrote:
Tue Nov 26, 2019 6:36 am
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Tue Nov 26, 2019 3:12 am
Des, I fucking envy you and your wife soooo fucking much! The way she owns her own sexuality and how she just seems to accept all this without guilt or discomfort. And how hungry she is for hard cock! My wife has struggled so much with her deepest desires and the guilt those lusts have caused her. Is your wife willing to give lessons?
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Hi Sutter. Yeah, we understand that feeling of your wife in that my wife had the same attitude for about a year after I first began asking her to consider dating other men. She wanted to do it but had trouble with conflicting feelings and some suspicion I was trying to trick her into letting me date other women. Another roadblock was our mainline religious beliefs, and we're still church-goers. What brought her to finally agreeing was that her imagination was afire with the idea of fucking others and she ultimately fell into a three month affair with a coworker without my knowledge. When I returned a day earlier than anticipated from a business trip, I found out about it. She confessed at that time it would be difficult to remain faithful thereafter and agreed from that time on she would keep me in the loop. We think other factors that led to her doing this were her premarital sexual experiences and her high school, semi-lesbian club background. She still gets a bit wound-up when recalling those days.

I can understand your wife's conflicted feelings. We have been asked once before to help talk a wife into trying it, but we declined because we have come to understand this isn't for everyone and can in some circumstances harm a marital relationship. If my wife had continued refusing a few more months, I would have stopped encouraging her to avoid her thinking I was persistently harassing her. I was lucky and she admitted soon after she wished she had gone along with my pleading earlier. She once said she wished we had come to that agreement even before we married, that it would have been a far different honeymoon. I found that a particularly hot thought and we have considered having a second wedding some day to enact just that experience.

Your wife may just need more time to think it through but if she can't bring herself to do it, she is like a majority of married women. My wife ran across an internet article a few days ago that cuckolding is a growing phenomenon as societal attitudes change. I can't recall the percentages she quoted but it's far higher than I had previously thought. I wish the both of you the best, whatever her ultimate decision.

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Oh no Des, My wife has has three different BBC Bulls over the last four plus years. What I meant was how she doesn't (or at least I don't think you have said) seem to have any real issues with totally owning her own sexuality. No second guessing? No feeling of guilt or doubt?
Even after over four years, my wife at times will ask me if something is wrong with her for loving this life and wanting to be taken deeper. I always took her meaning to be "Why would you let your wife do these things?" I always make a point to ask if this is what SHE want. And If she wants to stop and take a break or even quit. I do it outside the bedroom, not as he's pounding her or I'm rubbing her clit. That's dirty pool. She has always told me that this has been the most amazing thing she has ever done or experienced, and with a concerned look on her face, she asks in her little girl voice "Are you wanting to stop or take a break?"
What I'm a askin' is this: Does your wife ever express any regret or guilt? Uncertainty? How about you? Same questions.
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Unread post by Des 31 » Thu Nov 28, 2019 11:53 am

SutterKane wrote:
Thu Nov 28, 2019 10:50 am
Des 31 wrote:
Tue Nov 26, 2019 6:36 am
SutterKane wrote:
Tue Nov 26, 2019 3:12 am
Des, I fucking envy you and your wife soooo fucking much! The way she owns her own sexuality and how she just seems to accept all this without guilt or discomfort. And how hungry she is for hard cock! My wife has struggled so much with her deepest desires and the guilt those lusts have caused her. Is your wife willing to give lessons?
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Your wife may just need more time to think it through but if she can't bring herself to do it, she is like a majority of married women. My wife ran across an internet article a few days ago that cuckolding is a growing phenomenon as societal attitudes change. I can't recall the percentages she quoted but it's far higher than I had previously thought. I wish the both of you the best, whatever her ultimate decision.

~ Des
Oh no Des . . . What I'm a askin' is this: Does your wife ever express any regret or guilt? Uncertainty? How about you? Same questions.
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Got it. Pardon my misunderstanding. If my wife ever had those feelings, they went away soon after, or during, her first or second guy she met through two personal ads we placed at the outset. I can't recall her saying that at the time and she has said in the past she cannot remember any second thoughts. That high school experience I wrote here was real and as accurate as I know, and I'm sure that has something to do with her attitude. A difference may have been that my wife had a covert three-month affair before we came to our agreement about her dating others. She has asked a few times over the past few years if I wanted her to take a break from that but not within at least the past two years. Nowadays, she has occasionally mentioned it would be difficult for her to quit but that she would if I found that to be important.

She isn't one to have guilt feelings other than an occasional second thought about whether she should have said something she wished she had not to someone. But minor things like that don't last more than a few minutes. All of us are different, and I can understand your wife feeling that way. I suppose if my wife said that to me, I would tell her to do what she thinks is the right thing for her and I would go along with whatever she decided. My wife doesn't express any regret whatsoever about her extramarital sex life and hasn't expressed any guilt feelings at all about that. We had a long talk at the time of our original agreement about whether anything in her beliefs or conscience might be a problem with that. She said then and says now, "It's really just fun."

~ Des


And, then, there's this update. We were guests of her boss and his wife earlier today for a Thanksgiving dinner party. Last night, she went on a date with the painting contractor who did some work at our home and fucked her. Each was a bit different, and in different ways, but I'll get around to both those a bit later tonight or tomorrow.
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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by Des 31 » Fri Nov 29, 2019 2:54 am

Early Friday morning: The past few days have been a little different for us.

Wednesday afternoon at the office, the secretary asked my wife to go to a movie with her on the coming Tuesday. Her husband has a date that night with the assistant principal at the school where he teaches. She couldn’t go with her Tuesday for the reason she would be attending a work-related event that night. When she arrived home, she phoned the woman back. A few minutes into their conversation, she suggested the woman could take me to the movie with her instead. She glanced over to me from the phone and I nodded an “okay.”

I asked when she hung up whether she was setting me up for a sex date. She laughed and said, “That’s up to you two. You don’t tell me what to do, so this time I won’t tell you.” In truth, I feel sure this will be entirely social, but I have learned never to be assured of anything our out-of-the-way lives.

My wife was out on a date last night. I’ll get to that in a minute.

* * *
We had Thanksgiving dinner at the home of my wife’s boss and his wife. Among the ten guests, the only others among from her bank were the executive secretary and the CFO. He was an engineer who worked for a NASA contractor, then went back to school to become a CPA. I asked why he got into banking instead of staying in practice as a rocket scientist. He said, “Either way, It’s all numbers.” He told my wife he plans to retire in five years but is thinking about hiring a part-time assistant and he will need to find another accountant to take his job when that comes about.

My wife suggested she knows a smart, young accounting student who would be thrilled working part-time under a professional. She was talking about Beau, and after we left I told her that, considering her sexual connection with him, I had some trepidation over the idea of him working at the same bank. She said that won’t be a problem if he is actually hired. She will have a talk with him to make sure he gives the impression he only knows me “a little through his parents.” She will phone him tonight and ask him to call the CFO to set up an interview as the man requested.

I suppose that could work out. No one has any clue her boss is also fucking her and even he doesn’t know about her relationship with Beau and his roommate friend. I personally couldn’t handle that complication, but she has her own experienced opinions about what she can control.

* * *

My wife’s boss told her she could take five extra days off through the end of December and she’s now off work four days for the long Thanksgiving weekend. Each year, he’s invited to more holiday parties than he can attend. This year, he will split those with my wife who will go to several in his place.

* * *
To avoid the typical office distractions, I was home Wednesday catching up on work. The previous day, she phoned me a half hour before she would be leaving the office to tell me she had a date that night. The painting contractor recently at our home had called her cell phone and asked if she could be free tomorrow. They agreed, dependent on whether it how her husband felt about it. She said, I told him I would call him back from my car when I’m on my way home. So what do you think?” I said she didn’t need to ask. I was fine with that.

This would be a bit different. It isn’t often that she dresses sexy for a date, and it isn’t often that a guy picks her up at our home either. Most often, she drives to the guy’s place ears whatever she wore that day to the office or wherever else she might have been at the time.

She laid out a red dress that was a gift but has only been worn twice in the past year. She asked me to join her in the shower. Each side of that dress has side slits from the waist down that bare a portion of her hips and legs. It doesn’t allow for underclothing.

My wife likes to tease and that turns my mind to mush. She stroked my limp cock in the shower and said, “He’s gonna be fucking your wife tonight, you know.” My dick swelled as she went on with a whine, “He’s gonna be fucking me hard with his big cock after we get to his place at the night club. He’s gonna cum in me, honey. In my married pussy. And when he’s worked me over, he’ll take me home to you.”

I breathed arduously as her fist increased its pace, pumping my stick faster than I could possibly fuck. I said, “Oh yeah, you want that stiff cock, don’t you?” She whimpered in a high-pitched tone, “Oh yes. He’s so good and his cock is so big and strong. I know you like that, a big guy with a big cock inside your wife. He’s gonna fuck me so good.” My knees wobbled and I stammered, “Yeah, I need his cock in your hot cunt as much as you.” She stopped pumping my putz before I was about to spurt and said, “I don’t want to ruin your jack-off later while I’m out.” In truth though, a part of the scenario she weaved was a slight fantasy. I spotted his erect penis briefly at our home when he was about to fuck her on a break from painting our rooms and he’s pretty average in size. Either way, my wife clearly liked it.

He drove up around seven-fifteen and she greeted him with a deep kiss at the door as I watched across the room. She reached for her purse from the couch and turned to say, “I’ll call you on my way home.” He grinned and said to me, “Thanks for the loan,” and she ushered him out the door.

Imagining him fucking my wife that night, I unzipped my fly and jerked off until I was cumming hard into my handkerchief.

Some details about what happened thereafter are a bit fuzzy to me but I have a few particulars as she later related those to me in bed. His former girlfriend is a dancer at a lounge advertising itself as a “gentlemen’s club.” I’ve never been there. He had told the woman about his recently meeting and fucking a married woman and she said she would like to meet her.

Within minutes after the two were seated at a wall-length couch in the place, the woman finished a dance and came over to meet them. My wife said she’s a 27-year-old, raven haired fox with a great figure. She wore a two-piece gold outfit that could have been taken as a revealing swim suit. They conversed about ten minutes. Before the woman was to go back on stage, she asked both if they would care to have a threesome that night at his place. He said to my wife, “What do you think?” My wife asked her if she was bi, although he had already told her the woman has sexual encounters with other women. The girl grinned and said, “Sure am. I’m hoping you are too.” My wife grinned and said, “Sounds like fun.” The woman said she could leave work in a half hour and would meet them at his place.

What happened thereafter is where I’m missing the details for the reason we haven’t had time for a longer talk. Maybe we won’t anyway in that I lack the curiosity I have about most of her hookups. He fucked both women, and she and the dancer were engaged in girl-girl activity for a while. She mentioned to my wife, “I didn’t know he knew women like you. You have ‘class'.”My wife asked what she meant and she responded, “You know, different from the women I work with.”

My wife said the “best part” was that the woman told him she felt she had made a mistake in allowing their relationship to wither and asked if he was interested in seeing her again. He agreed and both indicated they were interested in a deeper, long-term connection. She asked my wife is she would be interested in getting together with them again. My wife somewhat agreed, saying because she’s married and works, it wouldn’t be a regular thing, maybe once every three or four months. The woman said that would be great.

He brought her home about a half hour past midnight. I was already in bed and we had a few minutes’ conversation. Before we both fell asleep, I reminded her, “You said your regular guys most likely wouldn’t be available in December. But your having sex so often before that, it’s like a squirrel storing nuts for the winter. You’re fucking a lot.”

She grinned and said, “Good analogy. These past few days have been great, haven’t they?” I sighed and said, “Yeah, I like it too.” She said, “I knowww. It’s all for you too.”

I know that’s true, but she’s the one getting fucked. :up:

~ Des
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rascalnvixen

Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by rascalnvixen » Fri Nov 29, 2019 5:47 am

Des,

"What happened thereafter is where I’m missing the details for the reason we haven’t had time for a longer talk. Maybe we won’t anyway in that I lack the curiosity I have about most of her hookups." Guess who does have the curiosity?? ME!!!! And I'll bet just about every other fan of your thread wants to know also!! You have to be kidding us!! With all the interest and comments about her FLAG group in high school, how can you not get the details for your fans??? YOU have an obligation to find out all the details and report them as you were taught!!!! :lol: Ok, I guess I'm a little over the line in the way I requested this, but I hope you get the message that it would be great to hear about her 3some with the painter. I'm pretty sure hearing about all of her sexual encounters turns you on and how could this not??

Anyway, I appreciate the update, wonderful as usual! So, another opportunity arises in the executive secretary! From the way you wrote of your wife's response, it sounds like she's giving you another green light to have sex with her, if that is what you want. If I remember correctly, the secretary has an interesting sexual background as well. You might be doing your wife a favor if you were to take the secretary to bed. Since your wife made the offer and if the secretary is looking for something new, she might feel a greater loyalty to your wife in a personal and business manner. What you do is going to be very interesting to us, your fans. The secretary has a good bit of time to prepare and think about things so don't be surprised if her hands start to wander in the darkened theater!! :shock: Who knows, but it is fun to think about!! :mrgreen:

Have a great weekend and please let us know what you find out about the 3some when you have more time with wifey this weekend.

Rascal

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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by ericsacto » Fri Nov 29, 2019 5:58 am

Aww. Your wife helped bring the painter contractor and dancer back together again. Maybe she can open a couples counseling business where she uses alternative therapy techniques.

Did the contractor or dancer take advantage of your wife being without undergarments in the club? My wife and I have gone to stripe clubs and I enjoy watching her get lap dances from the dancers. She has even taken her bra off before the dance to have more fun.

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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by Des 31 » Fri Nov 29, 2019 9:23 am

rascalnvixen wrote:
Fri Nov 29, 2019 5:47 am
Des,

"From the way you wrote of your wife's response, it sounds like she's giving you another green light to have sex with her, if that is what you want. If I remember correctly, the secretary has an interesting sexual background as well. You might be doing your wife a favor if you were to take the secretary to bed. Since your wife made the offer and if the secretary is looking for something new, she might feel a greater loyalty to your wife in a personal and business manner. What you do is going to be very interesting to us, your fans. The secretary has a good bit of time to prepare and think about things so don't be surprised if her hands start to wander in the darkened theater!! :shock: Who knows, but it is fun to think about!! :mrgreen:

Have a great weekend and please let us know what you find out about the 3some when you have more time with wifey this weekend.

Rascal
Yeah, I wrote about the secretary's past here before. She had a long-running affair with the former bank president up until he retired and her and my wife's boss was promoted. Her husband has a long-running affair with the assistant principal at the school where he teaches and the woman didn't want to give that up when she was recently married. Now their boss occasionally fucks their secretary also and my wife has been with her once at their home. My wife tells she expects the two of us to have sex that night and she's okay with that.

I asked my wife this morning if she ever tells guys she "belongs to" them. That thought crossed my mind when Jack was fucking her at our home and she made a comparable comment about him and his friend. She said she hasn't but, "Do you want me to?" I told her I thought the guys would like that. She said she isn't sure how that could come up but will think about it. She said, "Maybe I could respond with, 'I belong to you tonight,' but I'm unsure he would really like that. It's kind of an arms-length relationship." She added that she hasn't before told me she has compared my dick with his when they have been together. I'm an ordinary size, his is bigger. I told her I liked that and she laughed, saying, "I sort of knew you would."

I don't know why I find that idea intriguing. She says he often asks what I'm doing at the time they're fucking and maybe, she says, she might tell him something like, "I'm not sure but I'm yours tonight." She says that's pretty much the way it is anyway when she's having sex with others. Odd thoughts sometimes cross my mind but I don't want to push her into doing something she isn't comfortable with.

~ Des

Added on a minute later: I came back to this with another thought. Part of the reason she isn't comfortable saying that to anyone is she doesn't like the feeling of being "belonged" to anyone and she did say that to me. The way she see all this is that she has the freedom to do what she wants sexually and I already knew that about her.
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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by Des 31 » Fri Nov 29, 2019 9:28 am

ericsacto wrote:
Fri Nov 29, 2019 5:58 am
Aww. Your wife helped bring the painter contractor and dancer back together again. Maybe she can open a couples counseling business where she uses alternative therapy techniques.

Did the contractor or dancer take advantage of your wife being without undergarments in the club? My wife and I have gone to stripe clubs and I enjoy watching her get lap dances from the dancers. She has even taken her bra off before the dance to have more fun.
Not when in the club, but both liked fooling around with my wife in that dress when they arrived at his home, before having their threesome. I still haven't asked for details and she hasn't again mentioned anything about it. That's happened on occasion in the past and I think she can tell when I'm not overly curious at times.
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Re: My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

Unread post by samlowen » Fri Nov 29, 2019 10:21 am

Has she ever thought about flipping the script and telling her men that tonight their cocks belong to her to cum on as much as she wants?

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