Her number1 wrote: Sat Dec 06, 2025 5:55 pm
Thanks!
Our lives are good, it would be greedy to want more.
Farmgirl is still seeing her boyfriend as much as they can.
The other day he asked, "What are we, FWB, lovers, boyfriend/girlfriend?" She said, " I'll never leave (My number!), but I'll be whatever you want. "
That is such a fantastic little response…. I know how amazing that would make me feel as a hotwife husband and imagine you felt much the same.
You're right, it made me feel fantastic. In more ways than one.
WOW...I just finished reading all these posts(122 pages). Started months ago reading when I got the time between breaks at work and chores at home. With so much detail from both Farmgirl & HN1, at times I would lose track of time.
Now it all came to a halt! Kinda like in the movie The Truman Show.
I'm one who learned alot from your adventures. Trying to get my wife to understand about this LS and how I feel about her happiness.
Hope to hear more of Farmgirl's fun...
Phillyguy15 wrote: Fri Feb 13, 2026 12:27 pm
WOW...I just finished reading all these posts(122 pages). Started months ago reading when I got the time between breaks at work and chores at home. With so much detail from both Farmgirl & HN1, at times I would lose track of time.
Now it all came to a halt! Kinda like in the movie The Truman Show.
I'm one who learned alot from your adventures. Trying to get my wife to understand about this LS and how I feel about her happiness.
Hope to hear more of Farmgirl's fun...
Thank you for reading and enjoying it all! We enjoyed telling about our whole learning journey, and hoped that others could maybe benefit from our bumps and potholes.
It's a great journey we're on, it's been amazing for our marriage.
How much have you discussed with your wife?
Is it something you actually want?
Sorry…Everything I wrote just up and disappeared. I was just finishing up my story and answer, when I got signed off. So I will try again, but I will shorten my story. Unfortunately the longer version explains a lot.
As far as our discussion goes, I talked to her about a number of things. One reading the book “Three Marriage Enigmas”. She wasn’t interested. Asked about her fantasies, “I’m too old for fantasies”. Even porn that we use to watch. I have ED issues from time to time. Mostly because she doesn’t want to have sex and always wants it the same way, vanilla. She does have an orgasm, that I make sure of. We are in our 60’s. I told her when we got married 31 yrs ago, if she ever wanted to get with someone else(for a change), just talk to me. FYI- We cheated on our first marriage with each other. Also, I even gave her a hall pass, just tell me about it. As much as I would love to see her with someone else, I told her she can go solo(if she knows the person)(safety reasons). She did say she wanted to do a friend about 15 years ago. I’ve tried to make it happen from time to time. Now not interested. I told her to look up what compersion means and maybe she will understand. Not to my knowledge. It’s looking like she isn’t interested in being a hotwife. She feels that she’s too old and fat to do that. 5’6 140lbs. 34B great ass. I know she is still hot, when I have friends who would love to do her. So it isn’t too old.
A little history, Back in the 90’s, there was a couple of guys she was talking to online AOL(old dial- up). First guy didn’t pan out.(it could’ve been the place we were meeting or that I was there). The second guy she was talking to online, we met with him at a hotel about 20 miles from us. We met at the hotel bar for some drinks and finger food. He had a room reserved and we went up to his room to get to know each other better. They went at it and I watched TV. Happened to be Super Bowl Sunday, so I watched both the game and them. I gave them as much space as I could without going into the bathroom and waiting, haha. They went at it for about 3 hours, he came once and using a condom, She didn’t have an orgasm. After that we went out to eat dinner and returned to the room. Round 2 was about the same just not as long. I had to join them to get her off. Understand what I’m about to say is NOT shaming anyone. It’s just a little bit of information of what I think she was thinking and feeling. First off, He was a perfect gentleman and even had roses for. He treated her like a queen. He was a very large person. About 5’9 and weighed about 275-300 lbs. Also he was smaller than me. Me at the time I was 6’2 and 215 and an average white male down there. She definitely liked him but I think she had a issue with his size. I don’t know that for sure because she wouldn’t say. We even met with him a second time, but this time he brought his wife. Again she didn’t get off with him. When it came to his wife and me, that was interesting. Again not shaming, she was bigger than her husband. Going down on her was fine. She had a few orgasms. When it came to intercourse that was the issue. I’m not that big to get into her and no matter how much I ask her to straddle me, she wouldn’t. She said she was afraid she would crush me(no joke). I never got into her even tried doggy. I finished with my wife later.
My wife won’t even talk about what we did with that couple. It’s like it never happened.
I just want to see the look of total joy and happiness on her face when someone else makes love to her.
I am as ready as you can be, Absolutely yes!
Sorry that happened -- although the server appears to be functioning optimally at this moment, and it's not under a heavy load. Can you PM me any details e.g. what browser you're using, etc?
You should start a new thread to tell your story - the Wannabe forum is a good place if you're hoping she'll eventually get back to playing.
Thank you for the Wannabe forum suggestion. As to losing and getting kicked off, that happens on my cellphone from time to time. When I go to post anything of length, I need to use my iPad or computer.
Phillyguy15 wrote: Mon Feb 16, 2026 11:09 am
Thank you for the Wannabe forum suggestion. As to losing and getting kicked off, that happens on my cellphone from time to time. When I go to post anything of length, I need to use my iPad or computer.
I didn't mean to ignor you. I had a 9 wt. steer decide to get in my pocket, now I have a broken collar bone.
When I can think a little clearer, I'll to get back to ya.
Phillyguy15 wrote: Mon Feb 16, 2026 11:09 am
Thank you for the Wannabe forum suggestion. As to losing and getting kicked off, that happens on my cellphone from time to time. When I go to post anything of length, I need to use my iPad or computer.
I didn't mean to ignor you. I had a 9 wt. steer decide to get in my pocket, now I have a broken collar bone.
When I can think a little clearer, I'll to get back to ya.
Thanks to @leggysman for helping out here.
Rest up! We don't recover like we did when we were younger. It's not as easy to bounce right back. Take care of yourself. Farmgirl would be lost without you, of that I'm certain!
Hope is not a strategy but it's still good to have! Especially if you don't have a strategy!
I get my denial the old fashion way, I married vanilla!
Her number1 wrote: Mon Feb 16, 2026 2:36 pm
I had a 9 wt. steer decide to get in my pocket, now I have a broken collar bone.
When I can think a little clearer, I'll to get back to ya.
I am so sorry. I can relate. A bit over two years ago one of our mares bolted and kicked me in my chest. I hope, you will recover quickly!
What could be more satisfying than seeing the woman you love in pleasure and satisfaction, closely followed by the afterglow when she comes back home?
Thanks to each of you for the well wishes!
I had surgery to put it all back together again, and I'm about to get over the general trauma to, it feels like, all of me .
One thing about the past two weeks of having to hang around the house is getting to hear Farmgirl on the phone with Allen a few times each day .
Glad to hear you are on the mend. I was wondering about Farmgirl because neither of you have posted anything of her adventures since December… Get well because FG is going to need her prize worked on.
Thanks to those of you who have checked in.
Both of us are doing good, and she is still seeing Allen. Life is good! Having a hotwife is, and has been, great.
I realize we have been absent for a while. It's just a combination of normal things.
She lost interest in posting for the same reason most VHW do, a lack of respect.
As she lost interest in posting, my interest for the site waned as well.
I urge each of you to take notice of how few VHW post with any regularity, they get tired of the disrespect of the hotwife's opinion and point of view. Eventually, they come to it's just not worth sharing what they love to do.
Unfortunately people will be just that people. Keyboard warriors are a real menace in all aspects of life.
Tell farmgirl for us that she is just great from our point of view, nothing but respect.
Her number1 wrote: Mon Jul 06, 2026 7:41 am........ they get tired of the disrespect .......... Eventually, they come to it's just not worth sharing what they love to do.
That's how I felt as a classroom teacher in the end. I didn't start out that way.
Hope is not a strategy but it's still good to have! Especially if you don't have a strategy!
I get my denial the old fashion way, I married vanilla!
Number1 and Farmgirl - good to know that both of you are well. It is a shame that a few feel "bold" enough to pass judgement and disrespect the VHWs (and their better halves) who give us a peek into some of the most intimate aspects of this LS.
tonasketcouple wrote: Mon Jul 06, 2026 7:50 am
Unfortunately people will be just that people. Keyboard warriors are a real menace in all aspects of life.
Tell farmgirl for us that she is just great from our point of view, nothing but respect.
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