sissy cuckold club

[bradisalpha]

I have had many cuckolds PM me and confess their cravings to become submissive sissies to their wife and bf's... And some simply to an Alpha Dominant Male.

I find these urges are very common among cuckolds and cuckold wannabe's. Some have even selected or been given sissy names for themselves (dannie, toni, mattie, etc) and thrive on their cravings to admit and discuss their innermost feelings and desires with someone that understands how intense these feelings can be and will listen patiently to them and assist them on their journey.

This is normally a very private matter and many will not admit or discuss it openly on the forum. So I am offering a "private sissy cuckold club" for these cuckolds/cuckold wannabe's that want someone to openly discuss their cravings within a private PM setting.

If you want to talk, PM me... Or post here if you are more open about your cravings.

Brad

[Littlemissspider]

I'm glad these guys exist.

[Cuckyboy3]

Brad, thank you for posting this. I have secretly harbored cuckold fantasies for a long time but my wife rejected the idea years ago. In the past 2 years I have been feeling intense shame about a growing inner desire to be forced to dress as a sissy and then serve my wife and her bull. I dream that when I don't dress properly in my chemise and panties in his presence, he manhandles me, ties me down over a sofa, and whips my ass really hard with his belt while my wife watches and enjoys. Once he brings me to tears, he then fucks my wife right in front of me to establish his dominance. When he is done, he makes me suck him clean. My wife squats down to let the ejaculated semen drip out into her panties, and then she gags me with the panties and makes me stand in the corner. While I am standing there with blistering bottom, she tells me "next time don't be caught not wearing your sissy outfit."

I am ashamed of myself even as I write this in a public forum. I think if my wife ever found out it would be the end of my already minimal sex life with her.

Are there others like me?

Cuckyboy3

[bradisalpha]

cuckyboy3,

Yes.. There are many others like you.. Hopefully they will post here also and feel the freedom you are feeling by admitting it in a public forum. Most PM me and talk with more privacy. Either way sets you free.

Do you want to admit the size of your little dicky here also ??

Brad

[Cuckyboy3]

Yes why not... I am 4.75 inches long at full erection and 7/8 inch in diameter.

My wife has never complained about my size but she has made her disappointment clear when I cannot last for more than about 15-20 strokes, or about 90 seconds. No amount of breathing exercises have helped. This, more so than my size, has led to a catastrophic decline in frequency of sex (averaging once every 3 months).

[bradisalpha]

cuckyboy3,

Your little dicky sounds very cute !!

sissies get so excited when they feel a warm wet pussy, don't they ?? I find it very amusing to see a sissy cum in less than 90 seconds. And after I am done with their wife I ask if they would like sloppy seconds. Of course they always say yes !! And then I tell them that I am going to count down and as soon as they cum I expect them to clean us both. As they enter, I begin counting the seconds down and watch as they try not to cum too fast. But the excitement normally overwhelms them (of course I tease them in between !!) and they normally cum within 15 to 30 seconds.. Sometimes faster !! Sometimes as they begin to enter !!

And how many times do you play with your little dicky each day thinking about this ??

It is very exciting, isn't it ??

Brad

[bradisalpha]

D+D,

Would you like to describe some these traits for the forum.. Or would you prefer talking privately ??

Brad

[Paradox2001]

Master Brad, Sir: I was on your "from the beginning thread". To recap, my wife dominates me with occasional spankings, and she has a specific cuckold fantasy but keeps it a fantasy only, so far. Her role for me is as her "little boy", spanking me and sending me to the corner. She imagines making me watch from the corner while her lover fucks her and cums on her tities. Then she tells her "little boy" to come get his "milk" from her tities.

I believe a submissive husband should become a sissy only if his wife wants him to be a sissy. My wife has not gone down that road. (yet?) Being a submissive to her lover is another story. If He wants a sissy, He should get a sissy. I can imagine, Sir Brad, that a dom like you would want the husband and the wife to dress to please you. When you order that cuckold on his knees to suck your cock, you probably want to look down at a slim, fit, feminine sissy-cuck; not some overweight hairy man. If the husband is going to dress his wife sexy and present her to you, he should show you the respect of presenting himself to you in a pleasing way. That might include: (correct me if I am wrong)
1. Use body hair removal cream from the neck down and soften the skin.
2. Dress in a tight corset, long sheer stockings, high heels, long gloves.
3. Paint the toenails and fingernails. (What color do you want them, Brad?)
4. Glossy lipstick. (Red?) Eye shadow, mascara, rouge, skin foundation.
5. Feminine hair style.
Of course I don't want to be telling you what you want. I'd rather do what pleases you. So let me know if this is the right way to present to you. (maybe not initially, but once you get full control) If I were lucky enough to bring my wife to you for a thorough fucking, I would want her to be dressed to kill; and I would try my best to dress the part that you demand. With respect, Paradox

[bradisalpha]

I would start by recognizing my fascination with panties and all things lingerie and my desire for my wife to give herself to a Dom, alpha male.

Go on ...

Sir

[bradisalpha]

Master Brad, Sir: I was on your "from the beginning thread". To recap, my wife dominates me with occasional spankings, and she has a specific cuckold fantasy but keeps it a fantasy only, so far. Her role for me is as her "little boy", spanking me and sending me to the corner. She imagines making me watch from the corner while her lover fucks her and cums on her tities. Then she tells her "little boy" to come get his "milk" from her tities.

I believe a submissive husband should become a sissy only if his wife wants him to be a sissy. My wife has not gone down that road. (yet?) Being a submissive to her lover is another story. If He wants a sissy, He should get a sissy. I can imagine, Sir Brad, that a dom like you would want the husband and the wife to dress to please you. When you order that cuckold on his knees to suck your cock, you probably want to look down at a slim, fit, feminine sissy-cuck; not some overweight hairy man. If the husband is going to dress his wife sexy and present her to you, he should show you the respect of presenting himself to you in a pleasing way. That might include: (correct me if I am wrong)
1. Use body hair removal cream from the neck down and soften the skin.
2. Dress in a tight corset, long sheer stockings, high heels, long gloves.
3. Paint the toenails and fingernails. (What color do you want them, Brad?)
4. Glossy lipstick. (Red?) Eye shadow, mascara, rouge, skin foundation.
5. Feminine hair style.
Of course I don't want to be telling you what you want. I'd rather do what pleases you. So let me know if this is the right way to present to you. (maybe not initially, but once you get full control) If I were lucky enough to bring my wife to you for a thorough fucking, I would want her to be dressed to kill; and I would try my best to dress the part that you demand. With respect, Paradox

The wife and BF would be in agreement of your submission and sissifying so it shouldn't matter which prefers it. You, on the other hand will obey either/or.
1. Yes
2. Very nice.. Or transparent pink bikini panties and matching chemise.
3. Red
4. Red.. I love makeup.. Slightly overdone
5. Yes
I would want her dressed classy/slutty

Brad

[Paradox2001]

Background: My wife occasionally spanks me and sends her "little boy" to the corner. It's sometimes an erotic spanking as a prelude to sex, but this time it was a more severe punishment spanking. Meanwhile, I've been having thoughts recently of being feminized but have been afraid to tell her about my sissy fantasies.

It started on a recent Friday evening. She told me it was time for a spanking and that I would be spanked very hard in a day or so. A couple days went by and nothing happened. Very nervously, I brought up the idea of her putting her panties on me when spanking time came, saying that it would help her turn off my male ego switch. She reacted with surprise, wanting to know where this new fetish was coming from. I asked her to just be open minded and think about it before she said "No". The next day I brought it up again and it pissed her off. She said "You don't tell me how to conduct a spanking!" So I figured it was not going to happen.

Several days of nervous anticipation followed. Then on Wednesday I was taken by surprise when she told me to get on my knees and look at her. She started slapping my face. Soon she was ranting about all the things I had done recently that made her angry. I had no idea about some of them. She went on for several long minutes and each sentence was punctuated with a slap. My left check was red and numb. She told me I was going to get a very severe spanking and then she left the room but told me not to get up until she returned. She returned and gave me some corner time.

The next day I was expecting a hard spanking. She went out with her girlfriend and then went shopping, not to return until the afternoon. I was in a state of nervous anticipation, but when she came home she completely ignored me. Then suddenly she called me to the bedroom and told me to strip naked, put on the wrist cuffs and attached some ropes, and tie up my balls with the thin cord. (bootlace size) I have a way of tying up my balls for her in a "harness" which separates them, making them bulge out sideways and tightening the skin around them. Then I attach a long cord which acts as a leash. When she pulls me by the leash the cord cinches by balls even tighter.

After walking me on my knees like her little "puppy", she took me into the kitchen and bent me over the center island counter. Then she stretched my arms out in front of me and tied them to the drawer handles. She pulled them hard and told me to get up on my tip toes. When I did that my balls were now on the counter top rather the just hanging. I don't think she planned on this, but she immediately spotted the opportunity to keep me on my toes. She had tied the wrist ropes together in front of me, so she simply pulled the ball leash up to the ropes and tied it on. Suddenly I was in predicament bondage. If I did not stay on my toes, I would be literally hanging by my balls. If I tried to rest my calves by resting on the counter, it put a lot of pressure on my balls.

Then the spanking commenced. She used a very large, heavy, Victorian style hairbrush. I was spanked long and hard and not allowed to utter a word. No safe word. Only nodding or shaking my head to her accusatory questions. After a very hard spanking, she left the room saying she would be right back. This made me nervous. When she returned, she told me to lift one foot and then the other. I realized she was putting some underwear on me just as she said: "I don't like looking at that red bottom. It makes me hesitate, but I want to spank you harder so I'm going to cover it up." I thought for sure it was just my underwear, but when she brought it up and it barely covered my balls, I realized it was pair of her V-cut panties. OMG. The she went about spanking me some more. I got a very long hard spanking in her panties!

The surprise to me was that even the very thin sheer panties created a little buffer which took away some of the sting from the hairbrush so it was easier to endure the blows. I don't know if she sensed that, but she spanked me even harder than before the panties. After the spanking, she released me and had me stand in the corner with my nose pressed in while she lectured me. The panties were still on. While she lectured me she gave me a few more spanks. Then she dragged me by the ball leash to the bedroom.

In the bedroom, she laid me on my back. Panties still on. She made me suck her nipples and her clitoris for a long time. Then she lowered herself on my cock and fucked herself to a hard orgasm. She hopped off before I could get even close to coming and told me there would be no satisfaction for me for a while. I expected to be locked in the cock cage, but she just warned me not to get hard or touch myself.

Several days later, she brought up the panties to help make me hard when she was wanting to fuck in the middle of the night, but that is for another story.

Sissy Roxy

[Paradox2001]

When we first got the cock cage, several years ago, it was frequent. She got off on it and loved to caress my tight balls hanging out. She teased me with it on, but released me just a few days later. I think she couldn't go as long as I could. LOL But in the last couple years, it is infrequent. The novelty wore off for her. Roxy

[Paradox2001]

D+D, One never gives up hope!

[bradisalpha]

roxy,

I would like to hear the story of her bringing up the panties later when she wanted to fuck.

Brad

[Paradox2001]

Yes Sir. It's a short story. Second night after the spanking she woke up in the middle of the night and could not get back to sleep. So she woke me up wanting a little "sleep inducer". She was rubbing my cock but I was not getting hard. So she said "Remember the spanking with my panties on you? Did you like that?" That hardened me up and we had a nice fuck, which relaxed her and she went right back to sleep.

I'm not sure where the panty wearing is going. Maybe just a one time thing. Maybe not. The Queen has not yet ruled!
Roxy (sissy wannabe)

[bradisalpha]

roxy,

Good story !!

Keep us updated...

Brad

[bradisalpha]

The response has been larger than I expected with the offer to private message and discuss the deepest thoughts and sissy cravings of the cuckolds and cuckold wannabe's here. These urges are so hard to keep hidden inside and they simply need someone to talk openly with .. To share these feelings, urges and experiences. I hope to hear from many more. Don't be shy.. PM me.

Brad

[Paradox2001]

Sir, I agree and really appreciate the opportunity to share the most intimate cravings with just you, and to get helpful suggestions and personalized advice. I encourage others to do the same.

Let's also encourage readers of this thread, especially sissys or sissy wanabes, to post on this thread some of those things they are willing to share with general readers. It can still be anonymous. This is one of the most important threads on OHW and is a great resource for those who have the sissy mindset.

Your sissy, Roxy

[minuteboy]

When we started out in cuckolding I did not have any sissy fantasies. But as time has passed, I find my self thinking how fun it would be if we had a long term friend who would slowly turn me into a sissy with my wife helping him. In my fantasy he brings it up to her. After that, it goes many different ways depending on my mood. I have discussed these thoughts with an online friend, but never posted anything about them anywhere.

[Rebecca]

Cum out cum out wherever you are pretty gurls. I too get more PMs than I thought I would once I came out. Both from those still scared to admit in public but also from guys who want to play with gurls like us

[Paradox2001]

This is a follow up to prior postings on this thread, especially "First time spanked with Panties on" The day after the spanking, I brought up the panties but she told me not to talk about it. So for several days I just focused on treating her like The Queen. She likes me to bow down and be attentive.

After about 10 days, I walked into the bedroom and the panties were lying on my pillow. As I picked them up she said "Those are for you. Put them in your drawer". I was very happy and showed my gratitude.

Incidentally, that pair of panties is too big for her. She has a nice little ass.

Roxy

[wannabecuck69]

i have similar fantasies like Rebecca, but have not acted on them yet.
When we were first married, my wife really got into FemDom activities since she knew this turned me on and would dress me up as a sissy maid, paint my toenails and make me do all of the house work on a Saturday while she laid on the couch watching TV. However, after numerous years of this play she actually cuckolding me once (6 times over about 2 months), but shortly afterwards she tired of this and tired of all FemDom play. She has confessed she just wants a real man and needs me to be this.
Now i just dress when she is out of town and read sissy cuckold stories, jerk off while i have a anal vibrator rub my prostate.
So my question here is, how does a married guy become a sissy without his wife's participation and become a genuine slut for cock? I've tried a few websites but no luck and since i can't host, that really narrows the search.
Looking for suggestions and ideas to help me become a real sissy.

[bobbiecd]

i have similar fantasies like Rebecca, but have not acted on them yet.
When we were first married, my wife really got into FemDom activities since she knew this turned me on and would dress me up as a sissy maid, paint my toenails and make me do all of the house work on a Saturday while she laid on the couch watching TV. However, after numerous years of this play she actually cuckolding me once (6 times over about 2 months), but shortly afterwards she tired of this and tired of all FemDom play. She has confessed she just wants a real man and needs me to be this.
Now i just dress when she is out of town and read sissy cuckold stories, jerk off while i have a anal vibrator rub my prostate.
So my question here is, how does a married guy become a sissy without his wife's participation and become a genuine slut for cock? I've tried a few websites but no luck and since i can't host, that really narrows the search.
Looking for suggestions and ideas to help me become a real sissy.

Rule #1: the toothpaste cannot go back in the tube.

Short of getting permission to play -- which I highly doubt would happen -- you'd have to cheat. If you have to cheat to have your needs met, the relationship is all but over. I'm of the opinion that having a willing partner for ANY fetish, or kink, usually results in boundaries being stretched to points where there is no going back. When I read some of the cuckold posts in which a partner says that at any time, they could quit the lifestyle, I murmur "bullshit" under my breath. The whole point of fetishistic behaviors -- including paraphilias? -- is to spice up a sexual situation, or to have dysfunctional? needs met. In short, unless you can stay satisfied with porn, or the wife reverses course, you've a tough road to hoe. Once an individual has had a taste of something amazing, it's a natural instinct to want more until they tire of it and then boundaries need to stretch more for the next fix. Having said that, people quit smoking, drinking and drugging, so my guess is that a sexual addiction is reversible as well...I just don't know how yet.

[bobbiecd]

i have similar fantasies like Rebecca, but have not acted on them yet.
When we were first married, my wife really got into FemDom activities since she knew this turned me on and would dress me up as a sissy maid, paint my toenails and make me do all of the house work on a Saturday while she laid on the couch watching TV. However, after numerous years of this play she actually cuckolding me once (6 times over about 2 months), but shortly afterwards she tired of this and tired of all FemDom play. She has confessed she just wants a real man and needs me to be this.
Now i just dress when she is out of town and read sissy cuckold stories, jerk off while i have a anal vibrator rub my prostate.
So my question here is, how does a married guy become a sissy without his wife's participation and become a genuine slut for cock? I've tried a few websites but no luck and since i can't host, that really narrows the search.
Looking for suggestions and ideas to help me become a real sissy.

Rule #1: the toothpaste cannot go back in the tube.

Short of getting permission to play -- which I highly doubt would happen -- you'd have to cheat. If you have to cheat to have your needs met, the relationship is all but over. I'm of the opinion that having a willing partner for ANY fetish, or kink, usually results in boundaries being stretched to points where there is no going back. When I read some of the cuckold posts in which a partner says that at any time, they could quit the lifestyle, I murmur "bullshit" under my breath. The whole point of fetishistic behaviors -- including paraphilias? -- is to spice up a sexual situation, or to have dysfunctional? needs met. In short, unless you can stay satisfied with porn, or the wife reverses course, you've a tough road to hoe. Once an individual has had a taste of something amazing, it's a natural instinct to want more until they tire of it and then boundaries need to stretch more for the next fix. Having said that, people quit smoking, drinking and drugging, so my guess is that a sexual addiction is reversible as well...I just don't know how yet.

Lot of truth here. Cheating is no good for a relationship no matter if it's cheating with someone of the same sex. Whether "dressing up" in private, by yourself is cheating, or not, is anyone's opinion. I personally think not, but I suppose a wife could feel betrayed.
I also agree that when something that was fun becomes mundane, the envelope is usually pushed to get back that high.
I disagree that any lifestyle can't be stopped if any two partners both agree for any reason that its in their best interest to stop. I trust my wife in this regard that if we agree to stop she will.

Sorry, I should've been clearer. When I said "cheat", I meant with another person.

[Paradox2001]

i have similar fantasies like Rebecca, but have not acted on them yet.
When we were first married, my wife really got into FemDom activities since she knew this turned me on and would dress me up as a sissy maid, paint my toenails and make me do all of the house work on a Saturday while she laid on the couch watching TV. However, after numerous years of this play she actually cuckolding me once (6 times over about 2 months), but shortly afterwards she tired of this and tired of all FemDom play. She has confessed she just wants a real man and needs me to be this.
Now i just dress when she is out of town and read sissy cuckold stories, jerk off while i have a anal vibrator rub my prostate.
So my question here is, how does a married guy become a sissy without his wife's participation and become a genuine slut for cock? I've tried a few websites but no luck and since i can't host, that really narrows the search.
Looking for suggestions and ideas to help me become a real sissy.

Wannabecuck69, I see some replies from other sissys and CDs. I empathize with your situation. I walk a fine line about cheating. Technically, doing anything behind your spouse's back is cheating, but it is a matter of how far you go before you cross your own line. All who post on this site without their spouse knowing are technically cheating. But having sex or being dominated by another person in reality is a really big line to cross if she is not on board. I won't judge you if that's where you want to go. We all have our own limits and take our own risks. However, another alternative might be to work on getting your wife to go along and/or participate. I know this is obvious and you would do so if you thought she would agree. But sometimes taking an unconventional approach can work. I never thought my wife would put me in panties, but with a very subtle approach, it happened. Take the replies on this post as suggestions only. Everyone who has replied is just trying to be helpful to you. Keep posting. Your sissy sisters are hoping you find a solution that works for you, even if it may not get you what you want immediately.
Sister Roxy