Are you into hotwifing as you want bigger

[Martyn0888]

Are you a hotwife because you want a bigger dick than your husband has ?

After digging into my wife past I've found out that I'm one of the smaller men she has been with even tho I'm slightly over average in length and girth , she has always told me that she isn't into big ones and I'm her perfect size but when we look for people that she could potentially do it with the ones she chooses are all 7+ but says she has a limit of 8inch and she's liked the look of 1 person but decided not to talk to him as he looked like he was on the smaller side but then started talking to a bloke that was 8 and half inches so to me it seems she wants to be a hotwife to let's say get the feeling she used to back when she was 18/19 which is fine with me I just wish she would just tell me , when I first told her my fantasy about her being with another man I thought she would say a massive no but she didn't and I've been puzzled that she said she would and I'm now thinking it's because she misses something bigger

[AZVixen]

No.

Size is nothing. There are several threads on this subject here, and if you read them, the majority of "real" women here say size is NOT important. It's more about looks, skill, and having a connection.

Lots of guys here will say their wife needs big dick. Lots of so called women here will say they need big dick (of course those "women" never seem to get verified lol). Pay attention to what real women say. Pay attention to what your own wife says. Don't assume she's daydreaming about giant dicks.

[Martyn0888]

No.

Size is nothing. There are several threads on this subject here, and if you read them, the majority of "real" women here say size is NOT important. It's more about looks, skill, and having a connection.

Lots of guys here will say their wife needs big dick. Lots of so called women here will say they need big dick (of course those "women" never seem to get verified lol). Pay attention to what real women say. Pay attention to what your own wife says. Don't assume she's daydreaming about giant dicks.

That is always what my wife says that it's not about the size and that aslong as there is a connection and he looks good a knows how to use it she is happy , it just seems odd that she wouldn't talk to someone she thought was good looking because he was on the smaller size etc it just got me thinking that was all

[2inUPMichigan]

No absolutely not.

This keeps coming up and each time no matter what some of us say there are those that don't seem to believe us.

I have never measured any man. I don't care to. I don't have any idea what size any man is that I have had sex with and don't care to know.

What is important? Does he turn me on mentally? Does he have fun with sex and not rush to the finish line? Does he know how to use what he has? (Each man regardless of his size should know what positions work best for him) Is he a one hit wonder or does he have a bit of variety in his bag of tricks? (Don't be boring or a jackhammer) If he leads with a dick pic then I am not interested because chances are he is only interested in his dick and nothing else.


A man can be good looking and a complete jerk - why would I want anything to do with him? If a man has a boring or empty profile online I'm passing him by because I figure if he doesn't take the time to present himself well online he won't put any effort into our time together.

[samlowen]

Not in the slightest. My wife wants the experience of variety and size has never played into her decision making process. It's all about the guy and her attraction to him and his personality. In many of the cases it's the husband who desires the large cock, not the wife.

[mike4fun84]

We have not started in the lifestyle, but have been talking for a while about it. My wife has always been fascinated in general by large cocks, in our conversations and in porn we watch. She told when we started dating that one bf she had long before me was 9". She never said how "good" he was. Fast forward through many years of marriage, she recently admitted to me that she has only cum from just penetration alone, about 3-4 times in her life. She didn’t want to tell me who it was, but I convinced her I wouldn’t be mad or upset. I figured it was Mr. 9" but it was not. She said it was guy she dated and fucked at a sports camp years ago (long before me and Mr.9") and that he was very thick and she came every time from just his cock. Then she said she wants to experience vaginal orgasms again! She did say she wants to try to have them with me, but while my cock is longer than average, it is pretty thin in girth.

I know my wife (and probably the same for most gfs or wives) does not want hurt my feelings by ever saying that I don't please her. Anyway I now know that I can make her cum with my penis during penetration along with some simultaneous clit stimulation by me. It has worked several times since she told me about it, and has been great for her and I. That said, I do believe some women get excited in there mind, by the idea of a larger cock. Also, since the clitoral structure travels deep around the vaginal walls, it would make sense to me that a larger cock could stimulate the woman more in that area. But there are so many paths to pleasure, I think that most women would not pick a guy for his cock alone, but it might be fun and exciting for her to have a larger cock, as long as the rest of the package is what she wants and he gets her hot.

[Msn75]

For my wife, she likes variety, hot sex, the thrill of someone new, going against the grain of society’s norms, and just plain fun.

And all those things combined. I can’t give her variety all by myself. I gave her the thrill of someone new once (we fucked 3 times on our first date). I join in her in celebrating going against the norms. We still have lots of fun and hot sex.

Bigger? Sure, she’ll take it when she can find it. Most of the men she has fucked outside of our marriage have been smaller than me. That hasn’t stopped her from having multiple orgasms with them

[Farmgirl]

The size of a man's dick is so far down my list of things that it is laughable. By and large, when the subject comes up it is always by a man and about what a man fantasizes about.
A bigger one might be enjoyable or it might not be, and not for me. I can reach my g-spot with my finger, so not much more is needed. The important part is a connection with the guy, is he funny with a good sense of humor, can he carry on a conversation, is he a "man" and does "man" things, do his eyes smile. Those are some things that get my attention, with them I don't think about his dick until I unwrap it. Average to under average is my choice.

This question comes up so often because men are obsessed with thinking about big dicks. Enjoy it guys, but don't project it on us.

[AZVixen]

Here's the problem with polls. The question was for us ladies. 3 of us verified women have stated no. Now, there are 6 "yes" answers in the actual poll results. I guarantee you that those were answered by men.

You guys crack me up.

[Her number1]

Here's the problem with polls. The question was for us ladies. 3 of us verified women have stated no. Now, there are 6 "yes" answers in the actual poll results. I guarantee you that those were answered by men.

You guys crack me up.

They're obsessed with big dicks, it's all some of them can think of.
I'm sure there's a forum for that obsession.

[Parsifal]

My wife prefers them big. She even advertised on her AM profile that "Size Matters", although she's backed away from that more recently. She's working two lovers now, one thicker, the other longer, than I. I'm above average.

I've known guys who are suckers (no pun? maybe) for big bosoms. I personally can go either way just fine. Too big, however, turns me on less than too small. And by too big I mean watermelons, Dolly Parton, too small is flat, more pecs than boobs, like an 18 year old boy with larger areola.

[Samsboyno69]

Women that say size doesn’t matter are lying. The husband’s small penis is the number one reason a wife looks outside the marriage. If you fall into that category ask your wife whether you are satisfying her and when she tells you no - offer to bring another man into play. You will be surprised how receptive she is. Seeing her satisfaction from a well endowed man (who yes must also know how to use it) will become more satisfying for you then watching her stare at the ceiling while you use your wife’s pussy to make yourself cum. That is RIGHT you are using your wife if you aren’t giving her orgasms with your penis when you are climaxing (eating her out before intercourse doesn’t cut it). Let her have real sex - it will make you both happy and the best sex ever will be that rare opportunity when they let you have sloppy seconds. If you aren’t bringing 8 or more with girth you aren’t able to satisfy your wife. People should be more honest about this especially here where cuks like us are understood and accepted. Until a more complex and legitimate penis enlargement procedure becomes available men under 8 should expect to have to introduce a man into their marriage or end up in divorce court after an affair results in her emotional attachment to a real man. Please don’t let that happen to you. Talk to her about it today - for those 8 and under she has given the thought of another with your blessing more thought than you think. You can save your marriage.

[samlowen]

Women that say size doesn’t matter are lying.

It takes quite a bit of nerve to tell verified Hotwives that they are lying when they tell us what their preferences are.

[2inUPMichigan]

Women that say size doesn’t matter are lying. The husband’s small penis is the number one reason a wife looks outside the marriage. If you fall into that category ask your wife whether you are satisfying her and when she tells you no - offer to bring another man into play. You will be surprised how receptive she is. Seeing her satisfaction from a well endowed man (who yes must also know how to use it) will become more satisfying for you then watching her stare at the ceiling while you use your wife’s pussy to make yourself cum. That is RIGHT you are using your wife if you aren’t giving her orgasms with your penis when you are climaxing (eating her out before intercourse doesn’t cut it). Let her have real sex - it will make you both happy and the best sex ever will be that rare opportunity when they let you have sloppy seconds. If you aren’t bringing 8 or more with girth you aren’t able to satisfy your wife. People should be more honest about this especially here where cuks like us are understood and accepted. Until a more complex and legitimate penis enlargement procedure becomes available men under 8 should expect to have to introduce a man into their marriage or end up in divorce court after an affair results in her emotional attachment to a real man. Please don’t let that happen to you. Talk to her about it today - for those 8 and under she has given the thought of another with your blessing more thought than you think. You can save your marriage.

It may not feed into your fantasy that every women is not interested in big dicks, but to blatantly say that all of the women responding that don't agree with you are lying ....is offensive.

All women are not the same.....let me repeat that for you. All women are not the same and we do not all think exactly alike nor are we all interested in exactly the same things.

Being a hotwife is also not for every woman nor is this path appropriate for every couple.

[AZVixen]

Women that say size doesn’t matter are lying. The husband’s small penis is the number one reason a wife looks outside the marriage. If you fall into that category ask your wife whether you are satisfying her and when she tells you no - offer to bring another man into play. You will be surprised how receptive she is. Seeing her satisfaction from a well endowed man (who yes must also know how to use it) will become more satisfying for you then watching her stare at the ceiling while you use your wife’s pussy to make yourself cum. That is RIGHT you are using your wife if you aren’t giving her orgasms with your penis when you are climaxing (eating her out before intercourse doesn’t cut it). Let her have real sex - it will make you both happy and the best sex ever will be that rare opportunity when they let you have sloppy seconds. If you aren’t bringing 8 or more with girth you aren’t able to satisfy your wife. People should be more honest about this especially here where cuks like us are understood and accepted. Until a more complex and legitimate penis enlargement procedure becomes available men under 8 should expect to have to introduce a man into their marriage or end up in divorce court after an affair results in her emotional attachment to a real man. Please don’t let that happen to you. Talk to her about it today - for those 8 and under she has given the thought of another with your blessing more thought than you think. You can save your marriage.

Your post is full of falsehoods, misconceptions, fantasy, scientific inaccuracies and cuckold myth.

I suggest you do some research and try again. Real, verified females are contradicting your entire post.

[SilverStag]

My HW is not a size queen, as a matter of fact she has been scared away by the size of some of the guys who have messaged her. As she tells it, it isn't the size of the equipment but what it is connected to. As mentioned above by several ladies, it is the overall package (no pun intended) that matters. Is the guy attentive? Is he clean and does he smell nicely,? Is he a gentleman or a jerk? Is he only interested in pleasing himself? Is he only interested in her for her pink parts? Is he fun to be around vertically as well as horizontally?

Samsboyno, check out the meaning of "Compersion", it will tell you a lot about why most of us are here.

[Farmgirl]

Women that say size doesn’t matter are lying. The husband’s small penis is the number one reason a wife looks outside the marriage. If you fall into that category ask your wife whether you are satisfying her and when she tells you no - offer to bring another man into play. You will be surprised how receptive she is. Seeing her satisfaction from a well endowed man (who yes must also know how to use it) will become more satisfying for you then watching her stare at the ceiling while you use your wife’s pussy to make yourself cum. That is RIGHT you are using your wife if you aren’t giving her orgasms with your penis when you are climaxing (eating her out before intercourse doesn’t cut it). Let her have real sex - it will make you both happy and the best sex ever will be that rare opportunity when they let you have sloppy seconds. If you aren’t bringing 8 or more with girth you aren’t able to satisfy your wife. People should be more honest about this especially here where cuks like us are understood and accepted. Until a more complex and legitimate penis enlargement procedure becomes available men under 8 should expect to have to introduce a man into their marriage or end up in divorce court after an affair results in her emotional attachment to a real man. Please don’t let that happen to you. Talk to her about it today - for those 8 and under she has given the thought of another with your blessing more thought than you think. You can save your marriage.

That is the most fantasy-based bunch of crap I've heard.
Why is the Hotwife forum infected with this stuff?
Does your mother know you've been posting on here?

[AlphaDom81_]

As a bull, I’m not sure it matters that much to women. I’m sure it does some. I’m 6.5 inches and have had some incredible experiences with my HW’s.

[parklife]

My wife enjoys sex with a larger penis but it was not a determinant in her becoming a hotwife, nor has she ever used size as a qualifier when connecting with a FWB. Her playmates have all stemmed from making a connection to them outside the bedroom and not even knowing about what is between their legs.

[Cdncuck]

My wife doesn't care about cock size but you don't want to hear that so I won't tell you

[stevens4fun]

This "size" thing has become comical. Although my wife loves to see a large penis and professes to be aroused by the thought of one, our first ten years of marriage she continued have sex with a guy she knew before she knew me. He was about 4.5" when erect yet he but she loved having sex with him. For her, it is all about "the experience," the satisfaction and general good feelings afterwards knowing she was desired by and completely satisfied two horny men.

[CoupleFun555]

Didn’t vote. Cordelia, my wife, loves variety and size. She has a bf that she travels with who is average size and she has a great time with him. They just have a lot of chemistry.

Most of the time, though, she prefers big men just for a different type of deep penetration when we start to look for someone who starts as a stranger and we get to know.

[wifesharer]

Speaking for my wife who always insist I try to find her a guy who is hung she prefers bigger, I'm very well endowed at over 9" with good girth, she is very petite and very small frame, watching very hung guys fuck her is amazing, it sometimes scares her when she sees hugely hung guys for the first time but she never refuses, the first time she saw mine she sat open mouth and said, "what the fuck is that" lol.

[bradisalpha]

Here's the problem with polls. The question was for us ladies. 3 of us verified women have stated no. Now, there are 6 "yes" answers in the actual poll results. I guarantee you that those were answered by men.

You guys crack me up.

LMAO !! You are probably right !! As a BF, seducing a wife comes way before actually seeing .. or even discussing, my cock size. I am well hung and that’s good.. but that is not how I find my hot wives. I am pretty sure that if I told them I was over 8” and thick.. and swung it in front if them.. I would not have many takers.. I would probably end up in jail !!!

Seduction is in the mind.. and MUCH hotter than in the flesh.

Just my thoughts...

Brad

[cuckling]

Women that say size doesn’t matter are lying. The husband’s small penis is the number one reason a wife looks outside the marriage. If you fall into that category ask your wife whether you are satisfying her and when she tells you no - offer to bring another man into play. You will be surprised how receptive she is. Seeing her satisfaction from a well endowed man (who yes must also know how to use it) will become more satisfying for you then watching her stare at the ceiling while you use your wife’s pussy to make yourself cum. That is RIGHT you are using your wife if you aren’t giving her orgasms with your penis when you are climaxing (eating her out before intercourse doesn’t cut it). Let her have real sex - it will make you both happy and the best sex ever will be that rare opportunity when they let you have sloppy seconds. If you aren’t bringing 8 or more with girth you aren’t able to satisfy your wife. People should be more honest about this especially here where cuks like us are understood and accepted. Until a more complex and legitimate penis enlargement procedure becomes available men under 8 should expect to have to introduce a man into their marriage or end up in divorce court after an affair results in her emotional attachment to a real man. Please don’t let that happen to you. Talk to her about it today - for those 8 and under she has given the thought of another with your blessing more thought than you think. You can save your marriage.

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