Keeping Count

[Tomlee76]

I would love to keep a scorecard of how many guys my HW fucks - kinda like how many planes a fighter ace has shot down. I'm thinking a necklace, keychain trinket, bracelet, etc. that has a way to keep count.

I'd love it if there was a way to not only keep count of each new guy but also keep count of total dates with each guy.

Has anyone on here done that or have suggestions?

[BuildABetterBull]

You are going to think I am joking but how about you start with a Sharpie mark on your ankles for each new lover? Maybe embellish the mark for 3, 5 or 10+ get together with the partner. If you like it, you can consider a small, discreet tattoo on yourself. If you don’t like it, it will fade.

The element to consider is that you are marking yourself in dedication to your commitment to this lifestyle. Your HW is showing her commitment with each new BF she shares with/for you.

[funcpl477]

Cool idea.

During my single life, many years ago, I started dating a relatively innocent looking, divorced school teacher. My kink of loving to share my SO of the moment and my wives, has been life long.

I was soon asking her about her prior sex life and other lovers. She was embarrassed to admit to seven, including her X husband and prior lovers. I told her she should be proud of her sexual history and what an incredibly special and erotic woman she was, just under her conservative, classy style. During the hot talk that ensued, she told me their names, as I revealed my kinks.

For her birthday, I bought a very nice charm bracelet from a smiling and laughing with me jeweler. He was in a different town and neither if us knew him. I explained what I was up to. I then bought seven of the smallest male head charms, he ordered. I added one more, larger head for me. I had him engrave the names of each man that had fucked her... Plus mine, a bit larger, to a charm. I even had the put in what I believed to be the correct sequence. He attached the charms.

I had it beautifully wrapped. Over a very nice birthday dinner, I presented the gift to her.

She blushed, laughed and fucked me all night long.

The next day, she actually wore it to the teachers lounge, and showed it off. It was obvious what the charms were for. The fact I was not only accepting, but wanted her proud of her sexual past, had her fellow teachers (who were soon sharing their erotic past adventures... Would have loved to have been a fly on the wall in that teacher's lounge). They were a very naughty group, as it turned out. They told her she was very lucky to have such a cool boyfriend.

I would love to find male head, and a female one, too. Silver, light gold and onyx for the racial variety, that my hotwife of nearly 20 years, has enjoyed fucking. Small enough that one charm for each guy my wife has fucked, to add to a hotwife charm ankle bracelet. 3 before me, me, and the 48 since me.

[funcpl477]

If anyone knows where charms representing each lover/fucker, small enough for a charm bracelet to be worn on my wife's ankle, please share that source. Would also like to find some that represents mfm , mmfmm, mffm, etc. Thanks.

Bet that could get some fun conversations going when worn to fun places.

[aussienerd]

What an awesome idea.
I bought an anklet for my wife some time ago, but it broke while she was working. I am thinking a bracelet would be great for her. It would be a naughty secret between us what it represented. Thanks for sharing, wonderful idea.

[Tomlee76]

You are going to think I am joking but how about you start with a Sharpie mark on your ankles for each new lover? Maybe embellish the mark for 3, 5 or 10+ get together with the partner. If you like it, you can consider a small, discreet tattoo on yourself. If you don’t like it, it will fade.

The element to consider is that you are marking yourself in dedication to your commitment to this lifestyle. Your HW is showing her commitment with each new BF she shares with/for you.

This is a really cool idea! I was wanting suggestions for her, but I think the Sharpie idea would work. I want a way for her to subtly advertise how many men she's slept with.

[Tomlee76]

Cool idea.

During my single life, many years ago, I started dating a relatively innocent looking, divorced school teacher. My kink of loving to share my SO of the moment and my wives, has been life long.

I was soon asking her about her prior sex life and other lovers. She was embarrassed to admit to seven, including her X husband and prior lovers. I told her she should be proud of her sexual history and what an incredibly special and erotic woman she was, just under her conservative, classy style. During the hot talk that ensued, she told me their names, as I revealed my kinks.

For her birthday, I bought a very nice charm bracelet from a smiling and laughing with me jeweler. He was in a different town and neither if us knew him. I explained what I was up to. I then bought seven of the smallest male head charms, he ordered. I added one more, larger head for me. I had him engrave the names of each man that had fucked her... Plus mine, a bit larger, to a charm. I even had the put in what I believed to be the correct sequence. He attached the charms.

I had it beautifully wrapped. Over a very nice birthday dinner, I presented the gift to her.

She blushed, laughed and fucked me all night long.

The next day, she actually wore it to the teachers lounge, and showed it off. It was obvious what the charms were for. The fact I was not only accepting, but wanted her proud of her sexual past, had her fellow teachers (who were soon sharing their erotic past adventures... Would have loved to have been a fly on the wall in that teacher's lounge). They were a very naughty group, as it turned out. They told her she was very lucky to have such a cool boyfriend.

I would love to find male head, and a female one, too. Silver, light gold and onyx for the racial variety, that my hotwife of nearly 20 years, has enjoyed fucking. Small enough that one charm for each guy my wife has fucked, to add to a hotwife charm ankle bracelet. 3 before me, me, and the 48 since me.

Haha! That's a cool bracelet gift! I've thought about charm bracelets and necklaces but we're not really comfortable with folks knowing we're into this lifestyle yet. I'm afraid it'll be difficult to explain when the questions come.

[funcpl477]

It could be worn only when appropriate or maybe when she is "on the prowl".

Professionally, I need to keep our adventuresome sex life, with few exceptions, discreet. I have long wanted to find the preferred smaller charms for an anklet or bracelet, for her to wear when the occasion arises.

Wish the discretion wasn't needed as I am very proud of my wife and love of my life, and her sexual adventures.

[Dee+Bee99]

My wife has kept a book / journal to keep track. She has kept an accurate tally, with some details / highlights since her first hotwife experience in the late 90's. Safe to say, if the tally was kept on a piece of jewelery it would probably be too heavy to wear, haha.

[MoreGodzillas]

The only way you could make jewelry sustainable would possibly be with roman numeral charms? I like to take a sexy pic of her with tally marks done in sharpie somewhere on her after each new person. She lets me do it as a keepsake, but she doesn't really like focusing on numbers.

[Farmgirl]

My Number1 used to keep count way back, but he got overwhelmed .

[afagehi7]

My Number1 used to keep count way back, but he got overwhelmed .

Can you tell us an estimate of how many guys? I thought your numbers were low since you stick to steady fwb arrangements.

[Farmgirl]

My Number1 used to keep count way back, but he got overwhelmed .

Can you tell us an estimate of how many guys? I thought your numbers were low since you stick to steady fwb arrangements.

You're right that the number of guys is fairly low, it's quality over quantity. Once I get the quality, the quantity of times multiplies. Neither of us can recall the exact number of men, and for sure can't count the times I've enjoyed another man's cock.

[MoreGodzillas]

The more I think about this, the more I like my idea of Roman Numeral charms. I'll have to bounce it off Joy and see if she's down, haha.

[semaj3001]

I actually started when we first got into this just using a note app on my phone. I write down the first name, a brief description to remind her who that was, the date they first fucked and where she met him. Pre Covid, she had been with 47 men and 2 couples over a 3 year period. Post Covid she has added only one (just last week in fact) The list most likely wont grow like it did as we both decided that she find more of a boyfriend type and try and develop a more slower process. Still working out the particulars on that one. As Farmgirl said earlier Quality over Quantity. Had a lot of idiots in that previous group. I think a charm would have been a little weighted, lol

[funcpl477]

Roman Numerals are a fun idea too.

[MoreGodzillas]

I actually started when we first got into this just using a note app on my phone. I write down the first name, a brief description to remind her who that was, the date they first fucked and where she met him. Pre Covid, she had been with 47 men and 2 couples over a 3 year period. Post Covid she has added only one (just last week in fact) The list most likely wont grow like it did as we both decided that she find more of a boyfriend type and try and develop a more slower process. Still working out the particulars on that one. As Farmgirl said earlier Quality over Quantity. Had a lot of idiots in that previous group. I think a charm would have been a little weighted, lol

Definitely quality over quantity! I think the number thing is just like a small side kink for me. Of course I don't want her to up her number with pointless fuckbois, but I do love the tally marks. It's a mixed bag, because when she has a "not great" experience, it sucks, but I still kinda want to tally it up so it's at least SOMETHING cool. I'm always torn though.

[VegasHW]

We keep a vase on a coffee table half filled with decorative rock. We have had a few comments on it. Only we know that each rock in the vase represents a different man or woman we have had sex with. The vase easily holds over 200 rocks so we probably don't need a larger vase for a few years.

[Iahotwifeshusband]

This isn't nearly as sexy as the other suggestions, but I have kept an excel file with details for each of her play dates. This helps with security and safety. As well as a turn on every time I look at it. I am an engineer by trade so data is always good. I can see trends in her play and easily see what makes her ready to go. To date she has played with 22 different gentlemen and a total of 35 times over the past 3 plus years. Unfortunately, the last time she played was last August. Does this make her a hotwife virgin again? ;-)

[MoreGodzillas]

I am an engineer by trade so data is always good.

CHEERS!

[zorro]

And, speaking of Excel, we have kept a "spreadsheet," appropriately enough, for years. We only included guys who actually fucked her. All those other connections and blowjobs/getting eaten just didn't seem as significant to either of us -- although there were a whole bunch of them.
We tracked name, date, site of play, marital status, female partner, and whether the guy came and where. We also recorded number of do overs, over 15 times. That way we could remember the frequent fliers.

We were late to starting the list, so maybe 50-75 weren't included. But there have been a lot we can remember back to and reminisce about.

We recommend it. No matter how many guys, there is always room for more.

[mcauleys]

This isn't nearly as sexy as the other suggestions, but I have kept an excel file with details for each of her play dates. This helps with security and safety. As well as a turn on every time I look at it. I am an engineer by trade so data is always good. I can see trends in her play and easily see what makes her ready to go. To date she has played with 22 different gentlemen and a total of 35 times over the past 3 plus years. Unfortunately, the last time she played was last August. Does this make her a hotwife virgin again? ;-)

I also use Excel which I agree is a bit dull.. but it does the job! Over 2 1/2 years my wife has had 13 different guys, total of 15 times. If it weren't for Covid restrictions she'd likely be above 20 guys now. As she's mid-30s I like to think they'll be many years of fun ahead.

[Wolf]

I keep a list of the names of guys she has slept with in the notes app on my phone. I do not have the number of times each.

[dinoo]

Once my wife wondered how many cocks she had already had in her mouth. Then I made a sheet from our young journal with the most important sort of happenings my wife had sex. (And I also.) After each visit this sheet was adjusted.
Keep in mind that the biggest part took place in a club (nudist evenings), so the data are pro visit. Separated were the happenings outside the club f.e. at home.
Keep in mind too that the evenings were very crowded and that single men outnumbered by far the number of couples. That means that a collaborating woman had a lot of attention. In fact, then she would almost never be alone.
(Especially like my wife who had her legs always inviting opened, to be caressed, licked or fucked. It was remarkable how many men liked to lick. And when they did well, my wife was encouraging them to go on f.e. by stroking his hair and/or lifting her bottoms to make it easy for him or moving over his mouth. French kissing or an ending BJ was often the reward he got. But this aside.)

The most remarkable record is the number of having orgasms during one evening. On one evening my wife had twelve but she thought it were more.
I must remark about that it was very easy for her to have multiple orgasms.

To go back of the first poster: let make a nice a necklace with a jewel of the most important sort of happening. Under this jewel there will be a number that can replaced easily. Replace this number when a multiple of ten will be reached.

[richkathy96003]

Yes, we had a excel sheet going for years and stopped about year ago. She had started keeping details when she became a escort. Our journey was from her cheating on me, to 3somes , to swinger parties, to shared couple dates, to gang bangs, always doing co-workers and her boss to a few private movies, to escorting, becoming a mistress to working in brothels. She has done as of last week over 3,000 men over the last 15 years. She is currently in New Zealand working at a brothel. The biggest frequent flyer is a gentleman she loved who she was a mistress too. He did her over 500 times and counts for one. I have to say I was never jealous and never trade our journey. Most of these Fucks were when she was escorting for a high end escort service 4 days a week and doing 5 to 7 guys a day at various hotels. She is retired now all but some gigs at brothels. She does hotwife at times when she has the need...maybe once a month now and maybe go to a swinger party (pre Covid) once a quarter.