After years of fantasizing, some unlikely progress

[itsmagic1954]

Eye contact and a smile

[Long Lurker 34]

Mild update: I questioned Annie if anything/anyone had turned her on recently and she mentioned a guy at the gym. I asked her to tell me about it. She said he was very hot and looked like he had a big cock in his gym shorts. She got so worked up thinking about him that she ended masturbating and cumming in her car in the parking lot. She admitted to coming back home and cumming again on our bed while I was downstairs. Two orgasm thinking about this guys cock in less than an hour.

I love that she is able to tell me about this. I expect to get into it tonight and ask her more about it. We didn’t really get a chance to dive into all the details.

Any advice on how to better encourage her to approach this guy next time she sees him at the gym?

MOA - Simplest thing ever. She see's him doing something like a bench lift and goes over and says "I'll spot for you." An almost certainty once he's finished the set they will be talking.

[myoralannie]

Thanks guys, Annie was wiped last night so details took a backseat. She goes to the gym Tuesday night so I will broach the topic and forward the tips and see what she says.

We went to the club (non-lifestyle) over the weekend and Annie was wearing some tight blue jeans and silky blouse without a bra. Her nipples were very prominent. She looked hot. She loves to dance so she was out there on the floor for a while and it didn’t take long for this young guy to start heaping attention on her. I am sure the bra-less look didn’t hurt. He was spinning her around and she seemed to enjoy it but when she came back to the table she was perturbed w/ me bc she thought I set it up and egged this guy on. It was pretty preposterous since I was with her nearly every moment. Logic doesn’t always matter when drinking. I promised her I had zero to do w/ it but the damage was done. She didn’t appreciate my openness to her being a hotwife. This is a common tale for us.
We certainly made up over the weekend and she seems to get a re-appreciation of my desires every time we dance this dance so I am on the fence about talking about HWing so soon but I will read the room.

[myoralannie]

I posted this in Hotties but I want to keep the forum updated. Plus I have some things that are heating up.

Re-posted from the other day - I’ll try to get some more pics of her beautiful pussy.
Last night we had great session. Annie was a little inebriated. She said things like can you feel the other men’s cum in me as I was deep inside her. I asked Annie when is her pussy the most beautiful and she responded, when it is leaking another man’s cum.

I think things are going to get pretty hot for us very soon. It is obvious to me that Annie had a relationship w/ her co-worker. I have mentioned here that she blew him in her office but I did some snooping (not proud) and it certainly seems like this ‘one-time thing’ was not so one-time.
I know the office encounter happened in 2019 but I have seen texts in ‘21 in which she was planning to meet him but it fell through but the verbiage used made it easy to see that they had a thing going.

Texts like
Annie to P (we’ll call him) - “I wish you were coming back this week bc I am solo all week but we can make it work next week.” When the one visit fell through, she wrote to him “ To bad u won’t get my present (meaning gift).” Annie seems to be very playful in her texting and almost the aggressor.
I suspect they had a relationship for about 1yr and a half. I think she is hesitant to dive into w/ me bc she developed feeling and/or the sex was sooo great that she is worried how I will take it.
My plan is to confront her but not in a negative way. Tell her that I KNOW things went further and I am ok w/ it and that I suspect she doesn’t want to tell me for fear of hurting me.

I believe it is over. The texts all through ‘22 and ‘23 were uneventful and mundane. My hope is that by getting Annie to truly admit to her sexual past experiences that we can get closer and explore this.

[OZCPL]

Good luck talking with Annie. When you have decades and children invested, in a marriage, it can, in the long term, be best for all involved if it works. That is especially so for the children and grandchildren. Communication is really important and I think Annie could have a small communication problem. My wife had a big communication problem so I can, to some extent, empathise with you. My wife liked to please herself and would not admit her actions even when caught out 100%. I stuck with it and now we have the best of families.