New From PA

[appletulip]

Been a cuck wannabe for years. Not sure if it will ever happen. She knows it is something I'm very into it and has known as long as I've been into wanting it happen. Sometimes she seems to be genuinely into it and others a hard no not going to happen. So I don't push real life as I don't want regrets on either side, but if she said and didn't change her mind I definitely wouldn't say no lol. So at this point just reading experiences and personals and seeing where it leads.

[afagehi7]

Welcome to the forum apple. I lived in pa for a couple of years. I miss the old forge style pizza and wished I had known more about it when I lived up there... And yeungling lager when it was only available locally.. probably a couple of decades ago.

You're going to get a myriad of advice and opinions. My advice is move slowly and cautiously...

[appletulip]

Any slower would be tectonic plat speed.. lol. But yes I do agree. I think my biggest issue is finding potential bulls/dates. Just don't seem to be many if any in a reasonable distance.

[afagehi7]

Any slower would be tectonic plat speed.. lol. But yes I do agree. I think my biggest issue is finding potential bulls/dates. Just don't seem to be many if any in a reasonable distance.

Swing lifestyle dot com, it's probably one of the most popular sites. I bet there are plenty of bulls on there but lots of fakes and flakes. Have a top notch screening system. If she gets stood up a time or few or meets with disrespectful asshat or someone posting 15 year old pics before they became fat and bald she'll probably veto continuing. Screen them well and try to meet them or at least FaceTime before you pass on to her. Of course everyone has their system but you need a good one or she'll get 1000 dic pics and no shows.

[appletulip]

We were on there a while back we did communicated with what seemed like a bunch of flakes. One turned out ok then can't remember how we found out he was married which we said up front it was a hard no. So that didn't work out. If we sign up again I hope it is improved like you say

[Waypastcurious]

Welcome to the forum apple. I lived in pa for a couple of years. I miss the old forge style pizza and wished I had known more about it when I lived up there... And yeungling lager when it was only available locally.. probably a couple of decades ago.

You're going to get a myriad of advice and opinions. My advice is move slowly and cautiously...

Old Forge Pizza!

[appletulip]

It's good... Some are better than others, and some have gone down in quality over the years. I do have my favorites of OF pizza.

[TonisCuck]

We are in NEPA and have used swinglifestyle to meet single men. For everyone decent guy there are ton of cheaters and flakes so there is a lot to muddle through. We always insist that a single male must host first few play encounters at his residence or we won’t get together. This saved us endless chatting and emails from the flakes and narrowed the field drastically.

[Bull4Oldrwives]

Hi Apple,
TonisCuck brings up a really good point. Remember, this is the love of your life we are talking about and you would do anything for her. So, it's not unreasonable for you to make a prospective Bull earn the right to be with her, especially if you are looking for a LTR.
I always expect that I have to demonstrate to the husband that I am worthy of his wife and that it will involve multiple meetings with him before I meet the wife and then a number of get to know yous between the three of us, THEN a number of days between the wife and I before there is any sex. Now, my situation is a little different because I am only looking for a LTR but the general idea still applies. Being a pull is a privilege.