What would turn you on the most: watching her having sex? Participating? Or just the knowledge that she is fucking?

[feetuji]

Imagine that your dream come true and you have a cuckold session with your wife. What would turn you on the most? Seeing her having sex with the lover? Knowing she is having sex but not watching? Or perhaps also "play" with her and the bull?
First, the most exciting thing to me would be what excites her the most. She would choose. But if the 3 options were equally good to her, perhaps I would love to just watch while masturbating myself. Or perhaps just some play with her feet, while she was beeing fucked. And in the end, cleaning the mess

[Treat yourself girl]

My dream came true many years ago, Amy is my Hotwife.

Participating has never interested me, however, myself and a mate did spit-roast her once... me sat on a chair, Amy sucking my cock while bent over, wearing killer heels, taking my pal from behind. But what really turns me on is watching her fuck. Although knowing she is fucking or going to be fucked is also a massive thrill.

But the biggest turn on is when she gets home and tells me in explicit detail what she did! The reclaim fuck doesn't last very long.

[feetuji]

oh, you are really lucky! Seeing your wife fucked like that....delicious! I wish!

[Powhound121]

Watching, but in some restricted way. For example, having to look through a window, from a closet, in a.chair but facing another direction, under the bed.

The idea here is they can still feel a sense of privacy and freedom yet I can still experience what is happening in some way.

[HamburgerChef]

Mine would be watching and maybe masturbating but waiting to cum. Either right after, or later, inside her.

[AstaSilva]

Watching is the dream. Participating is a compromise. If I'm not present for it, well, I'd only agree to that if we were boyfriend girlfriend and not wife

[Her number1]

My biggest turn-on is her telling me after the fact that she has been well fucked. I think it's the fact that she is so sexual that she sees her lovers whenever she wants. She's not putting on a show, she's doing what she wants as a sexual creature.

[Marksmall5]

Knowing she is out and having sex, knowing I’m not the one who does that, whilst being the actual husband, also having a loving supportive relationship in every way otherwise.

[Mumfred]

After reading these and thinking of fantasy I realize how specific my fantasy is. I would like to be there watching and my wife dressed in mini skirt and heels and really enjoying herself.

[feetuji]

I am enjoying seeing so many different answers. As many here, I would also love to know that she is having sex, even if I dont watch. But at least in the first times I would absolutly love to watch and have a small participation: masturbate myself, lick her feet while she was beeing fucked, clean the creampie...But if she said to me "no watch, go away", I would have a very big erection in the same way!

[Bent_n_Twisted]

One of our 'rules' is that I have to be somehow 'involved', the biggest turn on (for both of us) is for me to be watching and forced to participate in various ways.

Merely knowing that she is fucking [someone else] wouldn't be good enough for either of us. She wants me bound, watching her fucking, knowing I can't do anything about it, literally rubbing my face in it.

[philxxo]

Any and all of it would be a turn on to me. Ideally I would like to participate in a bisexual way with the focus on her, stag/vixen, cleanup etc. She would probably not like that. If I didn't participate then definitely would like to watch. If she were just fucking and I would find out about it, that would be good too, but my least preferable.

[ursamajor69]

My ideal: watching a guy seduce my wife, then watching her cum hard on his cock. After that, I would get to slide into her freshly fucked pussy, maybe even allowing us to spitroast her.

Her ideal: my wife has said that if she ever slept with another man, she would feel embarrassed to have me there. I might "cramp her style" and she feels a bit awkward knowing another guy was fucking her in the presence of her hubby.

I respect her preference, and know that if gets her closer to finally doing the deed, then I will happily stay at home. She does go on a lot of "dates" with guys alone (bosses, ex-bosses, work colleagues) and when she does, I am at home jerking off and hoping that this time she comes home with cum soaked panties.

[wulfenus]

Watching, but in some restricted way. For example, ..... under the bed.

There was a great vid. Young couple live in a studio apt, 1 big room. bed is in the corner.

Hubby brings coworker home, who is impressed by the wife.

Hubby goes on biz trip but comes back early one night w/a fancy desert to celebrate. Waiting to surprise her he
hears laughter and voices, so he hurriedly hides under the bed.

Wife pauses at door, drunken laughter, but coworker talks his way in for 1 ...more drink.

Sitting on the bed you get the husband's point of view. Soon they are making out and clothes hit the floor, as do
various bodily fluids, the mattress bounces over his head, coworker fucks her standing by the bedside, then she
is on her knees right in front of hubby while she sucks. Lots of moaning and pleasurable squealing.

Poor hubby's eyes are bugging out. Finally coworker leaves. Hubby comes out to passed out wife. He leaves
w/his desert wondering what happened.

[feetuji]

My ideal: watching a guy seduce my wife, then watching her cum hard on his cock. After that, I would get to slide into her freshly fucked pussy, maybe even allowing us to spitroast her.

Her ideal: my wife has said that if she ever slept with another man, she would feel embarrassed to have me there. I might "cramp her style" and she feels a bit awkward knowing another guy was fucking her in the presence of her hubby.

I respect her preference, and know that if gets her closer to finally doing the deed, then I will happily stay at home. She does go on a lot of "dates" with guys alone (bosses, ex-bosses, work colleagues) and when she does, I am at home jerking off and hoping that this time she comes home with cum soaked panties.

In the rare occasions my wife play along the cuck fantasy, it seems she would also prefer to be alone with whoever the guy was.

[leggysman]

I've been lucky enough (read: lucky enough to have married an amazing chick) to watch, participate, and sit at home while she was out fucking her special friends. All have been great.

Watching and participating were really memorable - nothing like seeing, hearing, and smelling it in person, right in front of you.

OTOH not being there, and having to imagine it, and hearing about it afterwards is really hot in a different way.

Every time but one, she came home to me the same night and we reconnected. But the one time she didn't -- again, hot! But in a different way again.

One of the most erotic moments was just to watch her sit on his lap and kiss, fully clothed, after they'd fucked (while I sat in the pub).

This hotwifing thing is amazing, and it's sexy in lots of different ways. Even though I'm no longer a wannabe, I still get turned on just by hearing her say saucy things about previous encounters, what she wants to do, etc.

[isinlarsa]

Yes.

[Justaregularguy]

Personally…I’d want to watch but I believe she would rather be alone.. at least to start with because she would feel less pressure

[mfm4bnc]

1) knowing she is out, and doing a list of chores or watching the kids, so I can't masturbate.
2) finding out after the fact, and having her slowly tease me with details
3) "catching" her, and listening/watching through the window
4) listening surreptitiously
5) participating
6) watching in the room

[lanceHarden25]

I’d want my wife to be out for the night having great sex with a guy she really likes while I’m at home for the night waiting for her to return the next morning.

[Marinecuckplease]

Watching her! I love watching what i can now but stepping back and seeing it all would be beautiful. Participating a close second but again watching her and reacting to her moves now is so hot.

[Justaregularguy]

Thought a bit more about this and I’ll be honest I just want to see her get absolutely railed by a guy, I think it would be so hot!

[BBCfan]

When I had the fantasy I wanted it more like a 3 some, With me and the guy pleasuring her and taking turns.

As She is now a maybe instead of a hard NO, realizing for her and him to both be comfortable and follow through, it would likely be something I would hear about later.

So that idea is more of my reality based fantasy.

As far as non reality-based fantasy I would want to be involved with them in some aspect .
I guess one never knows what's really going to Excite them the most until they've tried them all.

[mychubbyhotwife]

Watching her is my number one choice. She is generally submissive but I won't make her do anything she is absolutely against. There are times when a little gentle coaxing works and she discovers something new that she likes.

[Cuck4Life]

My wife and I agreed years ago that if she finds herself in a situation where shes attracted to another guy she has my blessing to pursue him anyway she chooses. She travels for work and is in contact with guys within her company as well as vendors and contractors shes known for years.

Over the years she has had many opportunities and has taken advantage of our agreement. She has always shared all of the details of her play time with others. While shes away on these trips I am constantly aroused knowing there is always a possibly for play.