Dinner

[namitha157]

So a guy has asked me to come out for dinner. I told my partner, he seems ok with it. I told him I'd meet him after the dinner- and he could pick me up if he wanted. He is ok with it and told me to meet him at 'our' car park after.
My friend knows i have a boyfriend too. I kinda wouldn't mind if something sparks. Any idea what I should do without looking cheap?
My partner does not know I am trying this.

[MartasBoy]

I'm confused. You open your post by saying,
"I told my partner, he seems ok with it."
Then at the end of your post you say,
"My partner does not know I am trying this."

You do not have to look or dress trashy, to be sexy. Dressing elegant is very sexy. I think one ultimate fantasy is the fantasy that we have enticed a very elegant, high status woman, to step out and do trashy things.

There are all kinds of fantasies for us guys of nailing an heiress, a debutant, an aristocratic woman, a rich man's wife, a princess, a woman CEO. You dress to look like any of those, and it is sexy.

Each of those roles I have mentioned above, have an element of seeming like they are unattainable, and would seem above having tawdry sex. When we guys get one of those, it is particularly exciting, because it appeals to our conquest fantasies.

[leggysman]

I *think* she meant that her boyfriend knew she was going to dinner with the friend, but that he doesn't know she might play around.

And I think her question about "looking cheap" wasn't about style of dress per se, but about perception (by the dinner friend, I guess).

Nami - how did your evening go?

[namitha157]

Dinner is tomorrow night. Still working this through. Wish me luck.

[namitha157]

My partner knows I'm meeting a friend for dinner. He doesn't know I thinking of flirting.

[namitha157]

I'm not even sure if this guy would be into me..

[leggysman]

He asked you to come out for a 1:1 private dinner with him? And didn't invite your boyfriend also?

I'd say chances are, he's into you

[Long Lurker 34]

So a guy has asked me to come out for dinner. I told my partner, he seems ok with it. I told him I'd meet him after the dinner- and he could pick me up if he wanted. He is ok with it and told me to meet him at 'our' car park after.
My friend knows i have a boyfriend too. I kinda wouldn't mind if something sparks. Any idea what I should do without looking cheap?
My partner does not know I am trying this.

N157
- What exactly is your partner? A BF, husband, some guy you hang out with? A touch more specificity would really help with context. Thanks.

[namitha157]

He is my boyfriend.

[namitha157]

Dinner was nice. I wore a black dress. Ankle length. I don't typically dress revealing. I did wear a thick padded bralette to level up my A cups.
Not a lot happened to be honest. I did notice a bulge is pants. I think i gave him an erection when I hugged him at the restaurant.
And again when he sat next to me and i put a hand on his leg.
It didn't look big. But I'd still have liked to watch him jerk off.
And yes.. I was wet and had soaked panties by the end of the night. I swear I was holding myself from squirming in my seat.

Had a nice hot makeout and grind session with my boyfriend in the carpark after.
He said his dick was hurting so i grabbed it and squeezed and twisted hard. His pants we all soaked too like my panties. I pushed on his penis harder with my hand and asked him to make it cum for me. I sat back with my hand under my skirt, and tits out as he starter to rub his little penis.

I asked him to say when he was going to cum. As he did, I grabbed his hand and pulled it away. He loomed at me in shock. His little penis just shook and dripped sperm out onto his balls. Not shoot out on his stomach like normal. He looked like it was painful. I have him a kiss, smiled and left quickly.

I needed to take care of myself.

[Long Lurker 34]

Dinner was nice. I wore a black dress. Ankle length. I don't typically dress revealing. I did wear a thick padded bralette to level up my A cups.
Not a lot happened to be honest. I did notice a bulge is pants. I think i gave him an erection when I hugged him at the restaurant.
And again when he sat next to me and i put a hand on his leg.
It didn't look big. But I'd still have liked to watch him jerk off.
And yes.. I was wet and had soaked panties by the end of the night. I swear I was holding myself from squirming in my seat.

Had a nice hot makeout and grind session with my boyfriend in the carpark after.
He said his dick was hurting so i grabbed it and squeezed and twisted hard. His pants we all soaked too like my panties. I pushed on his penis harder with my hand and asked him to make it cum for me. I sat back with my hand under my skirt, and tits out as he starter to rub his little penis.

I asked him to say when he was going to cum. As he did, I grabbed his hand and pulled it away. He loomed at me in shock. His little penis just shook and dripped sperm out onto his balls. Not shoot out on his stomach like normal. He looked like it was painful. I have him a kiss, smiled and left quickly.

I needed to take care of myself.

N157
- And sooooo, will there be a second date?!!
- If so what do you think BF1 will have to say?

[namitha157]

I hope he asks me again.
My boyfriend knows I went out for dinner. He just doest know how I was thinking about it. I will see him again tonight.
Its ok for me to be so rough with his penis right? Like it wont break or anything?

[namitha157]

Seeing my boyfriend i mean.

[fk2546]

You went out to dinner with another man and then met your boyfriend with your panties soaking wet. Did your boyfriend feel how wet you were? If he did, he must know that the other guy sexually excited you. Maybe that excites your boyfriend.

[namitha157]

You went out to dinner with another man and then met your boyfriend with your panties soaking wet. Did your boyfriend feel how wet you were? If he did, he must know that the other guy sexually excited you. Maybe that excites your boyfriend.

No he didn't. He is not allowed to touch me down there. He got slapped when he grabbed me once. May have notices it on his lap. But he was pretty wet too.

I left early yesterday and didnt let him jerk off. I called him when i got home to ask if his penis was hurting. He said he took care of it in the car. I told him that was disgusting how he was always playing with his little thing and making a mess in his pants. He just kept quiet. Finally said really hurt.

[namitha157]

Is it really so painful you need to get the sperm out so often? He needs to do it twice a day. My other guy friends talk about jerking off but dont seem to do it so often.

[Long Lurker 34]

Is it really so painful you need to get the sperm out so often? He needs to do it twice a day. My other guy friends talk about jerking off but dont seem to do it so often.

N157
- Your BF, is he a heavy cummer if he doesn't cum for 24 hours?

[leggysman]

The berries can get a tiny bit tender if you're fully aroused for a long period and then don't orgasm (the proverbial "blue balls"). But as an owner of said equipment, my experience is that it does not hurt if you don't ejaculate regularly. If you ejaculate a lot, your body makes more. If you don't, it doesn't.

[namitha157]

The berries can get a tiny bit tender if you're fully aroused for a long period and then don't orgasm (the proverbial "blue balls"). But as an owner of said equipment, my experience is that it does not hurt if you don't ejaculate regularly. If you ejaculate a lot, your body makes more. If you don't, it doesn't.

I dont know. Always look like quite a lot of sperm. Its really watery too. Not like in the movies.

[namitha157]

Is it really so painful you need to get the sperm out so often? He needs to do it twice a day. My other guy friends talk about jerking off but dont seem to do it so often.

N157
- Your BF, is he a heavy cummer if he doesn't cum for 24 hours?

Looks like a lot. But I dont know how much he cums. Knowing he would have cum before he came to meet me.

[namitha157]

So, I went out with my friend again for dinner tonight.
I didn't tell my partner this time. Just keeping it quiet. I told him I had something to do with my family.
It was a nice evening. I really like him a lot.
He gave me a slightly longer hug before I left. And I pushed up on him a bit more and gave him a kiss on the cheek and a smile. I kept my eyes locked on his for a few seconds before turning away. I hope he takes the hint and tries a bit more next time.
I think he is kind of into me. (And I felt something hard poking when I pressed against him haha)
I didn't call my partner tonight. Just been thinking about our dinner date tonight. I just don't want to confuse the feelings right now.
I feel really guilty about how I'm feeling, even though I didn't really do anything wrong.
Like, I felt like I wanted him to hold me and kiss me. Something more. Its so exciting.

[namitha157]

He has been messaging me for the last two days regularly.
But it just looks like normal messages. A bit disappointed. I hinted I was free tonight, but no initiation on this. I wonder if its because he knows I have a boyfriend. They've never met before.
I am tempted to tell him we broke up and see if anything changes.

[leggysman]

Best not to lie. Why not use the word 'date'? As in, "I'm looking forward to our next date". The word sends a strong message about how you view it, and what your expectations might be. How your boyfriend fits into things will me a mystery for your friend to unravel.

[namitha157]

No one knows my boyfriend and I are together. Its been pretty hush hush. My friends know I'm dating someone.
So I think it may work.
Feels a bit cruel though. I don't really want to hurt either of them.

[namitha157]

Best not to lie. Why not use the word 'date'? As in, "I'm looking forward to our next date". The word sends a strong message about how you view it, and what your expectations might be. How your boyfriend fits into things will me a mystery for your friend to unravel.

I'm not sure. They may make me look cheap?
Having said that, he hasn't asked me anything about my boyfriend since the first time I told him.
Not sure what to make of that.