What Led You To Wifesharing?

[jrobb]

My interest began within a few years of us being married.

Our sex life before marriage was always a good time, but it wasn't as hot after we tied the knot. More than anything, that was probably because living together as husband/wife vs occasionally having an opportunity to have sex revealed a disparity in our respective sex drives. I was always horny (still am), and after marriage, she was mayyyyyybe happy with only a couple times a week.

That began my interest in finding stories in Penthouse Forum magazine about women who were comfortable being outwardly sexual. It's what I wanted her to be instead of being so terribly private and introverted. I most enjoyed stories of women, wives in particular, whose life was filled with fantasies and activities that only flirtatious, sexually outgoing women would exhibit. Women that enjoyed teasing men with maybe innocent up-skirt views and "accidental" breast or hand bumps against the bodies or crotches of men. All of those were quite far from the way my wife carried herself.

When the day arrived YEARS later that my wife expressed an interest in my friend's sexually charged story about a college threesome, I wasted no time, and within about 30 minutes, she was floating in our hot tub with her pussy filled with mine and my buddy's loads.

JR

[isinlarsa]

What led me to wife sharing? My wife.

[BbwLvr84]

The intrusive thoughts of seeing my wife penetrated by another man's cock.

[AHDog]

I knew my wife wasn't being faithful. She thought she was hiding it well but it was obvious. I never made an issue out of it and one year, while we were on a trip for our anniversary of all things, we were having a deeper conversation than whose turn it was to make dinner and she brought up open marriages. I knew straightaway it was her way of bringing it to the light.

When we got home from the trip, it wasn't long before she told me about her "first" fb.

[All about her]

I always thought it was my cuckold drive and setting up hidden dating opportunities for guys to meet her…or even before that with a couple of years in the swinging scene. But in retrospect, after she became a full hotwife and I clearly her cuck, did I probe into my memory and in conversation with her some tell tale signs I never knew about. I will take the time to tell the full story soon but the short answer was, she always was attracted to men who gave her attention…..and there were more than I knew in recent years than I knew in the 20 years as a hotwife…that actually started 15 years earlier….

[sherulestherooster]

That began my interest in finding stories in Penthouse Forum magazine about women who were comfortable being outwardly sexual. It's what I wanted her to be instead of being so terribly private and introverted. I most enjoyed stories of women, wives in particular, whose life was filled with fantasies and activities that only flirtatious, sexually outgoing women would exhibit. Women that enjoyed teasing men with maybe innocent up-skirt views and "accidental" breast or hand bumps against the bodies or crotches of men. All of those were quite far from the way my wife carried herself.

I can really relate to this. One time a guy in college flirted right in front of me with my then fiance. Outwardly I was “mad” but inwardly I didn’t understand why I was aroused, best explanation was that it validated her as being desirable.

Then we did the wedding circuit and she’d hug guy friends right out there in the open, I knew they could feel her breasts. That turned me on a lot. I also have a thing for strong assertive women, so a woman that is sexually assertive is extremely attractive to me.

[petej55]

My wife cucking me!

[wulfenus]

That began my interest in finding stories in Penthouse Forum magazine about women

Interesting how Penthouse Forum/letters and similar mags are mentioned in these stories.
We use them a lot to get inspired, though we've never gone farther than that. Still great
fun as the stories allow talk about other men and past experiences.

Seems like women are more literary minded than the visual porn men often favor and
try to use to convince what a good time sharing and so forth can be.

Penthouse influenced quite a few in that way. Of course there's stuff all over the
net, but perhaps too much makes too many choices and you have to go through
too much to find what you want, eg Literotica.

[bigheez]

That began my interest in finding stories in Penthouse Forum magazine about women who were comfortable being outwardly sexual. It's what I wanted her to be instead of being so terribly private and introverted. I most enjoyed stories of women, wives in particular, whose life was filled with fantasies and activities that only flirtatious, sexually outgoing women would exhibit. Women that enjoyed teasing men with maybe innocent up-skirt views and "accidental" breast or hand bumps against the bodies or crotches of men. All of those were quite far from the way my wife carried herself.

I can really relate to this. One time a guy in college flirted right in front of me with my then fiance. Outwardly I was “mad” but inwardly I didn’t understand why I was aroused, best explanation was that it validated her as being desirable.

Then we did the wedding circuit and she’d hug guy friends right out there in the open, I knew they could feel her breasts. That turned me on a lot. I also have a thing for strong assertive women, so a woman that is sexually assertive is extremely attractive to me.

sherulestherooster, you got it spot on when you said that it validated your fiance as being desirable. Similar for me.

My lightbulb moment was when my wife got a lead part in a play with an amateur dramatic society. A very raunchy play!!! She was very honest about the part to make sure I was OK with it. She said it would involve intimate scenes with two male actors, mainly kissing and some sexual innuendo. While I reluctantly agreed that I was OK with this because as she said, it was "just acting", What I couldn't understand was why I was aroused at the same time. When she went to rehearsals, knowing what they were rehearsing, made me even more aroused.

But when I went to the opening night it just blew my mind. Watching her "acting" close up and the audience reaction gave me the biggest hard on I had for years.

For me, for sure, it validated that my wife was extremely desirable but for her it made her realise that she wasn't just desirable but that men were so easily manipulated and she held all the cards....

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum bigheez. We will be anxious to hear more about her. She sounds like a hottie.

[jrobb]

Thank you, BigHeez!

I enjoyed your post, and would also love to hear more about what transpired since the play.

JR

[sw6]

We were walking around the lake

She said she knew some guys that would fly in to be with her

She happened to know of the forum thru insiders

Apparently I showed some significant interest

[bigheez]

Welcome to the forum bigheez. We will be anxious to hear more about her. She sounds like a hottie.

That happened 20+ years ago. And she was a hottie for sure. Still is......

[bigheez]

Thank you, BigHeez!

I enjoyed your post, and would also love to hear more about what transpired since the play.

JR

Happy to share what transpired afterwards.
New here. Should I post in forum or privately?

[armyguyot1]

I would suggest you start a thread in the Hotwife forum and tell your story. If you want to post pics put it in the Hotties forum but tell your story. A lot of people wanting to read it.