Women into cuckolding and wantings kids

[toreaddave]

Hi everyone, my question is: are women who are interested in cuckolding any less likely to want kids?
I'm asking because I'm in the dating scene and eventually want a wife into cuckolding who also wants kids (my own lol).
The question is mainly targeted towards:
1. Women who are into cuckolding
2. Men whose girlfriends/wives are into cuckolding and want or already have kids with them

[luvymayfly2]

I won't limit this to just women into cuckolding. I attract promiscuous women. They come in all stripes. Good moms can be wonderful cuckoldresses.

[sherulestherooster]

Well with my ex hot wife I was snipped many years before she became a hotwife so I think that answers the question. She took birth control for the sex with her bulls.

[hornedhubby]

I think this question applies best on a case by case basis.

Every woman in your dating pool will have a unique answer at every unique point in time. It's more journey than litmus test, IMO.

YMMV.

Best luck.

[toreaddave]

I think this question applies best on a case by case basis.

Every woman in your dating pool will have a unique answer at every unique point in time. It's more journey than litmus test, IMO.

YMMV.

Best luck.

Case by case for sure. Just a bit of a stats nerd, so I was curious if there might be a surprising skew in the poll results.

[isinlarsa]

Both my first and second wives were mothers before they became hotwives. And I've been in the role of the "bull" (I hate that term, but it's pretty widely used) with several women who were mothers. Frankly, I find it hotter when a married woman who is also a mother becomes a hotwife. I think it is because she's out getting her brains fucked out by another man, while her willing husband takes care of the kids.

[toreaddave]

Both my first and second wives were mothers before they became hotwives. And I've been in the role of the "bull" (I hate that term, but it's pretty widely used) with several women who were mothers. Frankly, I find it hotter when a married woman who is also a mother becomes a hotwife. I think it is because she's out getting her brains fucked out by another man, while her willing husband takes care of the kids.

Thanks for sharing! Interesting point about the husband taking care of the kids while she's out taking a nice sexy break

[isinlarsa]

Both my first and second wives were mothers before they became hotwives. And I've been in the role of the "bull" (I hate that term, but it's pretty widely used) with several women who were mothers. Frankly, I find it hotter when a married woman who is also a mother becomes a hotwife. I think it is because she's out getting her brains fucked out by another man, while her willing husband takes care of the kids.

Thanks for sharing! Interesting point about the husband taking care of the kids while she's out taking a nice sexy break

Being a mother is a taxing role, especially if she also is a working mother. It just seems so right that she
should be able to go off upon occasion and be reminded that she is also a woman and a sexual being.

[4herpleasure89]

It’s hard to relate to those looking for a shortcut to a cuckold relationship. I consider that a hobby not the primary objective of a relationship.

[toreaddave]

It’s hard to relate to those looking for a shortcut to a cuckold relationship. I consider that a hobby not the primary objective of a relationship.

Well, the primary objective is first and foremost a real, long-lasting, loving relationship like any other. Cuckolding just happens to be my preferred flavor of such a relationship, similar to other more "mainstream" kinky relationship types such as dom/sub/femdom/BDSM relationships. Anyway, that's not the focus of this thread.

[coastalkid]

I've read some posts here from women that take great joy in having their husband/bf at home taking care of the kids while they're out having fun.

[ucaneffher]

Sorry I'm not a hotwife answering the question but hope that my contribution to the thread is okay. If not please have an admin remove or simply let me know and I'll remove.

We aren't married and we don't have any children but I know that being a mother is no easy task. Nonetheless we both want children.

If I ever transitioned to become a full cuckold again as she explores becoming a hotwife, for me it would be the best gift to be able to look after our little ones and form a strong bond as their father all while alleviating her stress and giving her a break from her mother duties for a few hours.

I personally would not have an issue and would probably actually encourage my wife to go unwind with her boyfriend on evenings after we have dinner as a family several evenings a week if not most evenings, at least while the children are still small. After dinner, I'd start engaging with them while she goes to get ready for her boyfriend, once she is ready I give her a kiss goodbye and tell her to have a great time, and proceed to activities with the children such as puzzles or something that will fun that will build up their mental/physical skills.

Once it's bed time, I tuck them in, read them a short story, and do the remaining chores such as getting laundry started with a load in the washer, cleaning up the table and loading up the dishwasher, taking out the trash, and wiping down the rest of the kitchen. Once the house is clean, the children are asleep, and my wife is out making love to her boyfriend - now it's my free and alone time to reconnect with my inner cuckold. Alone in bed I get to finally release to the thought that my wife has a great balanced life. She is a mom, a wife, and a girlfriend and all possible thanks to me being a cuckold.

Late at night, my wife walks in quietly, gets ready for bed and joins me. Thanks me for being so flexible and giving her the life that I give her. We cuddle in bed and she lets me have a quickie just so I can quickly cum and add a load of my own to the already 2 or 3 loads that her boyfriend left in her earlier. We go to sleep so that we can start all over again the next day and repeat. That would be the normal for us, she comes home with 2-3 loads in her every time from making love to her boyfriend, but I get to have a fast quickie until i finish in her but she doesn't need or want to cum as she has been strictly getting all of her mind blowing orgasms from her boyfriend during their love making. Plus we have to be quiet so our sex is just for me to get off.

That's would be the daily thing. For the weekends, I would probably say that she should go away one weekend a month to stay with her boyfriend from Friday night to Sunday night. I'd plan fun activities those weekends with the kids. Park, swimming (pool or beach), trampoline parks, arcades (if old enough), going to the movies, childrens museums, if old enough, fun crafts in the garage like building bird houses and such. If she wanted a second weekend a month with her boyfriend, then it would have to not be 2 weekends in a row but instead 1 away, 1 home, 1 away and the kids would likely go to stay at their grandparents that time. That would mean one month id have the kids one weekend, then her parents another weekend, the next month of have the kids one weekend and my parents would have the kids one weekend. If she was to spend two weekends per month away otherwise it'd be just me one weekend per month.

This would allow my wife to take a longer break and connect deeper with her boyfriend, ultimately letting her recharge and coming back energized to Mom and Wife life.

I know that if she ever decides to embrace becoming a hot girlfriend/hot wife as we have previously discussed, her becoming a mom/wife with a boyfriend while husband watches children and cleans is actually a dynamic that I would overall want. As long as she is meeting all of her responsibilities as a mother and stay at home wife while I am at work during the day, then I think she more than earns the right to a boyfriend and time off every evening to unwind with him and get her daily pounding and orgasms from him.

If she did not want to go the boyfriend route and instead wanted to have several friends with benefits or just one night stands, then the same ideas would apply but knowing my GF as well as I do, she will want a boyfriend to connect with and be able to go bareback with. During our few talks when I came clean to her about my fantasy, she confirmed herself that if she ever made me a cuckold, she would need to have a full blown boyfriend and not just ONS/FBs and asked if that was an option-for her to get a boyfriend should she ever want to take us in that direction. I of course gave her the blessing as long as we discussed and planned accordingly.

It's a win win for everyone involved and feel that it should be a normal thing.
-Children get to spend quality time with Dad and get to bond/do fun activities

-Wife gets a break from reality- gets intimacy and privacy with boyfriend

-Husband gets to bond with his little ones and gets his fantasy of having a hot wife.

-Boyfriend gets quality time with his girlfriend while her husband does everything to give her alone time with the boyfriend.

[toreaddave]

Sorry I'm not a hotwife answering the question but hope that my contribution to the thread is okay. If not please have an admin remove or simply let me know and I'll remove.

We aren't married and we don't have any children but I know that being a mother is no easy task. Nonetheless we both want children.

If I ever transitioned to become a full cuckold again as she explores becoming a hotwife, for me it would be the best gift to be able to look after our little ones and form a strong bond as their father all while alleviating her stress and giving her a break from her mother duties for a few hours.

I personally would not have an issue and would probably actually encourage my wife to go unwind with her boyfriend on evenings after we have dinner as a family several evenings a week if not most evenings, at least while the children are still small. After dinner, I'd start engaging with them while she goes to get ready for her boyfriend, once she is ready I give her a kiss goodbye and tell her to have a great time, and proceed to activities with the children such as puzzles or something that will fun that will build up their mental/physical skills.

Once it's bed time, I tuck them in, read them a short story, and do the remaining chores such as getting laundry started with a load in the washer, cleaning up the table and loading up the dishwasher, taking out the trash, and wiping down the rest of the kitchen. Once the house is clean, the children are asleep, and my wife is out making love to her boyfriend - now it's my free and alone time to reconnect with my inner cuckold. Alone in bed I get to finally release to the thought that my wife has a great balanced life. She is a mom, a wife, and a girlfriend and all possible thanks to me being a cuckold.

Late at night, my wife walks in quietly, gets ready for bed and joins me. Thanks me for being so flexible and giving her the life that I give her. We cuddle in bed and she lets me have a quickie just so I can quickly cum and add a load of my own to the already 2 or 3 loads that her boyfriend left in her earlier. We go to sleep so that we can start all over again the next day and repeat. That would be the normal for us, she comes home with 2-3 loads in her every time from making love to her boyfriend, but I get to have a fast quickie until i finish in her but she doesn't need or want to cum as she has been strictly getting all of her mind blowing orgasms from her boyfriend during their love making. Plus we have to be quiet so our sex is just for me to get off.

That's would be the daily thing. For the weekends, I would probably say that she should go away one weekend a month to stay with her boyfriend from Friday night to Sunday night. I'd plan fun activities those weekends with the kids. Park, swimming (pool or beach), trampoline parks, arcades (if old enough), going to the movies, childrens museums, if old enough, fun crafts in the garage like building bird houses and such. If she wanted a second weekend a month with her boyfriend, then it would have to not be 2 weekends in a row but instead 1 away, 1 home, 1 away and the kids would likely go to stay at their grandparents that time. That would mean one month id have the kids one weekend, then her parents another weekend, the next month of have the kids one weekend and my parents would have the kids one weekend. If she was to spend two weekends per month away otherwise it'd be just me one weekend per month.

This would allow my wife to take a longer break and connect deeper with her boyfriend, ultimately letting her recharge and coming back energized to Mom and Wife life.

I know that if she ever decides to embrace becoming a hot girlfriend/hot wife as we have previously discussed, her becoming a mom/wife with a boyfriend while husband watches children and cleans is actually a dynamic that I would overall want. As long as she is meeting all of her responsibilities as a mother and stay at home wife while I am at work during the day, then I think she more than earns the right to a boyfriend and time off every evening to unwind with him and get her daily pounding and orgasms from him.

If she did not want to go the boyfriend route and instead wanted to have several friends with benefits or just one night stands, then the same ideas would apply but knowing my GF as well as I do, she will want a boyfriend to connect with and be able to go bareback with. During our few talks when I came clean to her about my fantasy, she confirmed herself that if she ever made me a cuckold, she would need to have a full blown boyfriend and not just ONS/FBs and asked if that was an option-for her to get a boyfriend should she ever want to take us in that direction. I of course gave her the blessing as long as we discussed and planned accordingly.

It's a win win for everyone involved and feel that it should be a normal thing.
-Children get to spend quality time with Dad and get to bond/do fun activities

-Wife gets a break from reality- gets intimacy and privacy with boyfriend

-Husband gets to bond with his little ones and gets his fantasy of having a hot wife.

-Boyfriend gets quality time with his girlfriend while her husband does everything to give her alone time with the boyfriend.

Well said, thanks for sharing!

[sudhir2701]

I am the guy who has contributed to pregnancy and kids with hotwives and cuckoldress.

I can say with confidence, motherhood is hard. Pregnancy can drive hormones but once kids come you are responsible for a life. It is hard.

Most of mine were planned and here is a reality check. The 6 weeks cooling period after childbirth is a bloody myth. Most times my lovers would come over to get some well needed sleep and yes many just stopped after childbirth for some years.

You can feel the rush while planning it and doing it but afterwards the reality is different and it does not matter how supportive your lover and partner is.

It also requires a very strong marriage. One of my lovers just stopped having sex for a year after childbirth and we were in close proximity but it did drive the dynamic after where her husband was taking care of the kid while we were having sex. That time she spent with me she wanted to be a free woman and was a small escape before going back to the primary relationship with her husband and family. As she called herself; a slut for a few hours for herself and her husband.

[toreaddave]

I am the guy who has contributed to pregnancy and kids with hotwives and cuckoldress.

I can say with confidence, motherhood is hard. Pregnancy can drive hormones but once kids come you are responsible for a life. It is hard.

Most of mine were planned and here is a reality check. The 6 weeks cooling period after childbirth is a bloody myth. Most times my lovers would come over to get some well needed sleep and yes many just stopped after childbirth for some years.

You can feel the rush while planning it and doing it but afterwards the reality is different and it does not matter how supportive your lover and partner is.

It also requires a very strong marriage. One of my lovers just stopped having sex for a year after childbirth and we were in close proximity but it did drive the dynamic after where her husband was taking care of the kid while we were having sex. That time she spent with me she wanted to be a free woman and was a small escape before going back to the primary relationship with her husband and family. As she called herself; a slut for a few hours for herself and her husband.

"A slut for a few hours" - brilliant
Thanks for sharing!

[Cdncuck]

Hi everyone, my question is: are women who are interested in cuckolding any less likely to want kids?
I'm asking because I'm in the dating scene and eventually want a wife into cuckolding who also wants kids (my own lol).
The question is mainly targeted towards:
1. Women who are into cuckolding
2. Men whose girlfriends/wives are into cuckolding and want or already have kids with them

My wife started fucking other guys, at my suggestion, when we were dating. We have kids. She's in her 60s now still cuckolding me.

[toreaddave]

Hi everyone, my question is: are women who are interested in cuckolding any less likely to want kids?
I'm asking because I'm in the dating scene and eventually want a wife into cuckolding who also wants kids (my own lol).
The question is mainly targeted towards:
1. Women who are into cuckolding
2. Men whose girlfriends/wives are into cuckolding and want or already have kids with them

My wife started fucking other guys, at my suggestion, when we were dating. We have kids. She's in her 60s now still cuckolding me.

Thanks for sharing! With the poll now at 12-3 in favor of kids, I think it's safe to say my initial assumption was wrong that women into this lifestyle are less likely to want kids. Thanks everyone!