Hoping to get back into the "swing of things"

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LizAndPhil
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Hoping to get back into the "swing of things"

Unread post by LizAndPhil » Mon Dec 16, 2024 11:23 am

My wife and I had a Swing Lifestyle account a few years back but we didn't do too much with it. We'd go to to the local sex club and just watch. She wasn't much into anything except she seemed to like watching me enjoy the shows. There were a number of men she met but she just didn't seem to be interested in any of them.

At any rate, we started up a new Swing Lifestyle account (the old one I can't even remember which email address I used at the time). This time, my wife has a bit more interest in it but doesn't seem to have more interest in it beyond maybe visiting a club again. I have a few pics posted on it but none of them are what I would call risque. Anyways, we got a note from a few guys who are showing some interest. While she loves it when I am talking to other women, she doesn't have much interest in the guys. At least not very excited about it as I'd hoped she would be.

On that site, it seems that it's more of a couples kind of thing. To be honest, I'm not nearly as interested in women as I am in watching my wife have some fun. Unf. she seems to only want me to have the fun lol. Not sure where to go from here to get her more on board. Anyways, she's had some health challenges over the last few years and she's kind of self-conscious about appearance but from what I've seen many men could be interested.

She loves to have lots of sex with me. And I have always appreciated that. Also, I have brought up the fact that I enjoy watching or just knowing that she flirts or just has fun with other men. But, she doesn't seem to be all that interested in it

Any advice?

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