Should the bull be faithful to the couple?

[Experimenti3]

Me and my wife are a cuckold couple. We have been in lifestyle for 18 years. I am 57 and my wife is 54yo. However, for the last 8 years my wife is in a regular relationship with a guy who is almost 20 years younger. At the beginning he was really inexperienced, but my wife liked him a lot and she was very patient with him. Step by step he became a very good bull, he gained self confidence, he was watching porn and implementing new things with my wife. She was obviously very happy with him.
Right at the beginning he was single. Few years later he got married, but his wife never knew anything about his relationship with my wife. My wife didn’t mind him getting married, they were still having regular meetings and it seemed like suitable arrangement for everyone.
However, lately the bull has been seeing few more married wife’s (one wife of a cuckold couple, with the knowledge of her husband, and the other one a married cheating wife). My wife still seems like she doesn’t mind, however my dilemma is if it is ok for the bull to have other relationships or if he should be faithful to us?! Just wondering.

[Johnann2227]

It depends if you are going bareback with him. All of my wife's previous lovers and boyfriends have had to wear a condom purely for health reasons. We have never expected them to be solely with my wife. She has drawn the line at married men as she does not want to be the cause of a family break up.

With her current boyfriend. who has moved in with us, we expect faithfulness from him as we have decided to go bareback with him. He is special. In our swinger group we share James but we all live by the same health standards.

[TeunJ9207]

The Bull is free to have sex with whoever he likes. That's what he likes doing and not a problem at all, I would say.

[coastalkid]

It seems like it would be an advantage for a couple that wanted an ongoing situation at least in terms of risking sexually transmitted diseases. It has to be a much more enjoyable experience without the fear of STD's. I can also understand that a "faithful bull" would give greater opportunity for emotional connections to form. That may or may not be ideal. I'm sure the pros and cons fall to the individual couples and the "bull" they've chosen.

[venus-can99]

As JohnAnn suggests above the critical thing is the health and safety of your hw and you. As long as safety protocols are strictly followed and testing becomes the norm it may be ok

[D+D]

My wife has never really expected a lover or bull to be faithful because she isn’t. She has never passed up on an opportunity to be with someone who she’s attracted to because of a bull or lover. Her current lover is married and she has been fucking him for four years.

[windymiller]

Most if not all of my cuckoldresess long term lovers have been married and taken her bareback depositing their seed into her.

I have always been alright with this, its what she wants and we enjoy but if one of her bulls was been stupid enough to confess he had multiple other lovers, then i would have ask her to stop seeing him or taking his bareback.

I sure she would reach this conclusion anyway.

[Dream Weaver]

Your life, your code to live by.

[Experimenti3]

It depends if you are going bareback with him. All of my wife's previous lovers and boyfriends have had to wear a condom purely for health reasons. We have never expected them to be solely with my wife. She has drawn the line at married men as she does not want to be the cause of a family break up.

With her current boyfriend. who has moved in with us, we expect faithfulness from him as we have decided to go bareback with him. He is special. In our swinger group we share James but we all live by the same health standards.

Thank you for your opinion.
Yes, my wife is going bareback with him since the third time she met him. But at that time he was young and alone, not in any relationship. However meanwhile he got married, and lately he is fucking two other wife's as I mentioned in my post. It seems that that they live by high health standards, however I was dreaming that my wife is a special person for him.

[Experimenti3]

The Bull is free to have sex with whoever he likes. That's what he likes doing and not a problem at all, I would say.

Thank you for your opinion.
I guess you are right, it has to be in bulls character to take every chance he has.
To be honest, it even makes me feel good when he tells me about his other adventures. Somehow I see him as a strong and successful bull.

[Experimenti3]

It seems like it would be an advantage for a couple that wanted an ongoing situation at least in terms of risking sexually transmitted diseases. It has to be a much more enjoyable experience without the fear of STD's. I can also understand that a "faithful bull" would give greater opportunity for emotional connections to form. That may or may not be ideal. I'm sure the pros and cons fall to the individual couples and the "bull" they've chosen.

Thank you for your opinion!
I suppose that “opportunity for emotional connection” is exactly what was worrying us/me. I was hoping for my wife to be exclusive for him……

[Experimenti3]

As JohnAnn suggests above the critical thing is the health and safety of your hw and you. As long as safety protocols are strictly followed and testing becomes the norm it may be ok

Thank you for your opinion!

[Experimenti3]

My wife has never really expected a lover or bull to be faithful because she isn’t. She has never passed up on an opportunity to be with someone who she’s attracted to because of a bull or lover. Her current lover is married and she has been fucking him for four years.

Thank you for your opinion Sir!
It is same with my wife, she is not faithful to her bull and she prefers a change time after time. I guess that us what motivated our bull as well…….

[proudcuck40]

To each their own, but we would not expect a bull to be exclusive to us.

We have been very lucky with all the guys we have played with to date. The majority have been friends of ours - some in relationships, others single.

We have never placed any restrictions on them. We want them to be free and happy.

Plus, who are we to deny others those incredible cocks!

[Yourfirstbull]

I've actually found that couples enjoy that I'm not exclusive, for two main reasons:
-First, they know that there won't be any risk of catching feelings.
-Secondly—and this sounds strange and has been a surprise to me as a bull—it's a sign that they're choosing someone who is a catch, which flatters the wife (I used to assume that wives wouldn't want to know I'm with other wives, so this was an unexpected revelation).

[atl0707]

I highly recommend NOT putting constraints on his interactions with you and to make it clear that he is free to date or do anyone else he wants. You should have discussed this in the beginning, but obviously he struck out on his own anyway. The cuck experience is really about fantasy and not reality. If you are looking for a commitment, you should both advertise that you are poly and make this clear up front with her potential boyfriend. You need to be prepared for an emotional roller coaster, however, and your lover may decide he wants someone of his own anyway. Threesomes have a rocky history and can make emotional intimacy very hard to achieve. They aren’t usually worth the drama.

[atl0707]

I highly recommend NOT putting constraints on his interactions with you and to make it clear that he is free to date or do anyone else he wants. You should have discussed this in the beginning, but obviously he struck out on his own anyway. The cuck experience is really about fantasy and not reality. If you are looking for a commitment, you should both advertise that you are poly and make this clear up front with her potential boyfriend. You need to be prepared for an emotional roller coaster, however, and your lover may decide he wants someone of his own anyway. Threesomes have a rocky history and can make emotional intimacy very hard to achieve. They aren’t usually worth the drama.

[PlayfulGuy]

I feel if the male / bull / bf and the couple end up meeting frequently as well as go bareback then they are in a relationship. And mutual faithfulness if parties feel for it may make the relationship even more intimate and exciting.
Especially if hubbie can stay locked
However, for many it may also bring new dramas? Either way nothing wrong with open communication.

As Dream Weaver said " your life, your code to live by".

[bewareoflizzy]

Liz always used to tell me that she and her younger lover, Jim were monogamous (besides our very active sex life). It was a running joke with us. But, one time she did come home with some kind of an infection or STD. He had it as well. Then she gave it to me. She went to a doctor who ended giving her prescriptions for 3 people. I never got a straight answer if it was her or him who strayed.

[Her number1]

I believe expecting a third to be "faithful" is as silly as expecting a hotwife to be "faithful". Some wives and some thirds may want that, and it is theirs to work out.
While we didn't start out that way, and I still don't see us as completely that way, Farmgirl and her boyfriend have morphed into a form of exclusive relationship. He and I are exclusive to her, and she is exclusive to us.

[parklife]

My wife’s FWBs have all been in other relationships and while she obviously had no expectations that they wouldn’t be with their wives or girlfriends, she had no desire to hear about any of it and she did expect herself to be the only “other” relationship they had. She did acknowledge the hypocrisy as some of those relationships overlapped with each other (so, she had multiple lovers at a time). She did suspect one of them had others and she always made him use a condom but the others she did not as she felt/believed that it was more exclusive on their end and she eventually ditched the condoms.

[stubbyhubby]

I think it depends on what your wife desires. Every couple will see this differently.

Lisa never cared either way, although she always refused to be in a group setting with other women. That was just because she doesn't like to share lol

Her current bull is only with her. I think it is partly because of his age (he is 33 now I think) and partly because he is divorced and doesn't really want a serious relationship that could lead to marriage. He takes her on dates, stays the night anytime he wants and knows he can fuck her anytime he wants, so he gets the full relationship experience without the demands of being in a relationship.

Her other three manfriends are married, but their wives never want to have sex, so when they need to fuck she is their go-to. They are not obligated to only fuck her, they just usually do because they know they can without any issues.

[stonemtncouple]

I believe expecting a third to be "faithful" is as silly as expecting a hotwife to be "faithful". Some wives and some thirds may want that, and it is theirs to work out.
While we didn't start out that way, and I still don't see us as completely that way, Farmgirl and her boyfriend have morphed into a form of exclusive relationship. He and I are exclusive to her, and she is exclusive to us.

I love your comments!

My Hotwife gets jealous of other women fucking her Bulls.
Crazy !!
But most important to her is that her men tell her “ She is the best cock sucker, best feeling pussy, best looking tits, etc.” She knows they fuck other women but as long as she feels that they think she’s the best, the most attractive, best fuck they’ve ever had, then she smiles and has that twinkle in her eyes.

I believe women are competitive like that, instinctual nature.

[Her number1]

I love your comments!

My Hotwife gets jealous of other women fucking her Bulls.
Crazy !!
But most important to her is that her men tell her “ She is the best cock sucker, best feeling pussy, best looking tits, etc.” She knows they fuck other women but as long as she feels that they think she’s the best, the most attractive, best fuck they’ve ever had, then she smiles and has that twinkle in her eyes.

I believe women are competitive like that, instinctual nature.

Thanks .
I really get you about the "competitive" aspect. Farmgirl is very competitive for her men's attention, even to the jealous side.

[stonemtncouple]

I love your comments!

My Hotwife gets jealous of other women fucking her Bulls.
Crazy !!
But most important to her is that her men tell her “ She is the best cock sucker, best feeling pussy, best looking tits, etc.” She knows they fuck other women but as long as she feels that they think she’s the best, the most attractive, best fuck they’ve ever had, then she smiles and has that twinkle in her eyes.

I believe women are competitive like that, instinctual nature.

Thanks .
I really get you about the "competitive" aspect. Farmgirl is very competitive for her men's attention, even to the jealous side.

Love It!! Aren’t we so blessed to have women in our lives who feel this way!!