Organising a gangbang
Organising a gangbang
Been a cuck for ages now. Wife plays on and off. We were at a party a few weeks ago and she says why don’t you organise the next one for me and 4-5 guys. I was thinking wow. How hard can this be. I sorted the hotel. Then I advertised the event on RHP on which we are verified members. 100 people were interested. Wow. We started to reply and message the interest. About 50 replied. Out of the 50 we eliminated about 30 due to personal taste etc. Out of the 20 about 10 were pic collectors, asking for various pics even though there’s heaps on the profile. That left 10. 8 said they were interested refused to pay a deposit. (A must or they just don’t turn up). So out of 100 we are down to just 2 that have paid a deposit and will hopefully be there. Honestly.
Re: Organising a gangbang
It ain't as easy as some folks might think.
We've had the best results at swingers parties where they can sometimes happen spontaneously. We've organized some. We had a few good ones but most times it was exactly as you described
We've had the best results at swingers parties where they can sometimes happen spontaneously. We've organized some. We had a few good ones but most times it was exactly as you described
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How much more difficult is it versus finding a (1on1) bull?
Is it more difficult because you can't be as flexible with dates/times?
Or are guys less into gangbangs than 1on1 sex?
Personally, I have no interest in gangbangs, I wouldn't want to share. No matter how hot a woman was, if I had to share her with anyone else I'd lose all interest. I'm curious how other bulls could want to.
Is it more difficult because you can't be as flexible with dates/times?
Or are guys less into gangbangs than 1on1 sex?
Personally, I have no interest in gangbangs, I wouldn't want to share. No matter how hot a woman was, if I had to share her with anyone else I'd lose all interest. I'm curious how other bulls could want to.
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Watchinu69
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Re: Organising a gangbang
Credit cards and gang bangs aren't very popular with normal
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Re credit cards. You can’t expect the wife to pay for the hotel if she’s the one putting her body out. Even with the deposit we will still be contributing some of it. If you don’t do the deposit you get way too many wannabe no shows.
Re 1 on 1. We prefer a group setting. It’s less emotional. Wifey loves to be in the middle and looks at me (kind of feeling sorry for me) whilst all the guys fuck her and I’m locked up. We both love it though.
I. Saying that she occasionally does 1 on 1.
The 2 (possibly 3 now) guys who are having her tonight were delighted with the low numbers.
Re 1 on 1. We prefer a group setting. It’s less emotional. Wifey loves to be in the middle and looks at me (kind of feeling sorry for me) whilst all the guys fuck her and I’m locked up. We both love it though.
I. Saying that she occasionally does 1 on 1.
The 2 (possibly 3 now) guys who are having her tonight were delighted with the low numbers.
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iloanmywife
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Re: Organising a gangbang
I agree with others about it being far more difficult than you'd think. My wife would never consent to an "open door" situation, where anyone who shows up gets to play. She is extremely selective with men. There were three scenarios that she was comfortable with:
1. We invite several of her established past/current play friends at once. We know each of them, but they don't know each other.
2. We give a trusted play friend an opportunity to bring a friend (or two). A friend of yours is a friend of ours.
3. We meet an established group of friends who were comfortable with group sex. They know each other, but we don't know any of them.
Scenario 1: Most of the guys we've known preferred to be the single Bull in our relationship. They've been too jealous to share my wife with other men, and some of them resent me. There were a few who didn't mind joining a "moresome" but most of the men we've known wanted my wife for themselves.
Scenario 2: My wife suggested it to a long-term boyfriend who had a roommate. She slept at his place routinely (about once/week) and the roommate understood that she was married. Casual non-monogamy was part of the dynamic my wife and I wanted, so she wore her rings and would casually mention "her husband" in conversation around the roommate and their friends. I found it arousing to visualize my wife in a t-shirt and panties walking around a condo with two men I've never men -- especially when one of them clearly heard them fucking in the bedroom a few minutes earlier. One night she asked her boyfriend if he wanted to get his roommate to join them. The boyfriend wasn't into it at all LOL. Again, very jealous.
Scenario 3: This is a lot harder in practice. All of us on this forum are sexually libertine, but how many of us would be comfortable asking our friends to join them for group sex with another man's wife? Tough to start that conversation.
Most of the guys who were open to this were online friends who had done this with other wives. We toyed with this approach for a while and it never materialized, though we came tantalizingly close. We had some guys respond to our profile and my wife wanted to meet them to see if it would work. I couldn't go so she went alone because we wanted to make it happen in the near term. It still blows my mind that my wife met multiple guys for drinks, by herself, in person, to discuss having group sex with her. The worst part is that they all hit it off and my wife was totally on board for a gangbang that weekend. Then (unrelated) shit happened that kept us from making it a reality.
And we came THIS FUCKING CLOSE to having Scenario #3 unfold in Key West several years ago. I lost track of my wife for a bit, then found her in a corner of the bar with a group of guys who were buying her shots. Stereotypical bachelor party weekend. She told me later that she got that vibe that they'd definitely be into gangbanging a man's wife (this was a good read), so she let herself get "picked up" by the group. I watched for a while and then approached. When she introduced me as her husband they didn't blink and eye or so much as take their hands off her ass and tits. I remember thinking "This is happening." Long story short, we ended going back to our room with one of the guys. We had a DP threesome and then my wife and I took a shower (she had cum all over her face). He went back to the bar to gather up his friends with the intent that we'd meet up and go to their place for a no-holds-barred gangbang. Because we're idiots, we forgot to get get his number first. We went out looking for them but it was a madhouse by then, we soon got too drunk to keep looking, and we never saw them again.
1. We invite several of her established past/current play friends at once. We know each of them, but they don't know each other.
2. We give a trusted play friend an opportunity to bring a friend (or two). A friend of yours is a friend of ours.
3. We meet an established group of friends who were comfortable with group sex. They know each other, but we don't know any of them.
Scenario 1: Most of the guys we've known preferred to be the single Bull in our relationship. They've been too jealous to share my wife with other men, and some of them resent me. There were a few who didn't mind joining a "moresome" but most of the men we've known wanted my wife for themselves.
Scenario 2: My wife suggested it to a long-term boyfriend who had a roommate. She slept at his place routinely (about once/week) and the roommate understood that she was married. Casual non-monogamy was part of the dynamic my wife and I wanted, so she wore her rings and would casually mention "her husband" in conversation around the roommate and their friends. I found it arousing to visualize my wife in a t-shirt and panties walking around a condo with two men I've never men -- especially when one of them clearly heard them fucking in the bedroom a few minutes earlier. One night she asked her boyfriend if he wanted to get his roommate to join them. The boyfriend wasn't into it at all LOL. Again, very jealous.
Scenario 3: This is a lot harder in practice. All of us on this forum are sexually libertine, but how many of us would be comfortable asking our friends to join them for group sex with another man's wife? Tough to start that conversation.
Most of the guys who were open to this were online friends who had done this with other wives. We toyed with this approach for a while and it never materialized, though we came tantalizingly close. We had some guys respond to our profile and my wife wanted to meet them to see if it would work. I couldn't go so she went alone because we wanted to make it happen in the near term. It still blows my mind that my wife met multiple guys for drinks, by herself, in person, to discuss having group sex with her. The worst part is that they all hit it off and my wife was totally on board for a gangbang that weekend. Then (unrelated) shit happened that kept us from making it a reality.
And we came THIS FUCKING CLOSE to having Scenario #3 unfold in Key West several years ago. I lost track of my wife for a bit, then found her in a corner of the bar with a group of guys who were buying her shots. Stereotypical bachelor party weekend. She told me later that she got that vibe that they'd definitely be into gangbanging a man's wife (this was a good read), so she let herself get "picked up" by the group. I watched for a while and then approached. When she introduced me as her husband they didn't blink and eye or so much as take their hands off her ass and tits. I remember thinking "This is happening." Long story short, we ended going back to our room with one of the guys. We had a DP threesome and then my wife and I took a shower (she had cum all over her face). He went back to the bar to gather up his friends with the intent that we'd meet up and go to their place for a no-holds-barred gangbang. Because we're idiots, we forgot to get get his number first. We went out looking for them but it was a madhouse by then, we soon got too drunk to keep looking, and we never saw them again.
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Re: Organising a gangbang
We listed a gangbang on Fetlife. We probably had 100 interested and we invited 28 and 7 showed up. She had a really good time and the guys were all very respectful. We are having our 2nd tomorrow night. From what we've heard from others you can count on 30%-40% showing up.
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People paying to attend can be a slippery slope. I'm not a lawyer but I'd be careful on this. I don't know you local laws but I know enough to say that's a grey area in most states. Getting in legal trouble for that might come down to the verbage you use when you invite people (when it's written online there's no his word against yours at play) and how bored your local DA is.
As a side note look at this from their perspective. Would you just front money to someone you've never met hoping there's a chance he's telling the truth and the pay will be shared pussy? For every one that is real there's probably 4 more where the planners are either scammers or simply won't follow through and keep your money. The people you are left with are usually desperate men willing to risk paying money for the chance at getting laid anyway they can. And for slightly more money (not sure how much you are trying to charge) they can have a hooker to themselves......... I'm not saying that's everybody but I am suggesting that might be why you have a tough time planning it.
As a side note look at this from their perspective. Would you just front money to someone you've never met hoping there's a chance he's telling the truth and the pay will be shared pussy? For every one that is real there's probably 4 more where the planners are either scammers or simply won't follow through and keep your money. The people you are left with are usually desperate men willing to risk paying money for the chance at getting laid anyway they can. And for slightly more money (not sure how much you are trying to charge) they can have a hooker to themselves......... I'm not saying that's everybody but I am suggesting that might be why you have a tough time planning it.