Change in dynamics

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caged_cuck12
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Change in dynamics

Unread post by caged_cuck12 » Tue Apr 29, 2025 8:10 pm

Hi everyone,

my partner has grown closer to the guy she has been seeing for a while now - their bonding has transformed into a bf/gf thing. having said that, she had a talk with me the other day and expressed her desire for more private time with him. she wants me to be less present in the bedroom when they get intimate, and she prefers to extend the time between cage releases (once a month from now on) and make them even rarer over time. to those experienced, is that doable/safe?

I dont worry about them getting closer because I am certain she will never leave me for him. we share a very strong bonding outside the bedroom. having said that, is her desire normal given their situation?

kindly advise. thanks.
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Barti
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Re: Change in dynamics

Unread post by Barti » Wed Apr 30, 2025 1:36 am

I can only give advice from my situation. we NEVER want closer intimacy between wife and bulls. Our love is exlusive.
On the other hand: longer period in cage is logic. I am in there from 9 august already....

masculinecuck
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Re: Change in dynamics

Unread post by masculinecuck » Wed Apr 30, 2025 5:08 am

My wife LOVES her 3 steady's, nothing wrong with that in my opinion, she's happy ......................

masculinecuck
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Re: Change in dynamics

Unread post by masculinecuck » Wed Apr 30, 2025 5:09 am

My wife LOVES her 3 steady's, nothing wrong with that in my opinion, she's happy ......................they have a wonderful relationship totally a BF/GF couple thing, turns me on immensely as it does her as well. I know our marriage is strong so if it's not broken............

mgl
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Re: Change in dynamics

Unread post by mgl » Wed Apr 30, 2025 10:03 am

It sounds less you-more she and he. Not a promissing direction.
Does she want to tease you more often or something for your pleasure?

elina
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Re: Change in dynamics

Unread post by elina » Thu May 01, 2025 1:21 am

Congratulations caged-cuck

Seems to me that this is a normal evolution for a cuckold relationship with an increasingly dominant Lady Cuckoldress and a submissive cuck who wants his Lady to enjoy Herself.

To me, the fact that She now desires to both develop a closer relationship with Her Lover, having more private time with him, and the same time wants to increase your time in chastity shows that She is both wanting to commit to enjoy Herself with Her lover and at the same time ensure that She can fully control you and keep you as Her devoted, faitfull cuck.

I have been chaste-locked up for almost four months without release. Yes it is doable, although what I suggest is that you request that your Wife unlocks you approximately every second week while you are in the shower, that your Wife watch as you thouroughly clean yourselfm shave your pubic area, clean the cage and put it back on for Her to lock you up again. The purpose of Her watching is first and foremost to ensure that you do not cheat (and you will be incredibly tempted the longer She keeps you locked up). But also, it is a wonderful way for Her to reaffirm Her ownership over you, and for you to demonstrate your commitment to Her happiness.

Also, I hope you already have a cage that is well suited for you and easy to keep clean. If not start looking for one with your Wife to get one which is both secure, comfortable for long term use and easy to keep clean. I know for experience that you cannot trust alot of what is claimed in the adverticements for many of these cages.

Good luck
Sincerely
elina

Letsgetdirty
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Re: Change in dynamics

Unread post by Letsgetdirty » Thu May 01, 2025 7:08 am

Each to their own … my wife spends the weekend at bulls house…. We have set some boundaries ..

Tryagain
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Re: Change in dynamics

Unread post by Tryagain » Thu May 01, 2025 7:19 am

Her desire is not unusual but i do not think it is a "normal" response. And please - for your own sake - do not feel she will never leave you. Look around on this site and see where others who thought this way were sadly very disappointed.

Just reading your post leads me to feel you are naive. I mean you are not even married, so that level of commitment to you is not even present.

And we need more details such as how long you are together and what is she doing to act like a GF/BF relationship?

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