It has been a while since I/we have posted anything. After the passing of my wife’s longterm lover, I figured the lifestyle was over. There have been positive signs but nothing that was worthy of celebration - until now.
My beautiful wife (68) is getting on an airplane in the morning (Saturday) to fly across the country to meet up with a man she knows very well but hasn’t seen for a long time. They have been talking and she asked me if it would be okay for her to make the trip. She said that sex - lots of it - is definitely on the agenda. Naturally, I said yes.
I know the guy well and I trust them both explicitly so there are no worries or butterflies except that she has never flown anywhere to meet someone. That she would want to do this is a fantastic thing and it sure sounds like we are back in the game. I have known this trip was planned for a few weeks but even when the airline ticket was purchased, I figured something would happen and things would fall through.
It is going to happen!! I couldn’t be more proud of her than I am at this moment.
Sorry for the Facebook post but I just had to tell someone. Thank you for listening.
PS: Of course, I will share any news I get. She is spending the week with him and will fly home next Friday.
Great news - just wanting to share
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MrsSizzlesHubby
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Re: Great news - just wanting to share
What an awesome thing! 
Our story viewtopic.php?f=5&t=43932#p750847
Re: Great news - just wanting to share
How exciting for you both! Yes! Please do tell us how it goes!
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MrsSizzlesHubby
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After a long day in the air, she called to let me know she safely made it there and he picked her up at the airport. They ate a late lunch and spent the rest of the day getting settled in (Saturday).
They slept together last night but I haven’t heard from her today (Sunday).
They slept together last night but I haven’t heard from her today (Sunday).
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Re: Great news - just wanting to share
Wife called to check-in while he was showering up. They are going out on a dinner date this evening. She said that last night was wonderful. He was a perfect gentleman and took his time with her. They had sex and fell asleep in each other’s arms. They woke up this morning and had sex again. More to come later
Re: Great news - just wanting to share
Congratulations. A beautiful thing.
Sharing your partner is a very loving act. Double her pleasure; double your fun.
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."
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Re: Great news - just wanting to share
Sounds like a wonderful trip MSH. Hopefully we can get more details…
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Re: Great news - just wanting to share
I’ve always had a bit of a hang up about my wife going far away with her boyfriend to enjoy each others’ company.
It’s somewhat irrational, but…..
My hang up involves being too far away from her should something catastrophic occur (car accident? etc.). Aside from wanting to hold her hand and be next to her in one of life’s unplanned inflection points, there’s also the matter of how guarded we are in making sure NO ONE close to us (adult children, brothers/sisters, our parents, our close friends, etc.) knows that we engage in ethical/consensual non-monogamy……that my wife sleeps with another man, and that I’m perfectly fine with it….that, like you with your wife, I even encourage it.
My wife’s boyfriend took her to Vegas for a long weekend several months ago.
I felt like……Y’know……It’s one thing for her to spend the night across town at his place. (She does that often.) But it’s entirely different for them to be so far away.
What if they get into a serious Uber accident? What if there’s a terrorist attack? (Vegas would be a big target due to the open nature of the place and all of the physical debauchery that the place is symbolic for. Some gun nut with a bible and a self-righteous attitude…..) What if there was some sort of natural disaster?
I’d want to be right there, next to her hospital bed, holding her hand should it be some of our last moments together.
Irrational, I know.
But when you’ve been married for so long and still love each other so deeply, you can’t imagine not being with each other for such an important moment in our lives together.
And then, there’s the family.
How does one explain to the family that “Mom was in Vegas with her boyfriend when shit went sideways” and “I wasn’t there to hold her hand when she passed away”?
The family is completely oblivious to our extramarital fun. It would absolutely annihilate some family members to find out that their mother, their sister, their daughter was “getting her freak on” with a boyfriend in Vegas (or wherever) when she took her last breaths. (I would most certainly be blamed for her death. “She’d be alive today if it wasn’t for you wanting to sit home and jerk off to thoughts of your wife getting laid by another man in Vegas!”)
My wife (52) is 16 years younger than your wife, so maybe the dynamics will change over the years and I, too, will someday be elated to share how she’s still rockin’ her hot bod with a boyfriend. Not sure. (I can only hope we’ll still be sexually vibrant in our late-60s like you guys.)
But we’ve agreed together that if they ever want to go long distance again, I will go, but I will find some way to entertain myself away from them.
For example, he wants to take my wife to Los Angeles (Long Beach) this summer to introduce her to his elderly mother who lives there, as well as his brothers and sisters who all live in the area. We’ve made arrangements for me to tag along on the flight, but go my separate way (Disneyland, Orange County…Huntington Beach) once we land.
Thus, if anything catastrophic happens, I’m just a couple hours away.
Am I nuts?
It’s somewhat irrational, but…..
My hang up involves being too far away from her should something catastrophic occur (car accident? etc.). Aside from wanting to hold her hand and be next to her in one of life’s unplanned inflection points, there’s also the matter of how guarded we are in making sure NO ONE close to us (adult children, brothers/sisters, our parents, our close friends, etc.) knows that we engage in ethical/consensual non-monogamy……that my wife sleeps with another man, and that I’m perfectly fine with it….that, like you with your wife, I even encourage it.
My wife’s boyfriend took her to Vegas for a long weekend several months ago.
I felt like……Y’know……It’s one thing for her to spend the night across town at his place. (She does that often.) But it’s entirely different for them to be so far away.
What if they get into a serious Uber accident? What if there’s a terrorist attack? (Vegas would be a big target due to the open nature of the place and all of the physical debauchery that the place is symbolic for. Some gun nut with a bible and a self-righteous attitude…..) What if there was some sort of natural disaster?
I’d want to be right there, next to her hospital bed, holding her hand should it be some of our last moments together.
Irrational, I know.
But when you’ve been married for so long and still love each other so deeply, you can’t imagine not being with each other for such an important moment in our lives together.
And then, there’s the family.
How does one explain to the family that “Mom was in Vegas with her boyfriend when shit went sideways” and “I wasn’t there to hold her hand when she passed away”?
The family is completely oblivious to our extramarital fun. It would absolutely annihilate some family members to find out that their mother, their sister, their daughter was “getting her freak on” with a boyfriend in Vegas (or wherever) when she took her last breaths. (I would most certainly be blamed for her death. “She’d be alive today if it wasn’t for you wanting to sit home and jerk off to thoughts of your wife getting laid by another man in Vegas!”)
My wife (52) is 16 years younger than your wife, so maybe the dynamics will change over the years and I, too, will someday be elated to share how she’s still rockin’ her hot bod with a boyfriend. Not sure. (I can only hope we’ll still be sexually vibrant in our late-60s like you guys.)
But we’ve agreed together that if they ever want to go long distance again, I will go, but I will find some way to entertain myself away from them.
For example, he wants to take my wife to Los Angeles (Long Beach) this summer to introduce her to his elderly mother who lives there, as well as his brothers and sisters who all live in the area. We’ve made arrangements for me to tag along on the flight, but go my separate way (Disneyland, Orange County…Huntington Beach) once we land.
Thus, if anything catastrophic happens, I’m just a couple hours away.
Am I nuts?
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hornedhubby
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Re: Great news - just wanting to share
No, definitely not nuts.
IMO, this is, for you, some of the baggage that comes with being a HW hubby, because you love her so much.
Meanwhile, I hope MrsSizzles came home with a pussy full of cum.
Would love an update after the OHW technical SNAFU is solved.
IMO, this is, for you, some of the baggage that comes with being a HW hubby, because you love her so much.
Meanwhile, I hope MrsSizzles came home with a pussy full of cum.
Would love an update after the OHW technical SNAFU is solved.
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Re: Great news - just wanting to share
No, definitely not nuts.
IMO, this is, for you, some of the baggage that comes with being a HW hubby, because you love her so much.
Meanwhile, I hope MrsSizzles came home with a pussy full of cum.
Would love an update after the OHW technical SNAFU is solved.
IMO, this is, for you, some of the baggage that comes with being a HW hubby, because you love her so much.
Meanwhile, I hope MrsSizzles came home with a pussy full of cum.
Would love an update after the OHW technical SNAFU is solved.
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MrsSizzlesHubby
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Re: Great news - just wanting to share
Sorry for the late update. I was having problems with the OHW website and then got extremely busy with work and chores. My wife, in the meantime, had a good visit and returned home on Friday with a huge smile on her face. She said they started the week with a burst of energy - sex in the mornings and evenings - but ended the week more like an established couple than two kids in heat.
She isn’t too keen on providing a blow-by-blow (no pun intended) account but said he really enjoys the missionary position. She prefers to ride on top because missionary makes her hip joints hurt. Nevertheless, they used the missionary position more often than not, which was okay since his longer length made it possible without pressing too much on her pelvis and hips.
By the end of the week, they spent more time talking and cuddling - and doing things and going places as a couple - than having sex. She enjoyed the change of pace and renewing old feelings but she was anxious to get home and back to me.
So, all in all, she said she had a wonderful time but the trip was never about sex and that I shouldn’t make too much of it by pressuring her into finding another man closer to home.
I had hoped this would awaken a hunger in her but that may not be the case. At present, she has no plans to travel again but, when he dropped her off at he airport for her trip home, they kissed and vowed to burn up the phone lines until they can see each other again. It’s not much but I’ll take it.
She isn’t too keen on providing a blow-by-blow (no pun intended) account but said he really enjoys the missionary position. She prefers to ride on top because missionary makes her hip joints hurt. Nevertheless, they used the missionary position more often than not, which was okay since his longer length made it possible without pressing too much on her pelvis and hips.
By the end of the week, they spent more time talking and cuddling - and doing things and going places as a couple - than having sex. She enjoyed the change of pace and renewing old feelings but she was anxious to get home and back to me.
So, all in all, she said she had a wonderful time but the trip was never about sex and that I shouldn’t make too much of it by pressuring her into finding another man closer to home.
I had hoped this would awaken a hunger in her but that may not be the case. At present, she has no plans to travel again but, when he dropped her off at he airport for her trip home, they kissed and vowed to burn up the phone lines until they can see each other again. It’s not much but I’ll take it.