Wife in love with her boyfriend

[irishstag41]

Recently my wife confessed she is in love with her boyfriend. This was our greatest fear but it's turned into an amazing positive. My wife Recently purchased an apartment in Spain and said to me her 30 year old boyfriend will there as much as I am. She's also going to a festival in Belgium with him next month.
Have you guys any tips going forward. I've no complaints just wondering how to traverse this!

[venus-can99]

Sounds like an interesting development… wondering if you can give us some backstory on how they met, how long have they been together and are they exclusive?

[Long Lurker 34]

Sounds like an interesting development… wondering if you can give us some backstory on how they met, how long have they been together and are they exclusive?

IS41
- With VC99 it would certainly help with us lurkers having a more rounded understanding of what's going on.
- We know the BF is 30. How old is your wife?

[OrlandoCPL]

Your wife purchased an apartment? Feels like a pretty big purchase, if I'm reading this correctly and you weren't involved.

For me, I've told the story on here as it played out in real time, our marriage ended. There were other issues of course, but falling in love can be a dangerous path to walk. I know some have stories of it working out. For us, it didn't. Well, not in that way, at least!

[sana9889]

Very exciting and very natural development.
Wish you both all the best.
How are you feeling about it?

I also fell in love with my boyfriend. We have been having this relationship in secret for more than 5 years now.
His wife knows, my husband does not. It is very special thing to have.

The hard reality is, it is harder for women especially to have complete investment of themself, being in love in two places.
At some point something needs to go. It does not mean she will leave her marriage. If her heart is somewhere else, the dynamic of the marriage may change. It becomes a one way thing. But I really know you can both work something out.
Best be prepared for the possible scenarios. From my experience and from my friends, I've seen it come out differently for different couples.

[subbieCuck]

Love is always good..Love good, hate bad.

[submissivedanny]

My wife is in love with her boy friend. They have been in love for years now. She loves him very much. They go away on weekends and for week long vacations. Even though she loves her boy friend she also loves me and she says that will never change.

[Flint]

Very exciting and very natural development.
Wish you both all the best.
How are you feeling about it?

I also fell in love with my boyfriend. We have been having this relationship in secret for more than 5 years now.
His wife knows, my husband does not. It is very special thing to have.

The hard reality is, it is harder for women especially to have complete investment of themself, being in love in two places.
At some point something needs to go. It does not mean she will leave her marriage. If her heart is somewhere else, the dynamic of the marriage may change. It becomes a one way thing. But I really know you can both work something out.
Best be prepared for the possible scenarios. From my experience and from my friends, I've seen it come out differently for different couples.

If your husband does not know, then presumably he does not know you are on this site? Not that I'm disapproving as I could only adore you after reading the messages you leave here, some of the sexiest I've read

[sana9889]

No. He certainly does not!

Very exciting and very natural development.
Wish you both all the best.
How are you feeling about it?

I also fell in love with my boyfriend. We have been having this relationship in secret for more than 5 years now.
His wife knows, my husband does not. It is very special thing to have.

The hard reality is, it is harder for women especially to have complete investment of themself, being in love in two places.
At some point something needs to go. It does not mean she will leave her marriage. If her heart is somewhere else, the dynamic of the marriage may change. It becomes a one way thing. But I really know you can both work something out.
Best be prepared for the possible scenarios. From my experience and from my friends, I've seen it come out differently for different couples.

If your husband does not know, then presumably he does not know you are on this site? Not that I'm disapproving as I could only adore you after reading the messages you leave here, some of the sexiest I've read

[ohtobecucked]

No. He certainly does not!

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Wow, that's awesome - any plans to eventually tell? Good on you though, Do you still get excited by the idea of seeing the BF whilst hubby has no idea?


Either way, thats awesome.

[sana9889]

No. He certainly does not!

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Wow, that's awesome - any plans to eventually tell? Good on you though, Do you still get excited by the idea of seeing the BF whilst hubby has no idea?


Either way, thats awesome.

No plans to tell my husband anything.
Of course its still exciting.

It would not work out positively if my husband found out.

We are all currently content with the way our lives are going.

[Tamilcuck]

Hi. From my experience, it is perfectly natural for the wife to fall in love with the boyfriend, especially if he has a big penis and takes care of her well. For me and my wife, her boyfriend is more than 10 years younger than her and his penis is more than twice mine. When they first started, it was just fucking. But later it evolved to lovemaking. I was fortunate enough to be there to see the transition and encouraged them, saying it was okay. They have been together for 12 years and still meet up regularly to make love for hours every week. I am unable to have sex with her but I am happy that her bf is able to take care of her sexually. Their anniversary is coming up and I told them I would like to do something special to celebrate their love.

Embrace it, your wife still loves you but she is in love with her bf. It is the natural order. Your will be happy in their enjoyment and watching their pleasure together.

[sana9889]

This seems to be the progression I see.
If you stay together, the husband forgoes sex. Sex becomes with the boyfriend only thing, or other guys if it is permissible.

Does she feel uncomfortable with most sexual activities with you nowadays?
She may be feeling like she is cheating on her bf with you if you try anything.
It does not sound fair, but it is a very feminine thing for her.

Hi. From my experience, it is perfectly natural for the wife to fall in love with the boyfriend, especially if he has a big penis and takes care of her well. For me and my wife, her boyfriend is more than 10 years younger than her and his penis is more than twice mine. When they first started, it was just fucking. But later it evolved to lovemaking. I was fortunate enough to be there to see the transition and encouraged them, saying it was okay. They have been together for 12 years and still meet up regularly to make love for hours every week. I am unable to have sex with her but I am happy that her bf is able to take care of her sexually. Their anniversary is coming up and I told them I would like to do something special to celebrate their love.

Embrace it, your wife still loves you but she is in love with her bf. It is the natural order. Your will be happy in their enjoyment and watching their pleasure together.

[Tamilcuck]

Hi sana9889. Yes you are right. She has told me many years ago till now that she will always love as a husband and will never leave me and the children. But she does not like me to do anything other than eat her pussy when they are done and give me a handjob. To her it is more like fulfilling her wifely duty to me. Even then she does it without any enthusiasm and she tells me how she does not like it.

I am just very happy to watch the 2 of them make love and bring them drinks in between. I also enjoy driving them out on dates and sitting a few tables away and watching them.

[sana9889]

This seems to progress faster if he have been giving her anal sex.
It tends to make her his faster.

This still feels like monogyny for her because she is only giving her body to her boyfriend.
It would be unfair for her in such an instance for her to be having sex with both of you.

I don't let my husband see me naked even.
It doesn't feel right with someone I'm not interested in having sex with to see my sexual parts.
I don't mind being topless though.

Does she enjoy your licking her pussy? Or is it more for you?
It sounds like the handjob is more for you.

Sounds like a very understanding relationship.

Hi sana9889. Yes you are right. She has told me many years ago till now that she will always love as a husband and will never leave me and the children. But she does not like me to do anything other than eat her pussy when they are done and give me a handjob. To her it is more like fulfilling her wifely duty to me. Even then she does it without any enthusiasm and she tells me how she does not like it.

I am just very happy to watch the 2 of them make love and bring them drinks in between. I also enjoy driving them out on dates and sitting a few tables away and watching them.

[Tamilcuck]

Yes you are very right. She let's meet lick her pussy when they are done only to show me that I am tasting their lovemaking. She does not orgasm most times when I do that. Usually she sits on my face and taunts me about the taste. She also likes to squeeze my balls when I am doing this.

Handjobs are definitely for me only, she has said many times she does not like it. Sometimes if she is in the mood, she will allow me to fuck her 2 fingers as she hold my penis between them. That is heaven for me.

[sana9889]

Yes you are very right. She let's meet lick her pussy when they are done only to show me that I am tasting their lovemaking. She does not orgasm most times when I do that. Usually she sits on my face and taunts me about the taste. She also likes to squeeze my balls when I am doing this.

Handjobs are definitely for me only, she has said many times she does not like it. Sometimes if she is in the mood, she will allow me to fuck her 2 fingers as she hold my penis between them. That is heaven for me.

Have you tried receiving anal?
Its how my husband and I have sex. Using a strapon. We both get something out of it that way.

So you get to suck him sperm out of her pussy?
Has she ever asked you to suck his penis? I've seen a lot of cucks doing this, and getting involved sometimes.

Does she usually like you to watch? Or does she prefer to be private with her boyfriend?
Personally, I wouldn't like my husband getting involved, even if he knew.
The privacy gives me a personal touch, and puts me in my 2nd life completely.

[Tamilcuck]

Very interesting questions you are asking. My wife and her bf have done anal on occasion when both are horny. Actually quite a number of occasions. My wife is 44 and her boyfriend is 32 so he has lots of energy.

I don't think she will use a strap on to fuck me although it sounds interesting. She is still quite conservative due to our culture. Most she has done is make me eat her pussy with his sperm inside. I do watch them majority of the time. Sometimes on special occasions they will want to be alone in their lovemaking. I enjoy giving them privacy as well since he has been her lover longer than I have.

I have not sacked his penis as it looks quite scary to me. 12 years later I am still amazed that she is able to take his 8.5 inch long and 7 inch thick penis.

[Tamilcuck]

Has your husband not watched you and your boyfriend? I am sure he would enjoy as I do.

[sana9889]

I think you will understand why it is not possible for me to share my affairs with my husband.

If he has been having anal with her, it makes more sense why she will only want sex with him going forward.

It is quite empowering for women to use a strapon.
You should try to suck him one day. It is a ffilment to make a penis feel good. Using your mouth or ass.

She will appreciate it as well.

Is he Indian too?
Not many Indians with a big penis.
You sound small.

Very interesting questions you are asking. My wife and her bf have done anal on occasion when both are horny. Actually quite a number of occasions. My wife is 44 and her boyfriend is 32 so he has lots of energy.

I don't think she will use a strap on to fuck me although it sounds interesting. She is still quite conservative due to our culture. Most she has done is make me eat her pussy with his sperm inside. I do watch them majority of the time. Sometimes on special occasions they will want to be alone in their lovemaking. I enjoy giving them privacy as well since he has been her lover longer than I have.

I have not sacked his penis as it looks quite scary to me. 12 years later I am still amazed that she is able to take his 8.5 inch long and 7 inch thick penis.

[Tamilcuck]

Hi Sana9889. Yes you are correct. We are all 3 south Indians from singapore. Locals here. Wife and bf are fair and I am dark. I am quite fat with a 3 inch penis so u r correct about being small. Wife bf is abt 8.5 inches. I am not sure if that is considered v big but compared to me he is.

I mentioned earlier that his penis is very scary looking and big. I am not sure about sucking him but if my wife wants him to fuck me then I will do so for them. I like to see her happy.

Yes they have done anal and I can believe your point that she will only want to make love to him. I will not get in their way as watching the 2 of them locked together in passion is very wonderful to watch. I have a number of times cum in my pants just from watching them without touching my penis. It was shocking but I understood that it was a sign how their lovemaking had such an effect on me.

As I have mentioned, they both wanted to be exclusive and had mentioned to me that I would not be able to have sex with her anymore. I agreed. I just love eating her pussy after they r done. The taste is like heaven.

[Tamilcuck]

I would likento add that I have detailed how my wife and her bf got together in my members intro section. Apologies but I do not know how to link it here.

[irishstag41]

My wife is 45. She is extremely beautiful and very toned and bronzed. Her boyfriend was an ex FB before we met.
We met in 2020 and have been married 3 years .She rekindled their relationship a year ago. She stayed over in his apartment in Sweden. She rang me before she stayed over. She told me she wanted him so bad and i encouraged it.
The next night she rang me and said she was staying over again and told me he was amazing the previous night . I have a 7 inch cock he had a nine . She cums a lot with me our sex is amazing but with him its out of this world, so i naturally gave her my full support.
After the second night I knew she was falling back in love.
She is an extremely successful business woman so she can afford the apartment, on her own, so i have no problem her buying one . We will stay together in it but it will his and hers escape pod , which i love ! Now they go to music festivals and plan their vacation

[ohtobecucked]

Wow, congrats - this sounds like a huge moment for you. Do you think there’ll become a time when she will want him more than you? How would you approach this?

Thanks so much for sharing!

[irishstag41]

Wow, congrats - this sounds like a huge moment for you. Do you think there’ll become a time when she will want him more than you? How would you approach this?

Thanks so much for sharing!

Your welcome. Coincidentally my wife told me last night her boyfriend is moving back to Ireland in 3 weeks. He will live 100 miles away, which is just 1.5 hours away so I'm sure they will be seeing a lot more of each other.
Also she is going to a music festival with her friends in July and he is now going. He is staying in a different campsite than her but she is going to sneak into his place at night.
Needless to say we had amazing sex talking about it.
I'm sure I might have to take a step back as their relationship grows . I dont feel threatened